If there is a specific weekend that you really want to be free for every month, I'd just get a couple boxes of the pill and do a back-to-back cycle and then go off early (your doctor will help you with the best time to go off)... this will basically just 'reset' your cycle. Then you can go off the pill if you don't like it, and continue from there.
I've done back-to-back cycles (ie. not going off for the one week in between) if there has been a vacation or special weekend that's scheduled during P-time. I wouldn't advise on doing it often and screwing up your cycle constantly, but a one-time "reset" shouldn't be a big deal.
In the meantime, you can always stick to anal and oral... or find a guy that doesn't mind getting a little messy.
Aww... sorry to hear it didn't work out hornyboy.
The Friend Zone is infamous and very hard to work your way out of in general. Try not to feel too bad about it... most guys have experiences like this and it just helps them to see the signs and subtleties with the next female friends they start to crush on.
As much as it hurts, at least the 'awkward conversation' didn't happen, and you can technically still be friends. Although you are now going to become her sounding board and advice-guy when it comes to talking about her new love interest. If you still want to stay friends, I'd try to steer the conversation away from that topic in general going forward. If not, there's no harm in just moving on in general.
Read the person's entire profile before sending a friend-request or assuming anything.
I'm thinking maybe something medical was going on, either with her nipples or the surrounding area.
Or maybe she has a baby at home and is still nursing/leaking?
Or maybe she has implants or recent surgery or something going wrong there.
It's truly a strange thing to say to a guy, unless they're trying to avoid/hide something they'd rather not need to talk about during a one-nighter. That sounds far more plausible to me than someone just having 'sensitive nipples'... never heard of that to the point that you'd tell a guy not to touch them at all.
I don't crave cum.
I do crave fucking... and cum usually goes along with it, which is great, but I don't get a craving to swallow a glassful of cum on it's own and definitely not from "random guys"...
I think the desire/excitement about swallowing or cum-play goes along with sexual arousal in the moment. When you're turned on, you want it (definitely!), but you'd never just wake up and randomly desire and feel satisfied by pouring yourself a tall frothy glass from the cum-jug in the fridge. It doesn't really work that way. At least not for me.
Re the taste/texture... I've never had a problem with either but maybe I've just been lucky with my "sample population". There is definite excitement in bringing a guy to orgasm, and I enjoy the feel of the little explosive spurts in my mouth (or elsewhere in or on my body).
I'd say that for any guy who is really curious about taste/texture or where cum fits into the big picture, that he should try some of his own. You'll get a feeling for what it's like and the reasons for enjoying it when you're horny but not as an event on its own.
I will admit that yes, I do tend to be naturally attracted to this type of guy.
How well it would work long-term is another story though. Usually these guys are better for a fling or short-term thing.
All my relationships have been pretty close to my age (actually they've all been about 4 yrs older). I think 10 years older is acceptable. I find 20 years older to be super-creepy.
I have had an older guy outside my age-norm, but I wouldn't do it again and it was just a fling. He was just a rare exception to the rule. Just like sometimes you have to make an exception to the rule for a hot younger guy, but again, it's not my usual trend.
Is he doing the breast-sucking as an activity on its own, or is it just something that's part of sexual foreplay and leading/involving other things?
If it becomes the high-light of the sexplay or he just does this as an almost 'non-sexual' activity... like when you are watching TV or something, then yeah maybe he has more of a fixation/fetish with it. I remember a scene in an old movie where the girl was drinking a glass of milk at the breakfast table and then just let it spill out of her mouth all over her breasts and nipples and the guy was just drawn in to suck her breasts. It actually looked very sensual/kinky.
I wouldn't worry too much about it either way though, unless the concept of it makes you feel uncomfortable etc.
Buff bad boy
You scored 50% masculine, 53% athletic, 18% exotic, and 38% refined!
You like your men with a boyish or feminine face but a manly body. You like him to posess bad boy looks while still maintaining some innocence. He looks like the all-American kind of hunk and I bet you love someone like.......Travis Fimmel.
I want my dog back, and with a healthy lifespan as long as mine.
If I had herpes or HIV, I wouldn't be waiting until we were into the groping/foreplay phase before bringing it up. I think it's important for everyone to know the facts up front.
It's a tough question because chances are high that it's going to disturb a lot of people, unless they are somehow already falling hard for you and willing to overlook anything. Then again, herpes is pretty common as far as the actual stats go, so maybe a lot of people would be cool with it as long as condoms were used (which I should mention doesn't completely protect you from transmission, even between outbreaks).
One of my girlfriends has it and she tells the guy on the second or third date and she doesn't do the one-night-stand thing since she was diagnosed. I have another friend who has it and she told her super understanding nice-guy man and now they are married with a kid.
Some people obviously are inclined to "work around the issue" as well as they can - maybe if they are really into the person already.
For me... I dunno... Unless I was feeling like this was potential marriage-material guy, I think I'd just take a pass. I think it would play on my mind and bother me enough that I would be very sexually inhibited/distracted because of it. I definitely wouldn't risk it for a casual relationship, no matter how hot he was.
As for how I'd react... I'd be PC-friendly about it in the moment. I'd thank him for sharing the info, commiserate over how hard it must be for him, and then tell him I needed to 'think it over' etc. and digest the info. Then... yeah... I'd just try to do a fade-out or let the curtain fall shortly thereafter. If it was me, I definitely wouldn't blame a person for not wanting to take the chance or get involved. It's a mature adult health-related decision that everyone needs to make individually - without pressure or guilt.
Yep, it's party central. You'll be right in the middle of all the mega-clubs and many are all-inclusive drinking. ie. you pay a flat fee like $50 and drink all night. They go all-night long too, so you can party til the sun comes up. I liked Coco Bongo and I went to an amazing house-music event at Dady'O. There's pretty much something on that main strip to suit all music/partying tastes.
You should also check into taking a cab ride or even a nice A/C greyhound bus into Playa Del Carmen for a day/evening. It's super cheap and about an hour away but you can sleep on the way to and from and PDC is awesome - much more chill than Cancun and more of a european/miami-beach type vibe. Sometimes the spring-break stuff you get in Cancun can be a bit overdone. There's great nightlife in PDC and fun shopping/beaches during the day. The bus will drop you off right on Fifth Ave where the main action is.
I far prefer PDC to Cancun in general.
Other tips:
* Negotiate a flat-fee with your cab driver from point A to point B before accepting the ride of you can end up getting ripped off as they take you on the 'long route'.
* Don't buy your drugs from random dudes that come up to you on the street. Find someone at a stationary location (a store preferably) so that they can't give you bunk and then just disappear.
* Be cautious with renting jetskis on the beach etc. I've seen people get scammed after-the-fact. The "don't worry, I won't call the cops if you give me $500 USD" barter does happen.
* You can buy Viagra over the counter in any Mexican drug store if you're feeling experimental.
* It can get kind of chilly at night in January, and Cancun gets a bit more wind than PDC - more of an issue for girls though since we tend to wear less clothes.
To answer the question, I watch porn because it's hot. Sometimes it's for stimulation, sometimes I'm bored and it's just random, sometimes it gives me interesting ideas for stories or things I want to try in my own sex life. It's definitely expanded my sexual horizons and some stuff that wouldn't have interested me that much when I was 20, I find totally turns me on now. It kinda evolves and grows with your fetishes and kinks and sexual style as you go.
Admittedly, I have watched some seriously fucked up porn over the past few years. Some of it is interesting for shock value or just to see what the industry trends are or just for fun.
My tastes with porn are probably a lot more hardcore than many of the girls on this site, but then again after you get desensitized to generic fucking with plastic bodies and fake orgasms, you want something a little more gritty and intense. My one demand is that the actors look like they are genuinely enjoying it. That doesn't mean it has to be some romantic connection thing between the actors at all. That means that they have to look like they love fucking and love being porn stars and aren't just doing it for the paycheque. Tall order, yes, but some are better actors this way than others. Also, if there's no dirty talk, then I get bored fast, which is my main complaint with amateur stuff (well, unless I make it myself).
The porn director Mason/Sam No. (and yes, she's a female) is my favourite for edgy, high-quality, rough-sex, 'wow-porn' films. She is an artistic director in her own right... sometimes you forget that you're even watching porn.
