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ChuckEPoo
2 days ago
Straight Male
0 miles · Oxnard
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Chuckanator
Sprite gets the the prettiest smile award
Carol gets the endurance award for putting up with me for twenty two years.
Bethany gets the high IQ award because I swear she knows more than ask google.
Kee gets the hard worker award for working as a mod and full time nurse and being a newly wed.
Reg gets the amazing poet award for her incredible award winning poetry. (She's kinda cute too.)
Buz gets the historical award for constantly showing his knowledge of history in the forum.
Carol gets the endurance award for putting up with me for twenty two years.
Bethany gets the high IQ award because I swear she knows more than ask google.
Kee gets the hard worker award for working as a mod and full time nurse and being a newly wed.
Reg gets the amazing poet award for her incredible award winning poetry. (She's kinda cute too.)
Buz gets the historical award for constantly showing his knowledge of history in the forum.
Chuckanator
Quote by seeker4
I am working on my first ever multipart story (probably be more of a novella than a novel in length but we shall see) and have been struggling with the second chapter (I won't be publishing any until I feel confident with the first 3 or 4 parts). The sex scene that comes later in the chapter is coming along fine but the rest of the chapter, the build-up and story, is proving difficult. Which led me to think this might be an interesting topic. What do you find harder to write, story or sex? For me, it tends to be the former. Once I get into the naughty bits, it seems to flow fairly well even if I then spend a lot of time tinkering to make sure the right body parts are in the right places at the right times. But story? Trying to fathom what people are doing and why and get that down on the page without resorting to long expository passages? Yeah, that's work.
What do you think?
EDIT: And, I seem to have forgotten how to create polls on Lush. The method I remember is from my other board.VQiSgWM1hqHrsyf5
Wow this could be my thread. I'm presently writing a novel also. I just submitted first chapter. Undercovers Detective.
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/undercovers-detective.aspx
It too has no sex in first chapter as I'm laying the foundation for the entire story.
Chuckanator
Quote by Elling50
Living a straight monogamous life myself, I am a bit intrigued with open marriages, and I have learned to not be judgmental of different ways to have your sex life. As long as nobody is hurt, it is ok by me.
I think cheating is hurtful. If you have sex with someone who is married or in a stable relationship, do you have an obligation to make sure that their SO is ok with it? Or is that completely the responsibility of your sex partner?
This is a great question. I applaud you for maintaining a faithful monogamous marriage. We've been married 22 years with two of those years open. I can truthfully say that once you step over the line that it is hard to go back. We've had mixed reviews. First of all, no matter what people say the risks are high. The other thing is that unless your marriage is rock solid don't concider it.
However it really is not cheating. It is quite the opposite. We were not different than most couples. Sex and love were interchangeable. But after an infidelity on both our sides we discovered through therapy that our love for each other had not dimished. Now we have more trust and confidence in us as a couple than ever before. There is no temptation to cheat, and our relationship is open and honest.
Another thing is that if you choose to have an open marriage, it doesn't necessarily mean sex with others. It can mean something as simple as openly discussing one another's fantasies without judgment. When we did this we were amazed we found out we had more in common than we ever knew. So now we don't suppress anything.
The risks though are astronomical. That is why they have swingers clubs in virtually every town. It lessens the Heath risks with all being tested. Does jealousy exist? Of course. It is basic nature.
It's the fantasy of what so many writers fantasize about I caution. Picking up strangers is not only risky on the health side but on the relational side too. What happens when some random wacko starts stalking your wife or husband. It happened to us. Some of the scariest times of our life.
Most psychologists will rightfully steer you away from open marriage. The failure rate is beyond traditional marriage. If it were possible to step back... We probably would. But as I said... When you step over that line it is a giant leap.
Chuckanator
Quote by BethanyFrasier
I'm 5'4", 112 lbs. Here's the deal... we fight naked. No kicks. No fists. Full-body contact wrestling, covered in baby oil. We sell tickets, and I really don't care who wins, but... do you really want it to end before five minutes? :-)
Okey dokey, where do I buy the tickets?
Chuckanator
Wait a minute. Let's think this over. I'm 6' 2" 210. If I beat up a 5 foot girl, won't I go to jail? And if by some miracle I let you win, I'd be the laughing stock of my Dojo. If I win I lose. If I lose I'm a loser.
Ok, I'll pass. I don't abuse women. How about mud wrestling instead?
Ok, I'll pass. I don't abuse women. How about mud wrestling instead?
Chuckanator
Quote by seeker4
A Miata in British Racing Green? That's one I could go for.
Currently driving boring stuff: Honda Civic and CR-V, both black. Solid cars, nice to drive, but won't turn heads the way Chuck's Jag must.
Thing is that I've put so much time and energy over the six years it took to restore that I hardly ever drive it. It's almost exclusively a show car. I'm currently restoring an XK140 but it's slow going. Even the used parts cost a fortune if I can find them.
