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Mazza
3 weeks ago
Straight Female, 55
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Mazztastic
Quote by dpw
Thanks again and I do understand especially one off stories that overlap, I should think most do, to some extent at least.
I went back to check the story, it's a husband and wife confessing and each part ends in a "god what happens next" line. This is one conversation all taking place on one day and the categorisation is as follows:
1. Wife lovers
2. Straight sex
3. Voyeur
4. Exhibitionism
5. Bisexual
6. Group sex
7. BDSM
Now unless you read part 1 the story won't follow as they don't really stand on their own, they're all part of the same conversation.
The link is at the bottom to the previous part, is it possible to put one at the top for previous and one at the bottom for subsequent parts or is there only one link available?
Actually, thats a great idea... To be able to link from the previous part of a story woukd be awesome. I have an unfinished series that stands at eight parts so far and given the time between each submission, a link from the previous part would be really handy...
Mazztastic
Quote by Barry007
Noquite the contrary I just have sense enough to realize that women are sick and tired of hearing idiots like you wondering about dick size
Don't be so damned mean!!!
It was a legitimate question for the gals - if we were sick of it, we wouldn't answer.
In answer to the OP - my fellow ladies have got it spot on...
Although I have to say that while I DO like a large penis inside me, simply because it will hit the right spots and the feeling of friction being greater as it opens me up, I have been with more well-endowed guys who seem to feel that having a big cock is enough - it's not!!
Conversely, I've had smaller dicks that haven't got me off from straight missionary, but with a bit of creativity in positioning, feel amazing.
For me, it comes down to how much I'm into the guy. If he can stimulate me emotionally, intellectually etc, then whatever size dick he has, it's going to feel better, sexier, hotter. If he can be a bit creative and imaginative in bed - teasing, build up, foreplay, changing positions, dirty talk, using his hands and mouth, perhaps a little role play, using his brain - then the actual sex itself is less important.
I don't need to cum to enjoy the sex - I don't always cum, but I still enjoy it.
So, in answer to the question - I want his dick to be big enough that I can feel it inside me and small enough not to tear me open - somewhere in between those to ends of the spectrum is just fine - I'm more into HIM, than just his cock...
Mazztastic
Looking forward to the next comp and really hoping I'll get my ass in gear and submit something!
Also looking forward to finally catching up on all the entries for this competition which I never managed to read. Heartfelt congratulations to everyone who was placed and indeed everyone who submitted a story!!
Also looking forward to finally catching up on all the entries for this competition which I never managed to read. Heartfelt congratulations to everyone who was placed and indeed everyone who submitted a story!!
Mazztastic
Quote by CurlyGirly
Actually, the fakes who chap my ass the most are ex -Lush friends. They create new accounts, send new requests, and act like they're someone I've never been friends with before. Eventually, they slip up, and I usually figure out who they are or at least that we were friends previously. It's happened more than once and one guy has done this to me about 5 times so far. Grrrrr Makes me suspicious of new friends.
Same here!! It's so disheartening when this happens... Grr
Makes me wary of new friends too...
Mazztastic
Quote by WellMadeMale
Chuck Norris -- His tears cure cancer. Too bad he has never cried.
Hey! Good to have you here wmm!!
Mazztastic
Quote by Wardog
Reread my first post. It was about...reciprocity. From their I cited an example of WHY that sometimes doesn't happen. In your case I suspect it's simply personality based. 'm not "trying to sour" anything. But you seem bound and determined to make me out as a trouble making bad guy. If that's what you think, fine. Because, as you say yourself; we're ALL entitled to our opinions. (To include your opinion of the "Proper place for" my attempt to help provide those with a NEED for a way out, the means.)
Oh, and YES, you came out swinging, so NO I'm not just going to roll over and play dead for you. In short, if you don't WANT "aggression" then don't start it. (Hint NOW go reread YOUR response to my post, sound a little condescending? Silly me, of course it won't. Next reread your response to dpw , sound "light hearted?" Sounds like dig to me.)
However as to the "light hearted"... GOOD! The entire idea of the site is to enjoy ourselves. PLEASE DO SO! Just do not assume that by agreeing to the TOS I ALSO agreed to be bossed around.
Oh wardog, you're such a sourpuss... I'm not here to boss you around, not even if that's what you're into (and I get a real sense that you like a dominant woman)
But I'm sure there are plenty guys and gals here on lush who'd love the chance to get all flirty with you!!
Don't take things so seriously, as I said, this wasn't a heavy thread mmmm mmm.
Now, off you go and have fun xxx
Mazztastic
Quote by Wardog
Passive aggressive, nope. Just telling you that you opened the door. Another poster made a comment from a male perspective so I gave my interpretation. Nothing to do with it? Well, if your content to be selfish and one way about things then I guess from your point of view it probably doesn't have anything to do with he OP. (Although I'm STILL not clear on how my remarks concerning what was meant by another post fit that description or why it was Me you chose to open fire on. Gotta give ya credit though it wasn't passive, just aggressive, needlessly so.) Next, time you post something you might want to consider that any time you're talking about personal relationships other people just MIGHT have thoughts and feelings that do not of necessity agree with everything you have to say. Clear enough now? Oh, and forgive me for offering those of your gender who might be in need of it or might have friends or family who do; a resource written by an expert (not self styled, this one has a doctorate.)
Wardog, your post spoke of abusive relationships, that was not what this thread was about, for all you tried and are trying still to sour it.
I've no problem taking differing opinions into account, that's what debate and difference is about, and that's a normal and healthy thing.
I didn't open fire on you, why would I? You're entitled to your opinion, it's just that it was off topic and your tendency seems to be to negativity and a little aggression, which was unnecessary in this instance. The OP was meant to be lighthearted and positive and most of the other posters here have taken it as such...
I still maintain that your "resource" would have been better suited to the think tank.
Mazztastic
Quote by paul_moadib
Sorry if this sounded a bit harsh - that was not my intention.
I noticed a claim that "women find it easier to express their feelings and emotions". Whilst this might be true, what makes women think this is useful to men?
A woman can skip the 1000 I love you's and be a whore in the bedroom and cook me a decent meal once in a while. I'd trade all the spoken I love you's for that, because in her doing so, I KNOW she loves me. She doesn't need to say it.
I prefer to DO the things my wife likes and infrequently tell her I love her, as I prefer not to wear those words out.
Useful to men? Lol
Well, I think you'll find that it's a good indicator of how she feels about you, herself and also the relationship, and while these things might not be useful to you, what makes you think it's healthy for us to think guys don't want to hear it? That's where problems arise, when things get bottled up and end up erupting...
I'm sure that in "doing" you feel you're expressing your love for your partner, but for me personally, I need some emotional and intellectual nurturing and stimulation too.
I don't want to hear empty "I love yous" all the time, but the thread wasn't just about that. It was about expressing one's feelings and desires, that's all. It's not your bag, I get it, but it shouldn't detract from anyone else's needs/wants/opinions and quite frankly, I think it's much healthier to express oneself.
Mazztastic
Quote by wolverine15
It was an analogy not a statistical evaluation because lord knows that I am not going to check the gender of everybody posting above me. But far be it from me to tell you how to spend your time.
In fairness, you posted on my thread in ask the gals, not that I mind, a few guys have. I only put it there to sort of wave it in the general direction of the lassies...
I like it when everyone jumps in...
Mazztastic
Quote by Wardog
Thanks for the invitation, and pardon me for interjecting my thoughts on the matter. What would I know I'm just a man who referred to a book by a female author.
Your thoughts had nothing to do with the thread though, that was the point I was making...
Please don't get all passive aggressive and make out as though I'm chiding you here...
Mazztastic
Quote by Wardog
I believe the word left out is: RECIPROCATION or possibly, appreciation. In short, some of us DO those things and say those things however the woman we have had the misfortune of loving wasn't in search of ACTUAL love, she was in NEED of the same abuse her mother mistook for love. (Read the book "Men Who Hate Women and The Women Who Love Them"; a friend gave it to me to help me understand that the things in said list AREN'T always what every woman WANTS in a relationship, some have twisted perspectives that lead to twisted NEEDS. Just as men are raised to BE abusers many women are raised to WANT TO BE victims of abuse. Before the rocks start flying, go read the book and argue with the author.
His post said nothing of reciprocation, it alluded to duty rather than an equal or balanced relationship.
My original post had nothing to do with abuse or abusive relationships, or indeed your ability, or lack thereof, to find a mutually loving and healthy relationship.
It was merely a suggestion (from a man no less) on ways to make your partner feel loved, respected and appreciated (and yes, that goes both ways, but women do seen to find it easier than their fellow man to express their feelings and emotions)
This thread was not an invitation to discuss abuse, rather more of an observation and perhaps an invitation to our loved ones to enter into a healthy discussion of our feelings for one another.
Wardog, I would invite you to take this deeper discussion to the think tank...
Mazztastic
Quote by dpw
16 reasons a guy would say these
1. I want sex
2. I want sex
3. I want sex
4. I want sex
5. I want sex
6. I want sex
7. I want sex
8. I want sex
9. I want sex
10. I want sex
11. I want sex
12. I want sex
13. I want sex
14. I want sex
15. I want sex
16. I WANT SEX and I'll say anything you want to get it!
Not ALL guys are that shallow dwp, but thanks for your special insight, hardly a surprise
Mazztastic
He's not making enough time for you because he is married.
You are not (and I suspect will never be) his first choice or a priority to him, unless he is horny, in which case he will probably give you more time than normal so he can get his rocks off.
If you are happy to just hook up for sex, then go for it, but be aware that you will be kept hidden from his "real" life, if you were discovered, he would most likely cut you off completely.
If you're looking for the respect and attention you deserve, you'd be better to ditch this guy and find one who can give you more than this...
You are not (and I suspect will never be) his first choice or a priority to him, unless he is horny, in which case he will probably give you more time than normal so he can get his rocks off.
If you are happy to just hook up for sex, then go for it, but be aware that you will be kept hidden from his "real" life, if you were discovered, he would most likely cut you off completely.
If you're looking for the respect and attention you deserve, you'd be better to ditch this guy and find one who can give you more than this...