Absolutely. I find M/M sex highly erotic. Hand jobs, frottage, fellatio, rimming, fingering, anal--it's all hot to me.
If it's very well-written and extremely erotic? Yes, sometimes.
To be honest though, I'm more interested in masturbating to certain taboos--which aren't allowed on LS--so I generally have to hunt for fap material eslewhere.
This girl would consider it if it were 1000% safe, sane, and consensual.
Honestly, one of my fantasies is to be surrounded by men (and maybe women, too!) and pleasured until I pass out. I have a major overstimulation kink and the idea of being sexually stimulated non-stop by multiple people makes me positively weak in the knees.
Gangrape is something else entirely. Sure, I may fantasize about it from time to time, but it's nothing something I'd ever truly want to happen, either to me or to anyone else.
If I was single? Absolutely. I'm pansexual so it doesn't really matter what sex my partners would be (though my ideal threesome would be with a man and a woman).
Honestly, a threesome is definitely on my bucket list, haha.
Depends on the age and the person.
I'm 26, and I'm perfectly alright with dating someone up to 20 years my senior as long as they're attrative, take care of themselves, and have a great personality.
Personal preference is that he comes inside of me or on my breasts.
I'm not into facials at all, but I'll bend every so often if that's something he really, really enjoys (and can aim it away from my hair, haha). Relationships are all about compromise, after all. :P
I tried reading the first novel a few years ago and I couldn't get into it. Quit halfway into it and never tried again. I do intend to watch the movie, though in all honesty I don't really have high expectations for it.
Even if I Could - Papa Roach
Can't Smile Without You - Barry Manilow
Queen of the Highway - The Doors
My Only My Own - Heather Dale
Never, but it's definitely on my bucket-list.
Kiss With a Fist - Florence + the Machine
I think most people associate M/M sex with anal play/penetration, when that's not the case at all. There are many gay men who don't enjoy anal sex, period. But I'm digressing. I think what it comes down to is ingrained social/gender expectations. Many people view men who do enjoy anal sex to be, well, effeminate-- and y'know how wrong that is (/sarcasm). Most men get uncomfortable or upset when their (either on an individual level, or in general) masculinity is threatened. So I guess when they see two men making out or having sex, they get defensive. They can't admit to finding it attractive because then, shit, what if that makes them gay? They're manly men, they can't BE gay (/sarcasm). There's such a stigma against being gay that fear is definitely a major contributor. I've always figured that gay men get a lot more shit than lesbians do. Not to say that lesbians don't have it rough, because they obviously do, but that the outrage about male homosexuality tends to be a lot more extreme (read: violent and vitriolic). The idea that men can't be sensitive or anything other than macho is so ingrained into our society that they get frightened when confronted with anything that might disprove that. And I think we can all agree that people tend to resent the things that make them afraid.
This doesn't account for all men, of course. Not the intelligent ones, anyway.
Many women also believe that men have certain obligations to fulfill. Many of them feel uncomfortable or disturbed by men who seem to contradict their traditional roles. Heck, they probably feel threatened by men who seem to be "vying" for the traditional woman's role, too, which probably accounts for why so many women are really turned off by it. They're (some of them) resentful.
As for why lesbianism is more socially acceptable... because heterosexual men find it hot. It doesn't threaten their masculinity in any way, and let's not forget how patriarchal our society (fuck it, our world) is. Society predominantly caters to what heterosexual men find attractive. And that's (scantily clad) women.
I'm pretty sure that when most guys watch or think about lesbian sex they mentally insert themselves into the picture. And that's A-OK. They get double the pleasure, and it's risk-free. Besides, women are such silly, sensitive, and whimsical creatures. They don't really know what it is they want. So it's fine if they play around with each other for a bit because eventually a "real" man will come along and show them how it's done and they'll be "cured". There's no such cure for guys, though. Once you go gay, you're never okay. (/sarcasm).
And wow, I ended up ranting a little. Um. This is just my opinion. I'm constantly reestablishing the way I view society, social constructs, and sexuality, so feel free to dispute any of it. I love observing other people's opinions on this subject. Oh, and do know that I'm not really speaking for all men or women. Just, y'know, the vast majority. I fully acknowledge that there are lots of intelligent heterosexual men and women out there, too.
As for what I personally find desirable: everything. I love m/m m/f, and f/f. There doesn't need to be a woman involved for me to find it arousing. I love men, and I love seeing them together.
ETA: Forgot to add that I'm only really referring to people who find the idea of M/M revolting. I don't think it's an issue if a man or woman just doesn't find it appealing/attractive (there's nothing wrong with that as long as you're not being an ass about it). It's when people start saying things like "OMG, it's so ~nauseating~" that I start side-eyeing them.
1. I'm Puerto Rican.
2. I'm a fandomer.
3. I feel very strongly about social justice (issues).
4. My family is HUGE.
5. I've broken my wrist while ice-skating, my leg after falling down the stairs, and my toe from attempting acrobatics on a park slide. I can't even count the number of times I've sprained joints-- particularly my ankle.
6. I have an awful sense of humor. It tends to be really inappropriate. Not to mention cheesy.
7. I'm a complete mama's girl.
8. I love cartoons/animated films. So much. They make me unbelievably happy.
9. My first "kiss" was given to me by a girl when I was in middle school. I freaked out. My second "kiss" was from a boy who I wasn't even interested in. I punched him. I like to pretend neither incidents happened.
10. I'm fascinated by dark, creepy things. I have no idea why. They're so cool, though. Guh, especially music. I love creepy, sinister music.
I have never had an awful break-up.
Calamity Song - Decemberists
No crushes in RL right now. Thank gosh. Last serious crush I had was on a guy-- just. I try not to think about it.
Hm. As for celebrity crushes... Jennifer Lawrence, Anne Hathaway, and Robert Downey Jr. And oh gosh, Jared Padalecki. He's just so big. And he has dimples. It's a major turn-on.
As for fellow Lushies...hm. Maybe one person? Don't know. As of right now I'm just a little intrigued, but it hasn't become a full blown crush or anything. I don't even think it can. *shrugs*
A foot massage. Too bad I'm so ticklish that I'd probably just end up kicking the masseuse in the face.
Sorry, but I'm commenting again.
Belthazor is awesome, period. He's unbelievably interesting, he has a neat sense of humor, and he seems genuinely kind. He's also a great conversationalist.
Also, if his avatar is anything to go by he has gorgeous eyes.
*slinks away*