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Jason_NYC
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 154
United States
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Advanced Wordsmith
Sexual addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts. Like all addictions, its negative impact on the addict and on family members increases as the disorder progresses. Over time, the addict usually has to intensify the addictive behavior to achieve the same results.
For some sex addicts, behavior does not progress beyond compulsive masturbation or the extensive use of pornography or phone or computer sex services. For others, addiction can involve illegal activities such as exhibitionism, voyeurism, obscene phone calls, child molestation or .
Goddess, I take it this is intended as a hypothetical question. So, hypothetically, here's how I'd react.
First, I'd ask what elements of the definition characterize her "addiction?"
Perhaps someone in her immediate family is an accusatory, scare-tactic type who's tagged her with a frightening, but totally unjustified label.
Then again, maybe it's a real problem and she's reaching out for help. In that case, I'd want her to see a qualified professional as soon as possible.
Or perhaps she's just yanking my chain? If I really loved her, I'd try to understand why.
Aren't relationships wonderful?
Advanced Wordsmith
Glad you found a work around! Sounds like a case of performance anxiety, and being buzzed reduces it.
One other explanation, he's been jerking off too much while reading Lush. I'm serious. If he's of a certain age... say past his mid-20s, this COULD be hurting his performance. Just saying.
One other explanation, he's been jerking off too much while reading Lush. I'm serious. If he's of a certain age... say past his mid-20s, this COULD be hurting his performance. Just saying.
Advanced Wordsmith
What more needs to be said?
Additional hot girls increase the 'sexy' level exponentially.
So true. But IMO there's a profound difference between two committed lesbians and women who are merely having a bi-sexual fling. If I'm aware of that distinction, the latter situation is much more arousing for me than the former.
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Frankly, it doesn't happen all that often.
When it does--usually at a game or in a pub--I'm always flattered in direct proportion to how hot and flirtatious she is. No, I'm not suspicious, although my friends sometimes bust my chops saying "she's just looking for free drinks." Hell, if a sexy young thing is willing to flirt with me, I'll buy her Veuve Cliquot by the bottle.
But, Euto, your question does bring to mind one of the strangest pickup situations I ever encountered. After work one day, I took a seat at a bar a couple one chair down from an attractive and much younger woman. She was reading the newspaper, which spread open between us and pointed to a full-page mattress advert. Then she looked into my eyes and asked, "Can you help me pick out some bedroom furniture?" Too bad I was meeting my girlfriend in about 10 minutes.
When it does--usually at a game or in a pub--I'm always flattered in direct proportion to how hot and flirtatious she is. No, I'm not suspicious, although my friends sometimes bust my chops saying "she's just looking for free drinks." Hell, if a sexy young thing is willing to flirt with me, I'll buy her Veuve Cliquot by the bottle.
But, Euto, your question does bring to mind one of the strangest pickup situations I ever encountered. After work one day, I took a seat at a bar a couple one chair down from an attractive and much younger woman. She was reading the newspaper, which spread open between us and pointed to a full-page mattress advert. Then she looked into my eyes and asked, "Can you help me pick out some bedroom furniture?" Too bad I was meeting my girlfriend in about 10 minutes.
Advanced Wordsmith
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By the way, can someone tell me if this site is always broken. I can't even seem to click on another member's profile without it telling me that there's a problem and to go back and try again. Wondering if anyone out there is interested in a little afternoon chat/fun
The site's had a lot of problems lately. Don't think it's typical, however.
Advanced Wordsmith
As with Katie, there's an autobiographical element to my stories.
My pieces aren't completely factual accounts, but they are aways based on people I've known and sexual encounters that I've experienced. As a result, the preliminary stages of working out the plot and characters, even if it's for a fantasy, are almost always profoundly arousing.
The actual writing, however, is typically more laborious than erotic. Sometimes in the third or fourth draft I might find my attention wandering... But usually it's not until weeks or months later when, in the re-reading, I find myself caught up in the moment and discover my fingers finding their way into my briefs.
My pieces aren't completely factual accounts, but they are aways based on people I've known and sexual encounters that I've experienced. As a result, the preliminary stages of working out the plot and characters, even if it's for a fantasy, are almost always profoundly arousing.
The actual writing, however, is typically more laborious than erotic. Sometimes in the third or fourth draft I might find my attention wandering... But usually it's not until weeks or months later when, in the re-reading, I find myself caught up in the moment and discover my fingers finding their way into my briefs.
Advanced Wordsmith
I've always had a profound and perhaps irrational attraction to small breasts -- especially when they are accompanied by delicate, puffy nips.
In my experience, there's often a correlation between a shallow and insecure personality and augmented boobs.
Suppose I'd be in favor of a lift, though, when the time comes.
In my experience, there's often a correlation between a shallow and insecure personality and augmented boobs.
Suppose I'd be in favor of a lift, though, when the time comes.
