Safe words are obviously used to communicate with your partner when approaching a physical or emotional boundary. Either as a signal to reduce the intensity of a scene, or bring it to a stop altogether.
If you utilise a prop which makes this impossible, for example a ball gag, how do you ensure that you are keeping the BDSM-play safe?
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Quote by simplyjohn
But thats such an acquired taste .. so is marmite.
I admit I'm not an expert on the male sausage, but I know a thing or two about Marmite.
You either love it or you hate it. If she loves it, all he needs to do is stick his todger in a jar of the stuff and offer her breakfast in bed.
(Lush Stories assumes no responsibility or liability for any inaccurate or inappropriate advice given by its members.)
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Quote by GirlyWorld
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Did I fall asleep? Sorry! The level of intellect was intriguing but not quite enough to keep me stimulated. I might need Buz's anal probe after all...
I chopped some Z's off your post, it was messing with my screen.
What was the question again? Oh yeah. I think it's all been said already, but anything that would discourage new members from staying, i.e. jumping through hoops in order to prove themselves 'legitimate', would be counterproductive.
Our moderating team is growing all of the time and we do a pretty good job at keeping on top of the trolls. If it ever becomes a serious problem, then I'm sure this could become a topic to revisit.
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Rachel,
You are a beautiful, smart, funny, amazing person. You make me smile every time we talk, and I count myself so lucky to be your friend.
I think Mary Poppins said it best, "practically perfect in every way". Don't ever change.
I hope you have a wonderful, fun-filled birthday. Try not to eat too much candy and make yourself sick.
Lots of love,
Liz x
You are a beautiful, smart, funny, amazing person. You make me smile every time we talk, and I count myself so lucky to be your friend.
I think Mary Poppins said it best, "practically perfect in every way". Don't ever change.
I hope you have a wonderful, fun-filled birthday. Try not to eat too much candy and make yourself sick.
Lots of love,
Liz x
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Quote by Magical_felix
I keep a pair of my girl's panties in my back pocket in case an armed robbery opportunity arises in which case I use said panties as a mask with my eyes looking out the leg holes and the pussy part over my mouth, looking like a ghetto ass Spider-Man. I do that so I can't be identified so easy but it also reminds me of why I'm whipping out my pearl handled kitty kat to begin with, mothafucka.
With great pants comes great responsibility.
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What's your favourite way to call a vagina?
On the phone.
Me: "S'up, girl?"
Vagina: "Not much. Just chillin'."
Me: "Chillin'? Wanna get a lickin'?"
Vagina: "Hell yeah!" *jiggles excitedly*
Or did you mean, 'What's your favourite name for a vagina?" In which case my answer is 'foof'.
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I updated my site to 4.0 at the weekend and I really like some of the new features. (The one-click upgrade worked fine for me)
The grid layout in the Media Library is a nice addition, and I love the new screen for adding plugins.
Couple of screenshots I found online:
The grid layout in the Media Library is a nice addition, and I love the new screen for adding plugins.
Couple of screenshots I found online:
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Use Google's new panel in security settings to keep your account safe
Just how secure is your Google account? For example, have you set up two-step verification? Do you know which apps you've allowed to access your account? Is your recovery information up to date in case you get locked out of your account? These questions are important for any Google user; even more so should Google reside at the centre of your digital universe.
Thankfully, Google has just made it easier to check five critical security settings so you can be sure your account is secure. Head to the security settings page for your account and you'll see that a new panel has been added, titled "Secure your Account." Click the blue "Get started" button and you'll be walked through these five settings:
- Recovery information
- Recent activity
- Account permissions
- App passwords
- Two-Step Verification
The settings themselves aren't new additions to Google's security offerings. What is new is the wizard that walks you through each of the above settings. You can update and edit each setting, and the wizard then collapses it and moves you to the next. Given the clear and simple presentation, I'd wager this new security panel has encouraged many Google users to update their accounts, making them more secure.
LINK: GOOGLE SECURITY SETTINGS
Just how secure is your Google account? For example, have you set up two-step verification? Do you know which apps you've allowed to access your account? Is your recovery information up to date in case you get locked out of your account? These questions are important for any Google user; even more so should Google reside at the centre of your digital universe.
Thankfully, Google has just made it easier to check five critical security settings so you can be sure your account is secure. Head to the security settings page for your account and you'll see that a new panel has been added, titled "Secure your Account." Click the blue "Get started" button and you'll be walked through these five settings:
- Recovery information
- Recent activity
- Account permissions
- App passwords
- Two-Step Verification
The settings themselves aren't new additions to Google's security offerings. What is new is the wizard that walks you through each of the above settings. You can update and edit each setting, and the wizard then collapses it and moves you to the next. Given the clear and simple presentation, I'd wager this new security panel has encouraged many Google users to update their accounts, making them more secure.
LINK: GOOGLE SECURITY SETTINGS
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Google Releases the First Android Apps for Chrome OS
At Google I/O, the company announced that soon you would be able to run Android apps in Chrome OS. That day has arrived. Sort of. For a couple of apps anyway.
The initial set of supported apps is sparse. Duolingo, Evernote, Sight Words, and Vine are all available on the Chrome Web Store and...that's it for now. Google promises it's working with "select developers" to bring Android apps to Chrome OS "in the coming months."
However, if you have a Chrome OS device (sorry Windows/OS X users, you'll have to wait), you can try out this implementation now. Time will tell if this is enough to make Chrome OS a more serious contender for desktop apps, but at the moment it seems promising.
Google Chrome Blog
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I think anyone who is looking to move on from XP but doesn't want to splash the cash on the new Windows OS should take a look at Linux Mint.
It looks, acts and feels like XP, but it's faster, more secure, and totally free. You can use Firefox or Chrome for web browsing, Libre Office as a Microsoft Office alternative, and can even game on it using services such as Steam.
There is a small learning curve when you first start using it, but you'll soon get the hang of it.
http://www.zdnet.com/why-linux-mint-is-a-worthwhile-windows-xp-replacement-7000027858/
It looks, acts and feels like XP, but it's faster, more secure, and totally free. You can use Firefox or Chrome for web browsing, Libre Office as a Microsoft Office alternative, and can even game on it using services such as Steam.
There is a small learning curve when you first start using it, but you'll soon get the hang of it.
http://www.zdnet.com/why-linux-mint-is-a-worthwhile-windows-xp-replacement-7000027858/
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Quote by MrNudiePants
What do you think?
I like floral tattoos and orchids are particularly popular. They tend to be more of a female subject matter I think, but there are some great examples of them on guys, too.
I'd suggest finding a tattoo artist who specialises in this sort of design and get them to freehand something for you. That way it will flow with the curves of your muscle definition.
If it's a cover-up piece, for something like scar tissue, they can use drop shadows on the flowers to darken it out, or maybe even some green foliage.
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Quote by MrNudiePants
What do you think?
I like floral tattoos and orchids are particularly popular. They tend to be more of a female subject matter I think, but there are some great examples of them on guys, too.
I'd suggest finding a tattoo artist who specialises in this sort of design and get them to freehand something for you. That way it will flow with the curves of your muscle definition.
If it's a cover-up piece, for something like scar tissue, they can use drop shadows on the flowers to darken it out, or maybe even some green foliage.
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Quote by nicola
" 's servers weren't breached"
How would hackers be able to get their passwords then? I don't understand these things
I changed mine anyway, I haven't changed it in 5+ years!
We could maybe do with that "Gizmo" forum you were talking about. Things like this post could go in there, news about the $1000 iPhone 6 etc.
Tech section sounds good to me
Apparently the leaked accounts are from phishing sites, so many of the details will be old. However, as you said, some people haven't changed their passwords for a long time. Google reckon it's not a security breach on their end.
This is a better link to check compromised accounts:
https://www.dashlane.com/googlebreach
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Very poignant poem by our very own DirtyMartini.
http://www.storiesspace.com/stories/poetry/we-shall-never-forget-911-tribute.aspx
I don't think he'll mind me posting a link.
http://www.storiesspace.com/stories/poetry/we-shall-never-forget-911-tribute.aspx
I don't think he'll mind me posting a link.
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You might need to change your email password in the very near future. A member at a Russian Bitcoin forum has posted almost 5 million passwords, around 60 percent of which are reportedly still working.
It's not clear how the poster managed to scoop up all this account info, but Google tells Cnews that it comes from a long stretch of hacking and phishing attempts that stole data from individual users. 's servers weren't breached, the search giant says, and much of what's there is old. That's somewhat comforting, but you may want to visit Isleaked.com to see if your account is one of the unfortunate targets -- you don't want to give thieves easy access to your most sensitive info.
Source: Engadget
https://isleaked.com/en.php