I refrain from using whore as it denotes payment, not actions. I have known women that melt when called a slut or other such terms, some even much more degrading. But as Sprite said they would not be so enthusiastic if it were in the middle of Thanksgiving dinner or a euchre game. I have known those that if you DARE call them such things you will NEVER see the promised land. You have to know your partner.
As far as oral, I for one LOVE to lick and be licked. I have on several occasions limited the evening to me pleasing her without the possibility of a return. But I adore giving orgasms and can only assume (or maybe it is just wishful thinking) that some women may find the same pleasure in sucking cock.
I have been told many times that my partner was 'hungry' for me, maybe the word cum was not there but was implied, although I have had some that have no problem being a cum slut so they would not hesitate to tell me there were hungry for cum.
You also limit the desire to a male dominance thing and I assure you that most of the women that I have had such intimate dealing with can be much more verbal and aggressive in talking when they are with a woman than with a man. I have been amazed at the language between them, but those same women can also become innocent and shy in different situations. It is all relative to the desires at that moment.
Fiona, I agree that sometimes the language can be ... cleaned up and express the same ideas and I do love the way you write and find it very sexy. Still, there are times when I just want down and dirty so the prose is not necessary. I want to hear that she begs for his cock or that he 'fucked her already dripping pussy and ended by covering the slut's ass with his cum'. I feel the prose is more for when you want to tell the dirty story but not be dirty in the process. Almost like trying to hide the act in pretty images. But that is just me, see it is always subjective.
Perhaps you would be offended by the tag of a dirty slut (or whatever) because you never feel that way inside. You do not see yourself like that so you do not appreciate being referred to in that manner. Which I hope your partners respect as everyone deserves to be seen and referred to as something they see in themselves. Some men like the idea that they 'are the best or biggest I have ever had'. Some prefer more truth. Erotica can be artful or dirty as hell, either seems to work.
My suggestion, find those women that like what you find unrealistic. As you can see they are out there and you would be a much happier camper trust me.
Ciao 
Talk about getting sent back to the minor league ....
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That is why I write, well that and I am a old perv with a lot of naughty ideas. 
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