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Coco
2 months ago
Bisexual Female, 47
United States

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Quote by principessa
Well done, Clum. How about another about the proper use of apostrophes. Hate when I see them for plurals.



THIS is my biggest pet peeve when it comes to grammar!

Really nice post here. Great job Clum.
Guilty

Ever have sex in the airport because you couldn't wait until you made it home?
Quote by Buz
Sometimes my wife is in the mood for that. I have become very good at reading her, if not she'll tell me to get rougher.
Sometime she likes to turn it around and be the dominate rough one. And then there are times we like to be mutually rough. Changing it up works for me, it's all good! She has never held back or been shy about what she wanted to do and I've always loved that about her. I have discovered that if we are out somewhere, especially at a dress up social function, that I find the right opportunity to sneak in a very discrete feel and tell her (very aggressively) that I am going to fuck the hell out of her when we get home, that by the time we get home she is so horny and worked up that she is like an obsessed tigress. Awesome!


Damn, Buz, I fucking love you!

Not to worry, baby, I'm fucking IN LOVE with YOU! (If your reading this...quit following me. I'm a good girl.)
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Yes, baby!!! Throw in Purple Rain and any one by Diana Krall, I'd be in heaven.

Dancin' 'round shaking my ass!
Do any of you make any effort in talking through your insecurities with your partners? And if so, how do you approach the subject with her? I'm asking this especially those that have particular kinks that your SO may or may not enjoy.
Last Saturday...my man calls handjobs the forgotten act.
Quote by FilipHalta
I put a question in Ask the Guys section and majority of men are for it smile


That's surprising. I find the act hot, a real turn on. If he shares it with me, I'd love it more. Too bad hubby isn't into it.
Quote by swollen

I'm a confident person sexually, but sometimes worry that I could very easily cross the boundaries of what is considered 'normal' sexual behaviour. That's my insecurity.


LIKE
Quote by clum
It's very interesting to see how varied the responses here are compared to the poll in Ask the Gals.



LIKE
I'm a kinky girl, some may even think me a nasty girl, so my biggest concern is my doing something that will turn him off or make him think I'm a nutcase. He knows of my desire for kink, knew of it before he proposed, but has yet to experience all of it with me. I'm looking forward to more, just not sure if he is.
Depends on who's with me. If I'm alone, I prefer to sit on the balcony with my laptop with light jazz playing. If I'm with hubby, we like to clean the kitchen together, grab a drink and head to the couch for a veg out session...which leads to a make out session which leads to a... "having relations" (said in my mom from NORBIT voice) session.
Quote by gav
I am in favour of improving the avarage calculation. Using a truncated mean or similiar, as suggested will mean stories are far less influenced by these rogue 3 scores.

My suggesetion would be the Winsorized mean or as ByronLord suggested the Truncated mean. We couls also consider the Weighted mean.

Who's in?



weighted mean; I really do dislike throwing away scores left by readers.
Quote by FtLMale


Coco, posting stories here does quickly thicken our skin,
as does posting non popular opinions on the forum,
but I do find that it is very rare for anyone to offer constructive criticism on the story comments.

More frequently the only comments are with the 5 voters, and I do admit that I refrain from posting any criticism publicly unless the writer specifically request it. Left with the option of sending a private email to the author, it still must be very softly worded...

As someone once said to me, two compliments for each single criticism or your will only be met with a closed ear.


I will admit to once being a score-whore (Gawd, I feel so cheap now)
but now I relish the comments far more.




FtLMale:

For the most part, I tend to agree with your post. However, the bolded portion... I think not. If most do, then why so many scoring posts and/or PMs to Lush admin?
My intent in responding here was not to ridicule or label the OP as a score-whore. My point is simply that to throw out scores, as is suggested, is to devalue a member's opinion. And that would be an unfortunate action. The rating system is what it is and is entirely subjective.

My suggestion is for folks to grow a thicker skin and accept constructive criticism or turn the voting off. Just a thought..
Quote by nicola


I really like the idea of a # times favourited - next to the votes or average score, or somewhere around the story area / in a list.




Sure, its a good idea, posted in the list or story area. But not instead of the scoring system like it was suggested. Unlike many, I don't just score a five for every friend on my list.
I can't visit both??? Tahiti


Do you believe in soul mates, and if so have you met yours??
Yesterday, multiples and intense! Can I have more please??
Doesn't really want MexicanGoddess and me in a naughty, sexy threesome!
Seeing as that most of these posts recommend a story by a popular Lushie, I want to recommend an author that is truly under the radar. Her work may not be for everyone but I encourage all of you to take a gander at the stories written by Minidevilette. The following in particular:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/subjugation-of-a-siren-the-business.aspx
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/subjugation-of-a-siren-the-office.aspx

Both are very well written and enjoyable!!
Quote by Mazza


I think that if you have seen any of Shylass's posts in the forums, or indeed have read any of her work, you'll be very aware that she is more than capable of stringing a coherent, correctly-spelled sentence together.

A like button would be a good idea.

Sometimes one can enjoy or appreciate a post or comment enough to merit quoting and commenting on it, but other times, one may just wish to give a 'nod,' so to speak, just a little recognition to show one's appreciation.

A 'like' button is the perfect way to do this. Facebook is not the only website to utilize this function.

I found your response rather short-tempered and mean-spirited. Shylass was merely showing her appreciation of the post. Your comment was somewhat snide and did nothing whatsoever to add to the discussion. I understand that it's fun to engage in witty banter, debate, disagreement, whatever...

Your comment was just kinda mean.


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Quote by gingerlily
Oh shit this is hot. I used to fantasize about being fucked in my wedding dress. I'm not married so I still have to fulfill this fantasy!!



It is a great fantasy! I just experienced it... so hot!!
Quote by LauraLee_sugah
yes..... huge ones.... the brain is a powerful sex toy... and words always have power....


You've taken the words right out of my head...

Yes I have and yes I can...
Steph is right.

It is important that the women set the tone. When I first started to explain my feelings to my significant other (well I knew long before him) he was bound and determined to fuck us both before she and I even started to get to know each other. It pissed us both off and eventually, and before anything happened, she didn't want to persue anything with me.

What you should realize is that if no boundaries are set by the two of you, then that is when the trouble will begin. Truth is, in my opinion, most bisexual women in relationships with men don't leave to be with a woman unless the relationship was/is in trouble, was shaky even before the idea of another woman entered her mind.

As for your remaining questions, let the women dictate the sex. Personally, when I've been alone with a female and my husband came in, we both agreed that he could join us. This is mainly because I am seriously BIsexual and I need the male form. I enjoy playing with the ladies, but I love men and more specifically, I love MY man.

Good luck and have fun but please remember, this isn't for everybody.