Thanks so much for the good wishes everyone! Tuesday's the big day, so not long to go now.
I don't think I'll be posting any pics though!
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Lisa
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
Australia
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I agree with you, Damon, that we can't control who we're attracted to, but quietly confident men are much more appealing to me than the one you described in your scenario. He sounds like high-maintenance and in need of lots of attention. A man can be confident without having to work a room every time he enters one. That would grow old pretty quickly.
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Scenario A would bother me more. If he's willing to put our marriage in jeopardy for a sexual fling that means absolutely nothing to him, I'd find that difficult to forgive.
Scenario B, in my opinion, is fixable. He's obviously finding something in another woman that he isn't getting with me. That's something we can work on together.
If he's constantly going off in secret to have sex with someone he cares nothing about, that's probably a habit he's not looking to change...and I don't like to share!
Scenario B, in my opinion, is fixable. He's obviously finding something in another woman that he isn't getting with me. That's something we can work on together.
If he's constantly going off in secret to have sex with someone he cares nothing about, that's probably a habit he's not looking to change...and I don't like to share!
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Something else that would be handy is a little box beside each published story in the "my stories" section where authors can place a number to organise the order of their stories. That way if they write a chapter months after the last one, they can be kept together, or a writer can present what they feel is their best work (or the stories they'd like the most feedback on) at the top of their stories list.
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If you get serious about running make sure you have the right shoes. In my opinion, they make a big difference. Apparently I could've avoided the stress fracture that took me two years to recover from if I'd started out wearing the right gear.
Also, pay attention to your body. What starts out as shin splints can end up as a stress fracture. Most injuries heal pretty quickly if you attend to them straight away, instead of ignoring them like I did!
Also, pay attention to your body. What starts out as shin splints can end up as a stress fracture. Most injuries heal pretty quickly if you attend to them straight away, instead of ignoring them like I did!
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Hair loss itself doesn't affect a man's attractiveness for me - it's how he deals with the loss that's important. It doesn't look good if he tries too hard to hang on to what he's got left by letting it grow all long and wispy so you can see through it...or heaven forbid, starts sporting a combover! Cut it close to the scalp or beat the hair at its own game and shave it off.
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Using a handheld mobile phone (either texting or talking) while driving is illegal here and carries a $150 fine when caught. I'm in agreement with this. Some of the things people do while driving are ridiculous. I saw a woman just a couple of days ago travelling down the highway, eating a hamburger and texting at the same time. It shows disrespect for the lives of others on the road.
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Quote by JebruQuote by SweetBitch
The first thing guys should do, is learn basic body language...
If I am sitting at a bar, and you come over to chat me up and I face you and my body is pointed towards you, I am interested. If I turn my head and/or body away from you... I am NOT interested.
Just a quick question on this from a guy who knows he tries to hard sometimes, and other times, gets the girl he doesn't want with no effort at all. How is a guy supposed to know the difference between legitimate disinterest, and playing hard to get?
A woman who plays hard to get is someone who enjoys playing games. I'm sure she'll eventually just end up being hard to want. Better to spend your time on a woman who shows genuine interest.
And on the topic of men who try too hard, I think the best way to decide whether you're putting in too much effort is to picture the situation in reverse. Would you feel flattered/smothered/annoyed by the same behaviour from a woman?
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I understand her desire to have children, but I think she's putting unnecessary stress on their relationship. He can only give his opinion based on how he feels now. He's being honest with her and deserves points for that.
He may change his mind a few years down the track, or he may stick with his original decision. She's only nineteen. She's got plenty of time if she wants to play the waiting game for a while and see what happens.
He may change his mind a few years down the track, or he may stick with his original decision. She's only nineteen. She's got plenty of time if she wants to play the waiting game for a while and see what happens.
