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HotBttmInBriefs
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 46
United States
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Quote by She
I actually like to see a guy in a flaccid state. It is something very intimate, very real and nature to be able to be 'part of that man's state'. It is sexy for me to see my man in his 'normal' not lusting for me moment..maybe I am too weird, but I prefer men's look that way. A guy who can walk naked in frot of me without his hard-on, parade arond with his tool, makes him more manly, more self-assured and in this way dominate, self-confident. I really enjoy that power.
I know it can do nothing for my orgasms, but it feels nature. Dont get me wrong, I love hard cocks, but we or at least I am not a rabbit, I dont need hard dick around me 24/7..12 is just fine
this pic is soo freaking awesome (and I am not using that word often!)
p.s. not really sure about new lush rules, so mods feel free to delete my pic or post
I am like you I like seeing them flaccid too. Knowing how some guys feel whether it be size or other reasons makes me feel that guy is confident enough and sure enough of himself to put it out there.
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Quote by CurlyGirly
I will tell you when this bugs me and it happened yesterday. I was perusing some strap on pics (don't judge), and a few of the guys had a strap on in their ass, but their dicks were flaccid. It honestly made the pics a bit of a turnoff, because they didn't seem to be enjoying it. If it's anything sexually related and the dick is flaccid, that's the only time it's an issue for me. Makes it seem like the guy has issues or isn't enjoying himself.
With that being said, I do love a flaccid cock getting hard in my mouth.
I have watched porn where guys are gay for pay or bisexual for pay and I hate when they stay soft during the man on man too. It makes it not as hot as it seems they are not enjoying it.
I guess you just can't pay for everything. LOL
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My dream fucks for right now are Christopher Meloni and Angelina Jolie
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As I said some of the guys I have talked to just have that perception of masculinity tied to it. I don't feel that way...just getting other peoples opinions to see if there are those out that might look at it that way.
I do know that I have read or seen in an interview on one of the talk shows that some of the models for magazines and such require a "fluffer" there to plump them up some before pictures are taken of them. I think that has more to do with size but they didn't say.
I have wondered even with some of the guys I have heard bring up the masculinity thing if it had more to do with size than the other. But then again I do remember somewhere in my college studies in psychology that there was something about the appearance of an erection vs. a flaccid cock eliciting feelings of power, dominance, etc. The flaccid cock represented the opposite in the study. That was when we were studying Freud that the teacher brought up those studies or something.
I do know that I have read or seen in an interview on one of the talk shows that some of the models for magazines and such require a "fluffer" there to plump them up some before pictures are taken of them. I think that has more to do with size but they didn't say.
I have wondered even with some of the guys I have heard bring up the masculinity thing if it had more to do with size than the other. But then again I do remember somewhere in my college studies in psychology that there was something about the appearance of an erection vs. a flaccid cock eliciting feelings of power, dominance, etc. The flaccid cock represented the opposite in the study. That was when we were studying Freud that the teacher brought up those studies or something.
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I have talked to many guys both on the Internet and in Real Life who do not like for anyone (man or woman) to see them even in photos naked with their penis in a flaccid state.
And no it is not about the size or the fear of shrinkage but they deem it as not appearing masculine or appearing powerless and less than a man if their penis is not erect.
I know that it is a psychological thing, but for you have you ever had those thoughts ... if you are a man about your own or if you are a woman about a man if you see him soft.
Thoughts?
And no it is not about the size or the fear of shrinkage but they deem it as not appearing masculine or appearing powerless and less than a man if their penis is not erect.
I know that it is a psychological thing, but for you have you ever had those thoughts ... if you are a man about your own or if you are a woman about a man if you see him soft.
Thoughts?
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Well it wouldn't bother me but might bother Dik -- so I'll take a chance on below
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Well he doesn't have much to take...
I'll gift him a nice massage from his favorite masseuse
I'll gift him a nice massage from his favorite masseuse
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I love guys and gals with some hair there, but it is not a deal breaker.
A landing strip on a lady that is nice and neat just looks so good to me.
And a nice bush on a guy is great too....esp. if it is nice and tidy and trimmed.
A landing strip on a lady that is nice and neat just looks so good to me.
And a nice bush on a guy is great too....esp. if it is nice and tidy and trimmed.
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Yes have done it with both male and female partners. Not something I like to do with each encounter, but it is a nice twist from time to time.
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Never have done it purely for pleasure.
But during rush week it was part of our "torture". They made us do it with 6 guys and the last one had to eat the cookie.
Also just like on the show about the football players (I forget what the name was now but starred Darin Brooks) -- we had to race with an oreo cookie pressed between our buttocks. If you dropped your cookie you had to stop, pick it up, and start all over. The loser of the race had to eat all the cookies. There were 12 of us in the race.
Thankfully I didn't lose either one.
But during rush week it was part of our "torture". They made us do it with 6 guys and the last one had to eat the cookie.
Also just like on the show about the football players (I forget what the name was now but starred Darin Brooks) -- we had to race with an oreo cookie pressed between our buttocks. If you dropped your cookie you had to stop, pick it up, and start all over. The loser of the race had to eat all the cookies. There were 12 of us in the race.
Thankfully I didn't lose either one.
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I like gropes or lubricates the best. But knowing that I have some totally str8 male friends on here, I cannot ever see them using that to get my attention or to say hi.
But I also like the multi-function button too. That would be neat.
And I like the idea of rating profiles. Not a necessity but it would be a neat option.
But I also like the multi-function button too. That would be neat.
And I like the idea of rating profiles. Not a necessity but it would be a neat option.
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Seems like a cool guy and I love his use of the Star Trek pic
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Introduce the title of your story: Screwed at the Beauty Pageant
Genre/Category: Bisexual Stories
Provide the link: http://www.lushstories.com/stories/bisexual/MKnyrREPhoTCrx8A
1. What first inspired you to write this particular story? It is another story based on a real life event from my life. Although there were parts of it that were embarrassing for me, other parts were comical, hot, erotic and sexy. The whole memory of the months leading up to the night of the event were packed with so many different emotions and feelings. I just felt that it might be a story that many would find interesting.
2. How did you come up with these characters? All of the characters are based on friends that were a big part of my life in years past. And of course there is myself. I worked to stay true to the characters but did change the names of each individual except for me.
3. How does it differ from some of your other stories? I think there is a little more comedy or at least comic overtones in the story than any of the others. It was and still is my story with the least amount of feedback even though it has quite a big of views. For a long time it was also my lowest scoring story. Without much feedback on the story it has left me wondering why that might be.
4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece? I think the most challenging aspect was trying to include the characters I needed without confusing the readers with too many people. Also to that trying to keep a good balance between the details of the beauty pageant and the sex since it is an erotic story.
5. Anything else you want to tell us about it? I appreciate everyone who has read it and especially those that have scored the story or given feedback. It means a lot.
Some have questioned why I was so short in detail on losing the virginity in the car to my girlfriend. Honestly although it was a big moment for me, it wasn't the greatest sex event as far as detailing it in an erotic story. And I didn't want to enhance it and make it more than it actually was.
I hope that you will read and enjoy the story. Thanks.
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This scene to me is just chilling to me. Angela Lansbury was so good in it.
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Introduce the title of your story: From Best Friends to Fuck Buddies (Parts 1, 2 and 3)
Genre/Category: Gay Male
Provide the link: Above click on the link to each part (under the picture)
1. What first inspired you to write this particular story? After my first story Office Bathroom Quickie several people asked me how things got started between me and my buddy "Chris". I wasn't sure at first if I wanted to write a story about how we began this new phase of our friendship. After a talk with "Chris" he encouraged me to do so. Needless to say both he and I both enjoyed reading and remembering the events of the weekend.
2. How did you come up with these characters? Well again that was the easiest part of my story -- our parents took care of the physical creation of us years ago, and life developed the character for each of us. Again I changed "Chris'" name, but kept his physical characteristics true to who he was and is.
3. How does it differ from some of your other stories? I guess the only difference is that this was the start of one of the longest sexual relationships I have ever had with a man. And the main character is a person I still interact with every single day. I knew that he was going to read the story too when I got through. So I was more nervous about writing it than any other story I have ever written.
4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece? I guess I already answered that one -- knowing up front that "Chris" was going to read the story when I was done. My first story I wrote about him, I did not tell him about until a few weeks after I posted it. So it was a new experience for me.
5. Anything else you want to tell us about it? It's probably the most personal story I have ever written. "Chris" and I have been friends for so long. I am very pleased that he enjoyed the story and that so many others have as well. I plan to do follow-ups to the story later. I look forward to hearing from new readers and hope that others will continue to follow the story of our friendship and other encounters as I unfold the stories later on.
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For me I would have Rodger above Timothy. I had always wondered what Sam Neill would've been like as Mr Bond? He turned down the roll ... silly Kiwi ... like him all the same thou
I tolerated Moore in the role, but I was relieved when he was replaced. I have every one of the Bond films on DVD and I hardly ever watch any of the Moore ones.