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LASARDaddy
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 83
United States

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1964 to 1968 E Type Jaguar Convertible.

With a 289 Ford V8 and Ford 5 speed Racing Transmission, of course. The early Jaguar engines and transmissions suck.

How do you post pictures here?
I totally agree! This scares the absolute crap out of me.

I've tried to teach this to all my kids (6) and my grand kids (15) but some of them persist in doing it anyway. I refuse to even go on the social web sites.

The government already knows to much and this just shows them more of you. Besides, what makes you think that your boss, the HR person you interview with or some jerk you just met isn't getting all this too.
I love it!

I would absolutely love to get to know this couple.

We are all in charge of how we feel. Most people don't really understand that, but these 2 do and I'm always looking for that.
Hi,

I'm a guy but this is a very important question, I had to say something and I hope I don't offend to many.

In my experience (I'm 71 so there's been a lot) most women see themselves through distorted lenses. They see the surface and assume that's all that everyone else sees. Sometimes the surface is gorgeous, sometimes it's not. So what? I know a lot of beautiful women in their 60's to 80's because I make a very clear distinction between "Gorgeous" and "Beautiful". Gorgeous is mostly just the surface, beautiful goes to the core.

There is so much more buried beneath the surface that I'm amazed that so few others see it. To me what shines through everything else is an inner strength, a beauty, that quite a few women have, but not enough of them. It's like a star and the more I get to know them the brighter it gets. Most of my male friends think I'm a little off my rocker (mostly insane is what I hear) when I tell them that women like Ann Bancroft, Susan Sarandon and Hillary Swank are the most beautiful women in the universe. These are strong, beautiful women and I'd prefer knowing them than most centerfold types. I don't give a crap what these "Blind" people think.

See yourself as strong. Learn to stand toe to toe with God in a screaming, got to hell match and DO NOT back down. You won't give a crap what others think and you'll be a lot happier with yourself. Our world would be a lot better place to live in if all women were strong. Not dominate, strong.

Thank you for reading and 'Stay Safe"

LasarDaddy
(Paul)
Mostly it's honesty. I tell nothing but the truth and anything they want to know. I let them make up their own minds and it works better for me that anything else. I also treat whatever they give me as a gift and if she gives me her body, it's a treasure. I treat them as a treasure and it gets me more than anyone I know. Got actually, I'm 71 now and don't get a lot of opportunity any more.

My preference is strong women. One that can stand toe to toe with God in a screaming, go to hell fight and not back down. Hillary Swank is one of the sexiest women on the planet. Also Zoe Saldana from Avatar and Columbiana.

Someone posted Sapiosexual and I guess i am too. I like it and I found this definition at unwords.com.

1. (n.) A behavior of becoming attracted to or aroused by intelligence and its use.

Origins: From the Latin root sapien, wise or intelligent, and Latin sexualis, relating to the sexes.

Example: Me? I don't care too much about the looks. I want an incisive, inquisitive, insightful, irreverent mind. I want someone for whom philosophical discussion is foreplay. I want someone who sometimes makes me go ouch due to their wit and evil sense of humor. I want someone that I can reach out and touch randomly. I want someone I can cuddle with. I decided this all means that I am sapiosexual.
Why not?

Eddie Izzard does and most don't mind. If it bothers you, don't look.
Hi,

Neat question. Some guys like to hear about it, some guys don't like to hear about it. That's all it is. I happen to be one of the ones who doesn't like to hear. I have adored my wife for 43 plus years. I will do anything (and have) for her, but I do not want to hear about her old boyfriends.

As far as "Immature" goes, bull shit. (I think I can say that here.)

I'm 71 now, have 6 kids, 3 girls, 15 grand kids, 7 girls, and 2 great grand kids, both boys. She was 5 years older than me and already had 4 kids, 2 boys, 16 and 14 and 2 girls 13 and 9 when I married her. In my immaturity I managed to get them through most of the problems and make everyone of them my kids and managed to get them all grown up, successful and with families. They all call me dad and come to me with problems because I'm the soft touch, not mom.

Well, they used to. Now the youngest is 36 and they make their own decisions, which is exactly what I was after. 5 years ago, at Christmas, it hit me. "I'm no longer in charge." I went around to each of them and told them that and gave them a big hug and thanked them for being my kid. Every one of them was sad hearing it and spent time reassuring me that I was still "Daddy" and always would be. That is one of the all time greatest ego trips.

In all of this what I have noticed was that the immature ones talked and bragged about their conquests and what their girl/boy friend could do. Yeah, a couple of the girls did talk to me because they all trusted me. I NEVER called them anything but, "My kids" and I never repeated what I heard, not even to their mother and that used to REALLY piss her off. As I cozzied them into understanding that every one of us is different and taught them to see past the surface, they changed their attitudes and talked less and listened more. They all learned to think.

Summary:

We are all different and trying to use our own personal feelings as a filter to describe some one else's choices is wrong. It's judgemental and immature.

Paul

I am the sum of all my decisions, good and bad, as are you. They are just different.
Wow! Neat question.

It's a cultural thing. Men in this country have been raised to be TERRIFIED of touching other men. Mostly women have not been trained that way. Why not? I've always wondered about that and I think I'll ask it somewhere, I'm just not sure where to do it. I am 100% straight, but I have a gay son that I love and have no problem hugging his friends. Well, most of them, but there are a few I don't want to because they grab my ass. I had one gay experience when I was 24, a hand job, which I didn't like and never wanted to try again. I do not think I am a homophobe.

I've lived all over the world and spent 2 years in Russia, 1978 to 1980. I had met a Russian before I went so we were already friendly and the first time I met him there he grabbed me and kissed me on the mouth. On the street, in broad daylight, in a crowd of 50 people or more. As an American this totally shocked me. We are not brought up to do that. It took me about 1/2 a second to understand that this was his country and his culture and to pull away would be an absolute offense to him. There wasn't any tongue involved, that would have been much more difficult to deal with, but our lips touched for several seconds. I waited for him to pull away because I knew he wasn't gay and would end it when it should according to his cultural rules. I was 36 when that happened to me so I wasn't a child just learning the ropes. He actually brought it up later and told me that he did it deliberately just to get my reactions. We became very good friends after that and if I could find him again I'd still be talking to him. He was a neat guy to know.

If she, whoever she is, sucks me until I cum or licks me after I've cum then doing ANYTHING else but kiss or lick her afterwords is completely wrong on my part. I did have to think about it the first time I was asked to, for about 3 seconds, but her immediate response to me when I did it and then her attitude toward me afterwards convinced me that any other response would have been wrong. That would have been nothing but a slap in the face to her and indicate disgust on my part and that would have caused me to think a great deal less of myself. Just like not kissing Vadsic, that was the Russians name, would have been an insult to him. I have always cherished women and any that gave the gift of themselves to me was not someone I wanted to ever offend. That's exactly how I have always felt about women that I'm with sexually.

I truthfully don't think I could if another guy had just come in her, but I've never been faced with that choice. Mostly I like the exclusivity. I don't go with others while I'm with her and I expect the same. She is absolutely in charge of herself and can make whatever choices she wants and I will totally support her decision, but if we're together, why does she need him? I do still know a couple of them that were with me and we're still friends. Their husbands too. They chose guys that cherished them like I did.

I know I'll catch a lot of flack on that and I understand that some women and men like multiple partners, maybe a lot or even most, but I don't, and it's also my choice to decide what's right for me, just like her.

Everyone is in charge of themselves. No one else in the universe, not even God, has that control over me. I won't allow it and you shouldn't either. I think the world would be a lot better place to live if we all felt that way.

I'm going to catch a LOT of flack on that point too. I am a Taoist and try to live doing the least harm and the most good.

Thanks for reading.