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Makes me sad. I don’t see the big deal with you warning women’s stuff well unless you look better in it than me. As long as u wanted me I would go shopping with you for items.

In the big city, I would be OK with shopping with you. However, I live in a semi-rural area, and as a long-time resident, I run into people I know while out. I wore a Speedo while swimming, and a former coworker tried to act cool, but when I saw her ata luncheon several days later, she wasn't the man I had known for 10 + years.

The first pair came in the mail. It was a free promo pair for Victoria's Secret, much too small for her (she had to have gastric bypass surgery). She never saw the package, as I am the one who usually gets the mail from the box. They fit well.

A few years later, for Christmas, online I bought my wife something from Catherine's and ordered a bra and panties for myself. I found out that Catherine's keeps past orders by address (not email). I was terrified my wife would see what I ordered.

My wife never shops at JCPenney's, so I did the same thing another Christmas, but went with ship-to-store. I ordered some men's tennis shoes to disguise the purchase.

Unlike so many here, I don't want to be a woman. I just like the feel of a bra on my nipples and a panty on my ass. However, I fear the bra straps will leave marks.

If you message me, I will share more.

California, Hawaii, and Tennessee (grad school). Grad school brought my number up from one. Christy, there were others, but you were the hottest.

Quote by Ls63563

I do love a guy taking my ass after he gets me well warmed up. Sometimes I’ll weather a butt plug when I go shopping or to dinner or lunch. It’s fun to keep my mind in a dirty place.

Well, let me provide you with excellent customer service.

FYI, there are pegging groups in Lush. I "co-star" in one video. Please enjoy and leave a comment.

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I had to work the next day. My wife kissed another guy at midnight though. Sorry I missed that.

Wow. Did you (or her) want him to do more than kiss?

Quote by SexyFoolishNun101

No

I don’t think I have ever gotten lucky on the day

Hopefully this year

Seriously, a good-looking like you hasn't had a hot date on New Year's? I'd watch the ball drop with you.

Quote by darkroot50

Nope. But I haven’t gotten lucky with my wife in almost 20 years. And my GF lives a long way from me.

I feel your pain.

I can't wait until it is warm enough to swim again.

Will you, or did you, get lucky on New Year's Eve?

(There is a similar question in Ask the Gals).

So are, or did, you get lucky on New Year's?

(There is a companion post in Ask The Guys).

As men age, their prostate gets larger and larger. The most commonly prescribed medication is Finasteride.

Good news: Finasteride slows the growth and reduces the risk of prostate cancer.

Bad news: Because Finasteride messes with hormones, some guys get "boobs".

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I’ll bet a lot of younger Lushies don’t get that joke.

You are quite right.

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With my longtime wife, I occasionally suffer the disappointment of ED... But when I am engaged in something " " - like sucking another man's cock, I find that I am nearly always iron hard and, usually, even after I cum, I maintain an erection that would have pleased me when I was in my 20s!!

Can I provide an opportunity to get you hard?

Here is an on-topic joke (that dates me):

Q: Why did Nixon watch Deep Throat 15 times?

A: He wanted to get down Pat.

I have been on Lush for several years, which has exposed me to lifestyles that I knew nothing about.

While I have a bucket list of things I want to try, putting on a cock cage is not one of them. However, I am a curious person in general. I have chatted with a few guys (among many other chats) who have or do wear cock cages. They get a thrill from doing and often it fits (pun intended) with whom "they are." However, what woman wants her man caged?

Ladies, have you ever caged a man? If so, what did you get out of it?

Only two days left, share your expectations.

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Yes I expect both from several people.

Lucky you.

Guys:

Q1: Do you plan to get lingerie for the woman in your life? If so, how did you so? (Online v. in person) And how did your know her size?

Q2: Do you plan to buy any sex toys for Christmas?

Happy Holidays,

Hasabrain2

If asked this before, but added a twist this year. Please feel free to answer or both:

Old Q: Do you expect to get lingerie from the man (or woman) in your life?

New Q: Do you expect to get any sex toys for Christmas?

Happy Holidays,

Hasabrain2

Mother Nature is not kind to men. The average intervaginal latency time (IVLT) is about 5.5 minutes, much less than what most women need to reach an orgasm. Also, as men age, their IVLT drops, and 40 percent of men in their forties have erectile dysfunction, and that percentage increases with age. About 13% of men will be diagnosed with prostate cancer in their lifetimes. Removal of the prostate can often (but not always) cause impotence. What should a man do to satisfy his wife/girlfriend? Should he "subcontract" the "work" and get her a bull? Risky for disease, pregnancy, or divorce? Instead, he should try a male strapon.

FYI, there is a male strapon group in Lush. Some join the group because, for some, bizarrely, there is some comfort in having a feeling of inadequacies validated. Others have the emotional strength to say, "ok, if my leg is broken, there is no shame in using a crutch. My dick is no different."

Ladies, if you love your man, even his guy parts are what you want or need, gentle, oh so gently, tell him how he can give you more.

Gents, if Mother Nature has been unkind to you, and if you love your woman but don't want her natural desires met in someone else's bed, go shopping.

Years ago, the thought would have repulsed me; now, it is on the bucket list.

I know this is "ask the gals," but when I was in grad school, I was poor. I mean, eating government cheese and selling blood, poor. At one point, I briefly wondered if I were a woman, I could earn money for sex!.

Years later, at work, we got talking about jobs we had in grad school. A female coworker "complained" that she had to work as a cocktail waitress wearing a too-short dress. However, she made more in one weekend than I made as a lab assistant.

The gym where I go has a large workout area. Off of the workout area, there are two small trainer offices. One office is being converted to a "posting/selfie" office. Have you ever heard of such a thing?

Opinions? Comments?

About two years ago, there was a TV ad for a skin medication that featured a guy in his forties wearing a red Speedo. At first, his wife is puzzled, but by the end of the ad, she accepts that her husband likes to wear a Speedo even in public. That ad geometrically increased my curiosity. I bought a Speedo, albeit blue.

The first time I did so at my gym's pool, my heart raced, but once in the water, I felt more athletic, more manly.

However, walking around the pool, back to the locker room, and elsewhere had the opposite effect. I felt like I had a bikini bottom on, which a Speedo basically is.

After the swim, and sunning myself (in front of others). I felt very alive, not turned on exactly, but with a heightened state os awareness.

I regularly swim in a Speedo now. I like the feel athletic. However, I also enjoy walking around with a "bikini" on.

Comments:

I'm surprised, not a single no vote.

Quote by emersonbosworth
I think that blowing my load with a young thing before I got close to her hot wet cunt was my biggest embarrassing moment, but being a quick thinker, I went down on her cunt with my mouth and tongue and all was forgiven.

FYI, there is an oral after intercourse group on Lush. Close enough in your case.

There is a pegging group in Lush. FYI, I co-star in a short vid. Comments welcome

FYI, there are two relevant groups in Lush to this Forum.

1) Impotent and ED (which sounds redundant)

2) Male strapon.

Also, FYI, there is a product, Tenuto, supposedly developed by doctors that is supposed to help.

My wife finds this purple guy very satisfying. (There is a reason it is a best seller at Adam and Eve).

The gym I go to has multiple locations. There are communal showers, or what I call barrack showers, in two of them. But there is a communal changing area. I check out guys that, like me, have a Speedo tan. FYI, there is a Speedo group in Lush.