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Just-SJ
Over 90 days ago
Straight Cis Female, 39
0 miles · Western Australia
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I'm of the opinion that until the talk has been had, exclusivity is not a given and should not be assumed. I like to know where I stand with people, and let them know where they stand with me.
I've juggled about 4 at once, without the need to actively lie or make up excuses. Once I've made up my mind who I want, that's it. I'm a one-man woman all the way.
I've juggled about 4 at once, without the need to actively lie or make up excuses. Once I've made up my mind who I want, that's it. I'm a one-man woman all the way.
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- To be tied up and sexually teased and tormented for hours on end... by several people
- At least one more threesome, ffm. But I really want another mmf too!
- Sex in the ocean - a tricky one cause going IN the ocean flips me out
- Double penetration
There are more but I am sleepy and cannot think of them!
- At least one more threesome, ffm. But I really want another mmf too!
- Sex in the ocean - a tricky one cause going IN the ocean flips me out
- Double penetration
There are more but I am sleepy and cannot think of them!
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I don't agree that "once a cheat, always a cheat."
Having said that, once a cheater on SJ, never again. It's a deal breaker for me, no matter the reason behind it. If something is not working in the relationship, I think one owes it to their partner to try and work on that rather than going outside of the relationship. As has been said, he needs to examine why he is cheating, and see if he can find a solution from there. However, I disagree where it was said to take in mind he was drunk. Drunkeness is never a reason, only a poor excuse. It's the excuse my brother uses when he cheats on his fiancee, and it's a load of crock.
Having said that, once a cheater on SJ, never again. It's a deal breaker for me, no matter the reason behind it. If something is not working in the relationship, I think one owes it to their partner to try and work on that rather than going outside of the relationship. As has been said, he needs to examine why he is cheating, and see if he can find a solution from there. However, I disagree where it was said to take in mind he was drunk. Drunkeness is never a reason, only a poor excuse. It's the excuse my brother uses when he cheats on his fiancee, and it's a load of crock.
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If you can't be together physically, it's a great experience. The first time I was shy as hell- I often forget I am on cam and do embarrassing things, which doesn't help.
If neither of you has done it, it will be a fun thing to explore together. It feels incredibly naughty too, which is a delicious bonus. Just make sure there is no chance of interruption on either end!
If neither of you has done it, it will be a fun thing to explore together. It feels incredibly naughty too, which is a delicious bonus. Just make sure there is no chance of interruption on either end!
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The more I like someone the more eye contact I make with them, including during sex. It feels like a much deeper connection, and there is something so very erotic about looking into his eyes while we make love.
Having said that, when I'm really into it my eyes close all on their own. I have to force them open to see him, and it doesn't last long.
Having said that, when I'm really into it my eyes close all on their own. I have to force them open to see him, and it doesn't last long.
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I'm usually more concerned as to whether the characters and the interaction between characters is believable. I hate perfect characters- must every woman be slim and beautiful and every man muscled with a giant penis? Like Woman mentioned above, I like to be able to picture myself in a scenario.
If the writing is good enough to immerse me in the world of the story, it doesn't matter what the world is, I believe it. If the characters feel like they belong, feel like real people, I believe it, and I enjoy it. That's the part that matters to me.
If the writing is good enough to immerse me in the world of the story, it doesn't matter what the world is, I believe it. If the characters feel like they belong, feel like real people, I believe it, and I enjoy it. That's the part that matters to me.
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"Later, going to sleep, he would feel the fiery smile still gripped by his face muscles, in the dark."
Fahrenheit 451 - Ray Bradbury. This sentence was taken from the edition with a long foreword by the author; in fact that sentence is on page 2 of the actual book. If I were to go 34 pages into the story itself...
"And again, he saw himself in a green park talking to an old man, a very old man, and the wind from the park was cold too."
Fahrenheit 451 - Ray Bradbury. This sentence was taken from the edition with a long foreword by the author; in fact that sentence is on page 2 of the actual book. If I were to go 34 pages into the story itself...
"And again, he saw himself in a green park talking to an old man, a very old man, and the wind from the park was cold too."
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I was an avid reader ever since I learned how. I raced through junior stuff and so was reading adult novels by the time I was 8 or 9. I read everything I could get my hands on, and so very many of the thrillers (my favourite genre) I read had quite steamy scenes. I was intrigued, I was hooked. I was reading sexy romance novels (oh the shame) when I was about 11 and moved on to much better erotic stories in my early teens.
Now I have this uncanny talent to be able to flick open a book to the sex scenes. Quite amusing at parties, actually.
Now I have this uncanny talent to be able to flick open a book to the sex scenes. Quite amusing at parties, actually.