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You may be unaware, but we do offer private chat rooms now - for free. Anyone can open a private chat room, invite only who they want to invite and have minor moderator privileges i.e Kick out a disruptive member or gag.
Alrighty then. Or should that be all righty then.

LOL I love urban dictionary's explanation

alrighty

a stupid thing that certain ppl say when they have nothing else to say, even when they could write something else but really don't care what it is you are saying, also mostly used by girls


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Sorry Fugly. I win!


I hope you enjoy your two week vacation


ONLY JOKING
Damn! You called my bluff

Since you are on my friend list, I can't do it. But, if I delete you... hmmmm LOL
Have to give this a shot LOL

If anyone posts after me, I will remove my bag and that person will be permanently blind after seeing my ugly mug.



Are you sure you want to take the risk to see if I am bluffing???
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LadyX--I reported you to lush. & then I had to block you. Sorry Fugly--It was just an expression & please add me, after all, this topic was about watching men masturbate.


I will only add you if you please promise to stop these accusations and calling people out. If you don't, I won't even get a chance to add you

And yes, I love to watch men masturbate
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Fugly--add me as a contact and i'll show you my nose hairs ffs! So you either go on cam with me, or it would be "best to keep quiet".


LOL Nose hairs - interesting. I've had all offers of men wanting to show me their bits, but never nose hair. I might JUST add you LOL. As for keeping quiet, nah
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Little Bambi--you're a male and you're deceiving & lying to everyone when you have a female profile. It matters to me. & it should matter to everyone else. I have put up proof and if anyone is questioning my authenticity here's my messenger: I'll be gladly to cam with "anyone" at anytime. Add me as a contact. All I'm just doing is revealing that "Little Bambi" is a fraud.


Unless you have a screen capture with them admitting that they are not who they say they are, or know the person in real life, you have no proof. As for your proof, where are the head shots? Where is your sign? Your profile pictures could be of your boyfriend or friend.

I am not attacking you, I am simply stating the obvious. Unless you have 100 percent proof, it is best to keep quiet.

And no, I am not a moderator that is abusing their power by saying this.
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Little Bambi--prove that you're the girl in your photo by taking a picture with a sign that has your screen name on it. Then I'll take you serious. Until then, to me you're just another dude, pretending to be a vapid chick. The oldest 'net trick in the book.


I can prove easily I am a girl... see



and I did the sign all by myself.
LOL I think if I could get every member that logs on for a whole week to view my profile, I still wouldn't get 1/4 of the views that Dancing_Doll gets in a month or even a year! I maybe should change me name to Dancing_Fugly or Blow-up-Doll and see if that makes a difference

@catnip Of course you can borrow my bag. I will even stick some ears on it
Nice/sweet guys = pushovers, agrees with EVERYTHING you say , non individuals, and generally non opinionated.

Take away those annoying traits and looks don't matter!
ATM, a real strong drink and watching two or more strangers have poorly scripted meaningless sex

But normally, it is an intelligent person who can make me laugh.
I don't know about being banished, but it could simply mean that he deleted his own account for his own personal reasons.
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my woman wants to let me have her piss all over my face. does it really turn you women on doing that ???????


Have a man piss all over my face? No thanks! It would totally destroy the bag.

Would I ever pee on my bloke? Yes, if he asked, and if it was in a bath tub/shower so we could wash together/each other straight after.
Getting back to the subject

Very good advice Olivia, and I am glad you did not ignore the 'smashing the shit outta things' comment. Maybe the person in question is coming across as frustrated and aggressive and hence no luck with the ladies. He/she may need to take a break from the dating scene and focus on the positive aspects of life; forget love for the moment and become confident in other matters. He/she may be trying way too hard and needs to relax.

Love often comes when we are not expecting it or we are not trying.

Or, he could always order a bride
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why are girls so mean? like some girls are just rude and talk about you behind your back when they dont even no you at all. i dont understand how some girls can just be huge bitches to people they have never actually had a real conversation with.


When I first read this, my first thought was "but isn't that what you are doing? Aren't you talking about these people behind their backs instead to them directly?", hence my first response. Winky called them rude and huge bitches, but as Winky pointed out that if they don't know her - really, she doesn't know them or have had a real conversation with them, therefore calling the kettle black.

Back to the question: If you are talking about Lush, well - in one way we all put ourselves out there without the need to have a real conversation. This happens especially in the forums and more often enough are judged by what we post. The internet and forums are often void of any emotion and we are often misjudged. So if people are talking behind our backs, it is because without meaning to, we have given them some sort of ammunition.

This is just an example, I have never read any of winky's posts but after reading this one, it is natural to first assume that this person is a bit of a whiner who could possibly enjoy starting fights, gossips and could possibly be self centered. I am not saying that this is who winky is and this is not an attack. This is just an example of how easy it is to judge someone on the internet by a simple post. Winky could and possibly is, the nicest person on lush. But it's that easy to assume.

Some people will bitch about someone simply by what is written on their profile. I hate to say this, but I have done this myself. I saw one profile of a girl who talked nothing but how fabulous she was. I didn't go and bitch about it, but did have a bitch to myself and naturally thought of the song "You're so vein". lol

Olivia's response was an excellent one. I would like to say to GiganticTager that this thread is not about bullying. This is about people who talk behind people's backs. This was never an attack on Winky but the responses were due to how the question was asked. I had fun with my first response, but I could have gone another way and said as many responses to the questions in the forum from the young sexy girls, and answered with 'oh, it's not you, you are wonderful and they are just bitches'. Or answer in the only other possible way and say 'hey, us women are all bitches and proud of it' lol.

Just remember, without bitching/gossiping, there would be no need for reality shows. We only watch them to see them bitching. Hmmm a life without Jersey Shore or Kim kardashian. Gossip/bitching is a natural behavior. We all do it. We all do it for various reasons and we all love to hear juicy gossip. But how we respond to said gossip/bitching is totally a different matter. Learn to ignore it and just have fun.

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The term bitch is defined in an offensive manner as 'A woman considered to be spiteful or overbearing'


A bitch is just not defined as that. It is often defined as a woman who is self confident or assertive. Yes there are bad bitches, but it does help in real life to be a bitch. If someone called me a bitch, I would hope that they meant that they consider me a strong individual rather than just being spiteful. Truth in itself is often the real bitch.
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Look, I only sleep with women I find attractive because If I didn't I would be banging that ugly chick just cause I was horny and had no other option and that is a messed up thing to do to a girl because you know damn well you ain't taking her out the next day for some fucking ice cream.


On behalf of all the fugly/ugly people on here - shame, shame, shame
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Maybe it's been mentioned before but I would like to see a How to/ tips and tricks section in the forums. I know you have the FAQ but there are still some questions I have not seen in there. I'm not looking for anything fancy just something to help the computer illiterate people like myself.

Examples:
How to quote someone. (took me about 2 months to figure that button out)
How to quote a sentence that someone says and not the whole text. (still don't know how)
How to post a link.
How to use the search function. (for those pesky people who ask the same questions over and over)
How to embed the youtube link without having to type the whole text.
How to exit the chat rooms without signing out of your account. (apparently the back button on the browser doesn't log you out of the chat room)

I can see that some of these are stupid questions but it would be nice to have an area where we can refer to if we are unsure of how to do something without having to send a message to someone to ask how. I'm sure there are more from others too. Just a suggestion.
Thanks



If I may add, as a social media virgin (I guess technically not anymore), a glossary or index of what some of the terminolgy means within a site such as Lush. I'm pretty sure I get the Badge section, but some of the basics are leaving me puzzled. For example, I'm still not entirely sure I understand the difference between friending someone and following someone and what they mean when they're talking about chatting or cybering

And oh yeah... I guess I just popped my First Forum Contribution cherry too for that matter. Thanks for hearing me.


Congrats on your popping

Hopefully, this will be of some help. Friending someone is basically a contact list. When they are your friends, you can poke them, receive their activities notices etc. 'Following' someone is simply you will be notified when that person has written a new story - they don't necessary have to be friends for you to receive this.

Chatting is having a friendly chin wag, talk etc, and cybering is another term of sexting - it is sex talk or virtual sex.
LOL The irony of this question is that you are bitching about the bitches who bitch.
Love it. I'm playing 'Red Dead Redemption Undead Nightmare' at the moment. Totally rocks COD Black ops is not too shabby either. No, I am not better than the majority of men, I would say all LOL
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Do Not let him see you partaking in embarrassing female-behavior. If your regular maintenance involves bleaching your upper lip, plucking your chin hair or squeezing pus-filled bumps on your face, please do not half-hazardly allow him to witness these things by leaving the bathroom door open or doing it in front of him. He knows that you aren’t perfect and that strange grooming rituals go on, but he doesn’t need to watch it all go down and have those images burned into his psyche forever. Nor does he need to secretly worry that you might be sprouting a full femme-beard in 30 years just like your Aunt Edna.


Some guys don't care. Some guys have strange grooming rituals of their own.

Something like this makes me think girls out there will be developing self-esteem issues because they're worried their significant other will see them taking care of normal, every day, mundane shit and be horrified about it. Having a chin hair shouldn't mean hiding away; pluck the damn thing, stop being shallow and get on with the rest of your day.

I actually resented this part of your post. My husband has seen me pluck that rogue hair, and I've watched him trim his nose hair. Our sex life is still fine.

Why act like the human condition is an embarrassing disease?


This reminded me about a 'wife swap' show, I watched recently. The husband - who only preferred to see his wife in makeup - was sent by his 'new' wife to a spa and beauty centre. Upon returning home, he told his 'new' wife about his new found knowledge, stating that he appreciates his wife even more (now with tears in his eyes) after seeing what she has to go through to look beautiful for him.

I would suggest before moving in or marrying, to actually spend some nights over each others place to get to know each others bad habits rather than change who you are. Everyone in a relationship relaxes after a certain time and pretending to be someone who you are not, will only lead to disappointment.
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You might be over thinking it curiouscat. These are fuck stories.


LOL Maybe we should just have a four penis voting system for these 'fuck stories'. Instead of numbers, just have 4 penises


It has been quiet, hasn't it? That quiet that I'm almost missing stormblue

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Like many social sites, Lush's forums (and chatrooms) can become very cliquey. I find that with some of the games and threads, it's a repeating of a handful. Often, the handful are essentially chatting back and forth, making it difficult for newbies to join in.

It would be nice (regardless if you think it's kind of slow) to have new members feel like they can join in and provide some new "blood" ........





Totally know where you're coming from with that, and it can be a little intimidating if you're new to the games. I always stick to the topic, easily allowing others to join in after me, even when I do partake in a bit of banter.

After all, the more people we have taking part in forum discussions and games, the more useful/fun they are.


I was trying to be eloquent with saying that the forums and chatrooms are cliquey.

There are in many of the threads the apt title of forum whores or attention seekers. Like, how many times do you need to add on to a thread of "what makes your day special" ..... one day - 5 times? Like .... really??

Thank you for allowing others to join in after you .... Newbies appreciate it ... but often the handful are the ones that take over .... it's not just my observation, but many members.

So, how to make the slow times faster? I have no idea ... I just wanted to give my thoughts.



I agree with Yahtzee. I would in fact (if I was in charge) delete many of the forum games, as at times, the only difference is an extra word in the title.

I understand also what Yahtzee is saying about the newbies. I have seen them come in, post exactly what all the others are posting, but get a very unfriendly reply or even skipped, because they are not part of the group. It is very sad to watch.

As an adult site, I am surprised by the lack of respect I often see on here.

The only thing I would change, because we do still need to follow rules - not just Nic's, but the law, which is 99% of nic's rules - is code the forums so that in the Active Discussions - Latest Posts would not contain any of the forum games so we can see more of the last 5 more interesting topics/discussions. 9 out of 10 times, the last 5 have all been forum games and all from the same people. I don't think it's possible, but I can only dream.

No offense intended but I just simply don't give a fuck, who you want to fuck LOL

The day is coming to an end, so go and have a shower, shave, get dressed and go wild!


Happy birthday Nic
I ban you for being too sweet and for not knowing that of course you can report a mod We are not untouchable and we are still human

Just a word of advice (not particularly pointed at you - just in general), say hypothetical that you had a friend that was calling a mod 'dumb, dumber and dumbest' and saying 'I'm with stupid' really won't help the situation if you wish to report them LOL
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ban you for being ignorant


LMFAO Sorry, but I would have to ban you for being ignorant LOL. I would suggest you look at member's profile once and awhile and check out their badges before threatening them to report them to adin, sorry, that should be admin.

Sorry it's just too funny
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Edit: when I click on your "blog" tab, there's nothing.


When I click the blog button it shows the last thing I said. I havent changed it since then, so would that not count?

It's official.......the site hates me.


Maybe it's too old to count??? When I go to your profile, it doesn't show anything in your blog. Could it also be because you don't have a last name?
LOL I sat there thinking 'why would a business ring the spouse?' and missed the line. It will be one birthday she will never forget
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A word of advice though - if you are going to post lingerie pictures of "you" taken by "your ex" it might be an idea to change the filename of the image to remove the original model's name. Also try to use just one model.


I had to check for myself - good pick