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Quote by kinky_girl
Also, it can be a bit off putting when people post for help or even just a little moan and mods are sarcastic. It doesn't make us want to give our money up when we feel excluded.
Members moan about paid memberships.
Members (mods included) moan about the moaning of paid memberships.
Fair enough, right?
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Quote by seriouslyhorny
My 3 month membership has expired.............I have made some friends on here (I think!) and would love to be able to chat with them again, but really don't want to pay for the service - not much I know, but frustrating that I HAVE to pay in order to chat! Anyone else having the samemoment?!
1. Chatting is free, see?
2. I can totally relate. I once went to the grocery store where they were handing out samples of different selections of a brand of sausages. I had about 3 or 4 different kinds. I found 2 of the selections particularly delicious, so I set out to obtain a pack of each.
But alas! I got to the aisle and realized I had to pay for a pack of them. Why on earth would anyone allow you to sample something for free and then expect you to pay full price for the full product?! Absurd!
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
All of the above.
Also, if you're serious about marketing yourself and your work, a subscription to some sort of stock photo service is a great idea.
I do know that some authors who go on to publish e-books have such a subscription to avoid any sort of legal hassles.
Also, if you're serious about marketing yourself and your work, a subscription to some sort of stock photo service is a great idea.
I do know that some authors who go on to publish e-books have such a subscription to avoid any sort of legal hassles.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
What you've observed in 30+ days on Lush is probably something you'd observe in maybe twice or thrice the time in real life.
Life is full of catty backstabbers, male and female. It just cultivates quicker online because everything is so...central. Everything happens here. There's no where else to go. Plus there's the added element of anonymity that you have on the internet, no matter how close people claim to be.
I don't just chalk it up to Lush drama, but internet drama in its entirety.
As far as handling it goes, I say avoid it as best you can. I've been here for a few years, and I know firsthand how people will find ways to drag you into their bullshit, whether you're a willing participant or not, so don't let them. Lush (and any other space you have on the internet) is what you create for yourself. It can either be your escape or your own personal nightmare.
Just like in real life, I'm very guarded and quite particular about who I allow to get close to me and in my personal space. If I feel like the space I create for myself is becoming tainted or otherwise stressful, I pull back.
Also, if all else fails, it never hurts to step away and go outside for some fresh air.
I understand that real bonds of friendship and relationships can be established online. But even in real life, when shit starts to hit the fan and it's causing you serious emotional/mental turmoil, it's time to step back.
Life is full of catty backstabbers, male and female. It just cultivates quicker online because everything is so...central. Everything happens here. There's no where else to go. Plus there's the added element of anonymity that you have on the internet, no matter how close people claim to be.
I don't just chalk it up to Lush drama, but internet drama in its entirety.
As far as handling it goes, I say avoid it as best you can. I've been here for a few years, and I know firsthand how people will find ways to drag you into their bullshit, whether you're a willing participant or not, so don't let them. Lush (and any other space you have on the internet) is what you create for yourself. It can either be your escape or your own personal nightmare.
Just like in real life, I'm very guarded and quite particular about who I allow to get close to me and in my personal space. If I feel like the space I create for myself is becoming tainted or otherwise stressful, I pull back.
Also, if all else fails, it never hurts to step away and go outside for some fresh air.
I understand that real bonds of friendship and relationships can be established online. But even in real life, when shit starts to hit the fan and it's causing you serious emotional/mental turmoil, it's time to step back.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Callum brought this up before, but I'd love it if every time I deleted a post, it didn't resolve to the first page of a thread.
It gets tedious when removing multiple posts within a thread to have to go back and search for where I first began removing posts.
It gets tedious when removing multiple posts within a thread to have to go back and search for where I first began removing posts.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by clum
I guess the assumption was that members of an adult online community would conduct themselves with some level of maturity and not require the volunteers that contribute to the successful running of this site to waste their time mediating juvenile feuds.
Ding! Ding! Ding!
Winner!
Now excuse me while I [s]waste[/s] spend my time cleaning up this juvenile feud.
EDIT:
I've a suggestion that Callum's brought up before, but I'll mention it again.
Whenever I delete a post, it brings me to page one of that thread. While not that big of an issue when I have to delete one post or I'm in a relatively short thread, it becomes tiresome to have to click to the end of a thread every time I delete a post within that thread...especially when some posts happen to not fall at the very end of the thread, or when I have to remove an entire [s]petty fucking argument[/s] forum dispute.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Shameless plug:
The 25 capacity restriction does not affect Gold Members. I know it's not listed in the perks, but I've tested it myself and know for a fact that if a room is full to capacity (25 members), a Gold Member will still be able to get in, and it'll be reflected in the numbers (i.e. 26 members in currently in the room).
The 25 capacity restriction does not affect Gold Members. I know it's not listed in the perks, but I've tested it myself and know for a fact that if a room is full to capacity (25 members), a Gold Member will still be able to get in, and it'll be reflected in the numbers (i.e. 26 members in currently in the room).
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Hmm... I could swear we've seen them siphoning gas from cars on various episodes - especially at that highway gridlock just before they lost Sophia in season two. I assume finding gas at this point would mostly be a stroke of luck, but yeah - they don't really touch on it much anymore.
Their companion series "Fear the Walking Dead" is starting sometime this summer (same premise, early in the zombie apocalypse, but on the west coast and with a different core group of characters). I'm not sure how successful it will be, but I think it'll be fun to check out. And you can watch this one without fear of spoilers!
You're such a die-hard Walker fan.
You should work for one of those sites that does episode reviews.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Totally understand the frustration. However, we have no way of knowing whether or not Lelo even browses these forums, or how often.
You might do better actually sending this to their customer service department...as well as posting it to their FB feed so it can serve its desired purpose (for Lelo customers to see your experience).
As far as any other general frustration or steam you need to blow off, might I suggest the Rage Cage?
You might do better actually sending this to their customer service department...as well as posting it to their FB feed so it can serve its desired purpose (for Lelo customers to see your experience).
As far as any other general frustration or steam you need to blow off, might I suggest the Rage Cage?
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by nicola
Bump - please don't come complaining to either myself, or any of our admin staff, if you don't follow this guideline, and things go wrong, there's nothing we can do about it if you've chosen to give out your personal details:
Quote by nicola
Don't give out any personal information about yourself or anyone else.
Sure, there are instances when you may want to meet up with other members, but even at that point, I'd be very hesitant about giving out any details other than your first name and mobile number.
Because another bump doesn't hurt.
Please remember that Lush is not responsible for what happens once you divulge your private information to another.
We can only go so far as to assure that such information isn't shared publicly (outside of private messages or any other format not visible to the public), within the site (Lushstories.com), of course.
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Quote by sprite
attractive people can be just as crap in bed as anyone else. i don't care what you look like - if you have no idea how to eat pussy, being beautiful ain't gonna matter.
This.
While attraction/connection can often intensify sex, in terms of just the physical aspects, the way someone looks has no bearing on how good they'll be in the sack.
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Quote by AudriNichols
How about a Writer's Resource Forum?
Writers can post questions and get real life answers from experts and people familiar with their question.
For example, writers often have questions about things relating to:
Medicine, First Aid, Surgery, Diseases, Disorders etc.
Court Room, Legal and Law Enforcement Procedures
Traveling, Places, Specific Cities, Countries, Culture, Food etc.
Historical Facts, Period clothing, language, society, culture,
Psychology: Mental disorders, treatment options, therapy etc.
This would be a way for writers to help other writers with facts and getting the details right.
https://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_topics3_Writing-Resources.aspx
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
When I was younger and more apprehensive about having sex, I'd try to suppress those feelings because it was always ingrained in me that I shouldn't come off as easy or that I'm supposed to make them chase it (what most girls are taught).
But now, if it's someone I'm really into, then I feel no need to control my sexual attraction to them. I embrace and enjoy it.
I'm not one of those 'three month rule' kind of girls that puts a timer on having sex. I just let it happen when it feels right.
And I'm fortunate enough to have someone I feel comfortable enough to be as open sexually as I want. There's always more to explore, so putting a time stamp on it, to me, is unnecessarily restricting yourself. I don't care if it makes me come off as easy or slutty or however anyone wants to label it, if it feels right, I'm gonna do it, and as many times in as many ways as I can.
If you feel comfortable enough in a matter of hours, days, weeks, months, or even years, it doesn't matter. Just be safe and go for it.
But now, if it's someone I'm really into, then I feel no need to control my sexual attraction to them. I embrace and enjoy it.
I'm not one of those 'three month rule' kind of girls that puts a timer on having sex. I just let it happen when it feels right.
And I'm fortunate enough to have someone I feel comfortable enough to be as open sexually as I want. There's always more to explore, so putting a time stamp on it, to me, is unnecessarily restricting yourself. I don't care if it makes me come off as easy or slutty or however anyone wants to label it, if it feels right, I'm gonna do it, and as many times in as many ways as I can.
If you feel comfortable enough in a matter of hours, days, weeks, months, or even years, it doesn't matter. Just be safe and go for it.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by brianlarry
She does let me occasionally stick a finger in there while going down on her. I lube the finger and ass up. She does it for me but doesn't seem to really love it. I've known several women who prefer anal to vaginal as the orgasm is stronger for them. I think she would be in that category if she ever let her self go. She has deep orgasms when I fuck her vaginally. She says I get all the way in their against her wall. I think she would feel this anally too. Oh well keep thinking
LOL.
Okay.
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I actively avoided them when I first joined Lush for the same reasons listed here.
But as an avid people-watcher, I find them intriguing. Anyone working on a sociological or psychological dissertation would have a field day, but I digress.
I rarely enter a chat room without subsequently laughing my ass off at the antics. Seriously, people come up with the craziest shit. But there's also good conversation to be had if you know how to pick up on the right cues and keep it going.
I enjoy the chat rooms, but I do understand why people are apprehensive about them. If you can separate yourself from all the bullshit that will surely come your way (as with any online social setting), then there's really a good time to be had in the chat rooms.
But as an avid people-watcher, I find them intriguing. Anyone working on a sociological or psychological dissertation would have a field day, but I digress.
I rarely enter a chat room without subsequently laughing my ass off at the antics. Seriously, people come up with the craziest shit. But there's also good conversation to be had if you know how to pick up on the right cues and keep it going.
I enjoy the chat rooms, but I do understand why people are apprehensive about them. If you can separate yourself from all the bullshit that will surely come your way (as with any online social setting), then there's really a good time to be had in the chat rooms.