Regardless of whether she is lesbian or bisexual or just curious, I am usually polite and friendly, not wanting to alienate someone who might become a good friend - after all, something attracted them to me. If I nicely and politely turn them down and they persist or become rude, then sometimes it isn't nice.

But I'm flattered, as Lynda3 (above) said. Someone finds you attractive enough to want to be intimate - that's a nice thing.

If it happens in a bar or someplace and I don't know the other woman, then I usually don't get involved, at least not right away. But a few girls I've known for a very long time have made subtle passes at me (and I was shocked but intrigued), and have enjoyed spending intimate time with them.

Cowgirl! I love the feeling of freedom I have. Doggystyle is a close second, but letting him spoon me in bed and enter me from behind can be over-the-top erotic.

For me, I usually just let things develop and if it gets to that moment when you're looking into his eyes and there is a magic force pulling you closer and closer and all of a sudden there is just an incredible kiss ...... yes, I'm interested in an affair (as long as he's not married).

One time, when I was younger and working as a lifeguard, it was just after our first lifeguard drill in June. I was just out of high school. I wanted to make sure I had "a boyfriend" for the summer - I just couldn't think of being in a rooming house with other girls for the summer trolling for guys. So, in my wet (and slinky tight) bathing suit, I went over and sat down next to a guy I'd known for a while and liked - and asked "Would you like to have an affair with me for the summer?".

I was a great summer! And - even having an affair - I still went trolling with some new friends and made some nice catches!

I have, and it just doesn't mix like real cream. I rather suck it right from the tap, thank you!

Also - good coffee is really enjoyable after giving a good bj and swallowing the creme.

And, if he's up for giving me a sample in the morning, sometimes I collect it and put it in the bottom of the cup I put my lunch yogurt in. Nothing like having a nice blast of cum at the lunch table while eating my yogurt.

The perfect penis is the one that is resting on my right shoulder at this moment - my boyfriend is giving me a not-so-subtle signal that he's "up" for some activity.

Bye for now .....

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Ever since I gave my first blow job I can't wait for the next one. There is something special about having a man in your mouth.

They are a form of art! They are fantastic from the "giving side" - and what makes giving them even more special is when you can tell that your friend really appreciates the attention.....

Naturally, of course "oral pleasure" works both ways, and the guys I like giving bjs to the most are the ones who will turn around and give me some oral heaven ... but I almost never ask, and returning my favor is not required, but I notice and remember when it is offered!

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I just don't want the feeling of his cock in my mouth to end.

Totally agree -- relaxing at home, watching some TV or or a movie or binge watching something (especially something he likes) - I could keep the cock in my mouth for hours. Current boyfriend recovers quickly -- I will be "resting" my head in his lap, swallow the load he gives me, then very gently - avoiding the very sensitive tip - lick and caress with my tongue the length of his cock. When I feel that he is responding, I pick up the pace and of the most awesome happens that I just absolutely love - he goes from either soft or relatively flaccid to big and hard in my mouth.... OMG I love that feeling (and I'm pretty sure he does too).

We watched 2 episodes of Treadstone on HULU last night - he came three times in my mouth (he likes to pause the video when he's close - this is an exciting one, and we don't like missing important stuff like new people, who gets shot, etc...).

Working on getting 4 or 5 orgasms out of him ..... practice, practice, practice!!!! lol.

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I've never been to a nude beach, but in high school, some of us juniors and seniors would drive out to a quarry and skinny-dip. Sometimes the guys would get erections, but none of us girls seemed to mind. The guys with the biggest cocks were usually not the ones who got hard though.

We have some quarries outside Boston - somehow erections look so nice and awesome when there are several to look at and enjoy. Skinny dipping with physically fit guys is the best ... you can really get a sense of appreciation for the true nature of a guy when you're with a group of people having fun while naked .... one of my absolute best friends is a skinny dipping buddy - never had sex with him (made out a few times though), and I know his naked body very well and he knows mine. He has a gorgeous cock, and I tease him about how lucky his girlfriends are.

Looking over some of the answers to this and other questions is a real turn-on for me, and as to this question, its put me in the mood to contact the other two people in my favorite threesome.

But here is another thought - this happened with a boyfriend ( pretty serious, early in freshman year in college), me and a girl that we were talking to at a club in Boston that first night - I though she was just some really nice "stranger" that we met and hit it off with. We went back to my room for drinks after last call, and ended up in a very steamy threesome after drinking probably too much. But, we all had so much fun, we got together several times for more of the same, and even went away for a camping weekend.

It turns out, however, that my boyfriend actually knew her and recognized her in the club that night, and convinced her to act like they were not acquainted. I still don't know if he had arranged to be there at the same time as she was, but it was really a classic stalking situation - she had been his girlfriend - very briefly - in high school, and he had fantasized about being with two girls (he told me this a lot even before this 3some happened, and I was not against it).

I actually liked her - she was a great playmate - but I felt totally betrayed by my bf. If he had only been honest right at the beginning, I would have had no problem inviting her into our bed - but the fact that he felt the need to lie and hide the truth - I ended the relationship.

Bottom line - honesty, trust and no jealousy are what make for good and fun 3somes. But they can so easily be like playing with lit fused dynamite ....

The first one or two squirts are usually the most forceful, and if you are giving a handjob or watching him jerk off, they usually squirt the farthest. When I have a cock in my mouth and it starts cumming, I don't sense the force of the squirt as much as I feel the volume of it -- I have the head of the cock held pretty tight between my tongue and palate and cheeks -- I like the feel of the cum and like to swish it around before I swallow it -- so I feel it when it cums, But some guys - the ones who seem to have semen faucets inside them - can fill that tight space in my mouth really fast and overflow it ... if I've done the guy before and know he's a "volume customer", I open the space a bit for him to fill and swallow. Most guys cum about maybe a teaspoon or even less, but some are tablespoon size shooters...

OMG - sometimes the road trips are the best! Went on a road trip to Florida with a few friends in college - rented a van - drove from Boston to Duck key . Me and my roommate, and three guys we knew.... sex with someone as we drove through each state .... lots of blowjobs.... mmmmm

I know the "rules" of most nude beaches state pretty clearly that no open overt sex is permitted - there are dunes and motels and cabanas and actually in the water to do that.... but doing it on a blanket is usually socially unacceptable.

That being said, I've been to a few nude beaches in the past few years, and have seen quite a few guys get hard - its what guys do! They usually can't help it, especially if they see a girl who is a 10 walk by, breasts bouncing ... maybe smiling at them...

I know- I've been there with groups of friends - guys and girls. I'm no ravishing beauty, maybe a 6 or 7 out of 10, but I've got a nice figure, small boobs and no big clumps of fat..athletic and fit .. Guys look at me and see a nice girl, they might get a little chubb on, but unless I actually do something to encourage a hard on, thats as far as it goes.

One day, though, we're at Gunderson Beach in NJ this past summer. I'm there with a girlfriend - its mid-June (OK, so it was Spring, not summer) and we were working on our "tan line" problem - a couple of guys we know, but hadn't invited along - come and sit down next to us. I decide to have some fun, just for fun! No sex, just hand out a few big hardons.

My friend, Gwen, is ravishing. Petite - she's about 5' 0" - she got up to take a quick dip, and I went with her. We planned a little show for the guys while we were in the water. We're not lesbo, but we have made out, and she is a lot of fun -- an explosive female in a tiny package!

My picture is in the gallery, and Gwen is brunette, with long shiny hair which reaches to and covers her nipples if she were to just stand there. She tells me she has a boyfriend who loves her to do cowgirl with him, who loves her hair hanging in front of her tits. Those tits - nice firm D cups, pointing straight out front, not leaning off to the side .... they are awesome. Anyway - we were going to give the guys a "sunscreen show"

We got back to the blanket, sat down, and applied sunscreen ... I asked he to put some on my back, which she did... I raised my arms and her hands reached under and continued the application to my breasts ... she asked me to do her, and I did, and also reached around and applied some to her breasts (and they felt so nice, too). The guys were both hard. Both were shiny with pre-cum, and both rolled over on their bellies to cover up.

Agree - mouth and pussy are what I have to offer! And I love them in either place.

I would love it if only my tits were big enough to really wrap around a cock. As they are, they're OK for just about everything but not optimized for titty fucking. When I see it happening on porn, or in person at a party or something - I get a little jealous - I have a roommate with gorgeous D cups, and her boyfriend disappears between them .... and she seems to really enjoy it...

Quickies have a special place of honor in the game ... they fill a need, are fast, intense, memorable and sometimes are "just what the doctor ordered".

When I was in college, the girls I hung out and I really had no interest in "dating" guys to start a relationship, we just wanted to have fun with them, and them with us - so --- yes, guys, we did talk and compare - when one of us found a guy with some noteworthy characteristic, like cumming in large quantities, we talked about him - and said "you should try him" .... lol.

So, we build a sort of database of guys to date based on some criterion - amount of cum, time they stayed hard, recovery time, girth, length, did they squirt or dribble, etc etc .....

It was my boyfriend, Bob.

But before him, ever since I was 15, I have made sure I was with a date I enjoyed and who was a good kisser. As I got a little older, I added a few things to the "good kisser" - all things I enjoy doing or having done to me....and being right in the middle of doing "something" at the stroke of midnight has always been fun - I remember a few New Years Eve parties in high school and college when fireworks were happening outside at midnight right along with the "fireworks" happening inside me -- it has made for some special memories..

No - I like what I like when I see it -- But I fully expect a man in my life to remove it from me.

She might be my sister ....

I think a lot depends on what you expect from the experience, and then what did you actually get from it. Most of "my guys" have been my age + or - a couple of years -- and when you get down to it, a lot of times its like fucking a clone of yourself with a cock -- similar tastes, similar hobbies, hang out with the same people -- so after all is said and done and sucked and fucked, you walk away happy, with wobbly knees, having gotten mostly exactly what you expected.

I have been with a few guys in the 30 - 40 age bracket since I came to grad school - very nice. They and their mannerisms are a little more refined, they treated me very nicely, and were really good lovers -- but they were looking for something (romance, marriage, long time commitment) that I was not -- I wanted friendship, was willing to offer the occasional "benefits", was usually interested in a quick fuck, certainly enjoyed going on trips with them - but I did not want long term, romance, marriage, etc etc etc ... So I know I walked away happy, satisfied for the interaction, but happy to walk away, too -- it can be very tough to keep a relationship that you're enjoying going at "your level" while constantly watching out for attempts from him to make it more than what you want. Case in point: you've been going with a 35 year old for a while - you like him, he's drop dead handsome, on a good career track (so he's relatively stable), you're completely happy with his cock (not that you can do anything about that, but liking it certainly helps), he enjoys the same sex play you do, he seems to respect your personal space and the privacy you ask for - and you trust that he is into you and not fucking around on the side, and you return that trust by being faithful (and that can be tough for a 20something who really enjoys sex and prefers keeping sex casual, no strings, etc). Anyway, you detect a minor change in the wind - and one day he pops up with a "friendship ring" or a commitment ring - or some such thing - to symbolize your friendship, put his ownership brand on you, starts talking about you and he "moving in together" ... that's when red flags are hoisted. I know I'm being a little selfish, but I'm in early-mid 20s, and I have a lot of things left to do - working on me, my career, getting my degrees, etc - before I commit my life to lock into someone else's ... It is just so hard to look a great guy in the eye - one who has just offered you a commitment ring or bracelet etc - one who is ready to bring you to the next level of commitment that you are avoiding --- and tell him its not for you. Your response will shape the relationship ...I know I'm talking about basic dating and relationships etc, but this has happened to me twice with guys in their mid 30s, so whenever I start getting close to a guy in that age, a lot goes through my mind -- I certainly don't avoid guys in that age group -- they are great as friends and companions and lovers and booty calls -- but they are also at the age of "let's settle down and have a family and you can have as many kids as you wat... etc etc etc" .... So I go along, date, love, sleep with, etc.. but I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop, and that vigil takes away some of the fun.

But - one of my friends from college and I keep in very close touch, and I visit her and her family a lot. Her folks love me! They love it when I visit, and I always have a great time at their house. They have a house on Cape Cod on the beach, and have had me come down to spend weeks with them and their daughter. Her Dad has always been fun - a little flirty, but totally innocent - and his wife gets a kick out of seeing him enjoy himself. She's told me privately that she looks forward to my visits, because i brings him out of his shell, he's more alive, more fun, happier - he's had some sadness in his life with his own family (deaths, in-law problems, etc). Anyway - he and I have always gotten along very well despite the age difference ( in his 60s). Sadly, his wife became very ill and passed away last year. It was heartbreaking. Maureen (daughter) and I visit him very often - bring a dinner or cook and have a meal and a few drinks - just to bring some happiness into his life. I went to his house about 6 months ago, Maureen was out of town. He was happy to see me - to see anyone -- and we had a very nice evening - dinner, some wine, watched some movies, etc. I don't know what came over me, but when he tried a little flirty talk with me (and it was just talk,, for fun) I could feel myself responding (you know - nipples getting pointy, pussy moistening, that deep inside feeling of "fill me"). I responded to the flirts like I never did before - and before I knew it, we were making out, then he asked me into his room .... and I had the most incredible sexual experience I've ever had. He was wonderful. Kind, patient, funny, generous, talented, experienced -- apparently its what young girls have often found with much older me - and I liked (like) it. For a guy in his 60s, he knows how to sexually rock the world of a 23 year old girl. That first time, we went for a few hours, and I left that night with a smile and a contented body.

We certainly have not told his daughter, but I no doubt that she will find out one of these days. There is no talk of real romance, commitment, etc -- we are friends. What started out as "being nice" turned into something great. I've thought alot about it when I'm not with him, and realized that I always had the dots - a tiny bit - for him, and I bet his wife knew it too - but there was never any hint or act of cheating, sexual play or anything... I would never have done anything with him while his wife was still alive ... and the more I think about it, I went to his house alone that first time knowing he might get flirty if I let it happen, and knowing I was going to do a "mercy fuck" if the opportunity arose.

The "mercy fuck" has turned into a very satisfying relationship with a fascinating older man. He enjoys my attention and tells me he hasn't gotten blowjobs as good as mine since he was in the service a long time ago...

I'm going to write a story about this relationship - maybe adding a little spice, but it will be a great story.

I would not expect you to get "rock hard" (from experience with a guy that age) - but I know guys that age can certainly get hard and keep it up for very long stretches.... and you might not be ready for "round 2" in 20 minutes - but there are lots of things to do. You've been around for a long while doing lots of women - you can think of something to do between session 1 and session 2 .....

Bottom line - You are absolutely NOT too old, UNLESS YOU think so.

For someone whom I was really interested in - romantically - for a possible permanent relationship, I'd probably set an upper limit for a 25 year difference. I'm in my 20's, which would place the guy in his 40's, which is just fine - 40 year old guys are really sexy. But with 25 years, when I'm 55 or 60 and really still sexually active and in good shape and limber, etc, he'll be late 70s or 80's -- I'll be a hot 50 or 6p something taking care of an old man. If it is true love - and I have seen couples like this - taking care of an old spouse can be an act of love. If it wasn't true love, the relationship would have broken up as soon as old age problems set in. Some girls might make the decision to stay as long as the older man allows her to go "out" once in a while - if my older husband allowed that, I'd be grateful, but not sure I'd do it - it would probably be hurtful to him.

Now, on the other hand - I'm out in a bar or someplace, and see a hot 40 or 50 or maybe even a 60 something guy - if he's in decent shape, gets along with me and shows me some good times - I'll have no problem "dating" him - I'd date" his brains out. I've been with a guy who was early 60's -- nearly 40 years -- and all I can say is how surprised I was! He was great, and I've been back to him a few times. Not rock-hard like guys my age, but he lasted ... and lasted ... and lasted ... and knew how to read every little movement in my body. (and part of the fun was being "on his arm" at functions like dances, dinners and on his boat.... guys his age were so jealous of him, and they all paid such nice attention to me. Fun - but only for a while and for some cool memories.

It feels nice for a few days, but after that, not so much, at least for me. It gets itchy and looks rashy sometimes. I normally stay neat and keep it short, but don't usually shave to bare skin ... a hair down there is natural.

He wants to make with me while another girl gives him a blowjob? That sounds like some of the FMF 3somes I've been in .... Its actually fun watching it happen . Best part is if the other girl shares the cum with me and him, as she should anyway....

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On .. unless it's really annoying oh so fake "yes yes yes oh oh oh "
But like most things sexual . all senses need to be aroused including hearing .

Some of them are just so fake - especially the "YES YES YES " girls who are whining it.

The "Oh Oh Oh" doesn't bother me - thats the sound I hear or make most often when I'm having sex.

What really bothers me, though, is that "mean look" that is just so fake - either or both the guy and girl snarl, one side of their mouth turned up, say something really stupid, like "tell me how much you want this, whore... tell me you're a whore ... tell me you can't get enough.." especially galling when said by a guy who acts tough, as if its a girl's duty to pleasure him.

In real life I despise when guys get rough ( rough being too physical and mean ) and think its OK, and don't stop when you ask them. I've gotten up and left a guy with balls hanging out once who did a jeckyll-hyde change on me when we got into it - turned into a real bastard who thought he was entitled to anything. Another time - college party -- guy I just met, and was making out with a little - got real rough and "handsy" and demanding ... he was a soprano for a while after I left him.

Cum mixed with vaginal orgasm juice is delicious... my roommate and I do this with our boyfriends -- we both enjoy the taste of cum straight from the cock, but drinking it from a friend's vagina is even better -- like a fine wine, it has subtle tastes of lust, hedonism, fun and total trust .... love it!

I know this is my second entry on this topic -- this afternoon is my current latest, with more action very likely tonight.. my bf is helping an old roommate build a pergola on his parents' house. It is chilly but sunny - perfect weather to do some outdoor work in. Anyway - the guys came in for a break. I'm in a pair of jeans, a sweatshirt but no bra (I never usually wear one, but the boobs were extra jiggly and pointy today for some reason) and both guys eyes are following the bounce and jiggle of my boobs as I hand them sandwiches and hot chocolate (booze after they finish using power tools). I've been with the bf's roommate a few times casually (a few handjobs before I started dating my current bf, and then two very memorable 3somes after their birthday parties.

So - I let them know that while they're enjoying their turkey sandwiches and hot chocolate, I want some hot protein for myself. My bf is on the couch - I kneel down, take of my sweatshirt, unzip him and start a nice slow easy wonderful bj. I take a break and tell Scott to come and sit next to Bob - I don't want him to feel left out. He sits, I unzip and move my mouth to bring him in, while I continue to stroke and squeeze Bob with my left hand.....

I love both of their dicks - I tell them that I want them both to cum in my mouth now, and that we'll watch movies, drink and they can both enjoy me tonight in any way and as much as they want.....

Scott came first, and as he was pulsing his last shot onto my tongue, I noticed Bob tensing up, and the precum was really starting to flow. I smiled at Scott, let him see my mouthful of him as it slid down y throat, then I took him all back in, and slowly applied pressure as I moved from base to tip, squeezing out every last drop.

Just as I finished my gift to Scott, Bob was ready -- I took him in, and I totally enjoyed his explosive ejaculation.... I think Scott won the "amount" measurement, but Bob had the most forceful -- but who's measuring? I need to do a lot more experimenting.....

I put my sweatshirt back on, and the boys went back to work, and will probably get about half of it done before it gets too dark after 4:00 (I hate this time of year in the northeast). I promised them more incentive to finish tomorrow afternoon.... Scott said he might bring an other friend, since they might need help with the ladderwork putting the 2x8s on the beams ... and would I mind? Of course - I'll never turn a friend down .... I suggested that maybe he'd call Bill, who I know is good at "erecting" things...

Scott's Dad came home from work while the guys were outside. He was totally happy to see me and see the pergola progress. He smiled and said something like "Erin, I'm sure you had something to do with keeping them motivated". I giggled and thanked him for the complement, and could still taste Bob and his son in my mouth....

His Dad smiled at me and his eyes kept drifting to my boobs, whose nipples were now hard and pointy, having just been fed a delightful snack of cum. I wonder if he suspected what we'd just done? I wonder if he'd like to help the boys - and I wonder if he'd like to participate in the work/award program?

I'll let you know soon.

I can't see how jealousy is ever good - it only builds and gets worse.

Very hot, very erotic, and very revealing... a total turn on.

No problem - most of my friends have seen me topless anyway - skinny dipping, sailing, sun bathing, etc - and I haven't got anything they've never seen. As for it being with a guy friend who isn't a sexual friend - alll the better! It would not be a situation where I'd be seducing him anyway - its just prudent to have a guy around - there are a lot of sketchy guys - alone and in groups - on nude beaches. Having a male companion is smart. If it turns out that being naked with him leads to something later on - no problem! But I'm not shy and I'm not ashamed of my body - and I do enjoy being naked and being around naked people of both sexes - very liberating.