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It means nothing - she's just doing her laundry. And not wearing a padded bra. Neither indicate interest.

Look at her behaviour - you say she's reserved and not flirtatious - there ya go.
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Fuck, I just want to smoke a joint and lay in that bed and watch all the fishies around me for hours. Maybe set the whole experience to some cool trippy music too. Amazing.

I wonder how much that room costs for a night. Probably something truly bank account-draining. Sigh.
Ovulation usually occurs approx. 14 days counting from the first day of your period. So, yeah - around that timeframe, the libido can really kick up. Unless you're on the BC pill, however, then you don't notice the horny-blip because the pill stops you from ovulating.

Sometimes it has nothing to do with hormones - sometimes you're just horny in general, need release or something's going on in life (new guy, great sex etc) that gets the juices flowing more than usual.
I actually enjoyed the first Salt.

I know it wasn't brilliant, but I thought it was entertaining. And I'm a Jolie fan in general.
JK Place hotel in Florence




The Hotel Ferrero in Valencia Spain, which is owned by Spanish tennis champ Juan Carlos Ferrero.




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Of course guy's lie about le length or their cock's'! That's why most women think that 3 inches is actually 6 inches! lol


This is so true.

Women are always way off about dick sizes. Every girl I've ever talked to about it swears her man is 9 inches. I think that's the magic number. And if it's *really* big, they hold their hands apart like a fisherman, swearing it's like a baseball bat.

True story. I once bought a dildo on my way to a girl's night drinking thing at a friend's house (the sex shop was in her neighbourhood). Eventually later in the night, I took it out of the packaging and put it on the bar (in her apartment, that is - not a public bar). Anyway - I asked how big they thought it was. They all thought it was massive and swore it was at least 9 inches. It was in fact - only six inches. They were totally shocked.
Surprisingly it's not that big of a deal to me. A lot of clubs are pretty packed anyway though, so dancing means a whole different thing and is really not something particularly difficult to figure out in order to at least 'blend' into the crowd without looking like a total dumbass with two left feet. I definitely appreciate a guy that really knows how to move though - it does get my attention. But I've also been with guys that are happier to hang on the fringes of the floor, drinking, chatting and people watching etc.

As long as the guy looks like he's having a good time and is generally engaged in the night, that's the main thing. But as I said - the skills that I see are usually pretty weak - so guys shouldn't feel intimidated to move to the beats, especially on a crowded floor where you're limited anyway. Nobody notices if you suck, as long as you get over the fear of looking awkward.

Try standing in a crowded area, holding a drink in your hand and just do some basic movement and look like you're really into the music and appreciating the DJ - so it's more like 'hey I'm just chillin on the dance floor' rather than trying to impress with some serious moves. You'll just look laid-back and fun and nobody will really notice that you don't know what you're doing.
I've used the Kama Sutra pleasure balm thing before but it was ages ago. I pretty much consider it similar to edible oils, melted chocolate, candle wax and all those kinds of things. You can put it on the clit too for an interesting sensation - fun during sex or even with a cold glass dildo and solo masturbation when there's no more ginger handy in the kitchen. I've also wondered if it might work well with girls that are nervous about trying anal. I haven't tested out the theory but it vaguely makes sense.

Anyway - I'm not sure I'd pull this out for the first night necessarily unless it was turning into some long sexcapade weekend. I'm not put off by it though so it wouldn't weird me out - they do make this stuff and sell it in the sex shops so people must be buying it. Then again I've also had sex with totally functional young guys that just wanted to trip on some viagra for an afternoon fuck-athon. They certainly didn't need it - but it was just something experimental to try and it does make for some intense sex.

As others have said though - If a guy comes fast for the first round, it's kind of expected too, so I wouldn't worry about it. Just as a fun thing though - sure, why not.




Ancient Taoist principle instructs the man in the art of restraint, encouraging him to replenish his "vital strength" while heightening his own and his lover's pleasure. This cooling, edible emollient imparts a tingly, slightly numbing sensation which intensifies and prolongs the joys of lovemaking. A uniquely powerful unguent, Pleasure Balm invites the lips with a pleasing mint, raspberry or tangerine flavor.
What are your favorite 2 story titles of your own stories and why?

Hmm... none of my story titles are too 'out there'. Considering the content my stories are knowing for, I actually tend to pick pretty lowkey titles.

One of my faves is Hard Candy. It started without a title and was really a work in progress that I wasn't totally sure I'd publish. I began it during a summer and then put it aside and then revisited it last January and it took off. I think I was just in that right niche headspace to write that particular tale. Halfway through the story, I knew it was going to be called Hard Candy. I didn't have any other front-runner options for titles. It's a bit more stylistic than my other stories and the title perfectly captured the play on the lollipop, the hard sex, and the way she related to the guy and that particular sexual experience. The ending pulls it all together and I think the title just fits beautifully. It's the first story I wrote where it wasn't just a matter of "hey, this could be called Hard Candy" - it really was Hard Candy. It's nice when it truly feels like it synchs up that way. It's been very popular too which is another happy bonus - 35,879 views at last check and it's been favourited 60 times and has an EP.

I think Fade to Black is also right up there as a favourite of mine. It has 46,434 views and it's been favourited 57 times. I had this title before I started the story. I wanted to convey the ambiguity that happens when a typical guy (Aidan Black) who loves female attention when he's being the dominant one, ends up having the tables turned on him as far as sexual control goes. I wanted to get into a bit of femdom and strap-on sex while still making it 'palatable' for guys that typically aren't into that kind of thing. The title just seemed to work and still kept it somewhat mysterious. It was a fun one to write and also entertaining for me because after publication, I had so many people asking me who the story was based on and was it about this guy or that guy. I even had a girl sign-up to Lush to ask me if this was about her BF who happened to share the same name and did I know him. lol. It was fun to watch some of the reactions. Because the main character is a male erotica author and he ends up with an online stalker, it was bound to hit a nerve with some and maybe get some assholes clenching in response. silly


What are your 2 most successful story titles, either in acclaim or attracting views?

The Cabo Connection has taken on a life of its own. It currently is at 121,452 views and sits on 159 individual favourited-story lists. It's been translated into spanish on the Historias site and now has a double EP (one here and one there). Honestly, I had no idea at the time I wrote this that it would become so popular. Compared to some of my other stories, I came up with the concept and plot line really quickly and wrote it much faster than a lot of my other stories. I think it's a fun read though and who doesn't love a bit of dirty scandal on a hot little beach vacation? smile

The Escort and the Dirty Substitute was written a few years ago and was really popular with views etc. It has 61,890 views and is has been favourited 65 times. I struggled a lot with this title. I was originally just going to go with 'The Escort' but it seemed too generic and overdone. Why is this one popular? I think it kind of taps into that female fantasy of being a sexual plaything for the wealthy and super-kinky. The character learns about herself and goes through her own kind of sexual exploration and awakening as she reluctantly lets herself be seduced by the 'glam' lifestyle and the easy money. This one was loosely inspired by a friend of mine in real life and some of her 'adventures' in the high-class escort world.


PS. Nice thread, Buz! I guess I decided to give Mazza a run for her money with long posts! Ha!
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But bad boy? They're the prideful and the jokers - not the neutral and shameful.



I think icons like James Dean seemed to have more of that brooding rebel vibe to him and he was considered a bad boy. I think the 'neutral of shameful posture' guys seem to play into that non-conformist 'I don't give a shit' vibe that is often seen as attractive or intriguing. They're just different varieties of bad boys.
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Off the top of my head, maybe a tie between Hercules/Flynn Rider and Hercules/The Lion King



Ohhh - good call! Flynn Rider for sure. First animated character I actually crushed on. Loved him!

For the girls - it would be between Rapunzel and Ariel.
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After research on the net I have started drinking powdered green tea the idea is that as it's powdered you get more benefit from it as you consume everything. However I have my doubts about all so called health foods and would be interested in anyone's experience regarding this as part of me thinks I am just going through the motions and finishing the packet as it was very expensive.


I find that it makes a difference but more than that, I really love the taste of Matcha so it's a win-win for me. The science behind it also makes sense. It's better to consume the entire leaf to max the benefits of green tea. I understand the skepticism though with a lot of these superfoods - it's hard to qualitatively measure the impact. I honestly probably do it more for the taste and the health benefits are a bonus.

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst30800_Matcha-Tea.aspx
Please chose the most appropriate scenario. This poll is for people who are married, common-law, ex-common-law or divorced only please. For those that have been married/common-law multiple times, please answer based on your first serious commitment.

Discussion is welcome - but I know it might be more comfortable for people to answer anonymously as well. smile

Legend of Scenarios

Scenario 1: I settled when I got married and now the marriage is thriving
Scenario 2: I settled when I got married and now things are very average
Scenario 3: I settled when I got married and now I’m unhappy in the marriage
Scenario 4: I settled when I got married and now we’re divorced

Scenario 5: I married my soulmate and I’m still extremely happy & fulfilled
Scenario 6: I married what I thought was my soulmate and now things are very average
Scenario 7: I married what I thought was my soulmate and now I’m unhappy in the marriage
Scenario 8: I married what I thought was my soulmate and now I’m divorced



Definitions:

** ‘Settled’ in this poll means that you weren’t madly in love with the person but found admirable qualities in them and wanted to settle down in general. They weren’t your ideal mate but it was a pragmatic decision. You followed your head more than your heart.

** 'Soulmate' in this poll means that you were madly in love with the person, at least at some point, and felt a certain sense of ‘meant to be’. You feel like you got your ‘dream mate’ in terms of romantic love and desire, even if the situation itself wasn’t perfect and/or posed challenges. You followed your heart more than your head.
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I moisturize my cuticles and push them back.

I gotta ask, am I Ithe only "natural is best for me" girl here? I've tried the stylish designs but I always come back to the natural:



I actually did french-mani and nude nails and sheers for many years. I had to do the mannequin hands all the time for work etc. Now I'm doing something different that gives me more leeway to play so I've gotten into all the colours and fun stuff. I still love a pretty neutral though. Always will. And pastels still make me happy. smile
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we just broke down and ordered the following from KBShimmer... come on! you Knew it was only a matter of time!

for me:





Yay!

The Candy Cane one has actually been on my wish-list for a while now. It looks like it would be so pretty over white! Let me know what you think of it when you try it!
Here's a good vid on it and how to do it. It seems pretty easy.



I've heard really good things about the Nfu Oh Cuticle Remover - a lot of the nail bloggers seem to rave about it and it gets really great reviews across the board as being the most effective and gentle.



I'm not sure I need it though. I really don't even have much to push back when I do it. Even the esthetician said mine were really slight - that might also be why they ended up looking fucked up afterward when she tried to cut every last bit off.
Question about cuticles - what do you do to them? Trim, use a 'cuticle-remover' cream or just moisturize and push them back?

There's many schools of thought on cuticle-cutting and personally I'm against it. I allowed someone to do this for me once when I was getting a mani a few years ago and it totally fucked them up. It's like once you start trimming, you're forced to keep doing it or else they grow in looking messed up. It took me a while to get them back to their natural state where they looked good again on their own.

I actually have naturally small and very well-behaved cuticles - I've been doing the moisturize and push back with an orange stick, and I think they look good as it is, but I hear a lot about cuticle-removers (the chemical cream). Has anyone used these? Is it the same as trimming where it then causes them to grow more than they normally would or do they end up looking dry or raggedy unless you embark on intensive cuticle regimens from then on?
Honestly I've bought a lot of sex toys and Lelo really is the brand of choice as far as I'm concerned. They're quality toys, they recharge like an iPod, and they're aesthetically attractive.

The Soraya model is widely recognized as most girl's favourite toy (surpassing the old-school rabbit) and they don't look like cheeseball toys with cutesy animal shaped attachments or ones that look like big veined plastic dicks. I highly recommend them. The Gigi is a great smaller g-spot vibe and they do have two remote control vibes - one you can use with a partner (Tiani) and the other is an egg-shaped one that you use internally (the Sense-Motion Lyla).





There is an alternative that I've had the chance to try out called the 'Tingle Me' by SilkyVibration.com and it's a butterfly vibe you put in your panties. It's disposable, runs on one battery and is super inexpensive and totally silent. You could easily wear this out except it's not on a remote. You can turn it on/off though but would need to do this manually. They're fun to try if you just want the experience of vibrations in public without investing $$ in a toy.



I also agree that glass is great but it's just different than a vibrator so if you're looking for something that buzzes the clit or g-spot, it's going to fall short as a standalone new toy. It's great for hot/cold play though. I do have one and I enjoy it but sometimes you just need something with a bit of power.

You might also enjoy a suction cup vibrator if you're looking to ride something. Basically they look like an actual cock and you suction-stick them to a hard surface (like a chair or a wall-mirror or shower-wall etc) and you just ride them or control the motions yourself. Doc Johnson makes good ones with 'RealSkin' technology.
I love music with sex. They go together so naturally and the music sometimes influences the style, movement and intensity of the sex.
I like reading the tips in this thread.

I don't have any major ones to add because I am a terrible packer. I always overpack. Well, except for this one time I packed while drunk and decided that I could put 4 days worth of things into a carry-on on a trip to South Beach. This was probably slightly influenced by the fact that I'd just gotten this glossy turquoise hard-top carry-on and I kind of wanted to use it.

Anyway - it was ok - I managed to have the necessities with me, but I did end up buying a few tanks and a dress while I was there, so technically I was cheating on the whole 'packing light' thing. Everything did fit in my original case for the return-flight though. smile

My one tip for girls would be to carry one of those XL handbags on the flight that can almost double as a smaller version of a carry-on and then stuff a smaller clutch (or two) into it for regular/evening use once you're there. And - especially if you're going somewhere warm - always carry bare necessities of what you plan to use the day you're there in your carry-on or purse incase your luggage is delayed (ie. bikini, flip flops, mini-sunscreen etc). Also instead of taking perfume with you, use the roll-on perfume oils. They're under the liquid-allotment for carry-ons and just generally a space-saver rather than packing actual glass bottles.
I'm not surprised that guys who are always smiling are a turn-off. Nobody is happy all the time and those that appear this way probably come across as a bit dumb, simple or clueless. I find a lot of guys, unless they're breaking out into a genuine laugh, tend to have more reserved smiles or 'half-smiles' and grins rather than the full toothy variety. That might be why the overly happy pics were a bit off-putting.

The proud guys pics feature a lot of athletes and professionals - guys who compete and win or are successful are always going to be seen as confident, capable and attractive, so I'm not surprised those are ranked higher. Good posture - posing in a way to take up more space - it all connotes strength and that alpha-male vibe. Females respond to this even on an subconscious level - it's similar for most animal species - signs of fitness and success are attractive in a potential mate.

The neutral guys - a lot of them remind me of mugshots or maybe guys who aren't socially in tune or introverts or boring. That's my first impression. Some of them aren't off-putting but if a guy just looked like this all the time or reacted to social cues with this blank expression - it's probably not that attractive. For the most part - most of us are in a neutral expression a lot of the time though, so I didn't find these pics to be totally unattractive.

And I agree with Musigal - the shameful guys trigger that "awww, let me help you" response. A lot of women love the fixer-upers or the sad guys they need to mother and cheer up. You end up feeling sorry for a guy and appreciate his vulnerability and want to help. It's still only attractive as a temporary thing though or something that the female can influence or change with her attention and affection. Guys who are always like this would be a pain in the ass, even to the most patient and mothering type.
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I don't think I've ever seen something like Pickle Juice Sport.

Gotta be a Canadian thing.


LOL... no, it's not a Canadian thing - it's a sports thing.

http://www.good.is/posts/how-pickle-juice-changed-the-world-of-sports-food-innovations-from-the-football-field

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The Philadelphia Eagles started their 2000 season at Texas Stadium in Dallas. They opened with an onside kick, recovered the ball, and quickly threw a touchdown pass. Sure, they were a losing team, expected to lose against the Cowboys, and here they were pulling ahead. But that’s not what set the game apart. It was 109 degrees, the hottest game ever played.

Imagine being a 300-pound guy, in tights, running around, running into other big guys while wearing 30 pounds of equipment. You’re going to sweat. A dozen Cowboys did so much sweating, they dropped out of the game with heat-induced muscle cramps. All the Eagles stayed in and the team won 41-14. The Eagles’ secret weapon? They fought off cramps with pickle juice.

Pickle juice has long had a reputation for curing hangovers, easing sunburns, or reducing the blisters on Nolan Ryan’s fingertips. But the 2000 game in Dallas really set the ball in motion. Now, there are pickle juice products (sort of the Schlitz of sports drinks) and at least one researcher attempting to unravel the drink's mysterious effects.

Following the "pickle juice game" in Dallas, Kevin C. Miller, then a doctoral student at Brigham Young University, got wind of the story. For his dissertation, he looked into the role that pickle juice can play in muscle cramping. Miller, who’s now a professor at North Dakota State University and the world’s leading expert on pickle juice (perhaps its only expert), performed another experiment in 2009.

He went out to Sam’s Club and bought two big 5-gallon buckets of Vlasic dill pickles. He lugged them back to the lab and drained out all the pickles. (He gives them away to students or fellow faculty). Miller had 12 healthy volunteers pedal for 30 minutes on stationary bicycles. When the riders became measurably dehydrated, he induced muscle cramps in their toes with electrical shocks and administered one of three things: nothing, ionized water, or pickle juice. Riders drank the equivalent of about 1 milliliter for every kilogram of body weight, so a 150-pound guy got about 2 ounces. Last May, he published the study, which showed pickle juice relieved cramps 45 percent faster than drinking nothing and 37 percent faster than water alone.
Pickle Juice

If you play team sports, tennis, rowing, running, training or do cardio-intensive workouts etc. - Pickle Juice is a great option to rehydrate and reduce leg cramps. It also helps those hangovers and works to help settle an upset stomach. You can also freeze them into pickle-pops.

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It is becoming a favorite among sports players. It has been found to help reduce cramps in athletes, whether racing bikes or playing football, or whatever kind of sport you partake in, pickle juice is being recognized more and more as a drink that will give you more electrolytes than the more popular "ade" drinks. In fact 30 times more than PowerAde and 15 times more than Gatorade. Preventing dehydration is a major factor in any sport, and with the salt content along with the acetic acid, it has been found that pickle juice is much better than isotonic drinks that contain citric acid.




I must be a in a blue period.

I'm now wearing Lagoon by Picture Polish on my nails:





and a-England's Order of the Garter on my toes:


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What's all that crazy crap about sofas and mailmen? Can't you guys act like decent human beings and simply fuck a parking meter like everybody else!?

Geessh. Kids these days.


Parking meters are reserved for rough sex only.
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Gosh Ash, I didn't know you were such a prude. This totally changes my perspective of you. What do you have against sofa/mailman humping, huh?


I know... I've always wanted to be as liberated as my dog in that way, but sadly it's a work in progress.
No. I've been really horny before where it's constantly on my mind but not to the point where I totally lose control and start humping a sofa-leg or jump the mailman etc.
It doesn't really matter that much to me - I'm pretty easygoing.

I've had pics of cookies and angelic puppies to GIFs of eggplants shooting out of bodily offices and girls drinking cum out of each other's asses.

Unless it's meant as humour or for shock value (both of which I do appreciate as well), I tend to prefer images that feature decent photography skills. You can post the dirtiest sex image of cum-spurting, fucking, rimming and blowjobs, but some pics just have a way of making it look more 'artistic' or interesting than the standard stuff you'd find on those cheesy porn-pic sites. Actually sometimes that just involves just turning the pic into a black and white or sepia image, maybe adding a bit of shading and then creatively cropping it. Somehow it makes a difference though. Having said that - I'm not the type to delete pics once they're posted. Unless maybe if it was creepy amateur porn in bad lighting with vintage pubes. Blechh.

I find that if you don't know the person well, it's sometimes useful just to check out some of their image galleries (if they have them) to get a vibe for what that person thinks is sexy or what their kinks are. I think it really varies on this site.