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EDWolfe
11 hours ago
Bi-curious Male, 40
United States
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To be honest, I write the scenarios that get me off. But, as far as I'm concerned, it's all in my head, combined with all the situations I haven't written. So, no I don't read my stories to get off. But, I will sometimes picture the scenario in my mind, with embellishments that I haven't written in yet.
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I do have to agree with Kristind; labels aren't strictly necessary. Personally, I go with labels because it helps me to explain my position better. If I identify as a nudist, then I don't really have to explain that I like being nude around others, but not necessarily in a sexy situation and not where it can make people uncomfortable.
It's all in how you choose to identify, honestly. No one really has to label themselves.
It's all in how you choose to identify, honestly. No one really has to label themselves.
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We're getting to the point in the year where people start to look forward to vacations. During this time, my state begins to offer writer's conferences, where people like us who write can go to improve our craft. This makes me wonder: does anyone take the time and money to go to writer's conferences?
If you go to writer's conferences, what conferences do you go to? Why those conferences? Would you go to any others? If not, why not?
I've never been, mainly for financial reasons. If it was up to me, I'd try to go to Midwest Writers Workshop in Muncie, IN.
If you go to writer's conferences, what conferences do you go to? Why those conferences? Would you go to any others? If not, why not?
I've never been, mainly for financial reasons. If it was up to me, I'd try to go to Midwest Writers Workshop in Muncie, IN.
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Honestly, I think that someone's personality matters more than external appearance. After all, I've known people I thought were beautiful on the outside (and I was by far not the only one to agree), but I found that our personalities clashed (the ones I'm thinking of worked with me, so we spent a LOT of time together).
TPBM rents movies instead of watching them; no point in watching the same movie over and over again, right?
TPBM rents movies instead of watching them; no point in watching the same movie over and over again, right?
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I actually don't believe in Hell, personally. Even if I did, I don't know if it would be hot; after all, it's commonly accepted that Hell is the absence of God. A lot of people believe that Revelations 20:14 references Hell, of course. It all depends on your personal worldview.
Legend of Zelda is the best game series ever.
Legend of Zelda is the best game series ever.
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Are we counting people (not necessarily specific people, but people)?
If so:
A couple of woman companions, and a male companion, all bisexual preferably
Sunscreen
Condoms
Alcohol (specifically Mike's Hard, Smirnoff cocktails, good wine, etc.)
A couple decks of cards
If not:
Alcohol (see above)
Sunscreen
Books
Pens & paper (Hey, a guy's gotta write!)
A deck of cards.
If so:
A couple of woman companions, and a male companion, all bisexual preferably
Sunscreen
Condoms
Alcohol (specifically Mike's Hard, Smirnoff cocktails, good wine, etc.)
A couple decks of cards
If not:
Alcohol (see above)
Sunscreen
Books
Pens & paper (Hey, a guy's gotta write!)
A deck of cards.
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I think they're basically the same. It all depends on what you want to do. After all, each line's going to have their own amenities, and basically the same food, lodging, and entertainment.
As far as Carnival goes: that kind of thing's going to happen to whoever it happens to. Carnival just happened to get the short straw lately. But next time it could be Norwegian Cruise Lines. Or P&O. Or [Insert cruise line].
I think the better question is, "What do you want to do on your cruise?" Then just find the line that best supports that, and book.
As far as Carnival goes: that kind of thing's going to happen to whoever it happens to. Carnival just happened to get the short straw lately. But next time it could be Norwegian Cruise Lines. Or P&O. Or [Insert cruise line].
I think the better question is, "What do you want to do on your cruise?" Then just find the line that best supports that, and book.
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In my search for my spiritual path, I came across a concept that was basically a divine prostitute. (I don't know if that's the exact term for it, but the concept's there.) Basically, a divine prostitute is a therapist who does her healing with sex. This is supposed to be therapeutic for people who haven't been touched by others for a long, long time.
This is a concept that I have to admit I have problems with. I can see where it'd be useful, but the whole idea of sex being only a product someone offered is weird and disgraces the act. Doreen Valiente, a spiritual thinker, once wrote a Charge of the Goddess, which included the following phrase:
It seems to me that prostitution cheapens the sacred connection that sexual contact brings us. If it's possible, I find this worse. After all, you're paying these women to lay down next to you and cuddle. I can see a therapeutic side to this as well--touch may make a person who has been without friends or family feel loved--but it's simply greedy in my eyes. I wouldn't waste my money on this.
This is a concept that I have to admit I have problems with. I can see where it'd be useful, but the whole idea of sex being only a product someone offered is weird and disgraces the act. Doreen Valiente, a spiritual thinker, once wrote a Charge of the Goddess, which included the following phrase:
Quote by Doreen Valiente
[A]ll acts of love and pleasure are [the Goddess's] rituals.
It seems to me that prostitution cheapens the sacred connection that sexual contact brings us. If it's possible, I find this worse. After all, you're paying these women to lay down next to you and cuddle. I can see a therapeutic side to this as well--touch may make a person who has been without friends or family feel loved--but it's simply greedy in my eyes. I wouldn't waste my money on this.
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Yes I think everyone can answer yes to that.
I have to agree with these posts. After all, it's simply part of the human experience. In fact, this question is a big part of this thread, although not as strongly as to someone we meet in the flesh.
My biggest unrequited crush was a girl I knew off and on for five years. In fact, when we first met, I was actually crushing on her roommate (also an unrequited crush). The more we talked (we worked together for four of those years), the more I noticed that we shared. At the peak of my crush, however, I was in a relationship. When that ended, this girl was in a relationship (as far as I could tell) until we parted ways.
I lost contact when I moved back north, and now I can't even find her on Facebook. To me, that means one of two things: she got rid of her Facebook account, or she changed her name (i.e. got married). I would love to run into her again and catch up, even if nothing else could happen.
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That depends. I consider myself innocent of that one, because I didn't see anything. But a past roommate of mine did bring a girl back to our apartment (and shared bedroom; that's how they set us up at that college) to sleep with. Before they got into it, she pulled the sheet over them, so...
You have been watched having sex.
You have been watched having sex.
