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ChuckEPoo
2 months ago
Straight Male
0 miles · Oxnard

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Quote by HotWife4U


The hardest thing was coming out of the shadows with our lifestyle. Our family knows because we shared it with them. Trust me, that was not easy.
We received mixed reviews, from 'cool' to 'how could you?' We explained this was not some lustful thing that happened, but a well thought out mutual decision. We also know it is not for everyone. For us it works and works well.


Omg that had to be the most uncomfortable conversation of my life when we talked to your mom. You were kinda talking clinically and when she got the gist of what you were explaining, she looked directly at me and said, "You allow my daughter, your beautiful bride to be with other men?"

I instantly shrunk to the size of a mouse. I couldn't speak. But... Carol came to my rescue explaining it is a mutual decision that we thought out carefully and sought the opinion of a councilor.

Then mom searching for someone to blame says, "This would never happened if you hadn't become a democrat."
We have. Once without permission. But we have had video and stills taken regularly. I'm the photo guy. So I've taken hundreds if not thousands of pics of my wife. And... a few of our friends also.
Well... Carol is fifteen years younger than me. Does that count? I married her just after she graduated from High School.
Quote by sprite
like a few others, my wife and i have a similar stance on sleeping with others. we have a somewhat open marriage which means, if one of us plans on fucking someone else, we discuss it with each other before it happens and, if the other vetos it, then it doesn't happen, simple as that. it's only cheating if you're doing it behind someone's back and if that happened, i think the consequences would be more than either of us want to experience, so we just don't go there.


Perfect. I ditto that.
Gawd that traumatized me. That was more brutal than the cannibal episode. Lost two of my favorite characters. I can see why. With new characters, old ones need to be retired.

They better not kill Daryl. I'll shut them off forever. The writers of The Walking Dead have to be some of the most unpopular people on earth right now. Right up there with Isis.
Well as you can see, my wife lets it just hang out there for the whole world to see. Lol.

I think that forgiveness and the ability to reconcile is foundational to not just marriage but to any serious relationship along with communication. One problem is when people want to cheat for the thrill of cheating. It seems dangerous and exciting at first. The the whole relationship is doomed to 'don't ask don't tell.'
Quote by sprite


you and chuck don't have sex...? wait, i didn't say that out loud, did i? *giggles*





Quote by 1nympholes


I agree that the Matrimonial Risks are higher in an Open Marriage, especially if you somewhere along the path decide to make the change.

I knew, I would cheat and therefore Open Marriage was the only option available to us. An additional consideration is that we have never lived in any other manner. That may not be true of most others.



I agree with all you say. To have a successful open marriage it requires one basic thing. The ability to separate love and sex. Not everyone can do that. For a guy to see his wife with another man it can be a horrible gut wrenching experience. It still gives me some apprehension. But I also understand shes not making love, just sex.

Actually a really good question. Yes I'd want to know and yes I'd forgive. Our relationship is deeper than just sex. We are open and honest enough now to not lie. My wife is amazing and I know desired by many. If I were to get jealous of every guy that hit on her I would go nuts.
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what style of karate do/did you take?...20 + years of Tae Kwon Do for me...during those years I was lucky enough to meet-Bruce Lee-Chuck Norris-Bill Wallace- among other greats of the karate world...


I'm not into karate. I just got my brown belt in jujitsu.
Quote by nicola
September is a good month for the winner of the award this month. She won this time last year.

Congratulations to Saucymh.

A huge thank you for your continued stellar work in culling the story queue

I hope you find something interesting on Amazon, to spend your $100 on.



Congrats. ??
Quote by sprite
ok, so, i love you guys, the writers. i do, even when you drive me insane, which you do, sometimes. so i'm going to drop little bits of advice in here from time to time that i think is important. not following it won't stop you from being published, but follow it will probably get more people to read you. so here goes.

1) NEVER DO THE LAUNDRY LIST.

this is the laundry list: Hi, my name is Pat. I'm 5 foot 5 inches tall, weigh 130 pounds, have blue eyes, blonde hair, and 34C boobs,etc, etc.

at this point most reader fall asleep or skip to the next story.

2) multiple chapter stories. it's a proven fact that mutli chapter stories suffer from diminishing returns. 1000 people read chapter one, about half of that come back to read more, and each time, a little less (unless Dancing Doll writes 'em, then all bets are off).

SO... if you're story is so long that you need to break it up, as in it's over 10k words, do it. If you're breaking up a 5k story into 6 chapters, 800 words each, you are screwing yourself. write the whole damn thing, don't get impatient, and then send it in as one freaking story. BOOM.

3) proof read and edit. YOU don't want to put yourself out there with mistakes nor do you want to get rejected for them. we don't want that either, so make sure it's as close to perfect as possible when you send it in. yes, i will fix typos or little mistakes, but i'm not going to re-write the thing for you (i actually did that one, taking a straight story into a lesbian love fest - i spent a month on the bench for that one - oops!).

word of advice - i've been doing this for a long time and i know who you are if you're sending in stories - that means i know who sends in clean stories (Hi Master Jonathon!) that i can get up really fast (thanks to those of you who do, and you know who you are), and i know who sends in stories that i have to constantly send back. so do the other mods. at some point, they see you in the que and go 'fuck that, it's going to be another nightmare, i'm skipping over them). sorry, but that's how it happens - you make this harder then it needs to be for us, you go to the back of the line. simple as that.

4) we appreciate thank yous. we get a lot of them. sometimes i'll even form friendships cause of those. don't be shy, it's super easy to do. i almost always respond to those with at least a smile, too (hi Kornslayer!). smile

5) if you have an issue or a question about a rejection, an edit, anything, PM me or one of the other senior mods. as some of our writers can tell you, i will bend over backwards to make you happy and fix or explain the issue as long as you do your best to be patient and respectful. i have no illusions about what we do here - it's called Lush Stories for a reason. you guys, the writers, make it work. the other stuff is just extra that everyone enjoys, but yeah, we like to make the writers happy.

that's it for now. feel free to comment, ask questions, or just be silly and like i said, i do try to respond to everything as much as possible - in fact, my personal PMs often get put on hold in favor of "house business" (hi Kiera! sorry! )

xo
rachel


Thanks. ?
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Quote by puddleduck
I dunno. About a year ago, after you were widowed, you had an affair with a student, apparently much to the embarrassment of your ex-in-laws.

In the period since – unless I'm not following it properly – you've been married, then unmarried again.

Difficult to keep track of things, of course, because you've been busy. You've had sex with five black guys and three women at the same time. You've fucked your boss (sometimes while his girlfriend watches), fucked your roommate, your personal trainer, at least four of your gym students, someone from Lush, and your boyfriend's best friend. Your boyfriend - bless him - has done all that he could to keep it classy by fucking you with a coke can. (This act may have aged him, as he was 24 a few months ago, but now he's 28. It would probably do the same to me, though).

Really, after all that, fucking your father-in-law should be a piece of cake. Keep it up.


1. People using "like" in every sentence.

2. People that are constantly chewing gum. Grrrr

3. Old people still trying to act cool.

4. People that constantly ask your advice but ignore what you say,

5. Refrigerated peanut butter.

6. Dogs that look like rats. No, they are not cute.

7. People that always say at every dissapointment, 'it's in gods hands.' Gawd.

8. Cold chicks and warm beer.

9. People that clap at end of a movie. The actors can't hear you and the projectionist doesn't give a shit.

10. When I can hear people chewing, swallowing, or breathing. Gross!