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JulieTopper
Over 90 days ago
Heteroflexible Female, 45
United Kingdom
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Quote by Dave69Fan
Maybe you could give it a try, keep your panties on and touch through them for a little different kind of feel with the thin material between your finger and pussy. Would love to here about it if you care to share with us.
I'm only interested in having fun when I masturbate. Your idea is of the male gaze.
I don't imagine guys watching me, so why ruin good fun by trying to get some
sensation through my panties.
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I suspect I am a bit more 'street' than most writers. Probably cos I was brought on a housing estate in Glasgow. Stories, of course, are fantasies but I like to keep closer to reality when I write about sex, drawing on my experiences.
Sure, there are all sorts of styles and genres in erotica. There's room for everyone.
Sure, there are all sorts of styles and genres in erotica. There's room for everyone.
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Guys can be so like baboons. I don't go sniffing their Calvins.
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I don't mind when with one of my like-minded friends. It's happened a few times when we went out clubbing, didn't get picked up and went back to her place for a moan about men and to finish off a bottle of wine.
Might be a bit more inhibited if it was a stranger.
Might be a bit more inhibited if it was a stranger.
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Tried a Symbian at a party once. Great Fun. Pity they are so expensive.
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I have been reading a few erotic stories recently, mostly written by men.
When they eventually get to the sex, usually with a lot of scene setting,
the guy is masterful and manages to give the woman an amazing orgasm.
This is so unrealistic. I find that while orgasms do happen in casual relationships,
it is definitely not the usual. This kind of male fantasy makes their books
unrealistic and disappointing.
I try in my own books to reflect more of the usual experiences that we women
have with casual partners.
When they eventually get to the sex, usually with a lot of scene setting,
the guy is masterful and manages to give the woman an amazing orgasm.
This is so unrealistic. I find that while orgasms do happen in casual relationships,
it is definitely not the usual. This kind of male fantasy makes their books
unrealistic and disappointing.
I try in my own books to reflect more of the usual experiences that we women
have with casual partners.
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All my books are now on Kindle Unlimited. 18 so far - more to come.
Just search for Julie Topper on amazon
Just search for Julie Topper on amazon
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In my recent book 'Double Vision' I wrote it about a few weeks in the life of a couple, where the sex scenes were described from the woman's and the man's point of view. This allowed me to have great fun in showing how each of them saw the same events.
I put the woman's thoughts in italic and the mans in ordinary txt. They alternated about 20 or so lines at a time.
I put the woman's thoughts in italic and the mans in ordinary txt. They alternated about 20 or so lines at a time.
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They are overrated. Not very good for vigorous sex. They go into waves if the guy goes fast.
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Does anyone go to a sex club?
I've tried a few and I now go sort of regular to the one which was the nicest.
I've tried a few and I now go sort of regular to the one which was the nicest.
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I think that some guys on here think that the chat feature is a pick-up place. This is a bit silly cos we are from all over the world.
Anyway, I like to chat to guys, with no intention of ever meeting them.
I have dropped out of chats when I felt the guy was too insistent on trying to have some kind of closer relationship.
Its just a chat. I like chats. But I don't like being hassled.
Anyway, I like to chat to guys, with no intention of ever meeting them.
I have dropped out of chats when I felt the guy was too insistent on trying to have some kind of closer relationship.
Its just a chat. I like chats. But I don't like being hassled.
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What do you think about realism in erotica?
As is see it, realism has to be there. I've read a few 'Romance' type novels which are so unconvincing as to be ridiculous.
Real people dont act like that.
I suppose it depends on what sort of real people you put in your book.
I'm in Scotland and from what we call a working class background. We use alot of slang when referring to sex.
We even use slang words in general chat, so if two guys are say walking down the street and they see a male friend on the other side of the road, they might say - There's that wee cu*t from Bank Street.
I often go clubbing with my friends and the language is quite rough. We totally accept this. Middle class girls would probably be offended. We are not.
It is this world, the world I know best, that I put into my books, so my heroines of main characters often have sex with guys who use language when they are screwing.It is common.
To try to make this all nice and perfect and middle class, is so false. My books use explicit language. That is there strenght. I just couldnt write pretty stuff. It's not me. I leave the pretty stuff to prettier people.
As is see it, realism has to be there. I've read a few 'Romance' type novels which are so unconvincing as to be ridiculous.
Real people dont act like that.
I suppose it depends on what sort of real people you put in your book.
I'm in Scotland and from what we call a working class background. We use alot of slang when referring to sex.
We even use slang words in general chat, so if two guys are say walking down the street and they see a male friend on the other side of the road, they might say - There's that wee cu*t from Bank Street.
I often go clubbing with my friends and the language is quite rough. We totally accept this. Middle class girls would probably be offended. We are not.
It is this world, the world I know best, that I put into my books, so my heroines of main characters often have sex with guys who use language when they are screwing.It is common.
To try to make this all nice and perfect and middle class, is so false. My books use explicit language. That is there strenght. I just couldnt write pretty stuff. It's not me. I leave the pretty stuff to prettier people.
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No way. I'm 38 and don't want the responsibility of giving a guy his first time. He might be scarred for life.
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I think I can tell what sort of guy he is by the way he removes my panties.
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Printed books of erotica don't seem to sell as well as Ebooks. I suspect this is because men don't want their wives or girlfriends to find their stash of dirty books.
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Not when writing them, but often when reading them back later.
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If you have not had a lesbian experience it might be difficult to write a sex scene.
I usually include at least one in most of my books.
I usually include at least one in most of my books.
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If you have not had a lesbian experience it might be difficult to write a sex scene.
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Can't understand this. Doesn't make sense.
My style totally depends on explicit sex. Without the sex scenes my books would be totally boring.
They would be reduced 1o only a few hundred words if you cut out the sexual bits.
Why write an erotic book if its not sexually stimulating.
My style totally depends on explicit sex. Without the sex scenes my books would be totally boring.
They would be reduced 1o only a few hundred words if you cut out the sexual bits.
Why write an erotic book if its not sexually stimulating.
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I am sorry, but I just don't understand writer's block. I always have loads of themes on which to write.
When I'm writing a book I usually work on it, say three evening a week, doing one chapter about 2000 words.
My books are medium sized stories, about 70 pages, say 8 to 12 chapters. So I get one done in a month.
When I started I made so many grammatical and punctuation errors that my poor published had to make lots of corrections.
Now, after 17 books, I am much better and there is not much for him to do.
When I'm writing a book I usually work on it, say three evening a week, doing one chapter about 2000 words.
My books are medium sized stories, about 70 pages, say 8 to 12 chapters. So I get one done in a month.
When I started I made so many grammatical and punctuation errors that my poor published had to make lots of corrections.
Now, after 17 books, I am much better and there is not much for him to do.
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If you put your stories on Amazon Kindle they want exclusivity. It is not a problem as you will get sales and interest.
Kindle Unlimited is the way to go. I have increased my sale since moving to Kindle Unlimited.
Kindle Unlimited is the way to go. I have increased my sale since moving to Kindle Unlimited.
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It seems difficult for a man to write an erotic story from a woman's perspective. I have read quite a few failures.
I myself wrote a story 'Night Rider' where I tried to show the action and feelings from a man's perspective.
It was difficult, and I'm not sure it if was entirely successful. A bit of an experiment.
I myself wrote a story 'Night Rider' where I tried to show the action and feelings from a man's perspective.
It was difficult, and I'm not sure it if was entirely successful. A bit of an experiment.
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Here is the blurb of my latest book:-
"Karen and I were getting a bit tired of the crowd in the club we usually go to pick up guys. We were looking for a new scene. Karen came up with this great idea of joining a local gym on their free three-month offer. There will be plenty of guys there, all with toned muscles and maybe interested in a bit of post-gym exercise. So during the trial period, we became gym groupies."
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"Karen and I were getting a bit tired of the crowd in the club we usually go to pick up guys. We were looking for a new scene. Karen came up with this great idea of joining a local gym on their free three-month offer. There will be plenty of guys there, all with toned muscles and maybe interested in a bit of post-gym exercise. So during the trial period, we became gym groupies."
see my website