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Random cock shots do nothing for me... especially if they are extreme close-ups, and even more especially if that is all the image gallery is filled with. It just shows me what a dick you are. 
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imhapless is all about diversity. He has written such an impressive mix of stories from so many different categories... that is always hard to do, and very commendable! Plus his activity on Lush in his status feed is just as diverse as his stories. 
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One of my favourite songs of all time is Fade Into You by Mazzy Star... Year after year, it's still just as crisp and relevant.
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I love the sexual tension in the build-up almost as much as I enjoy reading about the sex. I love a story that unfolds in my mind as a short film. I think that erotica should have a balance between the two. A complex, emotional story that has the sex scene(s) as a hastily described afterthought can be a bit of a let down. What I mean is that you can't write a dramatic fiction piece, throw in a few hundred words of sex and then call it erotica. As long as the character and plot development are nicely balanced with the sex scenes, then you'll have a winning combination, in my opinion.
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If it's a first date, then casual drinks always works best. That way you're not committed to a long activity or that will take half the day or the entire night if you're just not feeling the chemistry.
If you already know the person, or the chemistry and vibe is already in place, then I like casual things like going to the beach, exploring an interesting part of the city, something active like hiking or kayaking, a blanket under the stars, cooking dinner together, or a night where you just check out a few cool little martini bars or lounges. I also like popcorn and smarties with a few coronas in bed while watching a movie together at home. I definitely prefer the casual, rather than formal dates, in general. The person I am with is the main attraction for me, not the background of what we're doing...
If you already know the person, or the chemistry and vibe is already in place, then I like casual things like going to the beach, exploring an interesting part of the city, something active like hiking or kayaking, a blanket under the stars, cooking dinner together, or a night where you just check out a few cool little martini bars or lounges. I also like popcorn and smarties with a few coronas in bed while watching a movie together at home. I definitely prefer the casual, rather than formal dates, in general. The person I am with is the main attraction for me, not the background of what we're doing...
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"Celebrity is a mask that eats into the face. As soon as one is aware of being somebody, to be watched and listened to with extra interest, input ceases, and the performer goes blind and deaf in his over-animation. One can either see or be seen."
... John Updike
... John Updike
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How often do u Masturbate?
1-3 times a day, but sometimes more.
what is your record times in a day
9 times.
how long do you normaly last?
I can orgasm really quickly so anywhere between 2 minutes to an hour if I want to be multi-orgasmic and take my time.
how you ever used a sex toy or a object?
Yes, I LOVE toys.
if so what did you use?
My regular rotation of sex toys includes my dual-headed Lelo Ina vibrator, a g-spot vibrator, an anal vibrator, and my we-vibe. I will use one or a combination of them on a regular basis. I have also used a regular dildo, a glass dildo, buttplug, bullet/egg vibe, and a pocket rocket.
Place you usually do it?
Usually my bed or the shower. On occasion I've done it at work, or my car. Sometimes I'll also just put the we-vibe on while I'm doing dishes or cleaning up. It helps make things more fun.
How many fingers do you put?
2 fingers.
Do you like watch porn?
Love it!
What kind of porn?
It varies, but usually the really, really dirty kind.
Has anyone caught you?
Yes.
Do you masturbated in a public place?
Yes.
what place?
Work, a public bathroom, and my car for actual masturbation using fingers and toys. I can also have orgasms without touching myself (just with dirty thoughts, good kegals, and concentration), so if we're including that, then I have made myself orgasm in classrooms (with class in progress), lecture halls, the library, the doctor's office, a movie theatre, skating arena, airplane, dance studio, theatre, the beach, a bar and a public park. I guess I have always just been an exceptionally horny girl. Plus if you can do it when you're around people and not have them know, then why wouldn't you, right? The secretive nature of it is an added turn-on for sure.
1-3 times a day, but sometimes more.
what is your record times in a day
9 times.
how long do you normaly last?
I can orgasm really quickly so anywhere between 2 minutes to an hour if I want to be multi-orgasmic and take my time.
how you ever used a sex toy or a object?
Yes, I LOVE toys.
if so what did you use?
My regular rotation of sex toys includes my dual-headed Lelo Ina vibrator, a g-spot vibrator, an anal vibrator, and my we-vibe. I will use one or a combination of them on a regular basis. I have also used a regular dildo, a glass dildo, buttplug, bullet/egg vibe, and a pocket rocket.
Place you usually do it?
Usually my bed or the shower. On occasion I've done it at work, or my car. Sometimes I'll also just put the we-vibe on while I'm doing dishes or cleaning up. It helps make things more fun.
How many fingers do you put?
2 fingers.
Do you like watch porn?
Love it!
What kind of porn?
It varies, but usually the really, really dirty kind.
Has anyone caught you?
Yes.
Do you masturbated in a public place?
Yes.
what place?
Work, a public bathroom, and my car for actual masturbation using fingers and toys. I can also have orgasms without touching myself (just with dirty thoughts, good kegals, and concentration), so if we're including that, then I have made myself orgasm in classrooms (with class in progress), lecture halls, the library, the doctor's office, a movie theatre, skating arena, airplane, dance studio, theatre, the beach, a bar and a public park. I guess I have always just been an exceptionally horny girl. Plus if you can do it when you're around people and not have them know, then why wouldn't you, right? The secretive nature of it is an added turn-on for sure.
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Angelina Jolie and Jennifer Aniston... just cause after all the tension over the last several years, they need to get it out of their system. It would definitely be hostile and hot!
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Some of those are hilarious.
I liked the pregnant ballerina one though. I thought it was cute! I can see myself doing something like that one day (but better staged though)...
And boyfriend/husband better dressed. That 'redneck casual' look...that's what kills it.
True, he should be in tights and ballet shoes as well...
Now that would be an awesomely hilarious pic!
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Some of those are hilarious.
I liked the pregnant ballerina one though. I thought it was cute! I can see myself doing something like that one day (but better staged though)...
I liked the pregnant ballerina one though. I thought it was cute! I can see myself doing something like that one day (but better staged though)...
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Quote by SweetPennyQuote by Dancing_Doll
If anyone is trying to avoid caffeine or coffee, I have a great Starbucks treat to suggest: Try a non-fat, no-foam, green tea latte, half sweetened with sugar-free hazelnut. It's extremely low calorie, little to no caffeine, and tastes like a dessert (rich and delicious). You just have to get over the fear of sounding high-maintenance when you order it.
I'm not a big coffee drinker, so I decided to try one of these green tea lattes. I just get the regular one because I like fat, love foam, and hate sugar-free sweeteners. Anyway, I'm completely addicted to these. It's kind of ironic that a thread about giving up an addiction led to my own. I'll be sending you the bill, Doll.
Ahh... another happily addicted customer c/o The Doll...
They are better than coffee though, I agree!
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Congratulations to the talented writers who stand on the literary podium!
Very well deserved!
Very well deserved!
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Thanks Piquet! Again I am humbled, especially coming from an accomplished writer, such as yourself.
There are many very talented authors on this site that deserve to be mentioned in this thread, but as Piquet said... the greatest motivation and inspiration to create a memorable story comes from people like Konrage and all the other readers that have taken the time to step into our dirty minds and share in our fantasies and stories for a moment. I know I speak for every other author on this site when I say that the comments and feedback that we get mean so much, and we are always grateful for them. Like Piquet says, it encourages us to write more and it helps us understand what works and what doesn't work in an erotic story, and also what readers want to see more of. Even if you aren't an author on this site, never underestimate your importance in motivating and directing what gets written and posted on page one.
So thanks to the writers who create such delicious tales of lust, but an even more special thanks to Lush and Nicola for giving us a platform to share our prose, and to the readers, without whom a story would be rendered just a lonely document on an anonymous hard drive.
There are many very talented authors on this site that deserve to be mentioned in this thread, but as Piquet said... the greatest motivation and inspiration to create a memorable story comes from people like Konrage and all the other readers that have taken the time to step into our dirty minds and share in our fantasies and stories for a moment. I know I speak for every other author on this site when I say that the comments and feedback that we get mean so much, and we are always grateful for them. Like Piquet says, it encourages us to write more and it helps us understand what works and what doesn't work in an erotic story, and also what readers want to see more of. Even if you aren't an author on this site, never underestimate your importance in motivating and directing what gets written and posted on page one.
So thanks to the writers who create such delicious tales of lust, but an even more special thanks to Lush and Nicola for giving us a platform to share our prose, and to the readers, without whom a story would be rendered just a lonely document on an anonymous hard drive.
Alpha Blonde
Well, if you can't throw a big sparkly GIF into the forums on New Years, then when can you, right?
Happy New Year everyone!
Happy New Year everyone!
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None of these styles fit me perfectly either. They all seem a bit extreme and one-dimensional.
If I was picking a combination, it would probably be eros, manic and agape...
If I was picking a combination, it would probably be eros, manic and agape...
Alpha Blonde
Here are my suggestions on how to graduate to your official certification in anal sex.
Stage One: Self Play
Do this alone, with some lube and a butt plug and maybe a small dildo. You want to get used to the sensations of anal play without having a guy with a giant erection impatiently waiting for you to give him the green light. It's easier when you can go at your own pace, find out if you enjoy the sensations of it, and go slow when you are completely relaxed. Once you know better on what to expect, you will probably feel a lot more relaxed when doing it with a guy.
Stage Two: Actual Anal Sex
Have him start with his tongue, then fingers (either using vaginal juices or standard lube). Graduate slowly to larger objects if you're concerned or nervous about it. You will relax, and it will start to feel really good. Make sure he knows to go slow. You will feel some discomfort as he eases in but just have him "hold there" until you relax sufficiently and then he can start with slow, long thrusts and then as per your signal, he can start going faster and rougher (if you enjoy that.). You will not be in any pain if you're doing it properly and are sufficiently relaxed. Actually, you will probably be begging for more. As for positions, start on your stomach or in spoon position, then move into doggy style, until you are used to it.
Why Anal?
It's a whole different experience than vaginal sex. For those that never try it, I think they are missing out on some incredible pleasure and highly erotic explorations with their partner. It feels different, very primal, and for those that enjoy a submissive element, it works on that level too. It's just another way to connect sexually... the same reason you try different positions, or enact different role plays or fantasies. Because things can get boring with monotony.
One last note: this 'how to' isn't how most girls experience it. LOL I didn't have any "work up" to my first anal. It just happened, it wasn't pre-planned, and maybe that's why I wasn't nervous about it. But if you are already uncertain and want to try... it's a safe and comfortable way to get started.
Stage One: Self Play
Do this alone, with some lube and a butt plug and maybe a small dildo. You want to get used to the sensations of anal play without having a guy with a giant erection impatiently waiting for you to give him the green light. It's easier when you can go at your own pace, find out if you enjoy the sensations of it, and go slow when you are completely relaxed. Once you know better on what to expect, you will probably feel a lot more relaxed when doing it with a guy.
Stage Two: Actual Anal Sex
Have him start with his tongue, then fingers (either using vaginal juices or standard lube). Graduate slowly to larger objects if you're concerned or nervous about it. You will relax, and it will start to feel really good. Make sure he knows to go slow. You will feel some discomfort as he eases in but just have him "hold there" until you relax sufficiently and then he can start with slow, long thrusts and then as per your signal, he can start going faster and rougher (if you enjoy that.). You will not be in any pain if you're doing it properly and are sufficiently relaxed. Actually, you will probably be begging for more. As for positions, start on your stomach or in spoon position, then move into doggy style, until you are used to it.
Why Anal?
It's a whole different experience than vaginal sex. For those that never try it, I think they are missing out on some incredible pleasure and highly erotic explorations with their partner. It feels different, very primal, and for those that enjoy a submissive element, it works on that level too. It's just another way to connect sexually... the same reason you try different positions, or enact different role plays or fantasies. Because things can get boring with monotony.
One last note: this 'how to' isn't how most girls experience it. LOL I didn't have any "work up" to my first anal. It just happened, it wasn't pre-planned, and maybe that's why I wasn't nervous about it. But if you are already uncertain and want to try... it's a safe and comfortable way to get started.
Alpha Blonde
Whenever you post naked pics of yourself on the internet (or arguably even allow someone to take them of you), you run the risk of them being stolen and distributed on other sites. You may choose to watermark pics, alter or crop them, or black out your face to make them undesirable to people who would steal them. But it's just part of what "might" happen, and people should be aware of the risks involved.
For that reason, if you have explicit pics, keeping them set to "private" on this site is probably a good idea for most women.
As for the fake pics... I think it's up to the individual user to use their own common sense (or run images through www.tineye.com) to figure out how much they want to trust how real they may or may not be. I think some guys want to buy into the fantasy that they are real in the same way that they would call a 976 number and want to believe that they are having phone sex with a hot, horny model.
For that reason, if you have explicit pics, keeping them set to "private" on this site is probably a good idea for most women.
As for the fake pics... I think it's up to the individual user to use their own common sense (or run images through www.tineye.com) to figure out how much they want to trust how real they may or may not be. I think some guys want to buy into the fantasy that they are real in the same way that they would call a 976 number and want to believe that they are having phone sex with a hot, horny model.
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So perhaps is this just a marketing move?
I don't know... Didn't Hef seem way "cooler" to guys when he was that swinging geriatric bachelor, with three matching blonde girlfriends?
If he wants to modernize Playboy's image and create interest and intrigue about what it's like to be him, I would think that giving into "ye olde institution of marriage" is not something that should be carrying a lot of appeal to him... and especially not at his age. It just makes him seem a little dull (and gullible).
But hey, maybe they will stage a giant reality-TV style wedding and grotto orgy, and get people excited about Playboy again.
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Wow... Konrage! Thank you so much some of the best (if not, the best) feedback I've ever gotten as an author. I'm really humbled by your post on many levels. I think, as many of the fine 'story authors' on Lush try to do is capture more than what I call "word porn" or random sexual moments in time. Sometimes a story can really reflect on something you're going through in your own life, or create a fantasy that takes you into the "what ifs" in an otherwise mundane life. I think people can get stuck in a rut in relationships or marriages, and erotica transports them into another reality, and maybe makes them question what they might do in a certain circumstance, or, as it did in your case, see things from your wife's perspective.
I think Lush, as an erotica site, titillates on the story level, but also heightens the possibilities and the 'what ifs' with the social networking level. Whether things stay as a fantasy, or transport into one's reality is each person's individual choice. But through all the sexual possibilities, concoctions, fantasies and explorations, it hopefully brings a certain vitality to a reader's sex life (or fantasy life). And we learn a lot about motivations through different characters and maybe see things through the eyes of the opposite sex, or see ourselves in a certain character that validates what we are feeling... We are all human. We all have lust, desire, and hedonistic tendencies that we all try to harness, hide or subjugate because of what real life determines is "right" or " ." It doesn't make any of those feelings go away. It just makes us seek release through reading, writing, or viewing porn. I see it as completely natural.
Just my thoughts on things... But thank you again for the great response and the kudos! Honestly, it's feedback like this that makes writers want to write! And speaking of, I really should get back on the writing bandwagon too... You may have just inspired me to write a sequel to this one.
I think Lush, as an erotica site, titillates on the story level, but also heightens the possibilities and the 'what ifs' with the social networking level. Whether things stay as a fantasy, or transport into one's reality is each person's individual choice. But through all the sexual possibilities, concoctions, fantasies and explorations, it hopefully brings a certain vitality to a reader's sex life (or fantasy life). And we learn a lot about motivations through different characters and maybe see things through the eyes of the opposite sex, or see ourselves in a certain character that validates what we are feeling... We are all human. We all have lust, desire, and hedonistic tendencies that we all try to harness, hide or subjugate because of what real life determines is "right" or " ." It doesn't make any of those feelings go away. It just makes us seek release through reading, writing, or viewing porn. I see it as completely natural.
Just my thoughts on things... But thank you again for the great response and the kudos! Honestly, it's feedback like this that makes writers want to write! And speaking of, I really should get back on the writing bandwagon too... You may have just inspired me to write a sequel to this one.
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Keep it clean please.
Dirty sweat, noticeable smell, skidmarks or anything funky is not a turn on.
Remember, boys... soap and toilet paper are your friends.
Clean sweat (like maybe you both got out of the shower and then fucked on the bathroom counter amidst all the steam) or general sex sweat is great.
Dirty sweat, noticeable smell, skidmarks or anything funky is not a turn on.
Remember, boys... soap and toilet paper are your friends.
Clean sweat (like maybe you both got out of the shower and then fucked on the bathroom counter amidst all the steam) or general sex sweat is great.
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It's not erotica. It fits more with the likes of Vampire Academy or Harry Potter(And I bite my tongue as I say this, Twilight). Albeit, it's more graphic than those three.
On a side note, my story, Black and White might suit their interests.
Hmmm... throw some sex scenes into it, and publish it as a gothic romance!
Kidding...
I think the same kind of rules apply though. Look online for publishing houses that work within that genre, and see what their submission guidelines are. I think it's good to at least get some industry feedback before you go the self-publishing route. I would use self-publishing as a last resort.
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Hi Yuzar,
This is a great link for current calls for submission. It lists all the major erotica publishing companies and you can browse and see what fits your story best.
http://www.erotica-readers.com/ERA/G/Call_For_Submissions.htm
I have published through Xcite Books, and I know a few people that have published through Excessica. Have a look at their websites and see if your novel might fit their interests and/or how it would be categorized. Those are the ones I am most familiar with, and they are both reputable.
If they accept your submission, you will sign a contract giving them rights to publish your work, and you'll get monthly royalties with sales. You do not pay them anything. They will also advertise your work on their website and amazon.com etc. It's probably also wise to market it yourself using a blog or whatever other means of self-promotion you employ.
Some publishers will accept work that is already part of the creative commons (ie. posted online already), and others will not. You just have to do your research. And also compare royalty percentages you will get from different publishers and how much they plan to sell the book for. And, of course, any writer should be prepared for rejection letters and/or requests to rework parts of your story if necessary.
I would not pay money to have something of mine published. I totally don't understand the logic of that. You should be making money off of it, not paying for it yourself.
This is a great link for current calls for submission. It lists all the major erotica publishing companies and you can browse and see what fits your story best.
http://www.erotica-readers.com/ERA/G/Call_For_Submissions.htm
I have published through Xcite Books, and I know a few people that have published through Excessica. Have a look at their websites and see if your novel might fit their interests and/or how it would be categorized. Those are the ones I am most familiar with, and they are both reputable.
If they accept your submission, you will sign a contract giving them rights to publish your work, and you'll get monthly royalties with sales. You do not pay them anything. They will also advertise your work on their website and amazon.com etc. It's probably also wise to market it yourself using a blog or whatever other means of self-promotion you employ.
Some publishers will accept work that is already part of the creative commons (ie. posted online already), and others will not. You just have to do your research. And also compare royalty percentages you will get from different publishers and how much they plan to sell the book for. And, of course, any writer should be prepared for rejection letters and/or requests to rework parts of your story if necessary.
I would not pay money to have something of mine published. I totally don't understand the logic of that. You should be making money off of it, not paying for it yourself.
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Quote by cfl2005You guys need to stop dating such neurotic women... then you won't have to censor yourselves for fear that you might set off the big estrogen bomb.
You show me one that isn't neurotic, I'd love to me her. All women are neurotic. It's encoded in female dna.
Damn, those are some harsh statistics...
Hmmm.... have you considered playing for the other team, then? Maybe learn to like nuts in your morning cereal?
Haha... Kidding. But seriously, what's your sample size to make the general statement that all women are neurotic? Probably smaller than you'd like it, and maybe that's what makes you so edgy.
Women who are unhappy in a relationship tend to become neurotic over time, or do the passive-aggressive thing by doing the opposite of what you say you like (you mentioned some good examples). It's usually because they are not good at dealing directly with conflict and are hoping that you will notice the signals enough to have the "sit down conversation" about what is wrong. You may just be looking for a nice girl to "have sex with you on a regular basis and pay a bit of attention to you," but maybe the women you are picking are actually looking for a more meaningful or intense connection. A lot of couples don't understand how to communicate or how to be 'friends', and I think this is often the underlying flaw. You just need to make sure that you're both on the same page. This will cut down on the neurosis, tension and misunderstandings.
I think the goal for men is to stop wearing blinders and overlooking the red flags just because she's hot or gives good blowjobs. And women need to stop overlooking the red flags in men because they are scared of being alone or desperate to have a relationship and get married. And most of all, it's important not to generalize that an entire gender is exactly like your significant other. Just because you got a lemon, doesn't mean the whole world is a lemon orchard.
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I typically use "almost always," but just out of habit/preference.
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You guys need to stop dating such neurotic women... then you won't have to censor yourselves for fear that you might set off the big estrogen bomb.
Alpha Blonde
I couldn't resist posting this... because the visuals totally made me laugh. Still, for a man of his age to be having sex "a couple of times a week"? LOL For sure this is a man that is destined to die while fucking. No question about it.
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"I make love a couple of times a week, and I take the Viagra when I'm going to be making love," Hefner continued. "I would say at 84 it helps. It's God's little helper."
In her new memoir Kendra Wilkinson chronicles her first time with Hef, in a Playboy mansion orgy:
"One of the girls asked me if I wanted to go upstairs to Hef's room... It seemed like every other girl was going, and if I didn't it would be weird. One by one, each girl hopped on Hef and had sex with him... for about a minute. I studied their every move. Then it was my turn... it was very weird. I wasn't thinking about how much older Hef was--all the body parts worked the same. I wanted to be there."
Another ex-Bunny, Jill Ann Spaulding, described the Hef orgy a few years ago:
"Hef just lies there with his Viagra erection. It's just a fake erection, and each girl gets on top of him for two minutes while the girls in the background try to keep him excited. They'll yell things like, 'fuck her daddy, fuckk her daddaddy!' There's a lot of cheerleader going on! The main girlfriend wipes off his [uncondomed] penis. She's the girl who actually shares the bed with him. She sleeps there all night. She's around 22 years old. He uses all the same girls. She's been there for three years now... When it first gets started his main girlfriend gives him [oral sex], then she has sex with him. She's the first to go because that's the safest for her. No protection and no testing. He doesn't care."