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HotWife4U
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
Definitely smokers! Also cheaters. In fact, I seem to have quite a list of deal-breakers. lol


My exact words. Many but top two are smokers and cheaters.
My resolution is figure out how it make my guys get along. Gawd, men can be such boys.
I went to a pot luck for a charity function. This guy I was talking to said, "I really like your buns. They look tasty."

I replied, "Thanks, but I brought the Green Bean Casserole."

He smiled and said, "I know."
According to my hubby, all sides. And I apparently take all the covers with me.
He bought me the Flannel Grannies nightgown I asked for. Does that count?
Quote by NymphWriter
1) That not all men understand the term "Ladies First" nor do they care if you actually cum or not.
2) That the thrill of the first time won't carry over into the 2nd time if he doesn't make sure to follow rule #1


I so agree. Guys are clueless many times. I should have rule one tattooed on my ass.
Quote by BethanyFrasier
I learned about sex very young, but I didn't learn until too late how much shame our repressive society attaches to sexual freedom and openness. It got me into a lot of trouble early on, but it ultimately led me to the point where I just don't give a damn anymore what people think. I paid the price. I'm free to be me now!


Well, for me it was opposite. I was trained to believe sex was just for marriage. Sooo, I gave up my V card on my honey moon and discovered contraception the hard way. I got pregnant on that honeymoon. I loved sex from the first time and that desire grew and grew. Mean while, we have discovered the pleasures of open sex. I believe your sexuality belongs to you and is shared with your significant other or...
Sex first. Erotica much later. Never have been into porn myself but have watched with my hubby and FWB.
It really depends on the denomination. I think if I were a homosexual I'd have a better chance than as a hot wife. I think they'd brand me with an "A" on my forehead.
Most of my lessons are learned the hard way. Embrace it. If it is easy, it probably isn't worth much. Think about it. Is there anything you value highly that didn't come with a price. Hard times build character. Character is the backbone of your being.
I thank you for the Christmas greetings and for your vision of this site. It has been a great place for me to start writing and generally a great place to just hang out and read some erotica. This is my first year here and I've had a great welcome. Merry Christmas to all and a healthy and prosperous New year.


Quote by stephanie


MODESTY!!!!!

(And EVERYONE says I have no reason to be modest since I'm so handsome, kind and talentedly erudite...) But I am... I'm MODEST...


It's one of my nicest qualities... Because, LET'S FUCKING FACE IT, I HAVE NO FUCKING REASON TO BE!!!

But I am!!!

Modest...

That's me...


xx SF

Nicola: "No-one will GET that Joke!!!"

Me: "You did..."

Nicola: AWW! LOVE!!!!!!!"

Me: "What REALLY hurts is that I wasn't joking..."

Nicola: "*PRICK!*"

Me: "That's more like it... BITCH!"



You left out humble.
I am admittedly spoiled. I get my way and don't see that changing anytime soon..
Quote by BethanyFrasier
Lord of the Rings
Harry Potter
Blade Runner
To Kill a Mockingbird
Last of the Mohicans

Almost forgot one of my favorites...
Alice


I like those too.
Well I'm still fairly new here. I am amazed to see the support I have received in a short time for my novice offerings. I find the quality of writing superior here in general and Mods very helpful. Plus some of the characters here are compelling. (Like Steph). As far as readers vs writers, I'd assume that writers would be more supportive and less critical because they have skin in the game and understand that we are all on a journey.
Seems to me the question was asking if I wanted sex with a fat or skinny person? That puts the subject about two body types. Not average or fit but skinny or fat. I personally don't qualify my lovers by either of those categories. There has to be more to the question than fat or skinny. Like married or single, old or young, etc.

So my answer is neither. I want to have sex with someone I care for.
Quote by CyberwalkerX


I appreciate your concern. To an extent you are right. It might be if seen in a certain way, but it is also a question of preference, no? It doesn't imply that fat guys or skinny guys are unattractive, or that one is more attractive than the other. But there is a stereotype for sexually attractive men, and it might be interesting to look beyond that and see what people think.


There are plenty of lovely people in all body types but this question is about skinny or fat. That is subjective according to each person. I just saw a movie about sugar and the obesity crisis world wide. It showed the incredible amount of sugar added to almost everything. It was scary. For me to say I don't like fat people, I'm talking about a major percentage of people.

I think with the dietary pallet of America that skinny people are indeed a rarity. That movie confirmed what I've always known. Calories are all not the same. If you consume 2,300 calories of healthy vegetables, meats, nuts and grains are vastly different than 2,300 calories of sugar filled junk food.
I don't know actually. There are little shuttering ones, body shaking ones, and mind blowing ones. When I've been in a group situation the last thing I was thinking about was counting. I think it also depends on the guy. When he's done it usually puts a halt to it. I get many little ones from oral but the vaginal ones are explosive.
If nothing was inappropriate why worry? Gossip is almost always destructive. What might have just been rambling from you might have meant something else to him. Perspective is everything.
All actions start as thoughts. That is why I say the biggest sexual organ is the brain. In my opinion the real experience falls short of my fantasy.... But I keep trying. Lol
Quote by avrgblkgrl


I reread it, reread it, reread it and reread it before I submit a story.
Every once in a while I may go back and read something after
submission; it may be something I wrote last month or two years ago.
It's painful because each time I see a mistake, I see where I could have
done better or I wonder why in the hell did I let someone read that.eRKDJw5bVa9ma4HJ


(You guys do realize that reread does not need to be hyphenated.)


I agree. I rarely reread a story and do not find errors, or wording I would change. It is the same when I read others work. I guess I was a teacher so long that I read with a red marker in hand. Lol.