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LadyX
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 35
0 miles · Dallas
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Quote by RichInMich
Chances of drama getting involved in a FMF are much higher than an MFM... My favorite thought is, "he can f*ck you, but he can't have you"...
Your experience is wildly different from mine, then. Leiza raises a good point about a guy "managing his path to climax" with two women. But if we acknowledge that drama/hurt feelings/crossed signals is very possible in any threesome situation, FMF is a far less volatile mix in my opinion, especially if two of the three are already a couple.
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Quote by Nikki703
Very true!! To the guys who do frequent strip clubs, how much does it cost to get a 30min lap dance? I assume it depends on the club but just curious.
I've never sold a 30min. block of time, but the average song is 4-5 mins. and the dances are $20/per, so it's probably in the neighborhood of $120.
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Quote by MadMartigan
They probably fucking hate the job (well, of course there are the ones who loves it) but I'd imagine most are just putting themselves through school.
We're all putting ourselves through something. I wouldn't say most hate it. It's not easy money, and like any sales job, you can't hide genuine loathing or burnout enough to be successful.
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Okay, gang. Let's take this fun party elsewhere and return the thread to it's original subject please. If anyone needs to discuss forum conflicts further, please do so by sending me a PM. I'll respond promptly. Otherwise, the show is over. Anything further off topic will be deleted.
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Quote by Magma_Boils_333
Interesting that Trinket was singled out and attacked on a personal level and yet she's being quoted and told to let it go while the person who insulted her is being allowed to continue casting rude things at her.
A river of bad blood flows through these here parts. We're not a daycare, and neither of these two are fully in the right or wrong. Refereeing cheap shots is not our business. If it goes too far it gets dealt with, and it's usually well out of sight, as it should be.
Trinket asked for my feedback and she's getting it. If people are looking for some sort of public flogging for accused bullying, they're on the wrong website.
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Quote by trinket
And you're addressing this post only to me because? Am i the only person posting on this thread? no. Have other people complained about the same person on this thread? yes. Why am I the only one being quoted?
If people have complained about me nobody has brought it to my attention, if they had I would have apologised to the person who thought I had done them a wrong in fact I have done so in threads from time to time. I'm not so arrogant to believe or tell people I'm right all the time or perfect, none of us are. Some people on lush are treated differently to others and this thread is a perfect example of it.
I'm not trying to win anything, there is nothing to win. I'm only speaking for myself when I say I'm sick and tired of being harassed on the forums and I'm not the only one.
I'm addressing this to you because you addressed me. We're conversing.
Nobody brings it to your attention because usually the complaints aren't worth addressing. We're grown-ups here. If a member feels compelled to contact website authorities to complain about another member, chances are they're just choosing not to step away from the computer. "Somebody on the internet is wrong." You feel that nobody ever takes your side because usually, you're the only one to plea for it, and just like the member complaints, requests to referee a forum thread is usually going to go unaddressed, too. Why? Because it's not worth anyone's time in most cases. If it pisses you off, walk away. Those retaliations, just like in this thread, will cease to happen as soon as you stop coming back for more.
My advice, and believe it or not it does come from the wisdom of experience, is that the less aggrieved and antagonistic your posts are, the less you'll find yourself under some sort of siege from other members. You'll largely get what you give. And unlike my joke about the group hugs, that's a sincere sentiment that I'm offering. And if being edgy, speaking your mind, being a smartass, 'not taking any shit', or any other way of going about your business here is part and parcel of who you are and you're not going to part with it, that's perfectly fine. Just understand that our attitudes either attract or insulate us from conflict.
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Quote by trinket
Here is my point again, With all due respect LadyX, I have never seen a mod or anyone intervene when it was the other way around, but as soon as someone jacks up about how rude he is, oh lets all have some compassion, lets sing kumbaya. NOBODY did that for me and there were plenty of times i asked a mod for help during the middle of a tirade from Felix and was given none, even though i was being called filthy names.
What ever happened to respect? What ever happened to having some manners and letting people post without being harassed by someone who gets away with it time after time after time.
I'm done, I can't say anymore on the subject. i've had it, and so have a lot of other people. they keep telling you but nobody does anything.
All who never front any attitude, get a little extra edgy, throw a little too much snark, hit a little too hard, or lob one sarcastic post too many please step forward. We've all done it, Trinket, and then when people retaliate we aren't victims because of it. The more it escalates the less anyone is victimized and the more everyone rolls their eyes that "it" is happening again. It's old. Aren't you tired of trying to sort out petty fights and prove that you're right? None of this even matters. Yes, people complain about him. People complain about you, too. People bitch and moan about all kinds of people. We let both slide because usually- such as this occasion- it's really not worth anyone's time to get in the middle of a "he hurt my feelings/he did it first" forum scrum. In fact, I've spent too much time already by addressing it.
Everybody chill.
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Quote by Magical_felix
I saw gravity and I really liked it... I got a new respect for sandra bullock that I didn't have before and saw that gif with that quote I found insightful... The quote can be about anything...
I didn't answer your PM you sent me where you were screaming about being annoyed that I had a white girlfriend and how I don't need to mention that. That was an example I used in a thread to illustrate a point of instances where people think you are shoving something down their throats. Like interracial relationships. I was empathizing in a way of what it must feel like (to a lesser degree) when a gay person brings their boyfriend or girlfriend home to their family. Sometimes parents are like, "here we go... Madison is bringing her boyfriend Juanito home for christmas. Why does she always have to ruin the holidays!"
You would always be welcome in my house, Juanito. We're here to heal the hurt.
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Quote by trinket
What you said is true, I totally agree with you, however where was everyone sticking up for me or anyone else when they were being trolled by him., everyone just sat back and watched. I've never had any one person tell him to shut it when I've been attacked by him on a thread.
Why is it different now the tables are turned? It's obvious i'm not the only one who is tired of the bullshit , not being given enough respect to give our own opinions without having someone call us names and/or dissect our opinions to prove our opinion WRONG,, usually targeting the same people over and over again.
Personal Assistant quoted slippery's forum post, AGAIN. Why is that?
I can solve none of these issues, nor am I giving further credence to an internet slap-fight. I don't care who's wrong, the whole thing is a beating. I like you both, but let's all be real here: the chances of me (or anyone) wading in and bringing this to a good resolution are roughly that of winning a winter land war in Asia. So let's all have a drink, shall we?
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Quote by WellMadeMale
He may be just a touch heart broken... Perhaps he had to dump someone else so he could have a serious relationship, or perhaps his serious girlfriend set him on the curb recently? We all have feelings... maybe we should offer him a hug and some freshened up litter for his box.
Thank you. A little compassion people?
We're all part of one race- the human race. We need each other, you guys. Come on, group hug.
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I get a few different ones.
This girl's only famous for having an on again/off again with rapper/domestic abuser Chris Brown, but anyway...I've been compared to Karreuche Tran lately.
And at different times, people have said that I reminded them of Vanessa Williams.
I've also been told I look like porn star Kaylani Lei.
This girl's only famous for having an on again/off again with rapper/domestic abuser Chris Brown, but anyway...I've been compared to Karreuche Tran lately.
And at different times, people have said that I reminded them of Vanessa Williams.
I've also been told I look like porn star Kaylani Lei.
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Quote by SereneProdigy
His dick is actually not that big, at least when compared to a lot of other pornstars. Probably around 7 inches or so, in my opinion. But that would be the ideal size for many women, so I envy him in that regard.
All the rest of him? Pfff... not impressed.
I'm curious: which male porn stars genuinely impress you?
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Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
After I blow my nose, I still look at the tissue longer than I should.
Also, you're still ashy.
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Starting at about age 3, I was always in trouble for what my dad called my "Go To Hell" look. It's all in the eyes, and it's the look I still give, and it still gets me in trouble (though not with my Dad anymore).
