I love cuddling. Before sex. After sex. When sex is not possible or convenient. Any time is good cuddle time. I love being caressed, and caressing my "cuddle-buddy". He can caress my head, my shoulders, my arms, my thighs, I hope he doesn't overlook my breasts ... but cuddling is an art, a show of affection that is not overtly sexual, but can be very sexy and flirty.... I love cuddling my men by rubbing their legs, maybe rubbing their hands if they've been working hard, rubbing their feet... I like my cuddling to end up being partly visual, too --- if the situation allows it, I'll unbutton or take off my shirt or blouse to let us both see my breasts in his hands, to let us both watch my nipples react to his tender touch.... If the time and place are right, I'll take his cock out and just hold it, gently running my fingers up and down its length ... maybe letting his cockhead gently rub my nipples ... I'll play with him softly and gently with a very light touch... cuddling like this can go on and on and on.......my current bf loves it when we sit down to watch a movie, and I say I want to cuddle.....

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I, too, like a slow entry. I love to feel my pussy parting, accepting him inch by inch. I love to feel how slippery I am as he glides gently into me, expanding my cunt, stretching me. Then he angles himself in, fitting himself to me. And once he's in nice and deep, I like to squeeze my muscles together and slide up and down ever so slightly, fitting me to him. Ahhhh, I love the sensation of the smile that spreads across my face as this is happening...pure bliss.

so true -

AND I love the smile that slides across his face when he's slowly filling me up..... Those first few penetrations I prefer to be slow and deliberate - him probing to see how deep he's in, me squeezing my "pussy muscles" as my current bf calls them -- nomatter how many times we do it, he smiles when he slides in slowly... then he can pound away if he's in the mood, or I am --- or he can just do a slow, lazy hour long fuck ..... regardless, the in-and-out at the beginning is wonderful, and the follow-up is just as nice at any speed....

I hope it wasn't my last one....

I like natural scents - I think that "Mother Nature" has added in a bunch of pheremones and other little aromas on purpose... but there is a difference between being clean and smelly rank putrid -- You can go days withour a shower or bath and smell just fine - just observe "common sense" hygiene: if you've spilled something organic on yourself that will ferment, rinse it off. When you take a dump, make sure you get all the poop off the hair. If you have been sweating a lot, my biology friends say some people's sweat can start fermenting yeast and stuff and and grow bacteria it shouldn't - just rinse off in water. Even cavepeople did stuff like that.

I watch movies - like "Game of Thrones" or one of the Viking sagas - and wonder if people in those conditions really reeked..... I can't imagine going up to a Viking or a knight from Winterfell and starting a blowjob, just to find out he's been fucking girls (and guys?) left and right for weeks and hasn't washed .... not exactly something I want to put in my mouth...

But I've been camping, me and my friends no showers for days, just a simple rinse - and "things" smell fine - sometimes even sexy and manly.....

hmmmm....

Why not? If he isn't "put off" by my taste and scent, I certainly am not. I love it!

I've read the reports, and believe them. I always feel great after sex - and the more, the better I feel. On the flip side, if for some ungodly reason I go a week or so without getting laid and receiving some cum, I feel my mood depressing a bit, even when I should be very happy. There is just so much we don't know about our own biochemistry - and I love to experiment! In my experience I think I get great benefit from just touching it - if a handjob ejaculation ends up on my chest, I rub it in (or let him rub it in). (This is not advisable if you're out at a fancy place or in public, of course, or going home after a hot date - other people including your parent are sure to recognize the aroma of "fun". Taking it in the mouth and swallowing is a favorite, and I find that my mood is kept up if I can at least give a few blowjobs each week. Its best when you know that the guy or guys receive from are clean and dependable - steady boyfriends (even more than one steady boyfriend) are great.

Bottom line - keep that cum cumming, and stay happy.

Interesting dialog I had many more times than once in highschool with my mother:

I come home after a date, or come down the next morning for breakfast, and I get a comment .." you sure seem happy! Did you have a good time" - and I know I look happy because I have a nice smile and a bonce in my step - and I know darn well that my mother suspects that I was availing myself of a penis and cum on my date. Never got any serious flak or criticism, just "Its so nice to see you happy! But don't get too distracted with (insert latest boy infatuation name). You have to keep up the good grades!"

As far as I am concerned now, my willingness to keep my guy friends' penises "up" helped me keep my grades up.

Oh, yes.... I certainly have. Some guys just have a magic touch.

I think you need a place of your own, where you know that no one is looking over your shoulder. Then, you have to get over the feeling that you need someone's approval to look at pretty girls. Those girls in the links are all gorgeous - they and the publisher expect you to like them! If your mother or relatives somehow disapprove of you looking at girls - especially at your age - then I would posit that the problem you have is that you've let them determine your sexual development.

I hope at your age that you've had a girlfriend, and have been on the receiving and giving end of some great kissing and exciting fondling - and that hopefully you've had a girl bring you to orgasm with a handjob or blowjob. Hopefully you've had sex, too.

Get your own place, move out, think of the girls you know who are friendly to you and pursue those friendships. Don't be a stalker, but drop some hints that you are interested in some good fun. If the girls know you as being shy, maybe they'll also know that your mother has been domineering to the point that you are missing out on so much. You might just already know a girl who's been waiting for you to emerge on your own, and maybe you'll get a "welcome to the world outside your mother's influence" blowjob - a welcome to a nice level of friendship.

Sometimes you're at a party or gathering of friends, and its like being at a candy store where samples are offered: you just can't help but join in ...

My current roommate and I each have boyfriends, and all 4 of us know that the relationships are fun and probably temporary and sort of on a day-to-day basis - no engagements, no ties, no binds. We have exchanged partners and have had 4somes (both especially during the early days of covid) and have had a blast. We all think it has kept us "young" and alive and enjoying life. But we all know that one of these days, one of us will meet someone ... and not be willing to share or be shared. All's fair -

Little lies raise red flags. The reason for the lie is not nearly as important as the lie itself - if the truth is a problem, then there are a lot of problems.

Watch him, maybe warn him, but be ready to dump him (or get dumped first).

Very young - 13 or 14 - I started with hairbrush handles. Nice and smooth and you could put a little crisco or something on them and they got very slippery. At the beginning of my oral phase - moved on to fruits and veggies. Peeled cucumbers were always a hit, and I found bananas OK as long as my vagina was really lubed - or else the babanas just crushed and mushed. After I started having vaginal sex with guy friends, I was at a backyard picnic one afternoon, and had "evil thoughts" about a buttered ear of corn. Warm and slippy and tasty - I grabbed one and walked into the woods with my bf. I told him what I wanted to do, and he helped. It was incredible. After I came, he really enjoyed "butter-flavored Erin", and he got a nice quick bj. I still use an ear of corn now and then, but now I can also afford toys that vibrate and pulse, and I have a bf who has come equipped with my favorite toy.

In high school, camping with a few other couples. My bf and I were going at it fast and furious doggy style - and my pussy began letting out some enormous and loud queefs. I knew that the other couples were also in the middle of their fun in their tents, but these, on top of the normal sounds of sex, were very loud, and wet sounding. We heard chuckles and giggles from the tents nearby, and an "Oh my God, Erin!" from one. Embarrassing.

The Code is real - unwritten, but real, and understood by anyone with a sense of decency.

There are ways to deal with things if you get the hots for a friend's man, or vice versa if you're a guy. OTOH, gay guys I know have their own code, and it seems to be that everyone is fair game all the time (except for a few very committed relationships.)

You like a friend's bf or husband? Generally, its best to just suck it up and move on - if you get a guy to cheat on his wife or girlfriend, it is not really an accomplishment - and a guy who cheats on your friend is probably going to cheat on you, too. Put your feelings in a locked mental box for a day when maybe you can act on them... but keep them locked up until then. If your target guy and his wife or gf break up, wait a decent amount of time before you swoop in - an maybe even let your friend know - after their breakup is final and complete and set in cement and carved in stone - that you want to "see" her ex. Nothing will rise to the surface and wreck a friendship faster than suspicion that you are the reason for the breakup.

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A thread starter from 2012 got its first response in 2022? 🤣 That's gotta be some kind of record.

Some questions are ageless .... lol.

I love looking through the stuff from "way back when" -- a lot of interesting questions from 10 or more years ago. Politically and socially so much has changed.

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Faye Reagan - a redhead....now there's a big surprise...

Oh yes! When I was young - too young to say how young - some girl friends and I found some of her videos online - and I was fascinated by her! Loved her boobs, loved the way she moved, loved watching her get fucked, and loved the way she just took charge of a cock, and swallowed. Not that I ever wanted to be a porn star, but I wanted to be like her in the way she "did sex". So many girls at that age were like "OMG - gross " when they talked about sex with older sisters or friends who'd done it. When I got to high school and started getting into guys, Faye was a mentor.

I know she developed some drug issues, and did some really crappy porn in Japan, but I would love to know what's happened to her. I've been to Nevada a few times, and have driven through what used to be her hometown (Pahrump) - and always hoped that maybe I'd see her. Hasn't happened.

This is a tough one. Human nature can be a real bitch, and I don't think you can ever win against her.

I think the only time that FWB can really truly work is when the friendship is very temporary - like someone you meet on a vacation trip you never expect to see again. I've had a few guys in my life like that - twice when on trips with my parents, and a few trips with friends in college. You meet someone, you click, you spend a little time getting to know them, then you "scratch each others' itches" ... for a week or 10 days or a few weeks - whatever. But you know it has a time limit...

The worst attempts at FWB are when you promote a guy from the "friend zone" to the FWB zone -- the promotion happened because you like the guy, and FWB is almost, by definition, 100% casual no-strings sex. That doesn't happen with friends, because friends develop feelings, and feeling develop into affection and love, while the FWB is just lust (which is GREAT, don't get me wrong). I promoted a friend from high school (great friend, no sex, just one of those "you can talk about anything" type of guys) from the friend zone into the FWB zone in college (on a trip to visit home). It was great from a while, but then the feelings started growing, and he was getting jealous that I enjoyed the sex but didn't want him to be a real boyfriend. Wrecked a very nice friendship for a while. We've recovered a bit, but it is still awkward sometimes.

Friends are friends, lovers are lovers, fuck buddies are fuck buddies - and those statuses really can't change easily. (and by that, I mean that I think that moving a guy from a true, really good friend status to FWB status is actually a downgrade . Good friends are hard to come by, and sometimes hard to keep because we all travel around and relocate so much these days. Finding a guy who's a good fuck is simple, and they're all over the place. The guy you move into the FWB zone might have wanted you for a long time, and you probably thought something like "its only a blowjob or handjob", or maybe "just one quick fuck won't be a problem". Well, for friends, it changes everything. And not usually for the better.

Take a biology course.

College for me, and my summers as a lifeguard topped the list.

Why would I not want him to know?

If I'm wearing a revealing top, someone better notice them !! Depending on who it is who notices, and where we are, what happens next can be either a flirty smirky smile, a movement to let them see a little bit more, or maybe I just walk up and say hello and take it from there.

He was 17, a family friend, and I was a bit younger (but still a teenager). I think I'll have to write a short story about it.

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For practical reasons I would rather go back to the party or club with the smell of cum on my breath than splodges of it in my hair or on my clothes.

Apart from that I enjoy swallowing and it's very sexy knowing your breath smells of cum, and a great time to have a quick snog with another girl

So true. I almost always swallow.

Pop a mint if you have to, remember the fun of the bj and enjoy the party! Maybe you'll get to give another one!

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i'll echo this...i personally love a man who can cum alot but a great fuck will always be remembered.

Absolutely! This is funny - most guys don't really seem to care about how much they cum, as long as they cum. But they love it when I tell them they put a huge load in me! After sex, most guy don't head into the bathroom with me when I go to do a little clean out - and I usually notice if a huge load or just a little deposit comes out -- but from behind a closed door, or on the way back to bed, regardless of what was in me, I'll smile and say something like "Wow!! You must have put a quart into me! That was awesome!!". The look on the guy's face is priceless - apart from having just had sex, you've told him he's a major cummer - and guys seem to like that.

Whether he knows it or not, chances are he's seeing what I'm letting him see. If I'm dressed in a blouse that allows some visual access, I expect to be looked at.

Every now and then, though, it really is an accidental peek - I usually smile, and then what I do next depends on the guy and my gut feel. sometimes its creepy and I cover up and protect myself, but sometimes, if its an innocent thing, I laugh it off as I say something like " oops. sorry about that" and laugh some more. You can make some good friends that way - the ones that don't take advantage and make you feel weird are the ones that might be nice guys and good potential friends.

yummmmmm

The very pedestrian cock in the mouth and cock in the vagina is always a winner for me. Whether I'm on hands and knees getting it doggy style, or sitting on a cock and sucking the other, or sucking on both when in 69 with one of the guys and the other is next to him ....

I guess, though, the absolute favorite is me on all fours, getting it doggy style. The guys can switch ends real fast and keep me going for a long time.

Depends on him and his "technique". I personally love it if I'm top and hover my opening just over the tip of his cock, maybe letting it part my lips, but no more.... then letting it be flat on his belly and rubbing my pussy along its length .... after a few minutes of that, I become INTENSELY AWARE of the empty volume in my pussy, and slowly slide down his cock until he's all in. That feeling is just ... delightful.

From the other perspective, I love it when he teases the entrance of my vagina . maybe a half inch, pull out, then another half-inch foray, then back out, then maybe an inch or two - and we're talking and kissing during this ... I get that same "fill me up" feeling ... if he's any good, he senses it and slides in, or plunges in... whatever .... no better feeling in the world at that moment....

I enjoy flirting, and everyone does it, whether they say so or not. That being said, flirting is fun and can be exciting as long as it stays as only flirting. Its way too easy to go one step too far into seduction -- and that step really depends on the guy you're flirting with. For that reason - the uncertainty of how far you can go in fun - I am very leery of flirting with married guys (or even engaged or serious relationship guys). I do not want to be the reason for a breakup.

One of my favorite guys to flirt with is the father of a good friend - he's married, and his wife is great! She enjoys having me around - she has told me that when I'm at their house, the hubby sort of comes to life and seems happier. We flirt, and he's in a good mood. His wife is well aware. Its just a "personal chemistry" thing - he knows that I'm off limits for the most part, and I won't try and seduce him. Won't happen, and they both know it.

Love the big cummers, but they seem to be few and far between in my circle of friends. Handling a "firehose" is a lot of fun!

added: But from what I have been learning, that isn't something that the guy has a lot of control over. I just totally enjoy the "art of the bj" and am thankful I like giving them and love the special treat I get for my efforts. Every guy is different - they all have different cum volumes, some squirt far, some dribble, some like being in my mouth when the cum, some like watching it squirt into my mouth, some taste delicious leaving me wanting more right away, and some are not that tasty and I'll wait a bit before doing them again ( but not too long. A mint of cup of tea or cocoa goes a long way to washing a off-flavor away). One thing for certain - guys LOVE to be praised about their cocks and cum, so they always hear how big and hard they are, how much they filled my mouth that I could barely keep it all in, how delicious it is, etc etc etc. I think they have a great time when they think Im having a great time (unless they're just nasty and mean. Thos guys never get an encore, and might not even get a completed bj the first time. )

But - there truly are "big cummers" and walking firehoses. When I find one of them, I love it! And his name gets a special code in my personal notes.