Anyone can make a mistake - especially when alcohol is involved. I won't tolerate a string of mistakes, though - that indicates another problem. But we've all (most of us) have done something after drinking that we regret ... sometimes it is just something we said, sometimes its someone we've fucked or blown .... As long as it really was a mistake, I forgive .... but there will be penance involved!
I don't mind if he puts his hands there, but I do not like it when he tries to push my head further down, or to use his leverage to pump into my face ... I'm perfectly capable of giving him a marvelous and memorable blowjob - let me be in control. If he likes to grab something and push and pull, he can grab my hips all he wants to drive his cock as far in as it will go - I love that!!!
Hmmm- I bet this was a fun question!
Part of it is that I know a bunch of guys who are nice guys and I enjoy having sex with all of them -- they are some boyfriends, some fuck buddies, whatever, but they are "now and here" - I know that the chances are that I won't have any relationship with any of them a few years from now - there will be a whole group of "new guys" rotating through.
But - for guys that are in the "friend zone" - I really value these guys - I love them all, and I want to have a relationship with them until I die - they are excellent friends, confidants, etc etc.... If I move them to the other category, something ALWAYS happens and lovers and fuck buddies drift apart ... I had a really close wonderful guy friend all through high school - never had sex ( we made out a little, did some touching etc, but no sex) - he and I could talk about anything, anytime, and I knew he would walk on hot coals for me... Just after graduation, going to different colleges - we decided to have a sexy summer, and take our friendship to a "higher level" -- well, it definitely was a different level, and we fucked our brains out and had a super summer. But we weren't in love - I went out on one date (nothing happened) with a guy I met at the beach, and my friend got jealous. He thought that I was fucking the other guy, and started thinking I was fucking every dick I could find, since I "cheated" on him. We tried to get past it, but we never could, and he couldn't grasp that I wanted to stay friends and thought we could still have sex on weekend breaks at home, etc - but he took all the intimacy as falling in love ... so even though I didn't mean to, and I did NOT have sex with anyone else that summer, I hurt him because I went out on a date and that planted a nasty seed in his mind. We're still friends, but at a much different level than before our sex romp ... we laugh and joke about the sexy summer, but I can tell he would fall right back into it - and get hurt again - if we got back together. He was an awesome fuck buddy - I'd have sex with him again in an instant if I knew he knew that it was just sex, not something more. I remember so much about so many times we did things - he is athletic, strong, nicely hung -- but I'm his poison apple....
So guys - if you find yourself in the "friend zone" - you can probably take that as a big compliment. You might have that girl as a great friend forever. If you try and succeed in getting out of the friend zone, you'll undoubtedly enjoy it for a while, but it will end, and you'll probably lose her .... Personally, I like strong friendships. There are lots of guys to fuck and have fun with, same for you guys -- lots of girls who love to fuck and have fun.... just don't fuck up a good friendship.
(sometimes I get so tempted if I'm with one of my good friends - I might be feeling a little horny, or just playful, and I have come so close thinking -- "its only a handjob or blowjob..." what harm can that do? I haven't crossed the line since freshman year college - I probably will someday after a few drinks and I'm horny ... I just hope getting laid or sucking a cock doesn't cost me a friend)
I said yes, but its really a "sometimes, not all the time" type of thing. All depends on how "things" are down where the action is -- if he's big, then I can definitely feel him jamming up against my cervix, but don't always feel the sperm jet. (I'm small framed, so what's big for me might not be for other girls). I can definitely feel the heat and wetness being squeezed out by his cock occupying so much volume ...
If he's 6 or 7 inches, then yes, I can sometimes feel the jet - I can feel the heat. And I can feel the fast leakage if he shoots a lot of cum...
If he's 5 inches - almost always yes -- I can feel the jet splashing against my cervix and vaginal walls.
I have one friend - he is 4 inches fully erect - but he shoots his cum (lots of cum, always) like five feet in a handjob - I always feel him squirting inside. Maybe the nerve endings close to the outside of my vagina are more sensitive - who knows. (and this guy is actually a lot of fun to blow, too. )
I find it to be very easy .. I like to give a slow, sensual, "drive-him-crazy" bj. Some girls like to give sloppy, wet fast ones, some give violent bjs (pretty common on porn I've seen - very loud, gagging, lots of spit, lots of violent head bobbing ) .... but I like giving a nice slow one - I talk to my friend as I give it, I listen to him talk, I get really in tune with his body language .... Its a lot of fun.
The things to remember 1) watch out for your teeth, especially if you're giving a fast one, 2) watch your own head if you're giving it in a car, 3) its a great way to have sexy fun with your friend at his house or yours or your parents house, without making a lot of noise... 4) take a break and take the cock out of your mouth often - its easy to get a cramp in your jaw, then the fun is gone ...
I like them - I enjoy looking... I enjoy watching porn and seeing the variety, and I enjoy getting to know a guy and seeing his cock for the first time --- I know that the guys love it when a girl shows interest in their cocks ---
Did she give her other boyfriends blowjobs ? Did she actually enjoy it, or maybe was she one of those girls who knew that was a great way to reel a guy in -- I know a bunch of girls like that - they'll give a bj, maybe swallow, but are doing it because it keeps you interested. Girls talk in locker rooms, and a lot of girls I knew in college knew exactly how much men love to get blowjobs.
On the other hand, there are also girls like me, who really enjoy giving them - I mean I really enjoy giving them, I have fun and enjoy seeing my friend enjoy the gift I'm giving. I don't know what its like to be married, but if I ever am, I have no intention to stop giving my husband blowjobs. I hope I don't get bored with just having his penis to work with - but I'll have to face that when the time comes.
But I bet your wife just figured that you were now married, and "grown up" and giving blowjobs all the time is something you do when dating or when you're single and meeting lots of guys....
I never want to be "the other woman" - I know irs corny, but true for me. I know a few couples that have broken up because either the man or woman "stepped out" and ghad a fuck buddy on the side, or saw an old flame, or whatever. I'm not married, but I can se in my married friends that they really invest in fidelity and trust. Saying that, though, I also know of cases where an "accident" happened - a one-nite-stand at a party, or on a business trip or with an ex after drinking too much --- sometimes they can be forgiven, but the trust has to be earned back....
I;ve had older guys approach me and flirt with the apparent intention of getting into my pants, younger guys too - while I might flirt back a bit, I go out of my way to see if there's a wife or SO at home -- I know that I've been with at least one married man - and the wife allowed it - encouraged it! (And it has been an interesting friendship with them) .... and I have no doubt that some guy has slipped through my "screen" at some point - I just can't be certain --
But my "policy" is no married men need apply.
What's not to like? I think its usually on the sweet side, and is actually fun to play with, rubbing it around the cock head. Some of you just produce a few drops, and I treat those like liquid gold, savoring them ... some of you have a "pre-cum faucet", and that is awesome, too --- each of you is different, and I love that. If you were all the same, we might just as well get one of those fuck robots from china, or use a dildo - and wouldn't life be so boring?
when I chat with a guy, I just assume he's got a cock. Since they're all a little different, I also assume that if it is ever in my hands to play with, that I'll enjoy it immensely. It doesn't have to be big, doesn't have to shoot gallons of cum - it just has to be attached to a nice guy that I enjoy being with.
OK - I do have a sort of private diary I keep in an encrypted folder on my tablet - pictures of a few of the guys I've known and their cocks. Just for fun.
A girl I knew in high school started a similar diary when she was in ninth grade - describing dates she's had and a scoring system for how far she'd gone. When she got her first phone with a camera, she began to take pictures of the guys cocks, and the guys were usually happy to "pose"... I saw her diary after we graduated high school - her collection of pictures of cocks she had known was impressive! We actually looked through it together and I recognized a few -
But guys - I can't speak for all girls, but splashing a picture of your cock across a text message or profile is generally not sexy. Sending one if I ask for it, though - is. And letting me take a picture of it myself definitely is.
In my mouth, this morning.
depends on where I am, or who else is around... but sound is usually nice to have .
I have driven topless often, and lots of times with blouse unbuttoned and wide open -- the breeze always feels nice. Never naked in a car, though ....
But I have been sailing naked many many times, alone and with friends. Lots of interesting stories!
Right now, its a secret. He knows that I do watch porn, though, he doesn't know that I have written some....
Surprisingly, though, he has written a few stories - and they're surprisingly good.
My roommate and I share boyfriends now and then -- definitely a turn on.
Have not, but maybe I'll try it someday. I kind of like looking into my friend's eyes as he fills my mouth, though.
The anonymous part is sexy, though.
i was at a frat party sophomore year - I only knew a couple of the guys, and was there with girls from my dorm. Someone suggested a
"guess who this is" game. we split into guys and girls, everyone drew a number from a bowl, but kept the number secret. there were two copies of every number - a guy got one, and a girl got one. The numbers represented the "session" -- I remember that I drew ticket number 6 - that meant that I got to suck off the guy who drew number 6, in session 6. There was a hole in the wall between two rooms - girls in one room, guys in the other. It was actually fun. The guys literally stuck their dick in the hole, and had no visual idea of who was sucking it. Maybe they could tell by the technique, but that was the only real clue they'd get. The girls were much luckier - some of the junior and especially the senior girls had probably sucked most of the guys in the frat, and might be able to tell from the look of the cock or the amount of cum or its taste -- I had no such advantage. I did not recognize the cock that stuck through for me, and the girls who wanted to watch were whispering names and what to do, etc -- it was fun - not the first bj I'd given in front of someone else, but the first for a whooping and cheering audience. The dick was white, big, thick, veiny and did not got real hard, but definitely hard enough to fuck later ,,,, he came about a teaspoon, not a huge load, but given that this was a party, maybe it wasn't his first time of the night. He was bitter and not particularly tasty, but I swallowed him and enjoyed the treat.
The best part was when we were all finished and the cocks were drained (for the time being) - we all went back to the main party, and mingled. We gamers all wore a green button, so we'd talk to each other and try to guess who held our opposite number ticket. I have to admit it was an incredible feeling to talk to all those guys - knowing I'd just blown one of them - and try to guess which one. At midnight, we had to "publish" our guesses - most of us were wrong, including me, but more girls guessed right than guys - proving that the girls "got around" and knew the cocks pretty well. My guy turned out to be a junior on the wrestling team who smoked and did not eat much fruit. We talked and got to know each other for a while - then went to his room and spent the night fucking. We didn't really have much in common, just our initial anonymous blowjob and his handsome cock, which fueled my curiosity. We hung out once in a while after that, and fucked once in a while at parties - but that was it.
I might try a gloryhole someday, but I'd much rather do another game like "who is this"....
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I already do have it pretty much anywhere I want already. But I suppose - I'd like to do it at the Y in the morning - I swim at 6:00 in the morning, often there are guys there and swimmers (serious swimmers) have incredible bodies -- I usually am horny in the morning and would love to have some guy fuck me in the pool, the hottub or the sauna. I'm often alone in the sauna - when I'm alone, I masturbate. I'd love to fuck or suck someone off instead. But right now, I don't see that ever happening.
If I know he's married - no. I do not want to be the "other woman", the reason for a breakup. I have lots of married friends, however, and flirt with the guys (and the occasional wife), but will not get into a secret relationship.
With a few of my married friends, the wife is a good friend from college or my youth - I have permission to flirt with their husbands sometimes.
DP - mouth and vagina -- yes! Love it. Vagina and anus - no. not a fan.
I enjoy the taste and texture of cum - every guy has a different taste, aroma and texture - I've only met maybe 2 or 3 guys with cum that startled me with "off-taste", and each was a heavy smoker and couch potato.
