My wife and I went out to dinner with good friends in New York about a year after we all got married. It was a great restaurant that was made to look like an old abbey, and all the waiters were dressed like monks. It was very dark and sexy. We laughed a lot and drank a lot to the point of really being buzzed, and we talked a lot about wife swapping – this was around the time of the Bob and Carol and Ted and Alice movie. L...