Provided everyone understands that the threesome is a fun diversion, so the mood is kept light and the aim is purely pleasuring each other, it can be very enjoyable. I've been fortunate enough to have been in MMF, FFM and even MMFF sessions. All of these combos allowed the women to have more fun. Since most guys are spent on 1 or 2 orgasms, more guys allow the girl more orgasms. In every case where there were multiple females the women were still going, on each other, long after the guys were done.
BTW, I would recommend against any cameras being involved, they induce the fear of the moment becoming a future nightmare and distract from enjoying the pleasure at hand.
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JesseS
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 46
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Since all of the bi and lesbian women that I know insist that women know best how to make a woman satisfied, I would, seriously, suggest you try a girl. If that is just out, then see if you can find a guy who is willing to take his time, someone you can feel genuinely relaxed with and take it slow.
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I'm bi, have experienced 1 on 1 with both sexes plus FFM, MMF and MMFF. As long as the people involved all share, as opposed to someone just getting themselves a free blow job, then the erotic possibilities can expand. For example, sometimes there would be someone at the B&D club that needed extra people to do a fantasy scene of their's, it was great to get into something where I knew it was totally turning someone or even several people on, completely at their desire. 
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My GF and I have enjoyed golden showers, but not in the face. We have both found that having the warm stream directed at our butt holes extremely erotic! She did once, at my request, sit on my erection and pee, but it wasn't as exciting as I'd hoped. Perhaps ask her if she would be willing to pee on a different part of you for the first time. It can be an interesting form of foreplay and keeps things interesting.
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Sadly, chat rooms are pretty useless for meeting people, as so many of the people there are just in fantasy mode or killing time. I've seen people saying 1 thing to a person in the room, while saying nearly the opposite in private. Probably best to let it go. Above all, never post or email ANYTHING you aren't willing for the world to see. There are just too many schmucks out there.
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This:
stockingirl dot com /Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=miccina&Product_Code=BGBS&Category_Code=CatL
under a black mini-dress.
I remember being at a party and observing a very lovely lady, sitting on a barstool, cross her legs to reveal a hint of stocking top and bottom of a garter clip; took my breath away.
stockingirl dot com /Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=miccina&Product_Code=BGBS&Category_Code=CatL
under a black mini-dress.
I remember being at a party and observing a very lovely lady, sitting on a barstool, cross her legs to reveal a hint of stocking top and bottom of a garter clip; took my breath away.
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A long time ago a gf gave me a variable vibrating "pacifier" which introduced me to the enjoyment of the p-spot. Since then I've experimented with other small dildoes and fingers; and found that it can be so stimulating as to make me orgasm w/o any touching of the penis. Since I don't want to cause any permanent issues back there, I save p-spot play for when there is plenty of time, and always use plenty of lube!
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This is another question that, except for those individuals who only do 1 position, depends on the situation. Like most folks, I enjoy variety, so while a quick romp at the end of the evening would probably end with my load inside my partners pussy or mouth; doing a scene would almost always end up with cum shot elsewhere. That might be on my gf or on a bf or they may "force" me to cum on myself.
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Theoretically, yes; however, this would be a difficult thing to apply scientific method to. The biggest problem is defining a "good" bj, as the atmosphere of the place, amount of time available, doing a scene or winging it, physical condition of those involved, titilation from lingerie or video, etc. would all effect whether it was memorable.
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Yes, lots of them! I started with a vibrating cock ring, which is doubly good if worn during sex, then got a "pacifier" anal vibrator, that turned me on to back-door play' big time! Since then there have been various dildoes, vibrators and a strap-on, for my lady and I to share. Lubes are a must, especially when using our latest toy, the Fleshlight; which is awesome! Occaisionally, something like flavored condoms are fun.
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When I see pierced anything, it gives me concern as to why this person [M or F] mutilates their body for fashion. Beyond that is the caution that must be exercised around the piercings in order to avoid tugging or injury; especially true of nipples, penises and pussy lips.
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Always think ahead, Vivienne is shortened to Viv and generally no cruel HS nicknames. Unfortunately, Sadie, often gets called "Shady Sadie" or just Shady, because kids enjoy being cruel. Like Deborah becomes "De-bra her." Thanks for passing on Brittany and Ashley, great names, now, sadly, done to death.
