A guy who can make me laugh, surprise me, and is adventurous in bed.
As a girl with an emerging submissive side, I LOVE to be taken from behind with my hand tied together to the headboard. This way my arms are stretched over my head and my hips are in the air, just begging to be fucked.
Yes, Yes, YES!
What gets me going? Stories where men take control. Don't get me wrong, I don't want to fantasize being hurt, just being out of control. It's sexy when a man is a MAN, not a politically correct version of a metrosexual.