The average person tells 3-5 lies a day. I would have to dump every boyfriend, friend, and family member for that matter if I went by that sort of rule.
It would have to be judged on the content of the lie, the magnitude, and the reason behind it.
Remember, saying "I'm ok" when you really feel less than, is technically a lie. Am I going to dump someone for that? No.
"I'm just leaving the pub now" is also probably a lie. But I am not going to dump someone over that either.
"I'm at Matthews" when really they are at Samantha's? That's going to cause me some issues.
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Just-SJ
Over 90 days ago
Straight Cis Female, 39
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Quote by Jason9035Quote by Just-SJ
If I want to drive him compeltely crazy with lust ... I will start off with naughty text messages in the morning, maybe a sexy pic or two during the day. And when I finally see him I will kiss, lick, nibble, rub, stroke, caress and suck everywhere except his cock.
By the time I get there, he's begging for it, and he never lasts too long.
He hates it but he loves it.
GULP!.....Really...now that's fucking hot! hehe....
Why, thank you Jason ;)
I know I certainly enjoy it, and it has yet to fail me. Of course, always looking to improve technique
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I love it when he grabs my by the arms, tugs me roughly up his body and kisses me hard, then rolls with me onto our sides and completely envelops me in his embrace. One hand buried in my hair, the other wrapped around my waist and our legs entwined. No escape.
*Sigh* Need that now!
*Sigh* Need that now!
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If I want to drive him compeltely crazy with lust ... I will start off with naughty text messages in the morning, maybe a sexy pic or two during the day. And when I finally see him I will kiss, lick, nibble, rub, stroke, caress and suck everywhere except his cock.
By the time I get there, he's begging for it, and he never lasts too long.
He hates it but he loves it.
By the time I get there, he's begging for it, and he never lasts too long.
He hates it but he loves it.
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Love it, with the right person. It's great for long distance relationships, helps keep things spicy and intimate.
I'm still not 100% comfortable on cam, but am getting there. And the more comfortable I feel, the more fun it is! Master loves to watch me, that is for sure.
I'm still not 100% comfortable on cam, but am getting there. And the more comfortable I feel, the more fun it is! Master loves to watch me, that is for sure.
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I think the hardest thing with partner swapping is establishing a common understanding, and set boundaries. And even then, as said earlier, human emotions are hard to control and most certainly unpredictable.
I think it is the responsibility of those involved to monitor their emotions, and when lines begin to blur, the situation needs to be re-examined before boundaries are trampled and everything becomes a big mess.
I think it is the responsibility of those involved to monitor their emotions, and when lines begin to blur, the situation needs to be re-examined before boundaries are trampled and everything becomes a big mess.
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Well, it's not a necessary part of every sex session, but I do love it. It makes me go wild, and I need the clit stimulation to orgasm most of the time, so it definitely makes things more enjoyable for me. Then again, in a quickie or role play situation, there ain't no time. And I do so love, hot urgent random sexing.
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I'll talk with pretty much anyone, but I find I have more in common with and am more attracted to people who are a little older than I am (I'm 25). I'm more interested in whether you have anything interesting to say than how many years you've been on the planet.
In real life my biggest age gap has been 20 years, and I've never actually dated anyone younger than me. Online I've played with men of a variety of ages, up to men in their 50's and down to men who are barely 20.
In real life my biggest age gap has been 20 years, and I've never actually dated anyone younger than me. Online I've played with men of a variety of ages, up to men in their 50's and down to men who are barely 20.
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Spanking is a very very common fetish and/or fantasy. For some it's the discipline, the control had over them. Some enjoy the mixture of pain and pleasure. For some it's the nature of the act, or the feeling of being naughty. And some just love it all!
Personally, it is one of my favourite things. The longer, harder, sharper the spanking the more I love it. A good spanking session is enough to bring me to the brink of orgasm, and it doesn't take much after to take me hurtling over and into sub-space.
Personally, it is one of my favourite things. The longer, harder, sharper the spanking the more I love it. A good spanking session is enough to bring me to the brink of orgasm, and it doesn't take much after to take me hurtling over and into sub-space.
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Your title question is general but your post is personal, so I'm going to comment on both.
Personally - unless exclusivity is discussed and agreed upon, it doesn't exist in an online relationship. It cannot be assumed. Like others, I think you can judge better for yourself when you meet him in person, but if he's hiding accounts from you maybe he's feeling crowded.
Generally speaking- What Lush is depends on how one uses it. If you come to read stories, chat a little, participate in forums, it's an outlet. If you come expecting to start sexy chat times and set up meets, it may be cheating.
Personally - unless exclusivity is discussed and agreed upon, it doesn't exist in an online relationship. It cannot be assumed. Like others, I think you can judge better for yourself when you meet him in person, but if he's hiding accounts from you maybe he's feeling crowded.
Generally speaking- What Lush is depends on how one uses it. If you come to read stories, chat a little, participate in forums, it's an outlet. If you come expecting to start sexy chat times and set up meets, it may be cheating.
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I wonder if partially it is because many ads are aimed at women- wives, mothers, daughters, girlfriends. Often in the ads where you have a goofy man, the woman is the 'hero' of the scene. And let's face it, we women are oft complaining about the daft things our men do. A bit of exaggerated humour that we can relate to makes for good selling points, I think.
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That is a completely sucky situation. This would be the time you get your mates around, have a few drinks and blow off some steam.
My advice re: the cheating bitchy using skank who dumped you: Cut her out of your life. She used you, played you, kept you hanging on a little string. You've seen the person she can be and is that the kind of person you want to wait around for? I think not. Be thankful you saw the real her now, and not after the complications of marriage and a family.
My advice re: the cheating bitchy using skank who dumped you: Cut her out of your life. She used you, played you, kept you hanging on a little string. You've seen the person she can be and is that the kind of person you want to wait around for? I think not. Be thankful you saw the real her now, and not after the complications of marriage and a family.
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Trimmed is preferred but I have to say that when I have a nice hard cock in front of me, I'm not paying too much attention to the landscaping. Sure, the occasional hair in the mouth happens, but it's easily dealt with. Mostly all I'm thinking is "I want to taste...."
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It's all about girth baby! Girth is what gives me that delicous, wonderful, achingly gorgeous stretched feeling. It just can't be beat. Length (provided it's more than 2 inches) is over rated, because most of your nerve endings are quite shallow within one's vagina anyway. A nice thich cock is the best way to stimulate them - in my opinion.
Of course, if I can get my hands on a long AND thick cock, I'll take it.
Of course, if I can get my hands on a long AND thick cock, I'll take it.
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I had thought that seeing married men would be ideal- no strings attached. I didn't owe them, they didn't owe me. The only thing I insisted on was transparency and certain boundaries.
as it turns out, married men are complicated- even beyond the fact they are clearly lying cheating scum. I'm over and done with that. If I want the hassle I might as well have a legitimate relationship.
I was always surprised that I never really felt guilty... particularly as someone cheating on me is a deal breaker. I dont put up with that shit!
as it turns out, married men are complicated- even beyond the fact they are clearly lying cheating scum. I'm over and done with that. If I want the hassle I might as well have a legitimate relationship.
I was always surprised that I never really felt guilty... particularly as someone cheating on me is a deal breaker. I dont put up with that shit!
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At *every* family gathering ... "So, have you found yourself a man yet?"
The sleazy man borring books at work ... "I'd like to check you out."
The boss "You learn so fast and are so adaptable!" It always means he wants a favour.
One a first meeting "I think I might fall for you." RUN AWAY!
The sleazy man borring books at work ... "I'd like to check you out."
The boss "You learn so fast and are so adaptable!" It always means he wants a favour.
One a first meeting "I think I might fall for you." RUN AWAY!