I shared Alane a couple of years ago. Her lover was Ed. She met him at the gym a couple of years ago. He was in his mid-fifties, divorced, confident without being arrogant, and as Alane eventually admitted, very handsome. She spends a lot of time in the free-weight area, and one Saturday afternoon Ed walked over and offered to spot her. She readily accepted. What began as casual conversation between sets gradually turned...