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Dirty_D
Over 90 days ago
Pan Female, 47
0 miles · Ocala
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Quote by Masteratarms
I understand all of the comments and complaints ladies, but do you ever talk to your partner during sex and tell them what/how/where/ and when you like it? Just a thought!
This is another problem.
Many men take offense when you try to encourage, point out what you like better.
I had a bf who would use so much teeth that I literally bled, and was incredibly sore after. When I said something ("I like it when you use your teeth, just maybe not quite so much") he got very angry, told me that he would do it how he liked, and if I didnt like it then that was too bad. Sadly this attitude is a fairly common one, maybe not that extreme, but the "I know what I'm doing, I'm great at it because someone once told me so" attitude.
To a degree I think we create part of the problem. Because many men don't go down that often, we tend to heap praise on your heads as soon as you do. We are praising the action of gong down, rather then the actual process. So many men then think that the way they are doing it is right, it must be for the woman to have praised you so right? or they apply a one style fits all template to all women.
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Quote by DirtyMindedMan
Different definition of Lurker then. To me, a Lurker is someone who just kind of watches from the outside fringes, never joining in.
Comes from my days on the old UseNet (alt.soc...., alt.rec...., etc)
If they got a different definition of Lurker here, I didn't know about it.
I was a lurker for quite a while before I joined as well. My definition of the word was the same as yours, as I have only ever had this one identity.
Welcome to Lush, I hope you find what you are looking for here.
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Quote by overmykneenow
In the example you use "I was sat..." I can pretty much guarantee that a gerund or the past-participle of another verb is going to turn up pretty quickly, probably the next word - and it's more than likely going to be the most important verb of the sentence. In this case it's going to be something like - thinking, looking, discussing, wanking. For me "We were sat discussing... " is far more elegant than "We were sitting discussing..."
I think its what you are used to. Here in the states, you would pretty much never say "we were sat." in fact we would probably get marks off in class for writing it thus. Additionally, I find it sounds clunky. I much prefer "we were sitting."
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Quote by dpw
The big problem is we are all different and to be open you need trust. Trust doesn't come automatically, it grows and has to be earned. There's no way that you go out on a first date and say "I'm into fisting", you'll end up with a lot of first dates if it even lasts that long!
Once you've built up trust then you can introduce fantasies and fetishes but you have to encourage your partner to open up as well.
Another thing is you are rarely born with them, they develop and can change constantly. You can grow out of a fetish as easily as you can develop a new one. I think this will become more widespread through the internet, we have access to things we never knew existed and the more adventurous will want to try it.
For myself, I was very vanilla when I was young but grew to be willing to try out lots of kinks partners had. They may or may not have done anything for me but I've never been asked to do anything that I refused, although there are things that I wouldn't do.
well stated.
I do think that starting out vanilla when you are young is a very good thing. I cringe a little when I see posts by young people saying I am 18 and really into <insert extreme kink here> How do you really know if you havent fully experienced the vanilla also?
For myself, I started out pretty vanilla, now Im rather open to whatever, and love rainbow sherbet.
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Quote by eroticstoryreada
can u give me an example of what u mean?
what would u do after reading that?
I love it when you don't use real words, but rather a mixture of symbols. Who needs punctuation and grammar anyway? It makes me hot and ready to drop my panties immediately for any and all guys.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
No, I would not. Everyone is allowed some independence in their own relationship. Password protected social media is private domain. While I have nothing to hide, that's not really the point. I think there is greater trust in allowing your partner some privacy without feeling like you need to check up on them via their facebook, emails, cellphone logs, twitter etc. If you feel you need all those passwords, there is some basic level of trust that is already missing in the relationship. I wouldn't give up mine and I wouldn't want his.
Agreed.
I wouldn't want his password, and I can't see why he would want mine.
