I enjoy flirting, and everyone does it, whether they say so or not. That being said, flirting is fun and can be exciting as long as it stays as only flirting. Its way too easy to go one step too far into seduction -- and that step really depends on the guy you're flirting with. For that reason - the uncertainty of how far you can go in fun - I am very leery of flirting with married guys (or even engaged or serious relationship guys). I do not want to be the reason for a breakup.

One of my favorite guys to flirt with is the father of a good friend - he's married, and his wife is great! She enjoys having me around - she has told me that when I'm at their house, the hubby sort of comes to life and seems happier. We flirt, and he's in a good mood. His wife is well aware. Its just a "personal chemistry" thing - he knows that I'm off limits for the most part, and I won't try and seduce him. Won't happen, and they both know it.

Love the big cummers, but they seem to be few and far between in my circle of friends. Handling a "firehose" is a lot of fun!

added: But from what I have been learning, that isn't something that the guy has a lot of control over. I just totally enjoy the "art of the bj" and am thankful I like giving them and love the special treat I get for my efforts. Every guy is different - they all have different cum volumes, some squirt far, some dribble, some like being in my mouth when the cum, some like watching it squirt into my mouth, some taste delicious leaving me wanting more right away, and some are not that tasty and I'll wait a bit before doing them again ( but not too long. A mint of cup of tea or cocoa goes a long way to washing a off-flavor away). One thing for certain - guys LOVE to be praised about their cocks and cum, so they always hear how big and hard they are, how much they filled my mouth that I could barely keep it all in, how delicious it is, etc etc etc. I think they have a great time when they think Im having a great time (unless they're just nasty and mean. Thos guys never get an encore, and might not even get a completed bj the first time. )

But - there truly are "big cummers" and walking firehoses. When I find one of them, I love it! And his name gets a special code in my personal notes.

I like so much about it. Sometimes the taste and texture are a bit "off", but they are far outweighed by the intimacy, the "naughtiness", the act of sharing and consumption.... I sometimes feel, especually with guys I really like, that they're letting me consume part of their bodies and carrying that with me forever. That started when I was younger and had just started sucking and swallowing - I could be on a "date". I often liked to give my dates a "start the evening bj" just to keep things calmer during the date, but let them know that I didn't consider sex a "reward" - I considered it a gift, and one that was often given more than once during a date. Anyway - I used to get the biggest kick out of going out and doing stuff with people, knowing that I had a bellyfull of cum. It was especially fun when I brought a guy home for a dinner or picnic or cookout, or I'd go to his house - and we'd be there, talking with family, and I'd know I had a belly full of his cum in me. THAT was fun (still is, btw). Although it doesn't really matter to me where a friend cums, I just enjoy being part of the process. If its my vagina, or my hands, or my mouth or even my tiny boobs that cause a guy to cum, I love being part of it, and his cum is just a nice part of the event! I usually swallow, and I usually enjoy the taste to the point that I play with it in my mouth, or make a little devotional process of licking it off his penis or belly or wherever -- it is a nice substance and a nice gift.

In college I went hiking and camping in Vermont with my boyfriend, and over the course of several hours of hiking and "taking breaks", he came 5 times, split between my pussy and my mouth. We slept very well that night after his last ejaculation of the day into my mouth. Ahhhhh - memories.

Inside me after some really nice lovemaking or good physical fucking. After that - in my mouth is always a treat for me.

Personally, I would just continue to enjoy the "cyber relationship". I would not ever give name and address to someone I only knew via web cam. I do have a friend I've known personally since I was in grade school who now lives in southeast asia - and he and I, once in a while, will do a little cyber play. But I know him, and he knows my name and address.

If he were a "stranger", and wanted to send that gift to me, it would have to be anonymously. The best way I can think of is for you to set up a UPS box (not USPS). You need to use your real name to set it up, but the street address for delivery is not your address, and I suppose you could just use your initials or even a nickname when he sends his "package" to you. You might want to send a few test packages to yourself to see how far you can truncate your real name. It will cost some monthly rental, but thats about the only way to be even close to anonymous, other than having it sent to a friend....

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I think I'd just like to see what it's like to have an erection. It's always fascinated me how a guy can go from soft to hard, and get so much bigger than when he's not erect. Then I'd like to feel what it's like to stroke that big hard dick and make it cum! mmm

Ditto on the stroking! I would personally love to know why it is that some guys look, sound and act like they're in such pain when they cum - yet they keep on coming back to us to do it again for them! I love feeling their cocks pulse and pump when they ejaculate - I would love to know how that feels from the other side.

If I stick with a boyfriend, it means that I am enjoying sex with him. That being said, I guess a case could always be made for more staying power, maybe faster recovery time. Maybe - doubling or tripling (or even more) the volume of cum could be fun. Most of the guys I have been with all cum with about the same amount, which is fine. There was one guy in college, though - he shot at least 3x the amount of other guys I knew - It was fun - delicious fun.

Happened a bunch of times in college. Wake up with friend on Saturday morning, have "good morning " sex. Go out to lunch with someone else - have "afternoon delight" sex. Go on a dinner/dancing/partying date with someone else on Saturday night - have sex a few times before going to bed. Of course - you have to shower and clean up after each time, be nice to the guys.

I'm hoping that if I ever wake up, and realize that my equipment has been changed out, that my cock would be attractive, not too big (let's say 7 inches and on the thick side, smooth, straight and circumcised). I'd also hope that along with the new equipment would come a very healthy libido and attraction to females, with absolutely no problems getting up and hard and staying that way for an hour or so.

First thing that morning - jerk off. Then, shower and jerk off again. Walk around my apartment naked, getting a "feel" for it.

Then, I'd go out. And get laid. And get lots of blow jobs. I'd probably call some girls I knew (from back when I was a girl) that I know liked to give bjs and handjobs and fuck -- and have some fun.

He'd hate to hear that she and I were no longer friends. She has a new boyfriend, and the four of us get together once in a while. I think he'd love to have a threesome, but that has not happened (yet. lol. Maybe it will).

We've been good friends since before my b/f knew either of us. We've shared a lot of stories and a few travel adventures, but he's the first guy we've shared. I was NOT the reason they broke, which is a good thing.

Great question! The problem is, though, that as soon as some particular trait of a guy becomes an attractor for me, it becomes sexy. And I don't mean sexy as in "let's go someplace and fuck or make love...". No. To me, sexy is "I like you so much I want to be with you. I'm making a choice to be with you and not anyone else".

Lots of guys have traits I admire, but sometimes a particular trait or mannerism inspires me to want to keep getting to know this person more and more.

Its a voracious thing, liking someone. You meet, and pretty quickly decide (whether or not you realize it) that you accept or reject allowing this guy any further into your personal space. Lots of men we know in business and school and the rest of the real world fall into this category - we have met them, assessed them and decided that a friendly but arms-length distance is as close as they get, while some enjoin us to reject and repel any approach from - any distance is too close.

The guys we like, though, have something we're attracted to. The way they look at us, the way they listen and engage in conversation and share ideas, share vulnerabilities, share dreams, share privilege -- all these things are attractors, at least for me. And attractors keep drawing me in, closer and closer, getting to know the person until some limit is reached. That limit is the fork in the road of friendship - for guys, one branch takes you to a place of physical intimacy with me (zone 1), sex, love, being a fuck-buddy, whatever. Another branch puts you in the "friend zone", a place guys apparently do not like, especially if they wanted to sleep with me. Actually, though, guys in my "friend zone" will enjoy a life-long deep friendship with me if they want. There are some pretty high barriers to entering the "friend zone" - and those are the attractors of trust, respect, admiration, etc. I admit that for several of my "friend zone" male friends, my pussy sometimes moistens when we get together, but I know (from my experience of being a girl in a male friend's "friend zone" - I turned a wonderful friendship physical and ruined it) that there is no zone jumping. A third branch is the one taken by very few, and I have not been on it and no one has been on mine yet. It is the one that is taken by your life partner - husband, wife, whatever you want to call it. Those people have and deserve a special status. They are where they are because of their commitment to you, combined with trust, love, sex, and everything else. Being unique in your life, they get unique treatment - they get 100% of you.

For me, guys in zone 1 get friendship and sex, and a relationship that may or may not ever really go anywhere.

Guys in zone 2 will have me as a friend, companion, confidante, sounding board, safe harbor - whatever - forever, if they want. There just won't be much (or any) physical intimacy involved.

My zone 3 is currently empty - I do not have a husband or a life companion, yet. And I'm not looking for one, although I do know that one might wander into my life at any time.

Definitely.

Absolutely gorgeous!!!

I think it all depends on who you are watching it with, and if its just a cozy time at home, or leading up to or at some sort of party or get-together. If I'm with a guy I like and we're watching porn, then sex is probably part of the relationship. Chances are very good that I'll have my head in his lap, his dick in my mouth, and we'll be watching some hot girls do multiple guys or something.

I like most kinds of porn EXCEPT male gay porn - I just don't get a warm and sexy feeling watching it. Also not a big fan of anything violent. Lesbian porn is OK, but I like it better when a guy is involved at some point, so I suppose what I like is bi-girl bi-girl stuff.

Favorite genres are simple MF sex, FMF and MFM threeways, group sex and gang bangs and blow bangs (like some of Faye Reagan's early work). I absolutely LOVE watching a girl give a GOOD blowjob, like the ones I give. Not having had any stepbrothers, a germ of an intimate fantasy always heats up when I watch one of those vids where the girl takes care of her shy stepbrother or cousin...it makes me wonder if I would ever be tempted. Every now and then, I really enjoy watching an underwater blowjob - love to watch the cum float out of the girl's mouth and slowly drift away. Having done this several times with friends on dive trips, it really is a lot of fun, and something unique to enter into your Dive Log.

Not a big fan of blowjobs that end up as facials or with the cum just squirting everywhere. I don't like facials, and think that giving a nice bj and then not swallowing at the end is just anti-climactic. I also don't like noisy, gagging, choking girls giving bjs - that seems violent and forced, and I personally fast-forward through or turn off those performances.

While I think glory holes at sex clubs and adult stores are inherently dangerous, I have played in them at a couple of private parties and at a sorority house - the "herd" of guys at the private parties and sorority house was known and controlled, so fairly safe. That being said, I have enjoyed watching many of the glory hole girl videos - the anonymity of the sex could be enthralling - the ultimate "no strings" sex.

Bukkake - yuck. What a waste of cum in my opinion, but some of my friends get a kick out of it. I like the variation where the guys all cum in a cup and the girl drinks it at the end - similar to bukkake and just as much fun for the girl up front, but then the cum isn't wasted at the end.

The first porn start I really watched (meaning, the one with lots of free downloads) was Faye Reagan. An older cousin and her boyfriend showed me her - and I just fell in love with her - funny personality, great boobs, awesome talent at sucking cocks, I watched her videos a lot and used her as one of my "professors". Since then, I have greatly enjoyed Beverly Lynn (funny, mostly soft porn - great figure - but also a few hard porn vids. Crissy Cox is another one -- beautiful girl, great figure - I could have fun with her as a neighbor. I'm not terribly comfortable with the sex with family members that happens in some of her themes, but a few of them do scratch at fantasies. Then there are Nicky Mist, Riley Reid, Karlie Montana - and the list goes on.

Well, I know I strayed a little, but I'm sitting here waiting for a few students to come online for tutoring ....

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Not specifically, but I sometimes am overwhelmed by the desire to give a blowjob; and completion is part of that, whether or not it is in my mouth. (Not that I've had the chance in a long while...)

Totally agree. I love cum, love it when a friend cums for me, love to swallow it. But I can't say I crave the substance. I crave the activity that produces it.

Absolutely. Other than being the kind of romantic love that forms between people, a casual friendship with some benefits is wonderful.. A few of my FWB guys have moved on, many will be with me for years. Some were just "regular" friends with me since I was young, and then there was that moment or place where you look at each other and have that "what the hell" moment, and you kiss, and then introduce the benefits ...

I have small breasts, and at first (young teenager) was always jealous of the girls who could put on a real boob show: they could those breasts bounce and juggle and sway, and it was fishing for boys (and some girls!) with live bait - almost guaranteed catch your prey! As a young girl in middle school and highschool, I saw plenty of naked girls in our showers with bodies that guys would go to the ends of the Earth for. My boobs were A cups, and grew only slowly to what they are now.

I have gorgeous, firm, pert B cups, and I love them. I will never have lower back problems, almost never wear a bra, and when I'm older I will not be able to nurse a snake when I'm standing = my breasts will still be pert and firmer than most., and probably not encased in a bra.

Since I lacked the live bait of the C and D cup girls in high school, I had to learn how to use the gifts I had.

And I've never felt like I was getting the short end of the stick - all the guys I've been with (some of whom who like smaller breasts ) have been awesome to me and for me, and have never made me feel "less than" because of my B cups. I love them, and apparently so do lots of guys.

Nothing is wrong with guys who like breasts like mine -

and there is no way in hell that I don't feel like I'm not getting the love I deserve or need .... I am as "fully booked" as I want to be

Outdoors is awesome - and being seen by someone? If they keep watching, my friend and I must be doing something right!

I;m particularly a fan of sex on beaches, boats and camping ....

The same as with downblouse boob shots - there are really very very few accidents. They are almost all well-planned and executed - when I was a young teenager, girlfriends and I used to practice in front of a mirror and each other with different blouses, skirts and poses. If we want you to see boobs or pussy, we often make you think its an accident. Best part is watching a guy realize what he can see and seeing him sneaking around to jockey for a better view.....

It is a huge turn-on, and a great reason to see him again! Very (VERY) few guys I know like to do that, although some make a big show about putting some cum on their tongue and "loving it" - I guess its like the girls who don't swallow. Can't figure that out.

Only seen that on porn, and my reaction is ...."NO WAY!!! Why would a guy do such a hideous thing to a gorgeous penis? I mean - I guess it adds a little bit of novelty to the situation, but I love the way cocks look in their natural state, the way they feel, the way they behave ..... I see the attached hardware as simply making it look different. It certainly isn't making it any better....

Just rent a van with a few other couples and have lots of sex on the road! I drove to Illinois from Boston with my bf and 2 other couples in a van in college - had at least one orgasm and gave a handjob or blowjob in every state along the way. The group got to know each other pretty well by the end of the trip .... It was a great ride!

Not married, but I would welcome the discussion about parameters and boundaries. As a single woman, I've had 3somes and 4somes, and have really enjoyed them. If I ever get married and hubby wants to try an FMF or MFM, I'd consider it, as long as certain things about trust and commitment were made clear up front. I know 3somes are fantasies for most guys - I wouldn't want to pour cold water on a dream or wish and risk him going outside the marriage for some thrills.....as long as I know he isn't going to get jealous or be upset when he sees me enjoying a fuck or sucking on another guy - jealousy happens and it is hard to get past it....

I've been in a few threesomes, and, for the most part, they are fun and absolutely wonderful - a full sensual experience.

That being said, I have learned a few things - but they are all from the female side, so pretend I'm your wife who has talked to an experienced girlfriend.

I'm assuming that she is adventurous and curious, and has no idea how she's going to feel - and neither do uoi. It definitely sounds like you're 100% into this, and are in "negotiations" with her....

1. Decide whether or not the other guy will be a friend of yours, or hers, or a mutual friend, or a stranger. (I would personally pick a mutual friend).

2. Are you going to watch, and "dive in" occasionally, or do you want her to have both cocks at once (and is this what she wants?) (Personal note: my first 3some, I was 17, it was my bf and his college roommate. Roomie walked in on us as I was giving a bj - there had been some alcohol involved, there was a little embarrassment, and then I suggested that the roomie strip and we have a little fun. I thought I was going to just suck them both off, but it slowly and gradually and stealthily went father - until I found that I had the roomie in my mouth and bf in my vagina. I was incredibly turned on, and said I wanted to switch back and forth -- we kept switching back and forth - I loved having them both and eventually took both cumshots in my mouth. But - here's where your wife might hit a bump: I was very used to my bf and his cock and rhythm abd technique - loved everything about him - but the roomie also had a nice cock, and the way he used it gave me a totally new fuck sensation - so after I finished them both off the first time and we had a few miutes to relax, I presented "myself" to roomie for round 2 - and I let him do me doggie and cowgirl and missionary, with the bf coming in for a quick "visit", but for the most part "round 2" was way more than half getting the roomie in there..... I loved the feeling of the "new" cock. So naturally, after we finished up and bf & I went out to a club, I got the sense that bf was upset and jealous that I had paid too much attention to the roomie. Everything turned out OK after I let him know that it was just the novelty, and that if we ever did a FMF 3some, I would fully expect him to focus a lot on the other girl. - the warning is that you can't start playing favorites, and for you - you can't be jealous if your wife turns out to like the other guys' cock, and wants to spend time really playing with it.)

3. She has to know that the arrangement is for hers and your enjoyment, and that you trust her. Emotions and feelings are funny things - and I can only guess that being in a 3some and being married is playing with dynamite. Be careful. I'm single, have an occasional bf, and a few guys I consider really good friends who are also occasional fuck buddies. I also have several guy friends who a wonderful "best friends" who I won't have sex with, because I know sex can ruin friendships, too. So - if the guy you choose is a mutual friend, you have to trust him to know that the 3some is just "playtime" and that your wife is YOUR wife and not his girlfriend.....

4. You have to accept that your wife might actually really enjoy the feeling of the different cock, and ask to have the threesome repeat many times, or even try it with other guys and you .... you have to be strong in your relationship with her, and trust her ....

My adventure with my college bf and his roommate led to the 3 of us having a good number of threesomes that year - I really got used to the feeling and liked it.... and got jealous when the roomie met a girl he liked romantically and ended our 3some!

I'm single, and I think they're a lot of fun with the right people - but there's a lot to be careful about.

One question for you - how will you handle it if your wife wants to see you guys do each other? Will you suck his cock? Let him suck you? That might ne a fantasy of hers.... not me - when I'm with 2 (or 3 guys - yikes) I want full 100% attention of them and their cocks in/on me, not each other. Thats just me....

mmmm "...just once, for old time's sake?" LOL. Yes, of course I have. I have one particular ex that is still really a great friend - we had wonderful a affair but were just too different in too many ways to be a long-sting couple: we had bcome a couple i high school because everyone "expected us" to - we were physically a very attractive couple, with a few things in common- so we dated and eventually started having sex. That sort of sealed the deal for a while - we were a "normal" couple doing "normal" things together that felt really good. I think we both knew all along that we would not be a long-term couple, but the relationship saved us from having to worry about the whole "dating thing" in high school and for my first year in college - we liked each other, and loved fucking each other.

The reasons we split are many - scholastic stuff, political stuff, other guys interested me, other girls interested him -- the usual.

But he is still an awesome friend. We see each other now and then, especially when I get home for some reason to visit. We'll go out for dinner or something, and there is still that "muscle memory" of how nice it felt for him to be inside me .. and I invite him in.. or I give him a bj ...

It felt great back when we were a couple, and it still feels great now. I know we'll probably stop when being together will be one of us cheating, but right now we're in the clear. I will never go out with him as his girlfriend, and I could not ever think of being his wife ... but I sure do enjoy being his bed partner....once in a while...

I assume you refer to his desire to hold off on cumming when we do get together by desensitizing the hair trigger? LOL. I know guys that do it all the time, just to last a bit longer - which IS nice, btw - ... I've told the guys I go out with - especially if it has been a while for them - that wasting their cum in the sink is a shame, and that I'm happy to help out when we get together - a quick bj or handjob at the beginning of the evening is a treat for me, knowing it will lead to a few extended rides later on....

I think about it all the time - about the girls I know he has fucked before me. Its fun sometimes, since I know most of my current bfs ex-girlfriends. And WE talk about him (and our other guys) sometimes!! Makes for interesting talk over a few bottles of wine among friends....

in college. At a sorority party over a whole weekend, starting Friday night. I wasn't a member of the sorority, but was invited because I was dating one of the guys in their "brother fraternity". There were some games, and opportunities for "extra fun" during the party, some of them getting raunchy (or fun, depending on your viewpoint) as time wore on.

Saturday night, we had been drinking "a bit", and my then-current bf told me about some holes between stalls in the bathroom, and asked if I wanted to have some fun and play at being a porn actress, and suck a dick or two through the holes. I was sitting with my roommate, who overheard and thought it would be fun. So, she and I when into the middle stall, and watched as two dicks came through the holes. I recognized my bf, but didn't tell her which it was - I let her choose the one she would suck. She chose my bf, so I got to try someone else - and I have to admit - not knowing who it was was actually a new form of exciting. We both finished the guys off, and a moment later, more cocks poked through. We each did 4 cocks in about 20 minutes -- and I have to admit, it was fun. My bf thought I had done him, and was really excited when I told him I had handed him off to my roommate. And it was fun to come back into the main party and look around, knowing that out there were 4 guys who I had just pleasured -- and I loved it! I've done the gh thing at a few other parties where I know all the guys, but the bj is still anonymous for me. I have not done it at an adult store or moviehouse or strip club, but I know they are there.... maybe someday.

I'm not really into anal, but have participated a few times. I am on the tiny side - and while I enjoy a nice big cock in my vagina, my anus is an entirely different matter - it is tight, the opening is small, and sensitive.

That being said - Yes, I have turned down guys for anal just on the sight and size of their cock (just for anal, though).

For me to enjoy anal, I want a cock that is thin and narrow, and these guys are usually long, too. I have met a few guys meeting these conditions ..... they were just fine for my pussy, awesome for oral, and doable for anal! As a matter of fact, went on a recent trip to Florida with a group of friends, and had sex with a bunch of them - but my friend with the "pencil dick" was the only visitor to my butt. He's been a threesome pal a few times, and when he is ,,,, hmmm.