Yes. Woke up with an old friend. We stayed in bed for the entire morning. It was a wonderful way to wake up and enjoy a rainy morning here in Boston.

As a lover of doing oral with my male friends, my question to you is : has your wife been in an accident or something that might make the act uncomfortable? Have you changed your diet? Do you reciprocate her favors? If she used to really enjoy it, there must be something that has flipped her opinion.

I cant say if its normal, and I certainly hope that 35 years from now I still enjoy blowjobs with friends (or husband if I ever have one).

I hear my mother and her friends joke at parties about sex and it not being the same as it was when they were in their 20s, and always hear their husbands say the same thing. Your situation might not be normal, but some reluctance to "go down" doesn't seem unusual.

Conversations about blowjobs are sometimes uncomfortable for guys to initiate, and I always ask a guy (especially a new friend ) if he'd mind if I suck on him. If its a new guy, after sucking for a while, I ask him if he'd like to cum in my mouth. I almost always initiate any blowjob activity.

Next time you get into that "maybe she'll give me a blowjob" situation and she refuses, ask her - NICELY - Why? What's wrong?

DON'T tell her she used to love (maybe she didnt but just did it because you liked it) - she'll know if she loved it or not. Ask her to maybe just stroke you for a while - tell her how much you like that attention .....

I don't really know - but I would think its a situation that must be handled carefully. Thinking about it as I write this, I remember a college girlfriend who used to give out a bj occasionally, and only because she knew her boyfriend really liked them.

I love giving blowjobs to my friends. Absolutely love it. And when I meet a new guy that checks off a few items on my checklist, I love getting to know his cock.

I love the visual variety of the cocks I know. I love watching them grow, and even love it more feeling them grow hard in my mouth. I love the silky feeling of a cock, and the wonderful musky masculine scent ..... I love stroking them as I talk to their owner. I love looking sucking on them as I look at their owner's legs and feet tensing up, or at his face as he gets close to cumming. I love that feeling, just before they cum, of getting really rock hard, and I love holding their glans between my lips and feeling the squirts of hot cum filling my cheeks. When the finish, I gently suck the remaining cum from their cocks, and I love just knowing I've made them feel really nice and appreciative of the gift they just received. And I love it when they realize that, more likely than not, they can count on more in the future. I love it when they reciprocate - because I also love being fucked and being eaten and probed by a friendly tongue....

I am not a big fan of ejaculation on my face. Boobs, OK, but I just don't like it on my face. But I love watching my guys cum right up close - and if their aim and control is pretty good, I'll get close enough to their cock so I can see the cum squirt out and onto my tongue or directly into my mouth.....

I just love the intimacy of oral sex. Not so much having control of them (which of course we do when their cocks are in our mouth), but its something I can do for friends almost anywhere, relatively mess-free and it can be pretty discrete when necessary.

In high school, I loved sucking my date off just before he dropped me off at home, or just before we went into his house for dinner or something with his folks -- something about seeing and talking to his or my parents only a few minutes after I swallowed his load .... an awesome feeling.....

leaving politics aside, I could do Kristi Noem all day and night! I share many political views with her, and I can imagine having a nice threesome or foursome with her, too.

Not so much Pam. She's cute, but seems too wishy-washy. If she were a bit more truly conservative, she would be a friend.

I get a real kick out of holding a guy's cock as he pees. First time was in high school, and have held many guys cocks as they pee. Especially fun - using the pee stream to try to "write" something - usually not more than a letter or two, but fun! Definitely something I can't do. Also - with me holding and aiming his cock, it usually grows and needs further attention .....

Sailed with a friend from Cape Cod, through Long Island Sound, to New York. We were motoring on the East River past Manhattan. He dared me to go topless - I told him it wasn't illegal in New York to be topless, so no big deal. He asked me to suck him off. As we went by the UN building, he came and I swallowed his delicious load. I think we gave a lot of people a nice show.

You'll get some interesting smirks from some of agents ... the women especially. My last flight, there was an older male agent - he oponed my bag for an inspection, and while he was shuffling my underwear around, he bumped into my "friend" -- he looked at me with a real smirky subtle smile, chuckled and told me to enjoy my trip .... he was cute in an older guy sort of way ....

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Does anyone actually use the term "metrosexual" anymore? This thread is almost 15 years old.

I love looking at the old questions. The term is outdated, but not the type.

No, and maybe. It would make me wonder about him.

It doesn't really make much of a difference. My first uncircumcised cock was a little surprising, though - I didn't think it looked very appetizing.

Hall pass - interesting concept. I've been in a few "steady relationships" - I'm in one now. I do not own the guy, and he does not own me. We're together because what we have works. I hope I feel that way when I'm married - the vow is only as good as the love you have.

If I let him go - and he comes back - I'll know we're good. I might be a little hurt, but that hurt will make us stronger.

All that being said, if Bob tells me he's hot for Mary and just wants to go fuck her, we'll have to talk.

"Hall passes" require some ground rules ( at least I think they do). I'll give a Hall Pass, and if I ever want one, I hope I get one - but I don't think it should be a "I just want to out and get laid by someone else" = the Hall Pass should address some need or shortcoming in the relationship....

Its funny - I'm normally a raging heterosexual - but I also really enjoy FMF threesomes with a few female friends. I have had only a few one-on-one FF relationships, and they have been wonderful and relaxing and unhurried... I have not been able to decide what "type" of girl attracts me - I love nice figures, nice breasts, intelligence, manners, general physical attractiveness. One girl I knew in college was a tiny girl - something like me - small breasted and willowy. I sat next to her in physics class, and what attracted me to her was her scent. She didn't wear perfume or body wash - it was just her natural scent. It took me about a half hour of inhaling her - I introduced myself and we hit it off as friends. We studied and partied together - it took about a month before it turned physics - but it was incredible. I've known girls with bigger boobs, nicer butts - but Tanya just filled my senses. I had a boyfriend at the time that I was totally happy with - we fucked all the time and we were faithful to each other, Tanya also had a boyfriend, But Tanya --- after a few afternoons together - and a winter weekend in a motel on Cape Cod off-season - I was thinking about what I am. She and I chatted and decided that we were "bi-curious" - neither of us sought out women, but simultaneously were not against a relationship with one. I talked about her with my bf at the time, and it immediately turned him on (and that was not unexpected) - but, he did NOT want to watch us together, instead he wanted to be with us together. I was leery - a threesome with good friends didn't seem like a great idea - but it turned out to be absolutely delightful. Introducing a guy into out FF was perfect - we could be insatiable about fucking, but still intimate and exploring each other. The penis added another layer. Tanya invited her bf to join her and me -- and that was great, too - being with a new guy is always exciting and it certainly fed to raging hetero in me.

Typing this has made me horny.

No - almost never. Metros come with too much personal baggage and always seem to be in love with themselves. Give me an outdoorsy guy who'll go hiking and camping and sailing with me. I don't need a guy competing with me for make-up, creams and hair products in the bathroom. Yuck.

I think a lot of them are fishing for the "Oh my God" reaction - sometimes its warranted, most times not, since most men are average (definition of average!).

I think men think we are turned on by the mere sight. Sometimes, but not usually.

What turns me on is the guy who is casual about it - they guy who isn't afraid to chenge clothes in front of me, but doesn't make a point of shoving his cock at me; the guy who will go skinny dipping with me and friends who isn't also parading himself around; the guy who might even be a little embarrassed when he gets a hard-on and it is visible in his pants; the guy who, when making out for the first time with me, doesn't automatically move my hand down there - I like to discover things for myself, at a pace that matches the moment and the temperament of the guy.

I've been called old-fashioned - I like it when the cock-sighting is part of a natural discovery and uncovering process, rather than a "hang it out and shake it at me" thing. I might gasp in wonderment if a truly magnificent one is exposed - but I'd rather gasp in wonderment as I unzip my new friend, or get a glimpse of him when we skinny dip or something .....

Bottom line - flashing your cock at me might get an "oooh, that's nice", but rarely will it turn me on.

No. They can play with themselves. I'm not interested in the least.

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In 2022 approx 48,000 people died in USA from firearms, of those approx. 20,000 were homicides. Its estimated that injuries are more than double that. 20,000 gun murders seems like a pretty big problem to me, never mind the injuries. If 20,000 deaths are no big deal then 9/11 was a peashooter.

totally wrong, and actually insulting to gun owners and 9/11 victims.. Go back and check FBI stats. But you've been brainwashed with false numbers, so I'm not expecting a fair analysis or representation..

I know and am good friends with at least 100 gun owners and users in my school, neighborhood and family - no murders, no firearm deaths, no accidental shootings. The gun clubs I belong to will say the same, and that is well over 300 people. The common thread is that we are reasonable, trained and responsible people. Leave big cities (both blue and red) out of the count - too many 'non-normal' people and they skew your statistics.

I live in a city (a blue city with a very high crime rate, despite what the media will say. I keep a loaded pistol within arms reach when I'm in bed, and one quickly available when I'm just home and alone. They are locked and secured when I'm not home. I often carry when I'm out.

Why don't you focus your ire and snarkiness on drug-related deaths, or highway fatalities, or home accidents, or bad diets and lack or exercise?

I have enjoyed lots of variations with my bfs cum, and we've shared with friends occasionally. On pizza, burgers, on cupcakes (fresh and hot on the icing or mixed in with the batter of a few specially chosen cupcakes), on crackers and chip dip ... so many ways. My absolute favorite is putting it yogurt that I bring to work for lunch. I make my own and put it at the bottom of the container so I can stir it in. I love the special taste it gives my yogurt - and one of gfs at work knows about it and likes to sample it too.

Then there's me --- my favorite is cucumber salad. But just about any food I can safely put in me that can end up in a meal or snack it fair game. I have always been horny this way - since I was very young.

This morning, in bed with a bf. I gave him wake-up call "good morning blowjob". When I get home later, I'm ready for a few more.

I posted about a year ago, but I was looking at the forum, and this caught my eye - maybe because I gave a friend one this morning. I just love it - I set the tempo, his cock is erect but "flexible" first thing in the morning and I love hardening him off. I crawl in next to him, gently take him into my mouth and start having fun. He wakes up pretty fast, but only stops me if he has to pee.

The tempo is easy, the sucking is slow and sensual, and the volume of cum is usually great. I don't usually need him to reciprocate, but I love it if we have time.

But on workdays - the morning oral visit is mine to give, and I never complain, and haven't received any complaints.

It's more "motion" than length or width. If a guy knows how to move his meat, it usually doesn't matter a whole lot how long or wide it is (although width is awesome).

Absolutely, no questions asked.

She probably wants to experience being noticed like she was when she was very young. Don't question it or guilt trip her -- she's hanging on to her vitality and self confidence.

Boston Creampie! awesome! I bet they're awesome pretty much everywhere else, too.

I don't know many girls who don't enjoy a guy cumming in their mouths. I do know a lot of girls who will not swallow, but will snowball or pop the cock out and take it on the face or chest.

But the feeling of the cock in your mouth getting harder and thicker and then spasming a little before the ejaculation - when all that happens in my mouth its a sensation and experience like no other. Addictive, a serious hobby .... whichever.

Not into rough sex - it usually gets carried away and stops being fun and kinky.

a t shirt with no bra and no panties. Getting ready for bed. Normally I wear comfortable cotton panties and usually no bra.

One of the first things my mom taught me about sex - that the vagina can accommodate pretty much any size penis, given a few minutes, thats why we take the bigger ones slowly, an inch at a time, until it bottoms out - then its time to party!

Seriously - I was with a few girlfriends at my house after school (middle school) and the conversations was "should we try it and see if it fits". Mom heard us and, when the girls had gone home, told me about the adaptable pussy.

So - apparently the cervix and uterus and other things sort of move a little out of the way, the vaginal walls stretch a little, and what had been 4 inches deep can now be expanded to 7 or 8 inches.

Numbers 2 and 3. I'm good with the rest.

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If they have to ask then chances are I didn't enjoy it!

Hit the nail on the head.

Really interested? Just a matter of minutes.

Mildly intrigued? A minute or two.

Someone who's interesting? Maybe an hour - watching him without interacting. He's gaining my interest the longer I watch. Then, when I start a face to face - the pedal hits the metal and instinct kicks in. I know within minutes if I'm going to pursue a relationship - I've learned (the hard way) to trust my instincts.