If he doesn't ask or otherwise signal that he'd like to cum, I just start playing with him. Usually when we're watching TV - I lie down, head near his lap, and just start stroking, sucking and playing - and talking and taking my sweet time, enjoying every second with a handful of cock. With the latest medical advice that a guy shouldhave several orgasms each week for optimum prostate health, I like to do my part - I make sure he cums at least 5 times every week, and those are the orgasms I give him. I know he does it in the shower sometimes, and I wouldn't be surprised if he gets a little on the side sometimes, especially over breaks when we're apart. As for the prostate thing, ebem if we don't end up together for life, I know his future gfs or wife will be grateful for a guy with a healthy prostate!

Yes in mouth, and swallowed probably half - first time was about a half hour after I'd just given him a handjob. We were young, both learning, playing and having fun. After his handjob, I cleaned up the cum by licking him off and sucking the cum off my fingers. I told him next time, I wanted him to shoot it into my mouth. We played, he got hard, came in my mouth, and I swallowed some of it - I was not ready for all the motion and did not have my lips set right - but that was one of the few times I have spilled any cum since then.

No - I'm usually a B cup (despite my nickname) and my friend Helen is a C verging on D. I'm jealous of her, but I know she'll be sagging someday, while I stay pert and firm....

I'm not into getting that intimate with strangers - I like to interact with a guy at a party or with a group of friends before I will consider giving a bj, but when I meet a guy I'm always wondering what he'd be like.... At my high school prom, I sat at a table with my girlfriends and their dates - I knew two of the guys and didn't know 2 of the others, but after chatting and dancing with everyone, I knew that 3 of them were bj candidates if I ever had the chance. The only cock I had that night was attached to my boyfriend, and I swallowed every drop of him, twice, before taking a load in my pussy at the beach.

Over the course of the summer, I did have a chance to blow each of the other guys. They were not really dating the girls they were with at the prom - just friends and dates for the evening. They were great.

During college, I became friends with lots of guys, blew many of them multiple times, a few just once, and a few have just been really great, close friends without any sexual interaction..... Three of my college friends became very special bj buddies - just casual fun, relaxation, etc - no strings - and I was sad when we all went separate ways after graduation. I started my "Birthday Blowjob from Erin" club - I gave each of them a card with a special gift - that for the rest of their lives, or as long as practical, I would be pleased to get together with them on their birthdays and give them at least one bj, or as many as they wanted. Three more guys have "joined " the club, and I have not missed a birthday yet, although with a few who were not around on their actual day, they got a "rain check"...

I mentioned that I was not turned on by the thought of giving a bj to a stranger - that is not entirely true. I was at a sorority party as a guest (I was not in a sorority) in college, and the house girls had a "glory hole" game going as a party "warm-up". No prize, no competition - just a chance to get the juices flowing.... If you wanted to do it, you went into the girls bathroom into a special stall against the wall, and there were guys waiting in the next room where there was a stall against the same wall, with a hole for a cock. The girls who wanted to play were each given a pair of raffle tickets with matching numbers -- when she went to the booth and a guy poked his cock through, she handed him one of the tickets. Over the course of the evening, as you made your way around and met everyone, if you wanted to compare ticket numbers, you might get lucky and find the guy who you sucked, or from the guy's point of view, you would find the girl who gave you a great bj. Me and two of my friends decided to play, and we went into the bathroom with our tickets. We watched each other work our magic on the anonymous dicks presented to us -- Mary and I swallowed the loads straight from "our" cocks, and Donna let her guy cum into her hand, then she played with the cum before licking it off her hand ... During the evening, I met a guy at the bar and we chatted - the tone and timbre of his voice were familiar, and I wondered ... my guy made the cutest sound when he came, and I this guy sounded familiar -- we compared our tickets, and, like Cinderella, I had found my mystery cock! It turns out that it really was a neat way to break the ice -- we chatted for a while, compared stories and lives, and I really ended up liking this guy. We dated for a while, and see each other off and on in the city. We have sex for fun. My friends were not so lucky - they did not meet their mystery cocks.

That experience colored my thoughts about strangers, though - for a while I have been toying with the idea of going to a real glory hole, but there aren't very many in Massachusetts, and the ones that are seem to be gay - and I've heard that gay guys don't want a woman to do them. My friend Mary visited one in South Jersey on a visit to her home - she said it was the most fun she'd had in a while.For the price of a few dollars to "rent" the both by playing their video machine, she said she sucked and handjobbed 12 guys in one night. The anonymous aspect makes it fun. I think I will try this...

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I hate a man fucking my mouth/throat.

When I'm giving you a blowjob, I'm- giving you a blow job.
If you want me to go deeper just add a small amount of pressure on my head, I'll get the hint.
I'm very good with hints.
Don't shove my head down your cock, I'm fully capable of doing that myself.

Lean back and enjoy it for [beep's] sake!

Could not have said it better myself.

The blowjobs I give are my gifts of friendship to friends and acquaintances. I am the one doing the giving, so I am the one in charge of what happens.

If we're in some sort of game where we're doing some S&M or role playing or something - fine - I'll go along with fake violence and throat fucking and you pumping my head on your cock. But if its just a normal friendly blowjob from Erin, let Erin do the work. Lay back and enjoy me.

Love it. Have loved it since I was too young to say how old I was when I started loving sucking and swallowing... It is just a fun, neighborly, friendly thing to do ... and watching the guy's face as he cums into your mouth is just such a nice feeling

Chances are that all those "gorgeous girls" are thinking the same thing you are: "look at all these gorgeous guys. How do I meet one and get to know him without coming across as a slut or pervert?"

Just be nice, be sociable, and do with the girls what you you would like done to you. You'll end up with exactly the girl you deserve. If you act like a slut or perve, eventually a slut or perve will find you attractive. If you are nice and amiable and thoughtful, some nice girl will find you attractive ... take it from there.

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what do you look for in a guy ? do you prefer a guy to be romantic and a sweetheart ? or a guy who is a good fuck ?

depends on my mood. Sometimes I don't even ask his full name -

but having both nice personality and a great cock is usually a winning combination.

One of my cousins is married to a serviceman - Army - he came back from Afghanistan a few years ago, wounded - some nerves in his lower abdomen torn up by gunfire. I've met him - was at their wedding - and he is a gorgeous hunk of a guy. When he came back, my cousin told me they had to switch their sexlife - he was unable to get hard. She found by playing with him that his dick was still sensitive in places, and that it started to engorge and got almost to the "semi" stage. She was able to convince him to let her play with him like this, and she apparently has developed into a superb cock sucker! She's able to suck on him to the "semi" stage and then, with lots of talk and rubbing and more sucking, she'll have him cum - usually in her mouth, but sometimes a well-lubed handjob or a boob job. She saved his self esteem by being nice and patient, and ready to accept whatever he could do. They've tried inserting him into her pussy, but its usually not had enough, and the stimulation he gets in there is, I guess, not intense enough for him to feel.... but they keep trying. If they move really fast when he's just about to cum, he can get into her vagina just before he cums, and squirt into her ... but they have to really pay attention and it takes some of the fun out of it. But they do this when they can - she loves the feeling of him in there, and the feel of the cum dripping out - and he likes to see the creampie -- makes him feel better about himself, i guess. She also lets him "work" her dildos and sex toys in her -

Talking with her about it (she and I are "confidants" about dating and sex from way before they were married, I 'd go to her house and we'd watch sex videos and webcams and do stuff in her room), I realize how important it is for men to fully participate in sex by ejaculating and pleasing the girl -- I used to think that they just liked to cum, wherever and whenever they could. His urologist talked with her and thanked her for being so patient and "playful" with him, and said that her willingness to do so much oral on him was what started him down the road to good mental health.

I've been with one guy who had a little E.D. -- he is an older guy who needs a lot of stimulation on his cock. He has no problem getting it up, and its awesome when its up - but apparently when he gets inside, the sensations he gets from vaginas is not enough to keep him "going" - then his mind takes over, he starts to try too hard, and a cycle of self-fulfilling failure sets in, and I (and his other girlfriends he's told me) are left with a deflated cock in their vaginas. So, the way I handle that issue with him is simple -- we play, he gets hard, we fuck until he starts to deflate, then I suck on him, put him back in, etc etc etc -- he'd great fun... can't say he's great in bed because we have to constantly work on keeping him hard, but he has a great cock, shoots a nice amount of cum, and w enjoy playing....sometimes we just settle for a nice long blowjob, which is always ok with me.

Apparently, there are guys with various forms of E.D. that can have nice sex lives with their girlfriends or wives (or both! lol), as long as a little patience is used -- the E.D. is not the guys' fault, and he shouldn't be shut out sex because of it....

I'll watch, but I'll only play online if its with someone I know very well.  

I knew I wanted to know more ....

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i prefer if he lets me do it for him

All of the above, and just because its a lot of fun.  

I have done it with two different couples: in one, I knew the guy from college and had dated him, and the other was a girlfriend from highschool who I reconnected with in graduate school.  It took a while to bring the mutual friendships to a level where the trust was equal in all directions, and we were all pretty sure that no one was going to get hurt.  Once the sex started, it was really nice.  But you can tell that suspicion and trust issues can come up very easily - you have to be completely open and honest with everyone, or someone is going to get badly hurt, and a marriage might be wrecked. 

These are each FMF threesomes - and they are so much fun...

I like watching it with friends ... good porn and a few drinks and good friends ... a lot of fun.  Has led to some great discussions, observations and more than a few fun experiments...

Used to love them, now I simply don't mind.  If a guy has to show the world, that's his deal.  Used to love getting them every now and then via text from a friend at school -- when we were on summer break, we'd get on messenger and do a private cam room -- that was fun, too.  I had a roommate in college who had a diary she was keeping since high school -- in addition to pictures of the guys' face, she had a few guys with pics of their dicks, too -- she had some 'nice' friends.... some of the pics had her in them playing with those cocks - very impressive. 

I've kept a few of the dick pics that some guys have sent me - and I admit I've take a few of some "memorable" guys I've known - maybe they'll be fun to look at when I'm older and maybe married and maybe monogamous...

Oh yes - its one of the many pleasures in life - being able to give pleasure, and receive a special gift in return, and then enjoy its taste and texture.... 

Yes - sitting in class in one of those big lecture halls in college.  I some of the best orgasms during philosophy class. There was a boy I'd gone out with a few times -  just as we were leaving class, I dipped my finger inside to give it a nice wet coat, then walked up to him and said "taste this - what do you think?" ... we had a wonderful time that afternoon in his room.  

But I almost always dip my finger many times after I masturbate - I love my taste.

Yes, but it has happened only after a long period of being horny and turned on .... in college I met a guy I liked a lot - he was in one of my physics classes.  He looked really  good, nicely trimmed and fit, gorgeous eyes, and I even liked the way he smelled.  I fantasized about him for weeks.  He asked me out - a Saturday outing to an amusement park, concert and and a swimming pool.  Had a great day - horny all day, and I was primed...  We went to his apartment - sat on couch - started making out.  My senses were in high gear - everything about him turned me on ... I reached down and grabbed his crotch, and his dick felt just wonderful even inside his pants.  He reached inside my blouse, gently held my breasts and started tweaking my nipples as our tongues did the "get to know you dance" ... I could feel the explosion starting inside me without even touching my pussy --- I unzipped him, and as I held him and gently stroked him, I told him how great I felt and that he should just keep on doing what he was doing .... about a minute later, with his cock in my hand and his tongue in my mouth and my nipples between his fingers, I had the most amazing orgasm .... and it was the start of a very nice evening .... 

He was able to make me cum many times just by tweaking and sucking my nipples.  Sometimes I helped him along with leg/clit squeezes or my finger - but with him it was not necessary.  

I've been able to do myself just tweaking - like driving in my car  - and a few guys have the patience to do it --- so, yes -- cumming by nipples alone is awesome.

No.  Not a turn on for me.  I wouldn't mind seeing him get sucked by another girl (as long as I knew her or knew about it).

When I put on yoga pants, I know guys are going to stare - not that I'm gorgeous, its just that I'm female with tight yoga pants.  If I'm wearing them after a long walk or workout, I have a very visible camel-toe, which I've seen guys zero in on - and I dont really mind - its not like I have anything they haven't seen before.  

It'll be a sad day when guys don't stare at my stuff - very sad.

I'd like to see some guys wear something thin and tight - with no underwear -- give us something to think about and maybe get moist about .....