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Alpha Blonde
Also - how cute is this?

They will customize the belly chain to whatever wording you want on it. Lots of possibilities 'Slut', 'Owned by..', your individual dirty nickname. Such a sexy gift idea, especially for V-Day! (available on Litter SF ). They have a 40% off coupon code too right now.



I also saw this customizable locket-bracelet for just $40 over on shopthetrendboutique. This is another great gift option for V-Day or Mother's Day or a special occasion. You can write whatever you want as a card-insert or change it up by creating your own card-inserts with little sayings, reminders, a phone number. Adorable.
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
What do you think of Body Jewelry?

I've just started looking at some of the really cool pieces available. Chain garters. Belly chains. Spine-jewelry. There's so much creativity.

I think it looks really sexy, especially with minimalist clothing or completely nude. A friend wore a chain garter with an LBD a while back and it sparked my interest. I especially love the stuff from the Litter SF brand.

Have you worn it and for the guys - do you think it's sexy or not?

Also - please post pics of your favourite pieces and shots.

Here are some from Litter SF.
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
If you're looking for more of a consistently dirty masculine POV, bad boy characters and slutty girls:

DamonX

Magical Felix

Jaymal

If you're looking for male authors that have a more diverse POV approach to erotica (ie. fun, sensual, softer etc):

Frank_Lee

Buz

Tashtego

Milik_The_Red

Stephanie

And I think MadMartigan is going to be a newcomer to watch.
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
I think you just have to put the visual out of your head and just heavily sanitize your hands after handling money of any kind. It's all pretty nasty and yes, viruses and bacteria will survive on it for at least 48 hrs. You're probably safe from STDs though based on the level of handling required by a simple cash exchange.

Dirty Money Reminder

All money, it turns out, could stand to be laundered: the stuff is filthy. Studies show that a solid majority of U.S. bills are contaminated by cocaine. Drug traffickers often use coke-sullied hands to move cash, and many users roll bills into sniffing straws; the brushes and rollers in ATMs may distribute the nose candy through the rest of the money supply.

Also found on bills: fecal matter. A 2002 report in the Southern Medical Journal showed found pathogens — including staphylococcus — on 94% of dollar bills tested. Paper money can reportedly carry more germs than a household toilet. And bills are a hospitable environment for gross microbes: viruses and bacteria can live on most surfaces for about 48 hours, but paper money can reportedly transport a live flu virus for up to 17 days. It's enough to make you switch to credit.



Also: STD Transmission

Q. Can STDs be transmitted through casual contact?
A. With very few exceptions, no.

Usually direct sexual contact, such as vaginal, oral or anal sex, is required to bring the infection in touch with a receptive surface. Most STDs cannot be spread from person to person through contact with toilet seats, swimming pools, hot tubs, shared clothing, door knobs, eating utensils, etc. There are a few qualified exceptions, however:

- The spirochete bacterium that causes syphilis can be transmitted by direct contact with the open sores which often characterize the disease during its early stages. Kissing can spread the disease under these conditions. Unlike most STDs, primary orsecondary syphilis also can be transmitted by nonsexual contact. For example, if a person with a cut or break in the skin on his hand shakes hands with an infected person who has an open sore on his hand, infection can result. Though this is rare, it points out the extremely infectious nature of the disease at different stages.

- Herpes can invade the body virtually anywhere an open herpes sore comes in to contact with a break in the skin. For example, a person can become infected by kissing someone with a herpes cold sore. Infection also can occur through the eyes, fingers or other parts of the body. Because the virus can survive a few hours outside the body, experts think it possible, though unlikely, for herpes to be spread by contact with objects like toilet seats or hot tubs.

- Trichomonas vaginalis, the parasitic protozoan that causes trichomoniasis ("trich"), is capable of surviving for some hours outside the body in bodily fluids, damp towels or bedding. In rare cases it has been known to be spread by mutual masturbation, when bodily fluids from one partner come in contact with the other partner's genitals.

- Parasitic insects, such as crab lice (Pediculosis pubis) and scabies mites, though typically transmitted through sexual contact, are highly mobile. A person can acquire crab lice from bedding, clothing or toilet seats, and instances of scabies infection through contaminated clothes or bedding have been authenticated.
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
Quote by MadMartigan


I don't even understand that emoticon with the leaves coming out of its head.

It is a plant person emoticon?




Technically it's a 'geek' emoticon. He's the closest I can get to the tongue-sticking out emoticon that's usually made by doing this: silly

Otherwise, he mostly reminds me of Sideshow Bob with the hair.

Even though I quipped tongue-in-cheek, I will fully admit that I'm not a fan of the 'trollop' thing - like it's funny because it's a funny word to many, but I have a couple of friends that dance and while the industry requires a thick skin, any kind of underlying put down (jokey or not) still bothers me.
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
Quote by dpw

Maybe but have you no sense of humour?


That's what the smirky-tongue emoticon is for. I should just go back to using 'lol's.
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Alpha Blonde
No, not at this point in my life. Playboy, yes, but that's more based on the rep of the magazine and what it means to be in it.
I don't see the obscure porn mags in quite the same way, I guess.
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Alpha Blonde
Quote by amber


Can you control when you cum? Can you hold off until being told to?




I can hold off or 'stop an orgasm' but I actually find that if I pull it back too close to the tipping point, when I finally do have an orgasm, it's not quite as strong as if I'd just let it go when I was naturally reaching climax.

It's definitely a timing thing for me.
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
Quote by dpw


I loved the overpriced trollop line!


Except that it judges the wrong person.
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
Quote by MadMartigan



What would the equivalent be for your GF though? I turned it around to your GF giving a random stranger a lap dance and getting him to cum.

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I don't have a girlfriend.

lol

Well, I think the same reverse scenario would be a guy's girlfriend going to see male strippers or at a stagette party and the dude was grinding on her or simulating fucking her while all her clothes were still totally on but she still got off on it. I think...? I don't know how guys would feel about that... That is kind of what male strippers do though. How many girls genuinely get off on it - I have no idea. One of my male friends who worked as a stripper can certainly vouch that many of them do.
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
Happy New Year, everyone!

I hope, however you celebrate it, that your night is the beginning of a year's worth of magic...

xo
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
This would bother me if it was a regular thing and he felt compelled to waste a lot of money on lapdances - but as a one-off, I don't find it all that upsetting. I know I'm in the minority on that, but I've gone to strip clubs with a BF and done all kinds of crazy things. I know what dancers do, what's part of the gig, and I don't really find it all that threatening. As long as the guy's pants stay on, they're just selling a fantasy and a bit of entertainment. The scenario would piss me off if it *wasn't* a stripper but just some random girl in a club, but I feel like strip clubs are exempt from the hard rules - it's like sexual disneyland. Cash is on the forefront - these girls don't want your man.

The scenario described is obviously a more intense lap dance - but not all that different from what a stripper does in a regular lap dance. They *are* grinding on your guy to some degree and most guys getting a dance aren't sitting there with a limp dick. Dances are designed to wind a guy up - it's just basic biology. If they're not jizzing in their pants, they're probably jacking off to thoughts of the stripper later. Is that considered cheating? If so, then don't ever let your man go to a strip club.

Again - it's not an ideal scenario, but if it was a random thing or a moment on a Vegas trip, and he's not a strip-club regular, I wouldn't stress.
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
There was one guy I dated for a while that just felt too big - or maybe it was the way he used it. I definitely don't like the cervix pounding - in fact I often found myself squirming a bit to ease up on the depth. That well-fucked feeling is a good one when it lingers for an hour or two but when I'm super sore the next day and have the sensation of a huge phantom-cock still spearing me 24 hrs later, it's just bad. I'm sure we could have worked around it but I broke it off with him about six weeks later anyway. Not because of his dick size but more just because he was a dick.
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
Quote by slipperywhenwet2012


How has the experimentation with mango butter been coming along? My mom knows I'm into the organic skin care thing so she randomly sent me some...and I've found some good stuff on the interwebz. But wanted to ask since you've had a chance to play with some.

I've been thinking of concocting some kind of raw sugar/mango/peppermint scrub, so I have some questions about how the mango butter would hold up. How's the consistency? And if you've mixed it with other butters or oils, how'd it work out?


Have you done anything with the mango butter yet?

I made this really cool cuticle butter just before the holidays (that included mango butter).

I found the recipe for Lush's infamous Lemony Flutter online and it turned out great. Smells incredibly amazing! I've also used it as an overnight hand/foot treatment and anywhere the skin gets that extra wintery dryness. My feet are sooo soft.



Lemony Flutter Cuticle Butter

Shea Butter Cold Pressed (moisturizing) - 8 ml
Beeswax (provides a natural moisture barrier) - 2 ml
Carrot Infusion in Soy Oil (contains carotenes, nourishing)- 2 ml
Avocado Oil Cold Pressed (nourishing - Vit E, phytosterols, healing, anti-bacterial) - 2 ml
Flax seed Oil (I don't like using it in my skincare products, but unfortunately it was in the Lush List of Ingredients) - 0.2 ml
Mango Butter Cold Pressed (nourishing, prevent drying of the skin) - 2 ml
Hydrogenated Palm Kernel Oil (rich in carotenes, anti-oxidantal tocotrienols) - 0.5 ml
Castor Oil (soothing, lubricating.) - 0.5 ml
Wheatgerm Oil Cold Pressed (extremely rich in Vit. E) - 2 ml
Lemon Oil EO (antiseptic) - 3 drops
Lavender Oil EO (calming) - 1 drops
Chamomile Blue Oil EO (soothing, softening, contains azulene, anti-inflammatory) - 2 drops
Tangerine Oil EO (antiseptic) - 2 drops
Vitamin E (antioxidant) - 5 drops

Instructions:
In a double boiler combine the butters (Shea, Mango, Palm) and beeswax and heat until the beeswax has completely melted, add the Vegetable Oils, blend with a handheld mixer or whisk until the mixture is creamy, then add the Essential Oils, the Preservative and stir to mix thoroughly. Pour into small jars or balm tubes.
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Shylass


Boring!
No, I'm not.
No, I'm not.

I did think about getting a small gingerbread man, but I couldn't decide where to put it, as I'd want it somewhere it couldn't normally be seen with clothes on, but in order to actually get the tattoo, the tattooist would have to see where it was going to go, which I'm too shy to show. Plus, I'm too tight to pay for one, because they cost a packet. So I don't have one. I certainly wouldn't get initials!


You could get a small one on your inner wrist. It's a good placement because you get to see it and enjoy it but it's also easy to cover-up with a thick wristwatch or cuff-bracelet. That's where I got mine and I'm really happy with that placement.

Of course once you get one, you start wanting more. I'm thinking of an ankle-tatt next.
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Of course. There are full-blown personalized stories and hardcore scenarios that have been written and privately exchanged that will never see the light of day on Lush. You can get a lot more intense when you know things are staying private. I absolutely love the ones that have been written for me (obviously by someone I know - not a random stranger). And I've written some hot ones in return.

There are other stories that friends have written that are publicly posted where I've inspired a character and vice versa, but they're in fun and they don't have the same personalized level of intimacy.

As for the stye - I do prefer rough, but intense. The person that's writing it should know all the right buttons to push anyway.
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Alpha Blonde
I make this popcorn thing with a touch of olive oil, sea salt, black pepper and lime.

It's super tasty and pretty healthy too. You can even add a bit of chilli if you want to spice it up.

Also perfect with Coronas. smile
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Alpha Blonde
Not just a dick close-up - but a hot naked male body might. I don't zero in on his dick though - it's just part of the overall package.
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Alpha Blonde
Definitely not. I don't want to see the middle-aged version of the same tired gags and character cliches. I think the series went on a few years too long as it is.
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Alpha Blonde
Quote by naughtynurse


I can feel like that occasionally with a tampon too. Grosses myself out just thinking about it. I can take care of the nastiest, most infected wound without turning an eye. My own cycle creeps me out.


Oooh, I've never had a gush with a tampon. Maybe it's the brand. I like the Tampax Pearls best. Any of the ones that 'blossom' into a unique shape upon insertion are awesome.
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Alpha Blonde
Quote by sexytwenties
Like the commercials show, you can do a lot more when you use a tampon compared to when you use a pad!


Exactly.

I am one of those girls that hates pads. I know you can get the thin ones with wings and length and all the bells and whistles but they do still make me think of diapers. Also - not to be gross - but that little 'gush' you can feel if you've been sitting or laying down in one position for a long time and then stand up and start to move around. Bleechhhh... I don't know - there's just something about them that really turns me off.

I don't have heavy cycles (and they generally only last 3 days) so I've always been tampon girl all the way. I know the commercials are total cheese, but technically you can flex, lay around with your legs spread wide open, swim, run, work-out properly, dance and not have to worry something is going to leak or even deal with the reminder that you're on your period. Occasionally if I'm feeling super paranoid or wearing light coloured pants, I'll use a panty-liner but otherwise I stay away from them.

Another benefit with tampons is that if you're naked or doing sexual things (oral, anal), you don't have to deal with the mess if you decide to stay plugged.

I agree with the suggestion though - if you want to know how they feel, try one on. smile
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Dancing_Doll
Alpha Blonde
Quote by lafayettemister


I'm not saying I agree, but normally when I hear the word 'slut' it's meant in the most hurtful way possible.



By virtue of the fact that it's accepted (by many) as part of dirty talk, or can be used in a playful way by friends, there's a dual nature to the word now that probably didn't exist in the same way several decades before (like in the '50s maybe), when it was probably always seen as a negative word. I never said it was exclusively a fun word - just that as society becomes more sexually open - those words evolve as well (like 'bitch').

In my circles, I tend to see it used more playfully than hurtfully - but that probably also differs depending on different ages and demographics. A generation or two back, I think women were judged more harshly for their sexual choices, so it became a popular way to judge and put someone down. Unfortunately some still do that, but the word isn't exclusively negative - especially with younger generations. This is definitely a good thing. smile
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Quote by dpw
Is there a difference between being a slut and being promiscuous?
If there is, where is the boundary?
If there isn't, why does "slut" sound so much worse?


I agree with a few of the other comments - they mean the same thing - I think slut is just more street whereas promiscuous is more of a formal term.

I hate when either word is used to demean or label. I think 'slut' has become more of a fun or 'dirty talk' word as society has become more progressive and open when it comes to sexuality. There are still those that might use it as an insult, but I think it says more about the person using it that way than the person they're trying to bring down.

How many people someone has sex with and how they choose to do so is really such a private/individual thing when you think about it. Yet there are these shameful stereotypes - from the frigid virgin to the boring/missionary marriage typecast to the slut stereotype. You're either doing it too too much or not enough. Sometimes it feels like nobody can win.
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I'm actually not a Miley hater. I think she has a great voice and I don't really find her antics particularly shocking. So I just think - ok, cool, she's doing her thing. It's just weird to me that it's always in the news. I still believe that the Hannah Montana history and famous dad situation drive most of the negative publicity. She's just at that age where you revel in showing off your sexuality and getting attention - she does it in the spotlight and world stage whereas most of us did it at frosh week, spring break and university club nights.
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