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Dancing_Doll
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by cocokisses

What I'm wondering about is the We Vibe II for couples. Experiences??


I've used the We-Vibe original and it was a lot of fun! It's great with a partner and you can also use it as a hands-free toy on your own too.

I'm not sure what the 2.0 version does that's different, but I'd definitely say its a great addition to the toy box for couples-play!
Quote by lafayettemister
Who knew this was such a problem? I wonder how tough you ladies are on a real cock? From the sounds of it, I'd need to bring an ice pack to any future rendevous.


Even the Clone-A-Willy kits (where you can clone your own penis and turn it into a sex toy) come as vibrators, not just dildos. Now if only evolution would catch up to technology!
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Lelo never breaks. And they're pretty too. smile

http://en.lelo.com/

you can check out their "femme and homme" section for girls and guys toys. And also their 'insignia and luxe' line for waterproof, couples, and wireless remote toys.

Most toy stores and online shops sell them.


Doll are you secretly getting commission from Lelo?


Honestly, I wish! Sometimes I secretly check out the job listings but they're not in Canada (yet).


You damned well SHOULD be on commission!!!

On your recommendation, I have just placed an order (over £100) for pelvic floor eggs and a G-spot vibrator!!





Do you know, I am SUPER excited at the thought of it, I would NEVER spend that kind of cash on myself normally, so I'm kind of proud of myself!!!

As I say, I'll report back... Really very excited (and they're not even here yet!!)




The marketing totally sucks me in too... LOL Just look at those pics!

I have the Gigi (the one you ordered) and it's great! I also have the Ina, Soraya, and the Anal-Vibe (Billy).
I haven't tried the pelvic floor eggs yet though. Soraya is still my absolute fave, but the Gigi definitely comes in second.
Buying them is kind of addictive! And they are great to use with a partner too. :)
It could be due:

- boredom of having the same sex partner for more than 5 years, or boredom with the kind of sex you are having in general
- loss of sexual attraction to you
- if she had kids she might be in "mothering" mode and putting her sexy girl side on the backburner
- she might be having an affair
- hormonal issue
- she might be upset/stressed about something and not in the mood
- she might have gained weight and feels less sexually attractive than she used to and is therefore feeling inhibited or less sexual
- traumatic/emotional event may have caused her to lose her sex drive
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For all you know she could be a 400 pound 40 year old and she doesn't want you to find that out.


Yeah but... it could always be worse...





I like wearing a collar and leash sometimes for dirty sex and role-play but for me it's just a moment in time, not a lifestyle.

So I have a question for the collard and cuffed people: Is this similar to an 'engagement ring' or 'marriage' of sorts. I'm not in the BDSM lifestyle, so I'm really just trying to understand the dynamics behind this concept. Also, how serious is this commitment viewed? Knowing that many/most relationships and marriages meet their eventual demise, I'm just wondering how difficult it would be for a sub/master relationship to end and what the "uncollaring" ritual entails? Also.. would a sub seek out another master to collar them or is this considered a 'once in a lifetime' commitment only? And lastly... can you be in a relationship or marriage to one person and be collared/cuffed to a different "master" or is this prohibited?
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Lelo never breaks. And they're pretty too. smile

http://en.lelo.com/

you can check out their "femme and homme" section for girls and guys toys. And also their 'insignia and luxe' line for waterproof, couples, and wireless remote toys.

Most toy stores and online shops sell them.


Doll are you secretly getting commission from Lelo?


Honestly, I wish! Sometimes I secretly check out the job listings but they're not in Canada (yet).
Lelo never breaks. And they're pretty too. smile

http://en.lelo.com/

you can check out their "femme and homme" section for girls and guys toys. And also their 'insignia and luxe' line for waterproof, couples, and wireless remote toys.

Most toy stores and online shops sell them.
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Haha.. Love how some dudes assume just because you use a vibe you're not getting laid..


Yep, some guys are actually quite intimidated by toys.
It's a bad idea at the gym but I love smokey eyes at night with a pale/neutral lip and a fierce sexy outfit with stilettos.

Make-up styles all depend on the occasion.
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I'm rather fond of the "egg" vibrators. They work great the first couple uses but as mentioned you get what you pay for and they break quick


If you're looking for a hard-to-break inexpensive clit vibrator, I always recommend the Pocket Rocket. They are about $15 and work on one setting. Some versions come with different 'nub' covers too. They always do the trick, take one battery and are probably one of the most durable toys you can get for that price.
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glad you have no shame lol i just don't understand how someone can masturbate so much that they break their vibrator. not to be rude but maybe you should get laid for real


It's not the amount of masturbating that does it, it's sometimes the roughness of the way you're using it and the crap-quality of a cheap motor.

The one I broke was a cheap imitation of the "The Rabbit" that everyone raves about.

As I was saying... with toys you definitely get what you pay for.
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How in the world do you break a vibrator?


I broke my first cheap-o $25 vibrator on the same day I bought it.

I took it back the next day though for a refund... because clearly I have no shame. haha
They do... you just have to pay a little more for it.

I pretty much buy exclusively from the Lelo toy line... They range from $80-250 and come with a 10 year warranty and recharge like an iPod.

Nothing else I've tried even comes close to the quality of that line (both in durability and orgasms).

The best vibrator I've ever had is the Lelo Soraya, hands down. I put it through A LOT of abuse and have never had an issue with it at all.

I've broken many cheaper toys in the past though. You definitely get what you pay for when it comes to sex toys. Just think of it as an investment.
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try lying on your side in the spooning position with him. Its the least painful position I've found so far.


Another good one for beginners is laying on your stomach with your hips slightly tilted/raised and your legs between his.
Cut. Definitely.

I checked out an uncut one during a round of naked spin-the-bottle back in college and it really wasn't my thing, even when it was hard.
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Genius!!!

Read his Stanford graduation speech a few years back if you havent yet.

If you have already, do it again!






Definitely worth posting!

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do you ever nut in your mouth?


You know... amazingly enough I actually watched a porn compilation the other day that proves that some men can in fact nut in their own mouth if they have really good aim and can shoot ropes of cum like a slingshot.

It was actually kind of fun to watch the squinty-eyed faces guys make while they are giving themselves a facial.
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I am with DD and Nikki here and will have to pass on the DA or DV.


School is now in session ladies.

UrbanDictionary doesn't indicate it (you can be the 1st to leave a definition there) but what is: DA'd and DV'd ?


never been there, but i'm assuming DA'd is 2 cocks in the 3 hole at the same time and DV'd is 2 cocks in the front at the same time...


That makes more sense than DumbAssed x 2 or DeVirginized x 2. Thanks Alli


Yeah, it's Double-Anal or Double-Vaginal.

Sorry... I should have clarified. Damn, I must be watching too much porn lately.
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if im incompatbale with her then why say perfect or to good to be true.


...because it's meant to soften the crushing blow of the upcoming "it's not you, it's me" speech.
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When girls tell you they are no good, fucked up, cheaters, etc. They are pushing you away. I mean I guess its best to let her go. I know it's hard to do but thats what they are doing. I mean why would a girl that likes you actually try to paint herself in a bad light?


I actually did this with a guy once....

The reason I did it was:

1. He was a 'good guy' and the type of guy that I should have been dating. He was perfect on paper.

2. I was going through the sluttiest summer of my life and doing way fucked up things and was in no position to date a "good guy." But I felt guilty about passing over a guy that theoretically was a damned good catch.

3. I figured I would turn him off and push him away by warning him about how messed up I was and telling him all kinds of sordid stories while chatting over the lovely candlelit dinner he had just cooked for me.

Outcome: Me telling him what a cheating messed up slut I was turned him on even more and he fell madly in love and kept pursuing me until I finally had to dump him on my own with the "it's not you, it's me" speech (a couple of weeks later).

The moral of this story is... She wants space or she wants you to take the reigns and end the relationship. She's non-confrontational in general and wants to avoid being the bad guy. Showing you how incompatible you ultimately are is supposed to be the not so subtle 'hint hint' that the end is drawing near...

Personally I would just dump her and see how she reacts to it.
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The new Bold has touch-screen as well. I'm kind of weird, because I use the touch-screen and the tracker randomly at the same time. It's just the typing emails on a touch-keypad that annoys me. But as you know...it's soooo hard to get over the Crackberry...


Well Doll, if BlackBerry doesn't get their act together in a hurry you may be forced to go to a different phone. They are in some serious trouble right now!


Crackberry Rehab might be the answer... but you know what they say... rehab is for quitters!

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I was always a Blackberry guy. LOVE my blackberry. And if Verizon ever gets one that has a fast enough browser I'll go back. Still the best email capabilities on a phone. Now I have a DroidX, and I like it pretty much. The touch screen doesn't bother me as much as I thought it would. But the browser is lightspeeds faster than my Blackberry ever was.


The new Bold has touch-screen as well. I'm kind of weird, because I use the touch-screen and the tracker randomly at the same time. It's just the typing emails on a touch-keypad that annoys me. But as you know...it's soooo hard to get over the Crackberry...
I have the Blackberry Bold. It was a tough decision between that and the iPhone. I'm generally an Apple fanatic but I hate touch-screen keyboards.

I use it to check/respond to emails, love the calendar for scheduling and the BBM feature. Oh, and to take and send dirty pics of course.

For on-the-go web surfing, I prefer using my iPad when possible (despite the touch-screen). I just like the larger screen if I'm doing online stuff, and it's light enough to fit into my daytime bag/purse.
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The only romance novel I've ever read also had me laughing through it. Twilight had me shaking my head in wonder at how anyone could read such crap. I never tried that again and I think Fabio is so ugly. I guess I prefer things, including the characters in books I read, to be more realistic.


Realistic? Didn't you just say in another thread that you were mainly a fan of Harry Potter and Disney romances?

Also... dirty talk isn't meant as a Q&A.


Anyway... back to the original question, I like using cock, shaft, sometimes dick depending on the character and the story style. Unless one is writing in the 'love stories' category, a sex scene needs real and raw verbiage in order to give the right energy and intensity to a memorable sex scene. Erotica and sexuality is about releasing inhibitions so I can't imagine why a writer would want to be inhibited with the words they use.