This is the first time that I have talked about this situation with Tom. It's just a surprise. It was Thursday night after coming back from an out-of-town game and Tom came to pick me up and take me to his apartment . Tom is an older man (44 or 45) and I am a 23-year-old college student at the University of Nobody's Business. I am a pitcher for our Baseball team and it is very hard for me to explain to my teammates and of...