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Dancing_Doll
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With a 60 year age difference, and A LOT of money in the mix, who is the smarter half of this couple? The old man who gets to pretend hot women find him attractive and desirable, or the twenty-something blond that will be financially set for life? Given that Hugh lives in a mansion filled with hot playboy bunnies that flatter him with attention, it's kind of heart warming to see his desire for marriage. Awww... he must be a romantic after all!

If you were Hugh Hefner, would you walk down the aisle at 84 years old?

And Ladies... if you were Crystal Harris, could you marry and have sex with this man, even if he IS Hugh Hefner and filthy rich?


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Hugh Hefner, the twice-divorced founder of pioneering men’s mag Playboy, is taking the marriage plunge once again.

Hefner, 84, announced his engagement to Playboy Playmate Dec. 2009 Crystal Harris — who is 24 mind you — in a Christmas Day posting on Twitter.

“When I gave Crystal the ring, she burst into tears. This is the happiest Christmas weekend in memory,” says Hefner, who popped the question to the glee of Harris on Friday.

The publisher was first married to Mildred William, who he divorced after a decade of marriage in 1959. In 1989, Hefner wed Playmate of the Year Kimberly Conrad, the mother of his two grown sons. The couple separated in the late 1990s, but didn’t divorce until earlier this year. Hef, who chronicles his adventures as one-fourth of a poly-relationship on E!’s Girls Next Door, famously refused to wed longtime girlfriend Holly Madison. At the time, Hugh confessed that he was no longer interested in marriage.

“It’s unlikely since I haven’t been very successful at it…” he told PEOPLE in 2009.
Erotica and general fiction are two very different things to me.

In terms of erotica, I wouldn't write about kids, animals, murder/torture for sexual pleasure, or parent/child .

In terms of fiction in general, there is no topic off bounds. I just would not be writing about it with the intention of turning someone on or creating arousal, but more as plot points to drive the story. In that sense, anything is fair game to me.
I came to Lush to write and post my stories. I wasn't really even aware of the social component of the site until after I had joined. The initial member interactions started because I liked getting feedback on my writing. I've never really been an "online" girl before and don't use social networking sites (I barely even use facebook), so this was a first for me.

Lush does give me an open forum to express my sexuality, but I think I'm pretty free and open with it in real life as well. I'm lucky to have some exceptionally open-minded friends. I do like exploring my sexuality and creativity through my writing, and I enjoy the never ending social experiment that I call "the Lush forums." There is always something entertaining going on. I'm getting out of the bar scene at this point in life, and most of my friends are in "relationship-nesting" mode at the moment. I had more spare time than I'd been used to when I first joined Lush (I had also just gotten out of a long term relationship), so it's been fun to explore this site at my own pace and within my own control.

I'm not an overly social person on this site. I don't do a lot of random online chatting or use the chatrooms, and I'm certainly not here for the cybersex. I have my little clique of friends on this site that I chat and laugh with regularly, and one very special connection in particular that I've taken beyond the Lush universe and into my real world.

As for what stories are my favourites.... I love anything with quality writing and a plot line. I like seeing creativity in erotica. I'm not a big fan of basic word-porn. I want to be drawn in and entertained on more than just a "he walked in and stuck his dick into her" kind of way. I've made an effort to get to know my favourite authors because I enjoy the networking aspect of it and I've learned a lot of useful tips and tricks when it comes to writing erotica as well! There are some categories I don't typically read from (eg. BDSM) but I will if I respect the writer because I know it will be a great story. I'm less limited by the categories.. I just want great writing.

If you have any other Qs, feel free to PM me...

Good luck with your article!
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I'm still shaking my head... this would be our 3rd date...


Usually when you get an invitation to "watch" something, it's basically code for "watch until you get horny enough to participate."

Proceed with caution if you're having any doubts as to what you're getting yourself into. Just my advice...


I just love the way you say "usually"...as this just happens all the time...

I guess that answers the question as to where you get the inspiration for your hot stories...


Haha... actually.... I've been "invited" a few times to watch a friend have sex with her boyfriend under the guise of it just being "we like to be watched."
I did it once, and there was definitely a whole lot of trying to convince me to join in for a threesome, once the action got under way. I was barely halfway into my popcorn box and soda before I was being offered the best supporting actress role.

I have been "invited" to watch with two other friends and their men, but have declined, because I kind of know what they are asking ahead of time. It's rarely ever as simple or innocent as sitting back and watching an entertaining fuckfest. There are always strings attached... Sometimes that can be a fun thing, other times, it's more complicated than I'd like to be bothered with.
For me, the first ladies out of the gate on this thread hit the mark for me. Lisa and Lola chose perfectly. I'm a big fan of the jeans and fitted shirt look.

I also like jeans and a t-shirt (preferably solid colours like our uber-hot model Hugh Jackman is working in Lisa's post), or even a stylized or trendy t-shirt like this:




I'm not a huge fan of the formal suit, unless you're at a wedding/funeral or office. I also don't like ripped jeans, wife beaters, leather or excessive jewelry.

I do like a sexy, fitted sweater and scarf, as long as the look isn't trying too hard, and it doesn't become too overtly metrosexual.
Ho, ho, ho....

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to everyone... I hope Santa is good to everyone, whether you've been naughty or nice this year! May your yuletide be filled with memorable moments...

XO






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I'm still shaking my head... this would be our 3rd date...


Usually when you get an invitation to "watch" something, it's basically code for "watch until you get horny enough to participate."

Proceed with caution if you're having any doubts as to what you're getting yourself into. Just my advice...
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Do you know there is a link at the top right of you profile comments area, labelled Older Comments?

http://www.lushstories.com/Dancing_Doll/comments

Or did you mean keep them all on the same page, with a scrollable viewport?

Santa is working on your gallery feature as we speak. I'm going to roll in another feature from lusciouslola at the same time, a slide show of your gallery images. Now the computer scrolls your pictures for you, you have two hands free for


Wow, you really do think of everything! LOL

Actually, I didn't notice the "older comments" tab (but I'm blonde, so...). It would be cool to be able to keep them all on the same page with a scrollable viewport, but no rush on that one. I'm just happy I learned something new today!

Thanks Santa Gav!


Ooh, one more thought (I guess I can be a bit demanding at Xmas time.. )

Is there any chance it would be possible to have "wall posts" with a scroll up or down feature, so we don't lose everything that's been posted once we run out of space? I know it only allows for a certain number of posts to be displayed on our profiles, and the earlier ones disappear into the "wall post vortex."

Anyway, no big deal either way... just thought it would be a 'nice to have.'

Thanks...
That would be a hell of a suggestion for a first date!

Usually I've just gotten movies and popcorn...

And the answer is no... I haven't gotten any front row seat offers to watch a gangbang.
Try this visualization exercise.

You just met your "dream man..."

What is he wearing?

ie. don't think about time of day or formality of the venue, and please don't say "it doesn't matter what he's wearing, the only thing that matters is the person he is OR who cares what he's wearing, I just want him naked."

I'm just wondering what the ladies of Lush think looks sexy on a guy. Is it a suit and tie, or ripped jeans and a t-shirt, khakis and a golf shirt or leather jacket and biker boots? Sporty, professional, or casual? What's your favourite look? Feel free to post pics if you can find an image of what gets you hot.
As a Lush reader, to what degree does an author's profile incite you to want to read their stories?

Do you typically find profiles that intrigue you (whether it be the way the bio is written, or how many naked pictures they have posted of "themselves" in their galleries) and then feel like that intrigues you to want to read what their stories are about?

OR

Are you more likely to just do a random search under a topic and read any story that catches your eye (perhaps due to topic or the title), regardless of whether they have a basic red/white avatar or any details in their bio.

If you like the story, I can understand wanting to check out the author's profile, but just curious if one comes before the other.

Also, if you tend to read stories based on other criteria (eg. maybe it's because you like some of their opinions/comments in forum posts etc, or maybe it's because someone recommends an author to you), feel free to comment.

But really my main question is, does "Author Lust and/or Intrigue" come before or after you read a story.
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You may enjoy this thread!


You are next in line, for the spankings! And hair pullings...and other assorted gifts of teh holiday spirits.


Who, me?

I'm just trying to get "the truth" out there!

PS. Thanks for the spanking suggestion, but tis the season, and I have already gone to the mothership for anal probing and alien insemination. 2011 is a big year for hybrid colonization...
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If you have watched the "History Channel" this month, they have a whole section on "Aliens seeding humankind" as if we are some kind of Biology project for some Alien in another Galaxy. Mythology being implied that the gods were aliens and enjoyed having sex with human woman( as I Do). Maybe it is why I say "god" everytime I am close to cumming..



my god, my god, my god, O god...



You may enjoy this thread!

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst14314_Whacky-Evolution-theory-vs-whacky-Creationist-theory-vs-whacky-3rd-theory.aspx
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Good post Dancing Doll. Gav is looking into managing the whole image galleries a lot better, it's on his to-do list.

As you say, it would be nice to be able to create a gallery, set it to public or private, and be able to add any pictures you wish to any of the existing galleries. That's how FB do it I believe.





Yay! X-mas dreams really do come true! You guys are awesome!
I would love to have the option to have two image galleries... one public and one private. As it is now, I have mine set to private because I have personal pics in there and prefer to remain low-profile (well... visually at least).

I have a collection of erotic images I'd love to share/add to my image gallery but I would prefer to have them set to public view. I also don't them intermixed with pics of myself so I don't have to keep specifying which pics are of me, and which pics are just images I like.

If it's not possible to have two distinct image galleries, then perhaps an option would be available when we upload them as to whether they are set to public or private (e. friends only) view?

Not sure if any of this is possible, but it's Christmas, and I figured I'd verbalize my wish list.

Thanks in advance for considering it, Santa... Oops, I mean Gav!
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I actually know a guy (in his thirties) who had a heart attack while having sex after a night being "juiced up" on red bull and uhmm... other recreational uppers. It can happen, I guess, depending on your lifestyle.

But the danger element of "death by orgasm" probably makes the climax better, right Javier? Or perhaps the fear of it dulls the intensity? Hmm...

Hehe.. I totally love these questions too. But it could also be that I just have a warped mind.



Ash, I guess it depends on the woman the man is with. If she's the love of your life, then it makes the climax better, the ultimate experience, jumping off a cliff, dancing with the Devil under the pale moonlight, as Batman himself would say; but if she is just one more on your list, then I guess the fear dulls the intensity(but this fear would only happen if you are juiced up, under normal circunstances no man should be afraid of death while shagging). I must confess I havent shagged in months, so I dont really know how will I perform the next time...dont worry I'll open a thread to let everybody know,Lol.

I am addicted to Rodeo, it's like Red Bull. God kows what they put in there, but it's like 5 espressos at once. Ash, promise me that if I ever die shagging you'll write a story about it? Something like "Javier's last ride"....please,please,please


You got it babe! Somehow I think the story of "Javier's Last Ride" will end up being popular among people that don't get the humour and quirky appeal of your forum posts.

And don't worry, I'll make sure to write in a very happy ending for you, before you see the bright white light (and the horny angels!)...
Dark, low-rise skinny jeans, a white Abercrombie t-shirt, and hot pink lace thong. No bra and bare feet.
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Get drunk together... Then if she acts shocked by your advances, just blame it on the alcohol and laugh it off.

This is what happens when my friends come on to me...


Oh Doll, where was it you said your staff Christmas party was this year? I...erm...have to deliver some...erm...flowers. Yes, that's it. So if a drunken middle aged flower delivery Dude suddenly starts giving you mouth-to-mouth...just be gentle.


I'll invite you to our next girl's night MK. For research purposes!
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Get drunk together... Then if she acts shocked by your advances, just blame it on the alcohol and laugh it off.

This is what happens when my friends come on to me...


don't you think that excues is wearing thing Doll? i mean, last time you used it with me, you'd been drinking Root Beer all night. smile


That was root beer vodka! Haha

But seriously though... this is just how it all happens among my girlfriends. Everyone is technically straight, but once we get together for girl's nights, everyone let's their inner bisexual girl come out to play. The next morning, we call each other in the midst of our hangovers and just laugh and agree that yeah, it got a little crazy, and wow, we had way too much to drink. Then nobody talks about it until the next time we get drunk and it starts again. It basically takes the edge off of what happened, and it also allows you to ignore the implications of it while sober.

I just see it as a little fun "in the moment." If you tell your friend, while sober, that you'd like to make out with her, you run of the risk of a genuinely creepy and awkward moment that may affect your friendship. I think the OP just wants a kiss or some light fooling around, and nothing serious. In that case, lube up the situation with a little alcohol and let the good times begin!
I actually know a guy (in his thirties) who had a heart attack while having sex after a night being "juiced up" on red bull and uhmm... other recreational uppers. It can happen, I guess, depending on your lifestyle.

But the danger element of "death by orgasm" probably makes the climax better, right Javier? Or perhaps the fear of it dulls the intensity? Hmm...

Hehe.. I totally love these questions too. But it could also be that I just have a warped mind.
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Successfully blocked jebru. They are still your friend, they can contact you but they cannot see you online. To block them completely, delete them as a friend.


When you block a friend, you will see this message at the top of the page. I was asked to add this feature so that you could go online without being nagged by certain friends. This allows you to ghost in friends, without having to go through the whole Dear John explanation of why your deleting them.

I'm assuming Alan doesn't have this problem; girls with hot pictures rarely annoy you when going online


Gav, can you just confirm... when you 'soft-block' a friend, can they still see you in the forums when you go into a thread? I believe that even when one is in 'invisible mode' right now, your name still shows up at the bottom of forum sections when you are in there. Just wondering if the same is true for people we put on 'soft-block'?

Thanks!
I think dancing can tell a lot about how comfortable or confident someone might be with their bodies, but no, I don't think there is necessarily a correlation between dancing skills and being good in bed.

I have worked with a lot of professional dancers, and a great many of them have personalities that are quite introverted and inhibited when they aren't on stage. I didn't sleep with them all, so I can't know for sure what they were like in bed, but I did hear a lot of stories from people that did. LOL

Dancing at a club often involves alcohol and a desire for attention, so it's a little harder to judge. The ones on the dance floor are usually up for a good time anyway, versus the wallflowers that do the people-watching from the sidelines.
Get drunk together... Then if she acts shocked by your advances, just blame it on the alcohol and laugh it off.

This is what happens when my friends come on to me...
With all due respect, there is always going to be a bit of a creepy factor potential. This is a sex site, after all, not facebook. I'm surprised that harassment appears to be such an issue though. Maybe I'm lucky, but I've actually never had to block anyone before.

Of course, it's always good to be aware of how one presents their profile. I'm not saying this is the case in all situations, but if you have lots of naked pics of yourself being double teamed, with cum dripping down your face and clothespegs on your nipples, chances are you might attract a few perverts and stalkers.

As for the feuding issues, I really can't offer any advice on needing to block anyone there. Everyone loves me.
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Van is always cooking up something that makes me drool.

It's turkey chili w/black beans, a cabbage salad, and some cornbread at my house tonight.



Wow, that sounds delicious too!

I'm just having salmon and grilled veggies, prepared by Chef WholeFoods. But good on you ladies for actually cooking! LOL
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Just going up to get the groceries for some Fajitas - which isn't very wintery or Christmasy.

Savoury chicken, with bell peppers, red onions, homemade tomato salsa and avocado smash, freshly drizzled in lime juice ..... a bit of monty jack cheese and sour cream. Then, served with some Mexican Rice (spicy) and a little cucumber salad.

(testing out a lime cheesecake recipe too)

Van


Can I come to your house, Van? I have a serious case of cyber drool... That sounds delicious!