This question has been asked so may times before and the same answer comes to mind. I know some of them are going to say confidence and others will say their wildest dreams come true when they are in the arms of a bad bay. In all reality I think they just want the excitement and variety that type of lifestyle offers. Shy quiet nice guys do everything the same as the bad boys we just do it differently and maybe in not so noticeable ways. As I said in my other post they will realize what opportunity they had after it's gone. Just remember people miss opportunities because they come disguised as hard work.
I know exactly how you feel. I didn't lose my virginity till I was 26 so yeah, I'm in the same boat. As for the women, they have an uncanny ability to know when guys are faking it and with their x-ray vision they can see right through us. You are doing the right thing by getting yourself out there and sooner or later some woman will take pity on you and find the love of her life. For the others that won't take that opportunity, forget them. When they are 40 years old, single with no children, and all alone they will realize then that they should have at least given you a chance.
Good luck and happy hunting!
I have to block out thoughts of you so I don't lose my head
There crawling like a cockroach leaving babies in my bed
Dropping little reels of tape to remind me that I'm alone
Playing movies in head that make a porno feel like home
Blue October- Hate Me
No I don't mean your physical address only the dwelling in which you reside.
Examples: house, apartment, dorm room, back end of a ford F350, correctional facility(jail, rehab, halfway house), sewer system of las vegas, parents basement, etc.
You get the idea, so where do you live?
Ouch! Wouldn't the swelling caused by that constrict the urethra making it diffucult to piss later?
Besides don't bees die after they sting you, so wouldn't that be considered animal cruelty?
Where's PETA when you need them!
If you wanna be happy
For the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.
A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall.
As soon as he marries her
Then she starts to do
The things that will break his heart.
But if you make an ugly woman your wife,
You'll be happy for the rest of your life,
An ugly woman cooks her meals on time,
She'll always give you peace of mind.
Don't let your friends say
You have no taste,
Go ahead and marry anyway,
Though her face is ugly,
Her eyes don't match,
Take it from me she's a better catch.
Jimmy Soul- If you wanna be happy
I have been blessed with a family tradition that has been passed on through the ages. Both my grandfathers were bald, all my uncles are bald, and my dad is bald so you can see, I am genetically screwed.QZrgVjSf8rMMfTfF What I would like to know is:
Is a bald guy any less attractive?
Do you find him just as sexy?
For the record I prefer not to call it baldness, I prefer evolving into a more aerodynamic life form!
Being alone and never finding someone to spend my life with.
The decisions we make dictate the life we have. This is why I try to make good decisions, I want a good life.
Also recently i heard: Follow your dreams, for those that don't will only discourage others.
Both of these are in my signature for a good reason
*edit* Found another one:
People miss opportunities because they come disguised as hard work.
Whoops! Double post, sorry. Could someone remove this? Thanks
Mine is kinda stupid but I think it kinda fits me. When I was in college I was making a profile for some online dating site and I had to choose a username. I didn't know what to put so I was looking around the room thinking when I saw a Korn cd and it just kinda clicked from there. I have been using that name on dating sites and here for years now.
You'll find the right person for you when the time is right. I myself didn't lose my virginity till a few months ago, and I'm 26. Yeah I know, loser right, but the point is it happened when it was suppose to. Feel good about yourself, there are others out there that are older then you and me that still haven't lost their virginity.
Thanks all for the advise. I know I have to get over being shy but for me it's hard to do. I am by nature a quiet person and I think it's hard to open up to people who want me to be more open. Being myself is another hard one since I am not good with flirting and I am deffinetly not that funny. As I stated earlier I have an introverted personality and that means I don't like going out or being in large groups and I tend to think about things before I act or say them.
Bars are not my thing as I am not really a drinker and I find it boring to be there. I would much rather go grocery shopping and make a meal together at home and watch a movie where we could cuddle up on the couch together. I have tried the online dating thing and in small town minnesota(1000 people) you can't find anyone and even in a 50 mile radius there are not many that I am attracted to. Not to be rude they are all beautiful in their own way but I am not attracted to either super skinny women or obese women I like a happy medium. Also if they have kids that's another turn off for me as I have dated a mom and she didn't have enough time to put into the relationship as she had to take care of her kids. It takes two people to make a relationship work and I would like someone who has just as much time as me.
As for being the rich, famous, tough guy that I can see will never happen. I don't have that kind of money, I have only a few friends ouside of my family, and I believe we should respect each other for who we are and not be the jerk / asshole to others. My ex is actually completely smitten and in love with a guy that is a total jerk to her and just uses her for sex, and she keeps going back for more like a yo-yo.
I guess I am an old fashioned kind of guy that will eventually figure things out and what works for me. Thanks Again
My personal opinion is to protect the freedom of choice. What the sign doesn't say is what if being pregnant was causing health concerns for the mother. No pregnancy is worth dying over. That's the great thing about humans is we can always have more children. Hell if your that concerned about having a kid why don't you adopt a child and give them a better opportuinty at life. No child should have to die but at the same time no idiot should be allowed to procreate if they don't understand freedom of choice.
Last time I had sex was over 2 months ago. At least I have the five knuckle shuffle to keep me company.IEfMDcxMJB0xZKxN