Finding myself. And having a lot of meaningful and wild sex in the process.
Speaking in Tongues - Eagles of Death Metal
Agree. There's a huge difference between a little white lie ("No, dear, that dress does not make your ass look fat") and an actual lie (such as telling your wife you went to the market before getting home when in reality you stayed late because you were chatting up your intern). I think a lot of people call the latter "white lies" when they really aren't.
> Lies by omission aren't really lies at all.
Nope.
What's one interesting thing around you (within reaching distance)?
The Noose - A Perfect Circle (;D)
Nothing To Remember - Neko Case (:P)
You're Lost Little Girl - The Doors
Just Like Old Times - The Black and White Years
Down Boy - Yeah Yeah Yeahs
-Bigotry
-Small-mindedness
-Ignorance (and being too stubborn to educate yourself)
-People who take themselves too seriously
-People who take everything too seriously/have little sense of humor
-Arrogance/huge egos
-Insensitivity
-Impatience
-Incessant movement and chatter. This drives me crazy. I'm a very still person (unless I'm excited) and I just can't date someone who doesn't know how to relax and be quiet. Being energetic is awesome, don't get me wrong, but there're going to be problems if you're just wholly incapable of it sitting down and shutting up for five minutes.
-People who are too clingy. I'm all for being wanted, but I need some personal time, too.
-Bad hygiene, of course.
-Smoking. I'm not telling you not to, but I am telling you to keep that lit cancer stick away from me.
-People who are too loud (for example, my sister's bf is always yelling and speaking loudly). Drives me nuts.
-People who talk over me. I grew up with five siblings, okay? I'm done with having to scream over a dozen people just to be heard.
-Atrocious spelling and grammar/txt spk. This is a real turn-off.
-Ghetto-ness. I don't care what your ethnicity is, but if you act/speak really ghetto you immediately lose appeal to me.
-People who like to play mind games/test people. I can't stand this.
-Dishonesty
-Cheaters
-Liars
-Whining
-Nagging
-Bad manners
-Severe cynicism
-Short tempers
-Greediness/selfishness
-A ridiculous amount of facial hair. Men have to keep that beard short and neatly trimmed (if they have one, and I'd rather they didn't) and as sexist as this is I would never be able to date a woman who had a lot of facial hair (brows and lashes exempted), either. Sorry.
-An excessive amount of chest/back hair is also a huge turn off.
-Possessiveness/controlling tendencies
-Serious jealousy issues
-People who are absolutely gross. And I mean dirtying the toilet or shaving and not bothering to clean up after themselves, etc.
Touch Me and I Think I'm Going to Scream - My Morning Jacket
Northern lights.
Discovering a great book vs. a night of great sex?
It Doesn't Have To Be Beautiful - Slow Club
Helping people is always commendable.
Evil Night Together - Jill Tracy
The Devil is in the Details - The Chemical Brothers
At the Other End of the Leash - The Paper Chase
I don't have a favorite song, but I will probably never get tired of:
Pinch Me - Barenaked Ladies
You're The Voice - John Farnham
Blue and Yellow - The Used
Don't Fear the Reaper - Blue Oyster Cult
Enter Sandman - Metallica
Just One Thing - My Morning Jacket