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Katje
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 41
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If you use Google Images, enter your desired topic and press enter .... You'll see "Web, Images, Maps, Videos, Shopping, More" ... clicking "More" drops a few more options some people don't even know about.

If you click "Usage Rights" you can actually find free images that have been released for public usage, use with modification, et cetera. And it's free. I've found several images there that work great!
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i got all my EPs cause i have a cunt, and i send the mods nude photos every time i post a new story.

xoxo
talentless hack of a writer with a vagina.


But it's quite a lovely vagina, if I may say so, my dear. My vagina is quite fond of yours.

And yet, I haven't a single EP.

My vagina demands justice!
Damned double posts.

As for gender-preference, that's preposterous. Each of us on the moderating team has the ability to reward RRs; the sole requirements for awarding a Recommended Read are not only based on correct grammar, spelling and punctuation, but the overall feel of the piece. Was it involved? Did it have a strong effect on the reader? Were the characters strong and believable? There are numerous things that go into the consideration of giving the blue ribbon. And we've all been warned to not just hand them blithely out to all and sundry.

As far as the EPs go, it's a panel of judges that go over nominations. Only those on the panel are privy to the details of what constitutes getting the gold ribbon, and that's fine by me. It's hard enough to get myself to reward an RR to a story I feel deserves it, because I know someone out there will find fault with that because their little feelings got hurt.

So pardon me if your picking doesn't have any effect on me whatsoever.
This has been quite an interesting thread to read.

Speaking not only as a story moderator here, but as an author ... Accolades are neither sought after, not required on the site for editorial effort. Those of us who spent countless hours moderating, editing and tweaking stories don't shine a great big neon sign saying "Look! I did that! They need to thank me!"

Are thanks appreciated? Of course. Unbeknownst to you, dear OP, we even have a private thread where we'll share the thank-you notes we get from writers who've we've both verified and edited for. We love that thread. And sadly, it's dusty right now from disuse. But do you see us whining about it? Or "giving a heads-up to would-be editors", warning them of the perils of anonymity? No.

We edit, tweak, assist, advise and help the writers here voluntarily. Without getting thanks, without getting acknowledgement. We do it because it brings us joy, and because we LIKE what we DO.

For me, that's enough. Knowing the little thrill I get, even as a mod, when my stories pass muster and get posted to the front page ... Just knowing I give that thrill to someone else is amazing. And I love getting even just a simple "thank you!" in response.

We're more than aware, as writers ourselves, that a story has a great amount of effort put into it, and behind it.

I do personally tag in an acknowledgement when someone helps with a story, but it's far from required. Some people don't even think to do that. Not everyone shares the same thought process.

As one of the "kids these days", I'm offended that someone of your "greatly advanced age" would fall prey to bickering and picking.

I'm far from thin-skinned, but seeing your argument from both sides of the keyboard, I find it invalid. I, personally, am not disparaging you, or your writings, but can you try and see things from the other side? Even a little? Because it certainly doesn't look like it from my point of view.
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I'll second Dancing_Doll. If you don't like "vanilla sex" ( ), then substitute chocolate, preferably something really rich like a mocha or fudge.


Hey, a good chocolate ice cream with fudge and caramel swirls works nicely.
That and strawberry with chocolate swirls.
Yum.
No Santa/DD beards need apply here, but I do love some facial hair on a main. I like the heavy scruff as it softens, and that's what my other half is rocking right now. He keeps it trimmed, but I do enjoy the little bit of length he keeps on his chin. It's about an inch, and gives me enough to tug when I want to change his "direction".

Some men can rock the beards, some men can't. My ex looked much more mature with a beard, and had a baby-face without. I had another ex, he just had the goatee. Until him, I didn't think I liked facial hair. Now, I love it.
Would these be considered "gladiator", or "corset"? Either way, damn they're sexy



Old-ass heels ... It seems I was wrong with the onslaught of the strange "new" heel designs. Apparently, it's not all that new ... (These are women's heels, btw)



On another note: I'd wear these bad boys...

I think I'm the odd duck here. It really doesn't matter to me, either way. Foreplay, it can enhance it, if it's light enough. I'm either a feather-light touch kind of girl, or you need to just be rough with them. It all depends on the sex, and length of foreplay. But, I'll admit, I love having them licked and suckled when I'm being fingered.
This is almost a hard question to answer. For women, there are loads of ways to masturbate.

When I first started down the road to self-pleasuring, I found I couldn't cum unless my eyes were closed and the lights were off. Of course, I was also raised in a strict Pentecostal home, so masturbation was a big no-no. Now, lights on or off, it doesn't matter.

As far as "Strange", I have no idea. I just get off however I feel like!
I do play to certain stories when my man isn't around. If I like it enough, I even read them to him, and show him how I play. As far as quality: I want a well-written story. If I'm inclined to touch myself it's not to "He shoved his cock in and fucked her hard." I want to be shown versus told.

Spelling, grammar, and correct punctuation lift rather than the moment, because sadly, when I read I can't shut my inner-editor off. A virtually error-free story will go far, for me.
Hello! I'm Bella, a mod here on Lush.

Haineko speaks truth: discussion is verbotten.

As far as DD/lg goes, I spent a number of years in a very satisfying relationship with a Daddy Dom, but more as a babygirl than as a Little. I'm not personally into age-play or age regression, as sexualizing minors isn't my thing. Besides, underage = illegal AND immoral.

Please keep this in mind, for both the OP and all interested posters.
*avoiding the landmine of discussion*

As far as the OP goes, I'm not one to broadcast my sexual habits to all and sundry. I'm not "honestly" bisexual, I can't see myself settling down into forever with another woman, but as far as possible playtime goes, I don't mind it.

If my parents even knew that I liked "playing with other girls", I'm pretty sure it'd be that final straw, you know? My brother is openly and obviously gay (He's not a gigantic, neon "flamer", but one can tell watching him that he's homosexual.) and I love him beyond measure. Our father took it the hardest when his only son came out of the closet.

And, in my opinion, one never knows truly how another's life is. Especially concerning sexual orientation. My best friend and I grew up from grade school together, and I'm totally fine when it comes to homosexuals, whereas Bek can't fathom same-sex relationships at all. It's not just regional, or an issue of publicity. It's individual. Am I saying prejudice can't be taught? No. But we all also reach a point in our lives where some lessons we've learned can be challenged, and we choose whether or not to believe the same way we always have, or change our way of thinking.

So to have a flame-war over something that will most likely always be an issue in some way or another ... Well, that's just silly.

Put on your grown-up panties already, and move on.

Congrats to the winners! And hoorah for me and the other Honorable Mentions!
I'm truly honored to be among you guys as writers. We all did a bang-up job, and it's NO easy task to write a competition story, let me tell you!

I'm honored to be among the list of the top entrants as a runner up. I really honestly don't know what I'd have done with a couples' toy anyhow, being a single gal!

I'm sure the judging team didn't have an easy job of things.
I mean, really? It's a lifestyle? Do you all really run around submitting to or dominating the one you are with? Do you carry it out in your everyday lives?


It IS a lifestyle. But, also, it's not *just* BDSM. There's also, as has been mentioned before, the D/s lifestyle. Not everyone into it is into the SadoMasochism aspect. It's not "running around", either. When I'm submitting to a Dom, it's between us, not anyone else. Do I defer to him, even in public? As far as pre-determined things go, yes. But I still have my own free will. I'm not, nor have I ever been, a slave, or interested in being someone's slave. It's a behavior as much as just following orders sexually.

Are you all saying that you never have "vanilla" sex? Really? Never? So, just because you like to use persuasion on someone, that makes it a lifestyle choice? Huh? I'm just not really getting it.


Actually, a number of people "in the life" that I know outside of Lush have more "vanilla" sex than kinky sex. It's as much a fetish as anything else, the need to be dominated or to dominate. To paraphrase MasterJonathan, when it comes to the Life, you either are, or you aren't. It's not a thing that can be learned, and stillb e satisfying. It's who we are, really. It's something that we discover lives inside us. I'm not a painslut, so being with a Sadist wouldn't work for me, even though the sex isn't always filled with floggers, canes, nipples clamps and whips. It's an attitude: a bearing. Only someone "in the know" would recognize the quiet, private couple that are D/s when they're home.

Understanding this Lifestyle doesn't come easy, even for us who've been in it for years. We're constantly evolving and changing, and learning new things all the time. To really understand it, Ian would have to do actual research. Like most any public interview, ask 100 people the same question, and you'll probably get 150 different results. To learn what he needs to know would require him to do more than just seek basic answers to beginner questions in an online forum.

But, feel free, anyway to PM me with any other questions. I'm happy to answer what I can.
I personally think it's silly, but then again, I also don't get some of the fetishes out there either. So it doesn't make it bad, just unfathomable to me.

Would I do it? Meh, hard to say because I'm not really into the whole online-dating thing after a couple of failed relationships. My relationships all sank! LOL

Just because I don't like it, doesn't mean nobody should. If that's what floats your boat, go for it. I've been invited to a few Lush weddings, but wasn't able to attend any.

But, I will say that this thread gave me a few giggles.
I do put myself in my stories, I'll admit. The first time I did this was when I decided to write my "Bell Gets Painted" trilogy (yet unfinished). It's based on my own dream/fantasy, so I found it fitting. I'm writing a couple of others on the same vein that I'm working on.

However, I'll agree with a few previous posters, and say that we can't help but put a portion of ourselves into each of our stories. Readers may recognize it, but readers may not, because even though we write erotica, we do still keep a portion of ourselves back. I at least do it, so that I don't drain myself totally as I write.
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For women who have given birth obviously, how has your sex drive changed? Was it better before childbirth? After?

This is definitely one of those things that will differ from woman to woman, but I'll give my two cents. My sex drive has actually ratcheted upwards since I had my daughter three years ago, and it's insanely easy for me to go from zero to horny now. I'd most assuredly say it's better now!

Do you reach orgasm easier or is it harder?

It's easier for me now. I'm not sure why really. No clue if it's because of the C-section I had, or maybe just a mental thing. But it can happen in minutes if I'm hot enough.

And do you find yourself aroused more often after child birth or before? If I'm missing something feel free to add to the topic..

After. I get aroused so easy, I shock myself sometimes. More often than not, anyway.
Well, I'm jumping on this bandwagon a little late, but better late than never!

Starting my stories can be the bear of things. I want to draw my readers in with a hook that'll catch and hold, keeping them with wide eyes on my story until the final words are through, and passion is sated (maybe only temporary?)...

As far as HOW LONG it takes me to write a story? God. "Shelby's Surprise" was written in two hours, from start to final edit. It's had minor tweaks here and there as I learn more, and my writing continues to develop, but for the most part, it was the quickest thing I've ever written. "A Night at the Luau" took almost two months and OMG so many edits before I felt it was anywhere near ready to submit, especially as it was also my first competition entry.

Research... I do bits of research. It depends on what the story is turning out to be. I have a book I've been working on for seven years (and ugh, not even ten chapters in yet!) that has involved MASSIVE amounts of research. Life on the bayou, Cajun French, habits, traditions, dialects, culture, construction ... ALL kinds of things. And that's even before we hit the legalities!

Me, I was readers to FEEL my stories. See things, experience sensation. It's all in the details. The more accurate my descriptions of an area you may have been, or the more descriptive of the sensation you may not have ever experienced... I believe it helps you to enjoy my words more.

I may string together profanity, and talk with a local dialect or use slang ... but my love of writing, I hope that comes out in how carefully crafted each and every single one of my stories is. Even "Shelby's Surprise".
A lot of people don't really give a meatloaf the credit it deserves ... but this dish (of my own creation) is an homage to the fabulous meatloaf, with a fun little twist! I am HUGE on family interaction, especially when it comes to mealtime, and this dish is the perfect one to get your family involved!

I'm a frugal gourmet, and this fits the bill. I'll be posting a few other recipes over the next week or two that are hearty (or just plain decadent!), but are also easy on the wallet. And all kid-approved!

Bella's Armadillo Eggs
Disclaimer: Though this dish does contain eggs, it doesn't contain armadillo. You'll get the armadillo bit a little later on!
Another note, this is a recipe that I came up with on the fly. Any measurements are rough guestimates because I don't really measure, I just use a pinch, poke or dash of different things ... It's a recipe that can really just reflect the overall mood! Most any seasoning can be substituted, changed, or just excluded all together (minus the eggs, breadcrumbs and liquid agent)

* 5 pounds ground beef/hamburger (I suppose you could also use ground turkey, if you're health-conscious!)
* around 10-15 whole jalepenos (number depends on the size of each pepper; you really need only enough to use up all of the meat mixture - and there will be steps later to alter how hot this is, if you're not a fan of spicy!)
* 1 20-ounce bottle of teriyaki sauce
* 3 cups breadcrumbs (I use Italian flavored, but you can use plain, or whatever you choose)
* 1 8-ounce package of cream cheese
* 1 teaspoon each onion powder, ceyenne pepper, garlic salt, Italian seasoning (if you don't use the Italian breadcrumbs)
* salt and pepper
* 3 large eggs
* onion powder (for later)
* 1 large onion
* bacon bits

Ok! Now the fun starts. So, for the start of the process, you wanna get your meat in a great big bowl, and add the 3 eggs, the teriyaki sauce, the breadcrumbs, your various seasonings (remember, add and subtract as you like!) and a little sprinkle of bacon bits if you so choose.

What I do when this is a family affair, is let one adult (or young adult) to handle mixing the raw meat mixture, and another for this next step. Little ones can handle the next two steps after.

Take a small paring knife and slice off the very top of the pepper (which you then throw away) and use a knife and scrape out the veins inside. What works best is to run a little water in the sink, and just scrape the edges of the blade along the insides of the jalepeno. Important note: If you don't dig spicy, make sure to get ALL of the white and all of the seeds from inside, out - that's where the heat lies, not just the seeds! If you don't take out all of the heat of every pepper, make sure you lay them in a different bowl/plate than the ones with some hot still in 'em.

Next step, this is where the kiddies come in. After you get the cream cheese opened, with a butter knife, split it into ten even sections. Even a plastic knife works here, and just watch those little fingers! What I do when I'm making them alone is just liberally sprinkle the onion powder over the cream cheese, but with the kiddos, I spread some out on a paper plate, and let them press each little section onto the powder to give it a little coating.

Once you've got the cream cheese sprinkled with the onion powder, take your whole jalepeno and carefully stuff it with the cream cheese. This I suggest to let an older kid do, because the small ones might split open the pepper, and where this isn't a huge mistake, the cheese may later cause the meat to split.

Now that you've got your pepper stuffed, it's time for the meat again! Take a nice big handful, and make a well big enough to lay in the pepper. Wrap the meat around and pinch to seal closed. You want it completely wrapped, with extra meat around, not just a thin coating. Once it's packed in there, set it on the cutting board, and carefully shape them into an egg shape. Place your meat-eggs into a baking dish with high sides (like a cake pan).

Take your onion and slice it like you're doing 'em up for hamburgers, in rings. Here's where the whole "armadillo" comes in. Take your onion pieces and lay them on top of the "eggs" in the pattern of an armadillo's armor!

What about those bacon bits? For the "eggs" you make that have some spice still in the pepper, I press a few on top, or give the "egg" some eyes so people will know the difference in the spicy and regular ones.

Go ahead and put them in the pan close together; remember the beef is gonna shrink up as it cooks. Also, you'll want to check on the eggs at about 15-20 minutes to see how high the grease level is. Feel free to pull it out long enough to drain off excess grease before slipping back into the oven. I always line a pan with foil to make cleanup easier!

How do you cook it? 365 degrees Fahrenheit (185 degrees Celsius) for 30-35 minutes. If you don't pack the beef thick enough, it WILL crack. At the 30 minute mark, I'll use two forks and carefully peek inside the thickest "egg" to check for doneness.

LET them COOL! The cream cheese inside those peppers is gonna be like white lava. Serve with salsa, sour cream or just plain old ketchup, and dig in! It's like your own little Meatloaf Surprise, because if you get big peppers, these suckers are big!

What I've also done in the past is use the food processor to mince up the jalepenos, and used a spoon to mix it in with the cream cheese and onion powder, and just make little stuffed meatballs. Or, you can just split the pepper in half and set some cream cheese on top for smaller "eggs". It's just a really fun recipe, so make it your own!

Here, am armadillo for you! Happy eating!
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You don't add any breadcrumbs to the meatball mixture? I've always done that, as I was told it's what makes them more tender. I'll do a split test next time, see for myself if it's true.

I also like to add a splash of worcestershire sauce in the meat mix.


The Parmesan cheese acts as the bonding agent in lieu of the breadcrumbs; I've done the same thing on many occasions, or done a mixture of both if I didn't have enough of either, or just to mix it up a little!

I use Worchestershire sauce in most of my meat mixes, or teriyaki in my burgers.
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You've always loved my balls...

xx SF


I have! And after all this time, I'll finally get to taste them...
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I'm in the mood for some sushi. Luckily Sydney has some of the best sushi restaurants in the world




Uhm ... must visit Oz even more soon now ... Love sushi! Yum yum.
I love all ethnic foods, but one of my life-long favorites is the Czech bread dumpling with it's sweet and savory gravy, accompanied with liver dumpling soup!. I first had this delicious meal in Omaha, NE at this awesome little place called the Bohemian Cafe, specializing in Czech foods. (Images taken from their website - now I'm hungry!)



Oh now this sounds divine! I do know what I'll be making for New Years dinner!
I really wish I hadn't read this thread ... *sighs* All it did was get me pissed of at certain members.

As far as the OP goes ... I know of the butterface fetish, but I don't know many with it, but a girl friend of mine has a butisface fetish ... Her man's built like a brick shithouse, but has a damn ugly face. But I ain't hating. I've had a couple exes like that, too.

I always say it takes all kinds of parts to make a ship stay afloat, and not one of em works the same as another. We've all got out kinks, be it spankings, tickling, BDSM or disfiguration. To each their own!
I have a writer's profile on FB under the name Mabry Michaels, and "liking" Lush was the first thing I did, TBH. For people who want to become authors, having a social page isn't a bad idea. I "liked" Lush to help support it.