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LillyLush
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 36
United States
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I’ve always been a teaser at heart and I think teasing is critical aspect of flirting with women. When done well, it can create immense attraction and bring our conversation to the next level. It’s fun and shows that you’re able to enjoy yourself so she can do the same. However, to understand teasing you must first understand rapport, which is is when two people relate and connect with each other. As you talk about commonalities, share stories, and learn more about one another, you are building that rapport. These are typically safe conversations. Whereas, flirting is the essence of creating tension and “breaking” rapport. You’re saying something a little edgy. She could tell you to go screw yourself and it’s potentially unsafe you know all great endeavors are risky to begin with!
By nature, teasing is jokingly offensive. You’ve got to bust her balls, sarcastically criticize her, and make her feel vulnerable in a lighthearted way. Make fun of her, not yourself as self-deprecating, cynical, and negative humor might get a laugh but it won’t get you a date. Be expressive and smile, use your hands to gesture, and vary your vocal tonality. At the end of playful phrases, inflect your voice upward. Get passionate and physical. Exaggerate and be absurd at times. Also…laugh with her, damn it! Ramp it up by starting with something less intense and get more personal as the interaction progresses. You could say something sexual very early on but if she’s not invested in you, it’s probably going to backfire. Have real conversation, too and don’t tease her constantly, mix it up with more substantial or meaningful talk. Listen and avoid making fun of her when she’s telling you something serious. As you get to know her, tease less but never stop completely – the spirited attitude keeps her attracted.
You've got to take some chances, the guys who always play it safe usually go home alone.
By nature, teasing is jokingly offensive. You’ve got to bust her balls, sarcastically criticize her, and make her feel vulnerable in a lighthearted way. Make fun of her, not yourself as self-deprecating, cynical, and negative humor might get a laugh but it won’t get you a date. Be expressive and smile, use your hands to gesture, and vary your vocal tonality. At the end of playful phrases, inflect your voice upward. Get passionate and physical. Exaggerate and be absurd at times. Also…laugh with her, damn it! Ramp it up by starting with something less intense and get more personal as the interaction progresses. You could say something sexual very early on but if she’s not invested in you, it’s probably going to backfire. Have real conversation, too and don’t tease her constantly, mix it up with more substantial or meaningful talk. Listen and avoid making fun of her when she’s telling you something serious. As you get to know her, tease less but never stop completely – the spirited attitude keeps her attracted.
You've got to take some chances, the guys who always play it safe usually go home alone.
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In most of the occasions of outdoor sex, you may not be able to undress completely but your lust overcomes the clumsiness and you start enjoying the feel of fabrics and even other wearables such as a belt dangling in between your thighs and caressing inner sides while you enjoy a pushed-to-the walls posture with a hard cock buried deep in you! But with woman I prefer body to body contact. I feel highly aroused with a naked woman willing to fuck my brains out.
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I agree that age does not matter but that should not mean sex with underage. I think I will approve a sexual partner by remaining within the bounds of morality, law and social norms. And another important aspect is that my partner should be wise enough to feel my desires, physically strong enough to meet my never ending demands, kind enough to ensure that I am satisfied and generous enough to spend sometime cuddling after we're done.
