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Dancing_Doll
Over 90 days ago
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Wow, this is very impressive!

It would be fun to see the top 10 threads of all time based on view counts (not counting the forum games obviously). I would love to do some re-reads of some of those favourite classics.
Dirty martinis, a blindfold, a video camera, a bottle of lube and some sexy tunes.
Thank you to my valiant casting hero MercianKnight. I had a feeling Cameron Diaz (the younger version) would be the natural choice based on my image gallery pics and I like her mischievous, fun Hollywood style, so I'll give her the nod for the incredibly thrilling role of playing me in the Lush movie.

I can almost hear the Oscar buzz already....
Are we going based on similarity of looks or hollywood persona?

I have no stand out idea really. If anyone wants to cast me, feel free. I actually think that's more fun. I promise I won't bitch and complain if I don't like the choices either...
I love it when a guy cums in my mouth. Like Bunny12, I really get turned on feeling that moment of orgasm (and all the throbbing and twitching) with my lips and tongue. I can't imagine not swallowing. I don't get the girls who run to spit it out in the bathroom or into a kleenex? What a way to kill the mood! I like the taste of cum, but I should clarify... it's not that I'd drink a gallon of random cum for the taste... I like the taste of his cum. When you have a deep sexual connection with someone, how can you not want to taste all of them? There is such a deliciously dirty kind of intimacy to it. In those cases, I'm a total cum-slut... the more the better. Whether he cums in my mouth directly, or I'm licking his cum in some other creative (or depraved) way after he's blown his load... I'm definitely down for all of it.
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I absolutely love it.

It's got to be a kinky guy that loves sex though. Not the type that cums, yawns and falls asleep.


Oh My God Dancing Doll I sent that sleepy guy away and told him to never darken my door again. I am so sorry if you got stuck with him. LOL

Why would any woman not like a guy to go down on her right after sex, when she is still very sensitive. Of course it is best if the oral is mutural.


It's only fair to just keep passing that kind of guy along and hope that someone appreciates him enough to give him a permanent home eventually. It certainly will never be mine.
I absolutely love it.

It's got to be a kinky guy that loves sex though. Not the type that cums, yawns and falls asleep.
Yes, it happened to me. The sex and intimacy is hot because you are both cheating. Once you get back together (if you do) with your ex, it will be super hot for about 2-3 months and then slide right back into where you were before you broke up initially. Sometimes you keep going back to the same person, and eventually the lesson is learned. A lot of time wasted and emotional highs and lows are what you get in the meantime. You are probably also romanticizing how things were with Jesse now that you don't have him anymore and also because he's with another girl.

Before you make the leap to get back together with Jesse, make sure you know what you really want. It's easy to think he's the one right now because you're having hot cheating sex and it's forbidden and you're sneaking around, and dealing with temptation etc... That may cause you to trust in feelings that might just be an illusion.

Just my take on things based on my own experiences. I don't know either of you, and maybe you were just young when you first got together and it deserves a second round.

But... when you said you have a "fear of commitment".... think about the fact that you cheated on Jesse and sabotaged that relationship. And now you're cheating on Zandy and about to sabotage that relationship too. Could just be a pattern and a fear of commitment. You are probably too young for commitment anyway... why not just break up with Zandy and enjoy casual dating and have sex with whoever you want. Chances are if you're cheating on Zandy less than a month into your relationship, you're not that into him anyway. Besides, I think you'll have more fun being single... smile

Good luck!
I think it would be a welcome addition to the collection of stories here.

I've read a little bit about Tantra, but don't know a lot.

I've always been curious about sex and different sexual practices or experiences, and it would be interesting to read a story that had more than just the usual basics.
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She still talks about it, but has never asked me to repeat. Why?


Cause she's scared you're going to think that she's a 'dirty girl'...

Don't wait for her to ask... just do it again... and again.... and again!

It's very hot. I'd be surprised if any woman didn't find it a total turn-on. I love it!
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I usually let people find me.

But occasionally, there are men or women that I run across in the forums whom I find interesting. Or authors who write about topics that really engage me. And then I'll send a friend request.


Same as Penny. I usually let other people find/add me, if they want to.

I prefer that someone interacts with me before adding me, but then again, the kind of interaction may also determine whether I accept them as a friend or not.

I will accept/add people that I recognize (in a positive way) from the forums, or someone who sends me a nice PM, or has an intelligently written profile. I avoid obvious "pic-collector" profiles, people whose only interest on Lush is to add friends and not read/write/vote on stories, and people that have galleries filled with dick pics, or cheesey porn. I also avoid people who are looking for cyber (or more).

The rare times I do send a friend request is usually when I appreciate the author's writing or feel like they might be on the same wave-length as me (personality-wise).
I'm online far more than watching TV.

I hate silence though, so I like having either music or the TV on in the background when I'm home, although 90% of the time it's just background noise.
Well... I wouldn't make a movie for public consumption (whether it was with a pro or an amateur).

If it was just going to be a sex vid for my own private collection, then sure I'd do it if there was a sexual attraction or connection (but that would be irrelevant on whether it was a porn star or just someone I was hot for in real life).

I don't really idealize porn stars to be honest. Having played with a female porn star before (just as she was on the rise to being well known), I don't think sex with her was hotter than sex I've had with other people. Then again when I did it, it was an unexpected situation, and we were pretty high, so... LOL... And she also wasn't really my type. It was fun... but that's all it was. It was a bit of novelty because of who she was (and a great story now that she is well known), but it definitely doesn't rank up there as one of my all-time favourite sexual encounters or anything.

If I was picking porn stars to make a vid with, then I'd go with stars like Sasha Grey, Jenna Haze or Rocco Siffredi (in his younger days). They're more dynamic sex stars that do less panning for cameras, and just more hot fucking. Sasha in particular is known as one of the more intelligent stars in the business, and as we all know, a great mind makes for great sex.

But overall, making a movie with a porn star isn't really one of my big fantasies.
Congratulations to all the winners as well as those who entered!

Great submissions!
Hmm... I think it depends on the connotations you associate with that word. Some people take offence to it, some people love the word when it's used as part of dirty talk, and other people celebrate the word as a female who is in control of her own sexual needs and desires (similar to how the word "bitch" has come to be a term of empowerment among some women).

Personally I can't stand when people denigrate or insult women for owning their sexuality and doing what they want and when they want to do it. We've moved out of the dark ages. It's no longer acceptable to call a guy a "stud", but a woman a "whore" (if it's being used negatively) when it comes to people who are free and open with their sexuality.

I think it's all semantics (ie. whore, slut, fuckdoll etc.).... I don't see anything wrong with what you're doing. If you're enjoying sex and not hurting anyone, then who's to say how much is too much in terms of promiscuity?

I think it would be sad if your friend is considering herself a "whore" but uses that term in a negative way and as a form of self-punishment for having such an open and active sex life.

Own what you want and what you do. It only becomes a negative thing when you, yourself, start to morally judge your own actions and end up feeling guilty or remorseful because you feel that you're acting outside the norm of what is "allowed."
If we were casually dating and this happened, I'd be green-light for a threesome if the vibe was right.

If we were in a serious relationship, and if this girl was also a longer term ex for you, then I'd probably take a pass. I'd rather find another girl for a threesome that didn't have any prior emotional attachments, plus it might just end up a little awkward.

I've always picked the girls for threesomes, so it would just depend on how we were connecting as girls, overall. I do tend to prefer beautiful strangers for this kind of thing as opposed to girls with an attachment to either of us from the past. In my experience, it just complicates things unnecessarily.
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Yes, if I was sitting next to a snoring passenger I would just try to startle them away with "accidental" jabs with my elbow or a loud noise, or suddenly shine that little overhead reading light directly into their eyes and then say "oops, sorry about that".


You just have to cough loudly. Somehow that makes people stop snoring...temporarily.


Hmm... not the ones I've been around... They've needed direct physical contact (to varying degrees).

If you're on a plane and they're sitting in front of you, a little kick to the seat works nicely too...
i'm definitely a little more aggressive when drunk, but it's definitely preferable to be tipsy rather than completely wasted when having sex. In my experience, drunk sex is messy and never as good. And I'm pretty uninhibited, even while sober, so there isn't that much of a difference, overall.
An easy, sexy smile followed by light, flirty or fun banter always does it for me.
I've enjoyed both, but the first scenario always gets me hotter... The harder the better.

Scenario #2, immediately followed by Scenario #1 is another favourite... sometimes it's fun to mix it up.
Yes, if I was sitting next to a snoring passenger I would just try to startle them away with "accidental" jabs with my elbow or a loud noise, or suddenly shine that little overhead reading light directly into their eyes and then say "oops, sorry about that". I don't think I'd aggressively wake them up in order to tell them off, but often just waking them up a little is enough to stop the snoring (at least for a little while). I've also done this with people if they're sleeping next to me. I slept next to a snoring girlfriend one night after partying and I kept pinching her through the night to wake her up enough to get her to shift away or turn on her side. The next morning she said she'd had terrible dreams of being bitten by piranha while swimming. I confessed it was my active little 'pincer' fingers trying to silence her shockingly hideous phlegm rattle. I once had a snoring boyfriend and I used to stay awake all night counting the leaves on the tree outside his window because I couldn't sleep. I'm a non-snoring person and a fairly light sleeper, so it can really be frustrating.

I say wake them up! Why should they sleep peacefully, and you stay awake the whole time enduring the noise they're making?

If I was snoring, I'd want someone to wake me up... especially if I was doing it in a public place!
I think women are attracted to men that have an intensity and complexity and are able to express a wider range of emotions or maybe feel things on a deeper level or have more dynamic personalities. That can be found in most artists... not just in musicians. I think the idea of a man who is a musician, a writer, a painter or sculptor means that he's a multi-layered guy that is in touch with self-expression, and is probably going to be more passionate and exciting, so it can be more intriguing to a woman. That's what attracts me to someone who has some kind of artistic side. I like the intensity, and you don't often find that with boring conservative guys, guys who aren't in touch with their feelings, or dumb jocks.

Others might be more interested because of the "groupie factor" if it's a popular musician, or a famous artist, but that's never been a draw for me.
I think it depends on if someone starts reading when they are already horny... or if they read because they want a sexy story and it makes them horny while reading it. If the reader is already hard/wet when they reach for erotica, they will likely just want to skip directly to the sex scenes.

I tend to write complete stories, but I don't skimp on the explicit scenes at all. I try for a 60:40 ratio when it comes to story:sex. I assume some people will scroll down, and that's their choice. I'm not offended by it.

As a reader, I prefer stories... otherwise, it just feels like "flash-porn". For a quick-fix if I'm already horny, I tend to be more of a porn-vid girl myself. If I'm reading erotica, I want the complete experience.
I have no idea how to label myself, and therefore usually don't use labels.

I lean more to straight, but I will play with a girl on a sexual level sometimes if there is an attraction there.

I wouldn't end up in relationship with a girl, and I couldn't see myself falling in love a girl (at least I haven't had that inclination so far), so I tend to hesitate with labels.

I mean, is bisexuality about being interested in both genders on a sexual level, or being interested in both genders emotionally/sexually? I see a fundamental difference depending on how it's interpreted.

Maybe I'd classify myself as "bisexual-lite?"

Either way... who needs labels? People should just do what feels right.
If he touches (or kisses or sucks or bites) the curve of my neck or my collar bone... I'm down for anything.
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Love dirty talk with my husband, adds some spice and takes already great sex to the next level. Actually wish he would be a bit more vocal, but understand that most of time when he goes quiet for a bit he's trying to focus on not cumming too soon so I can cum with him. I take it as a compliment that he's so hot he can't speak smile

I do think dirty talk needs to be sincere and not sound forced, it's just a turn off if guy sounds like he's quoting lines from a bad porno. Also, when having sex with someone for first time, ease into dirty talk and read their reactions. You can always get raunchier, but hard to recover from "I'm going to fuck your cunt raw you dirty whore" once it's out there ;)


SO TRUE! You have to be sure everyone involved is totally into it. I once had a guy tell me to "suck his cock like the cunt whore I am" the first time we ever did anything together. I did not find it to be a turn on. He did not know if I liked that or not. Like I said earlier, Dirty Talk is a such turn on for me as long as you both, or all three or however many like it and doesnt degrade anyone, unless of course they are into that too.


Definitely agree with this. In the past, I have varied the level of dirty talk depending on the partner and how open and receptive I knew/felt they were. If I know it's appreciated, there are no limits to how dirty I can (and will) get.