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Dancing_Doll
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by iszofia

I found the only time I could do this was when I created a new album and I could rearrange images before saving but not after.


Try the following:

"Add Album"
When you see the list of existing albums, choose "Edit" to the one you want to rearrange.
You have to go through the first two 'continue's' past the title and description but from there you are able to re-arrange photos and add more to the existing album.
Then press "Finished" when you are happy with the arrangement.

Not sure if that's what you were talking about, but just incase...
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Quote by LittleBambi
There's a fine line between gorgeously rugged and 'I have no shower, bed, hair brush, flannel or clothes that fit me. Some men seem to forget about said line and overstep it way, way too far.


Agree! Just look at my Colombian papi! He's gorgeous ♥



Yes Mexican Goddess, he is beautiful and most woman would love to have a young man like this. But would be even more beautiful, with a shave and appear like he was looking for a special woman to impress?


A man that suits facial hair and black clothing? Why would one want to change that? YUM.


I wouldn't call this guy scruffy or unkept. He's obviously well groomed and appears to be somewhat stylish from what little we can see of his outfit. I don't think it's the idea of facial hair that WHR was talking about. It's that grungy, rolled out of bed, can't be bothered to shave/brush my hair look with that deconstructed homeless-chic wardrobe. It's a deliberate "style"... This guy definitely isn't doing it though (which is a good thing). Check my "Justin-Bobby" pic above for a good example.
No... doormats, passive-aggressive guys and stalkers finish last.

Nice guys finish first, provided they have more going for them than just being 'nice'.


Congratulations Gav!

I hope the delivery is speedy and safe and that your little stormtroopers are in your arms very soon!

PS. I think it's time to get that mini-van!



Hmm... I'm not a huge fan of the homeless/unshaven look, although it is a style that I believe is supposed to give the aura of being non-conformist and "arty"...

Is this the look you are talking about?





Cause yeah, it sucks. I think it's mean to convey that the guy is above all the usual trappings and superficialities of life (like shaving and soap). It's not a good look in my opinion, but I know a lot of musicians and artists favour it. I think it's just a trend, and definitely a SoCal favourite at the moment.

I personally don't find it attractive. These guys are usually psychologically high maintenance, even though physically they strive to convey the opposite.
Quote by Hasabrain2
as well the guys with really small one don't reproduce.


What?

I'll play devil's advocate here... If a guy has a really small dick, he's probably going to marry the first nice girl he meets and settle down fast. There's no point in being a player and sowing your wild oats when all you have to offer is a cocktail wiener. Why be embarrassed every time?

So technically, the small-dicked men are reproducing earlier and more often. They're those mainly monogamous types, family guys, that are just happy to have a woman to love and overlook their "short comings"...

Now to follow another stereotype, let's assume that the bigger the dick, the bigger the ego. These guys will be playing the game, sleeping around, and will probably find it difficult to be entertained by a long term monogamous relationship when they have that big piece of meat in their pants that they can brag about, show off and use to the max. So really, these guys are probably staying single longer and having less kids.

The smallest dicked man that I knew (tampon-sized) had already reproduced twice at the age of 27. So that's more credibility for my random non-scientific, completely stereotypical and unsubstantiated hypothesis. But I think I'm right...
I love sharing and hearing all those dirty stories in explicit detail...it's quite a turn on.

I have been with people in the past that were not into it though, and it was a bit of a source of frustration for me. I much prefer an open flow of sexual communication and ideas. Pretending like you have no sexual history prior to your current partner is kind of lame.

I think if a couple is secure, then sharing can create a new dialogue for fantasies and experiences to enjoy together.
I think juggling multiple partners can only be achieved until you hit a major holiday... like New Years Eve or Valentine's Day or a birthday. Then you have to make a call and pick one. Or, you can start making up stories and excuses like you are sick or your grandma died or you were suddenly called out of town but it tends to read pretty weak. I think most people know when they are being put off on a holiday that they are not 'the only one' in the picture.
I think testing the limits during sex works well (eg. if you're into rimming, just do it, and see their response). I also think that dirty talk during sex is a great way to share what turns you on. Talking about more elaborate fantasies just after sex when you're both in that uninhibited afterglow works well also. It tends to open the door to other conversations you can have later as just part of connecting.

Not everyone is as kinky as you might be though, so you have to be aware of that. If you're not getting the reaction/response you were expecting, it might be safe to say that they are uncomfortable with it, and might be wise to pull back a little and rethink to what degree your sexual compatibility will allow you to enjoy/explore those things together.

In terms of bucket lists, strap ons, role play and other kinks, there's no other way to compare notes than just asking and talking about it. Good sex requires communication.

You could always break the ice by watching some porn together, but that might even be too kinky for some people. Those are the people you should probably avoid dating.
Quote by Nikki703
Next thing we will hear is he is great at Anal too!! Even saying that hurts.


Yup... my sphincter shuddered too...
I guess the more relevant question to "The Great 16-Incher Debate" is... does anyone actually think it would be a good thing to have a 16 inch dick? It would actually be a deal breaker for me...

I have never measured dicks, nor have I really felt the need to ask a guy his measurements before or after having sex with him. In my lifetime (to get back to the original question), one was too big, one was too small, and everything else was 'just right'...

Guys... just a heads-up, this is one of those cases where you want to fall in the middle range of the bell curve. A lot of sexual positions and practices are simply not possible when you are extra large, which can really limit the kind of fun you can have. And if are sporting that mythical super-sized cock that you can tuck into your socks, then it's even worse. Unless you are a girl with a super-sized pussy, of course... Then, party on!
I love the dark sexiness of her avatar. Artistic, unconventional, and intense with a definite hit of sexuality. It's nice to see avatars that represent more than the typical bubblegum interpretation of female beauty. Plus a bio with a nice personal touch is even more intriguing. It's a disarming combination.
Quote by Kilroy
I don't take dick pics. Simple as that.


Dude! This is a huge mistake.
The porn industry is waiting for you... you can make serious cash with an anaconda like that.
We are all born with special 'gifts' and talents.
You should make use of yours!
Magical_Felix and LadyX will create a cute little bundle of joy called Magical_Lady...


And I get to be the fairy godmother...
Quote by 2706ali
On your table you can have 12 Lush members.....Who would you choose.
Each member can only be used ,on one table only.(so if you see them seated they cannot be on your table)
One member of your table will win an award ....Name them and the award


I better reserve my table for prom... oops, I mean the Lush Awards Dinner.

Based on the revised rules, here's my table of twelve...

Dancing_Doll, DamonX, Magical_Felix, LadyX, WellMadeMale, Nicola, Jaymal, Mia_Erotica, Shi_Squared, Mexican_Goddess, SweetPenny, Piquet.

And Nicola wins the "award" for putting up with everyone.

I also look forward to seeing Sprite 'roaming around under our table'...
Quote by SizeQueenSupreme
My stories seem to get decent viewing numbers, yet very few votes. For those of you who get a lot of votes, may I ask if three's a trick to it?


Threats always seem to work...

Kidding, I have no idea what causes higher number of votes.

I always mention a new story in my status update and create a forum banner for them (just to get word out).

That seems to work well for me.

I know some people PM their entire friend list every time they publish a story, but I'm not in favour of that tactic since I believe that's the whole point of the "followed author" list. If someone wants to know when someone is publishing a story, then they'll follow them. If not, I don't like to bother people and ask them to read my stuff.
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Do people here believe they are destined to fall in love with someone specific in their lives?


I actually don't think that the universe cares that much about who I fall in love with.

When we find a strong connection with someone, we tend to want to believe it's the work of something greater than chance.

The reality is that even if there are no cosmic forces steering us, we will still wander through life and find some connections that are intuitively special, and others that are altogether disastrous.
Name your top five deal breakers when it comes to men (that you would consider having a relationship with).

PS. if you have more than five, feel free to elaborate.
Name your top five deal breakers when it comes to women (that you would consider having a relationship with).

PS. if you have more than five, feel free to elaborate.
Recently (on another site), I had a writer contact me saying that since he "respected me as an author" would I please read his story (it was the first he had posted) and give him some feedback. I read it, and gave him some private feedback, stating what he did well and just made the suggestion of needing to separate dialogue into new paragraphs. I guess he didn't appreciate anything negative or constructive, as he promptly went and bombed one of my stories. Sooo... I've realized that writers can be rather overly sensitive, and just because they say they want feedback, it usually means that they only want glowing praise. In this case, I didn't even vote on the story, I just gave him feedback, and it still backfired on me. It tends to make me shy away from saying anything constructive to writers, other than ladling on the praise and the perfect scores if/when I see fit. Sad, I know for the mature authors that genuinely welcome feedback, but sometimes it's hard to know.
Quote by Dudealicious
Ok it seems like there are more guys chiming in here than women (Sorry Ash)

I have had many women "friends" in my life, I have always tried to be respectful of the fact that we are 'just friends'. However I have gotten calls in the wee hours of the morning to talk about the break-ups and arguments and have had them ask me to come over to comfort them. While I am there, I feel a different energy in the room and usually some touching / kissing. Now how am I supposed to differentiate that from friendship? Seriously.

You can't tell me that women don't do that, we are all guilty of being vulnerable in a time of need. Where as a 'friend' does the line end and we start to feel something more for that person?

Yes most men want action but to pool us all in together is really not fair and I do not appreciate it. There are some great guys out there that are not always looking for their next victim.


I wasn't 'pooling' all men together. I was talking about a sub-section of guys that use benign friendship in a manipulative way when the original goal has always been to 'get the girl'... and guys that don't take signals (or a blatant 'no, I only see you as a friend') as the final answer.

There are plenty of great guy friends out there. I have them too...

And yes, I'm aware that it works both ways, and there are endless examples of friends hooking up during moments of vulnerability or drunkenness. I think that's fairly normal. Usually those are casual moments though (for both parties). Ie. "Wow, that was a crazy night", and the next morning you go back to being buddies.

I'm talking more about the really fixated guy that says he is willing to just be friends, but then continues to obsess over the girl and keeps pushing for more, even though the girl has established that she isn't interested. I just question how healthy those kinds of "friendships" are.

I'm not saying that all male friends are stalkers who can't read signals.
While I have dated a few guys that were probably worthy of carrying the 'mark of the beast', no, I don't follow the 666 rule.

I've actually never heard of it before. I guess in retrospect, I've pulled off the three 6's with some of the guys I've dated in the past, but it certainly doesn't guarantee much in terms of quality.