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I've always enjoyed movies with slapstick scenes in them, especially where people fall headfirst into something like a trashcan or get their head stuck in a bucket or similar, but during the last few months I've discovered that I find it easy to cum when pretending to be stuck upside down in a trashcan...what I do is go into the garage, lock the door, then prop the spare (clean and empty) trashcan against the wall and pretend to fall into it headfirst in a clumsy manner. I'd be wearing a t-shirt/tanktop, a shot skirt, white socks and runners. When I'm kicking my legs in the air (as if trying to get out of the trashcan) and feel the skirt fold back, revealing my (usually white or pink) undies it doesn't long for me to get wet, due to the combined factors of being upside down with flailing legs, pretending to be stuck in an awkward position and flashing panties. It feels great!!

Have any of you girls ever had a similar experience before?? If so, do you have any tips on how I could maybe make these 'fetish sessions' even more kinkier for myself??



Welcome to Lush lizzygurrl

The only thing close that comes to this (exhibitionism) is getting drunk on the weekends and masturbating on the front porch steps at 1 or 2 am, or going shopping with an already short braless top and purposely reaching for something high.

So, I can't really help you there, but was wondering if panties and a locked door are a must? I think it would be more kinkier and sexier without - even if the door was only opened 1/2 or 3/4's the way. Or even as redlips sort of suggested - get someone else involved and let them take advantage of the situation by maybe taking photos or a little spanking. Maybe also add some humiliation into the fetish and add fresh clean rubbish - something like wet spaghetti etc???
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Jackson was a child molester. That trumps anything else he did in his life. Secondly, he was a drug abuser and it eventually killed him. The doctor was just trapped in this same idolization of him and gave him what he wanted. And third, he tried everything he could to turn himself white. Why do black people still consider him a role model? He obviously hated being black. And don't say he had a medical condition. BS!!! I cannot understand how anybody can still idolize him.



Considering the OP asked 'what did you like most about him?' I'm quite surprised that you admit you like him most for being a dj2uardBsUM2hSwY interesting LOL

For me, never liked the man himself, but did like his music and dramatic stage presence (except the crotch grabbing ).
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Hello Neversaynever

If future, to avoid confusion for posters, it is best when filling out a new topic to give a brief hint of what the topic is about in the 'subject' area and your full question in the 'message' box below that, so members can see the full question. Otherwise there is a lot of second guessing what comes after rather....
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and no, that doesn't mean I feel good or saintly LOL
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^^^ Ravyn, just a friendly suggestion - you may want to read up on the terms that state that close up genital shots are not permitted

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- How much does the dominant person really trully enjoys the inflicting pain in others? in the books he really needs to do this.

There are so many different variants of BDSM such as fetishes, pain, control, humiliation and extreme, so this is hard to answer as not all bdsm lifestyles involves pain. Myself, I am more into control/humiliation such as male chasity belts, restraints etc, but if I were to inflict pain, it would be very slight and often with candles which are specially bought that are low burning or paddles which are used with minimal force.

- Is it a normal thing to have a BDSM relationship without feelings involve? In the book he cares about his subs, but he doesnt have any feelings for them.

Not normal as it really depends on the relationship, but it can and does happen. I may be wrong, but I am assuming when you are talking of feelings, you mean love??? You can care for their well-being, even like, but depending on the situation, love does not factor in at all.

- Do you think a lot of people enter this lifestyle because of a painfull background and this is the only way to cope with reality?

I can't really answer for myself as I am not into pain, unless that is what the sub is into and even then I draw the limits to what I feel comfortable with. But the funny thing is that it was only the other day I was reading a book which had a segment about Albert Fish. Fish had a very strong fetish of self inflicting pain and often involved sticking needles into his cock and involved his wife and family, getting them to spank his behind with a paddle that had nails sticking out *ouch* It went on to say that he was an orphan and at the orphanage they used corporal punishment which he admits that he required a taste from being whipped and beaten as a result from the experience. So I would have to yes it could and would be a reason for some.

- What about the rules? he has some insane rules like never touching him unless ask to, or never seeing him in the eyes, never sleeping in the same bed... are this the normal rules?

For me, these rules are not insane at all. I have rules about not touching and also use neck and wrists restraints as an extra measure - a great tease gadget btw. I also have rules about not speaking unless spoken to etc., plus other rules which mainly requires respect. The only rule I find amusing is the one of cum on command - I have yet to meet someone in real life that can do this in an instant LOL. I am not saying it can't happen, I am just saying I haven't seen it happen.

- Do you live by this rules all the time? i mean you never have a break from them? you never can just talk to the other person like you do in a (i know normal shouldnt be the word i say but is the only one i can think of) normal relationship?

Some live it 24/7, others live it when they are not working or their children are in bed or out of the house etc. So yes, you can live as a normal couple and have 'pet time' (as I call it) a couple of hours a day or even just on weekends.

- If you are a dominant and you see this girl or guy you want to take as a sub and that person is really not into the lifestyle do you try a relationship or no?

No

I've heard of this book before and found it amusing that grey ties have increased in sales because of it, but had no idea what it was about. Now this book sounds very interesting, so I'm off to get a copy, thank you
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I think you should relax. Nobody's posting anything in reference to you, Fugs.


I am relaxed I know how this works. Not directed at you - Not lush related.
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LOL correct. And you and I would've been so frustrated, reading their boring posts, unable to retort.


Didn't take enough LadyX? Now I can't have an opinion or thought without having veiled comments left after mine? Why not retort? You had no problems being very personal to me when the favor wasn't returned or even started. Don't forget, I suggested, not suspended.
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What has surprised you about Lushstories.com?

How a small, but powerful circle can control the outcome and in a way lush by threats. I still love lush, but I am very surprised and disappointed. I say next time they get their nickers in a knot over trying to make lush a friendlier place, call their bluff LOL You will see I am right; they are not protecting lush but themselves and their circle of friends.

and how easily it is to feel betrayed by your friends
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I am putting a stop to this and locking this thread. ENOUGH WITH THE PERSONAL ATTACKS! I think it is safe enough to say everyone is getting fed up with this. This is the third thread I have seen in the last week or so that two members have specifically commented on a reply that could have been directed to any of the 114,029 members, but they have named names and talked about profiles and any other personal information which does not pertain to the topic.

I am sending these two individuals a warning and will be requesting that these two have some time off to think about what they are doing by spoiling the image of lush with their personal, very public attacks.

This has to stop today.
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Can we please keep it as an adult site and stop being such babies...

If you read the girl with the the boring boyfriend's original reply it wasn't exactly a reply begging for that serious of an answer... And seriously, calling a fit girl skinny is just as insulting as calling an overweight girl fat. So its okay to call people skinny but not fat? Must be because we all know that being fat isn't what people want to be but we must all pretend it's okay so we make up words like horizontally challenged to avoid saying the "F" word so no one's feelings are hurt but then the plump ones turn around and start in with the skinny this and that skinny women can eat whatever... Bullshit man. It takes effort to be in shape.

I told you I wasn't being sarcastic there. I was merely stating my opinion which I am entitled to do, like you said. If you look back on this thread my first post wasn't directed at anyone. In fact, my first post was just about why I like the type of women I like and I stated my reasons. Someone else decided to quote me and discuss and this thread evolved into something with more substance.

You say I am being superficial but if you read my original reply you will see that I am stating my opinion and also give my reasons as to why I like fit women and they are not just because physically they are more beautiful to me. Its about their personality too. A lot of the replys to this thread have been like this, "more to love" ... "more to grab ahold of" <--- that is superficial. Maybe I should have just said "I like the big girls cause they have bigger tits and asses, more cushion for the pushin" Would that have been a better reply?


Disclaimer: The below is not about fat girls and the men who love them

Regarding my comment about your avatar. In my defense I did say it was a side note... So anyone living in fear of reading a thread and accidentally reading something that doesn't have to do with the original topic could skip over that part and their whole day wouldn't be ruined. Your statement about what I said being the most bizarre superficial remark you have ever read here could be taken as an insult, just saying. Which I think only reinforces my opinion of why I thought it was good you incorporated the two faced design into you avatar. Not to mention other slanderous bullshit you have blogged about me that I have ignored. that is all.................


See, this is what I mean felix. You obviously insulted the new member - and others - (maybe not a member after she sees how rude fellow members can be) who felt it was serious enough to reply, then you insult her again by saying that her boyfriend must be a butterface etc. and then further insult her by insulting her boyfriend again, by now saying he is boring.

Members are humans and do have feelings - we are not all that cold. Sorry to repeat myself, but please be respectful

As for the rest - I am not going to play these childish, gang up mentality games any further and bother replying - I have too much respect for myself and for this site to do so.
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I did say that. What you may call acting superficial, I call acting realistic. Why is dating any different than anything else humans do? Why would a 300 pound guy waste his time hitting on all the girls with perfect bodies and faces? He is never going to get those girls so he becomes a chubby chaser. No shame in that, everyone needs some lovin'. But dating is like eveything else. We shop for cars we can afford, clothes that will fit us well and are in our budget, take vacations that we can fit into our schedule and aren't gonna break the bank.... Ugh such an obvious point, I find it bizarre you didn't get it. I mean really... Attractive people are usually partnered with other attractive people.

And yes, you have proven time and time again that all sarcasm is lost on you. Although I wasn't really being sarcastic in that comment, I assure you that sarcasm will creep into my future posts so I suggest you save yourself the mental anguish and avoid what I say.

On a side note, I like the new angel motif your avatars have adapted. I liked the one from yesterday with the angel wings and halo. I finally thought you had come up with one I liked. I don't know why I thought it was cool, maybe I just have a thing for angels. The one from yesterday I liked more because it was just an all white angel with wings, pretty. But you incorporated yourself in this one more, with the two-face design. So I guess that is cool too, you made the angel aesthetic "your own".


Could we please keep this as an adult site and stop with the childish insults.

There is really no need to tell someone that the only reason why their boyfriend is going out with them is because they must have a butterface or have a personality of a jar of pickle juice and basically settled for less.

Please also refrain from personal insults. I said I found your comment as bizzare and supperficial and you come back with I am two faced??? My avatar (which is naughty and nice - not two faced) has nothing to do with this topic or that I find often that your so said sarcasm is really hostility and disrespectful insults. This topic is asking what men find attractive about bigger women - not body sizes, or about fitness, or that you like fit girls etc, it is about bigger women and why men find them attractive.

Everyone is entitled to an opinion, and even if you wish to question that opinion, please do so, but there is no need to insult them. Please show respect towards all members and you will be surprised how often it is returned.
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Just a friendly reminder

Please keep in mind in discussions such as this, that all ages must be over the age 18 in the forum areas, otherwise unfortunately they will be deleted. Thank you
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very nice pics... but i still do not know how to post pics in the forum


I sent you a message, but will repeat it here for yourself and others wondering the same thing. You need to have had posted 20 posts before being able to post a picture - We only do it this way to stop spamming. Once you have exceeded 20 posts, you will then notice some new icons above the post message box - one for linking an image and one for uploading an image.

So get posting lol only 7 more to go
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Quote by mercy1369

The guy I'm dating is a skinny muscular guy and he prefers bigger girls.


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Does he have a butterface? Or the personality of a jar of pickle juice? Does he lack confidence? Is he a lazy bum? All of these things come into play when guys decide what girls they can and can't get. Kinda like how people that can't afford a BMW will often say that BMWs are lame cars etc


Oh felix, please tell me you did not do that, because if so, that is probably the most bizarre superficial remark I have read on here on lush. I'm really hoping I am missing the sarcasm lol
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The pride

The mud slinging

The powerfully erotic stories I've read
-thanks authors, for sharing!

The controversy between what users say/do

The inordinate amount of time I spend on here


Here, here. I second that and wouldn't have it any other way LOL
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