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JesseS
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 46
0 miles · New Hope
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If you mean personally, it is because they are friends without any of the m/f, emotion/entanglement issues. The lesbian and bi girls that my gf and I know are fun, open people who don't get offended nearly as fast as the average straight. Besides, Butch lesbians are usually into the same things as guys, like motorcycles, pick-up trucks etc.
Now video and/or story/fantasy lesbians are a whole different subject. One theory is that guys don't feel threatened by having another girl with a girl; another thought is that, each being with another woman, they prove they have a wide sexual appetite; yet another possibility is the sheer erotic value of twice the sensual output.
Now video and/or story/fantasy lesbians are a whole different subject. One theory is that guys don't feel threatened by having another girl with a girl; another thought is that, each being with another woman, they prove they have a wide sexual appetite; yet another possibility is the sheer erotic value of twice the sensual output.
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You should definitely cum before sex. Makes the build up period longer and more enjoyable for longer sex with ur partner.
It should be noted that the above does NOT apply to all men. Many have only 1 orgasm in a 6-24 hour period. Be aware of you, and your partner's, capabilities.
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Quote by Guest
Thanks all for the input. Deep inside I know what is right, but sometimes I just need someone to remind me not to act stupidly. I have to admit, I have had alot of differing emotions and sometimes they can get the best of you. I don't know that even if the situation presented itself for an affair, I could go through with it. Unfortunately, I can' say that I have fully forgiven her in the years since the affair. I still get angry. My biggest issue is that I cant honestly say that I got the feelings back that I had prior to finding out. I still don't feel the same toward her. Maybe I have forgotten how to love. She doesn't know how I feel, and I struggle with telling her. Is it a burden that I just need to carry to keep my family together? If not for the children, I am sure I would have left her. I grew up pretty much without a father, and I don't want them to have to do the same.
From the above, it appears that the marriage ended when she cheated. The rest is just admirsable and well intentioned child support. Depending on their ages it may be fine to stay with the situation until they are 18. However, the dynamics in house so obviously full of angst don't make for the perfect childhood, so you might want to seriously considering other options. For you to cheat now, would only complicate those already undesireable dynamics and, worse, make you an equal partner in creating them. Think critically on this, it is the type of situation in which many honest and intelligent people will talk themselves into believing that what is easiest is what is right. It is a tough one.
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Maybe, my younger sister told me a few days ago that he spoke to her about proposing to me with a handmade ring of sorts. I wouldn't have believed her however he said the same thing to a friend of mine and apparently I "rejected" him.
I did hear about the idea of a ring but I said no to a handmade one.
Well it's close to the weekend. I think I need to get an answer once and for all.
Sounds like he is trying to live life like some bizarre TV sitcom. Is this really how you want to continue YOUR life?
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My guess is that the show's writers are fresh out of college, hired because they work cheap and so we are seeing a conglomeration of new-age mumbo-jumbo and cliche "children's" programming. Personally, I'm tired of the constant detachment from reality that currently floods the screen.
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If he has not decided that it is over, you should. First off, because after this length of time he should have more respect for you. Second, because by now the relationship should have moved to the next level. Don't wait for the excuses, move on. Sorry, unfortunately these things are never easy. Good relationships require honesty, respect and trust, on both sides; never settle for less.
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Filing a DCMA notice on google is a good way to get them expelled from the google returns: https://www.google.com/webmasters/tools/dmca-notice?pli=1& - you need to have a address or set one up. If a couple of authors go through the trouble of filling out a report, google will pay attention quickly. You need the URL of the story here, and on that site.
I will write to his hosting company and registrar this morning, see if I can have their site taken down.
They are auto-scraping our site on a daily basis as DD says. I don't think there's any way for Gav to stop them doing that.
Piggy-backing off all the hard work both you guys as authors do, as well as the admin staff here, is really not on.
Tried to file a complaint, but the Google page keeps giving me, "Please enter a valid value." They don't want to hear about these things.
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Get a Fleshlight, they are awesome. A penis pump or vibrating cock ring, can also add another dimension. Add a slim, well lubed butt plug. How about different lubes and/or gloves?
Try using different methods of applying pressure, like laying over a pillow or pushing it between the cushions of a chair. If you have some kinky cyber friends, like on Lush, ask them to write you a "mandatory masturbation scene" where you must get yourself off in the manner they describe. I've both written, and received those and they are fun. Someone suggested doing it where you might get caught; DON'T, it would rush the act and you could end up in jail. However, doing it somewhere that allows you to see, but not be seen, like in a dark room at night with curtains back, can add a little thrill. Then too there are solo golden showers.55CABLYqe5EMHH8v
Try using different methods of applying pressure, like laying over a pillow or pushing it between the cushions of a chair. If you have some kinky cyber friends, like on Lush, ask them to write you a "mandatory masturbation scene" where you must get yourself off in the manner they describe. I've both written, and received those and they are fun. Someone suggested doing it where you might get caught; DON'T, it would rush the act and you could end up in jail. However, doing it somewhere that allows you to see, but not be seen, like in a dark room at night with curtains back, can add a little thrill. Then too there are solo golden showers.55CABLYqe5EMHH8v Active Ink Slinger
Having been fortunate enough to have done FFM, MMF and even a MMFF, I can say that, provided you have the right people, it is very enjoyable. If you don't have the right friends, you may want to vacation at a "Lifestyle Resort" sometime. If nothing else, it is something different. Just don't, ever, push someone into it.
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Quote by Shylass
I admit, I'm not the usual kind of lass. But something about the use of the word "Baby" when given to a grown woman or a man makes me want to throw up. There's something very Wrong about it in my head, I can't separate it from... well, a baby. "Babe" is marginally better, but still not great. I most often hear it when used to denote one's sexual partner, and it really grosses me out. Sorry.
I have nothing wrong with the use of nicknames, or things like lass, and lad, bird, mate, etc. But baby? Bleurgh.
Do you use the term baby/babe, and if so, why? Many thanks in advance to any who respond and help me to understand.
I agree with you 100%! Calling any adult by the same term applied to stinky, diapered, rug rats, absolutely turns me off. Worse, the term 'baby girl' that became so 'in' for awhile. Why do these people call their girlfriend like they're talking to a child?
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For those in favor of this behaviour, have you thought about the the possible ramifications? Mad spouses, fiances, etc. have been known to get very violent, people caught have often turned on their new partner and screamed " ." Lawsuits and Restraining Orders, while possible, are the least of your worries. As for the 'no strings' side of the argument, don't forget that this married, or engaged, person may well be looking for someone to help them bail and suddenly they're all your's 24/7; until they decide that you're not meeting their needs and they find the next patsy.
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Anyone thinking about internet dating should watch the 48 Hours episode 'Screenplay for Murder' [http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=7397746n] about a guy who posed as a woman on PLENTYOFFISH in order to lure men into an ambush. It re-enforces the rule MEET IN A PUBLIC PLACE!! I do have a male friend I met online several years back, but most meetings with people met online were 1 time. I would seriously suggest to make the first 3 meetings someplace public and use a pre-paid cel phone for dating. Reason for the 3 dates is to give the person time to trip on their own lies. I've met some really convincing liars. One gal was an "orphan with no family left" yet 2 weeks later her mom and 2 brothers threw her a b-day party.
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The reason I get suspicious is that I've dated a couple of "virgins" who eventually gave themselves away. In the book 'Southern Ladies and Gentlemen' the female author devotes a whole section to, "the self rejuvenating virgin." I don't mind the truth, either way, but honesty doesn't seem to be as popular as it used to be.
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Good for nothin' bad in bed nobody likes you and you're better off dead goodbye
We've all come to say goodbye goodbye
Born defeated died in vain
Super destruction you were hooked on pain and tho' your music lingers on
All of us are glad you're gone
The Hell of it - Paul Williams
We've all come to say goodbye goodbye
Born defeated died in vain
Super destruction you were hooked on pain and tho' your music lingers on
All of us are glad you're gone
The Hell of it - Paul Williams
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NO, NO, NO, NO! Cheating is physical contact, feelings, emotions and very real implications. Playing out fantasy scenes with virtual strangers, looking at porn, daydreaming erotic thoughts, etc. etc. is NOT the same thing. Must say that I'm disappointed with the prudish attitude displayed by so many lush members, the comments read like they're right out of the religious right's playbook to take us back to the Dark Ages.
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This is one of those questions that can generate pages of philosophical, psychological and even religious turmoil. However, I think that what should be critical to you is the simple to ask, yet difficult to answer, questions of, 'am I happy' and/or, when presented with options, 'will this or that make me happy.' The quickest road to discontent is to try to please others against the desires of self. If one finds a complimenting partner, great. If one does not find said partner, they are at least better off than if they tried a force fit.
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Actually, what this thread is about are 3 common human traits. Failure to observe, which can be seen everywhere from sidewalks to traffic. The ability to believe whatever one wants to, despite facts to the contrary. The desire to deceive, getting little mental points in some twisted game of generating artificial self-worth.
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The first thought that I had after reading your question was, is this the classic dual relationship disaster? When married people also work together, or compete in some sport together, or one is caretaker for the other [or others relatives], or any other scenario where there is the marriage and the other, there is often spill over emotion/feelings/stress etc. In your situation it would seem that there is no way for either of you two to actually leave work. It is possible that when she looks at you, she sees work. That, 24/7, can't be good. It is virtually impossible for a couple to be good at being husband/wife and boss/employee, or even business partners. Things might change a little if you pursued her etc. However, it is more likely that for real change you need to be just husband/wife. If you worked elsewhere and she had an employee, the dynamics of your relationship would probably be greatly improved.
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The first thought that I had after reading your question was, is this the classic dual relationship disaster? When married people also work together, or compete in some sport together, or one is caretaker for the other [or others relatives], or any other scenario where there is the marriage and the other, there is often spill over emotion/feelings/stress etc. In your situation it would seem that there is no way for either of you two to actually leave work. It is possible that when she looks at you, she sees work. That, 24/7, can't be good. It is virtually impossible for a couple to be good at being husband/wife and boss/employee, or even business partners. Things might change a little if you pursued her etc. However, it is more likely that for real change you need to be just husband/wife. If you worked elsewhere and she had an employee, the dynamics of your relationship would probably be greatly improved.