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Mazza
3 weeks ago
Straight Female, 55
0 miles · Lanark

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You know, I think that Brand eloquently expresses the feeling of many with regard to politics - not just in the UK, but further afield.

Now, I don't know if you are aware or not, but Scotland are currently in the process of devolving from the rest of UK, but we are such a lazy, lethargic nation that it seems unlikely that anyone will even care, especially the younger generation.

Why?

Because they know little or nothing of politics. There are very few interesting politicians. At least with someone like Brand, he has a different take on things, different motivations and to my mind would be a breath of fresh air - something that is very much needed at this time...
I'm quite tall, kind of scruffy, big boobs... I'm told I have a nice smile and a contagious laugh... When I talk to you, I give you my full attention...
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Nicely put. I totally forgot about shape. That's important as well. All vaginas have the same blue print, but they're not exactly built the same.

And having a small cock definitely isn't the end of the world. That's where knowing how to use your cock definitely comes in handy.

Learn how to use what you've got, no matter how little or how much.




You know, I think too many guys get hung up on the size of their penis and then they get that angry way, you know? End up fucking you hard and fast for ages, as though their stamina was the be all and end all?

It's a real shame because if they spent a bit of time getting to know how to use it properly, the size makes much less difference... There are plenty positions and techniques that really utilise the old cock/vagina jigsaw... Every woman is different, as is every man, but for me, half the fun is finding out what works, feeding back to him whether it's good or not (I'd expect the same from him too). I've spent too many years accepting lesser quality sex, I won;t be doing that any more...

I know it's controversial, but I've said before in threads that I don't think very many men are particularly good at giving oral (not talking about how well women suck cock here, that's for another thread). At least in my experience - I just had a think about it and I am fairly certain that I have only been brought to orgasm TWICE from oral, mouth alone - how sad is THAT??? (fingers AND oral is different - that works pretty well for me) - but ladies, how many times have you had a guy fucking assaulting your clit? Just about making you jump out of your skin?? (I am SO writing this in a story hahahah)

Seriously, a few slurps of the tongue will NOT get me off - never, not even on a good day, but get it right and the actual insertion of a cock afterwards is a mere technicality - it's got me to the edge - I AM going to cum...
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Yes it could. Size matters. Not just length, but also thickness. If it's too big, it can be uncomfortable. If it's too small, it could be unsatisfying. If it's too thick, it could be abrasive. If it's too thin, again...it could be unsatisfying.

But size isn't the most important factor. What's the sense in having a big dick if you don't know how to use it?


Well said - I don't think that I can add much to that other than to say that the shape and sexual position can greatly enhance things, especially if it grazes the gspot...

Rrrrrrrrr



I'm not a Size Queen, but I do like a well-endowed man, but if I'm really into him (lol or he's really into me) then the size becomes that bit less of an issue...

If a man has a smaller cock, then I would expect that he would have learned what positions and techniques work better for him and his partner, how to maximize the impact he has on her pleasure...

(Ha ha, I'm making it sound like a job interview... Hmmm, now there's a thought...)
I've not read Daisy's yet - but now that she has an audio, I may listen to it instead - she does give good oral (sorry Shy! hahahah)

I actually have a story idea for this comp and have even typed out a few pars... Fingers crossed I'll get it done!

Looking forward to reading all the entries and seeing how everyone interprets the theme...
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Thanks for explaining that.. I was curious too. It's kind of a funny word


Its origins stem from the word 'cuckoo' and the way that bird will infiltrate a foreign bird's nest and subsequently oust their weaker offspring from the nest...

(or something along those lines)
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(And Cuckholds don't have to be complicit...)



COMPLICIT!!!!

THAT'S the word I couldn't think of!!!!

Bloody brainfreeze grrrr

(DPW - my post showed a good fifteen minutes before yours - you must be a very slow typer hahahah)

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A cuckold is the husband of an adulteress. Usually, he is an object of derision. He is ignorant of the adultery whereas all around know. The time he is humiliated is when he discovers that he's one of the last to find out. The cuckold theme just takes this further, I don't get it myself but like most things sexual each to their own. Just set your own limits.


Yes, he is the husband of an adulteress - the rest of it has been added in the fetish side of cuckolding, or through literature...

The humiliation part and consensual nature is NOT necessary for a man to be considered a cuckold.
DH Lawrence... I think he's awful

Charles Bukowski too - someone close to me was insistent that I love him as much as he did... I never did though...
The simple definition is thus:

cuck·old
noun \ˈkə-kəld, -(ˌ)kōld\

: a man whose wife has sex with someone else : a man's whose wife commits adultery


Simply by having his wife cheat on him, a man becomes a cuckold, whether or not he is aware of her infidelity.

Wikipedia takes it a step further and gives more information on the sort of questions you are asking, Elling...

Cuckoldry as a fetish

Unlike the traditional definition of the term, in fetish usage a cuckold is complicit in their partner's sexual "infidelity" and takes masochistic sexual pleasure in it. Cuckolds in the fetish sense, also need not be male, and need not be married, although some level of pair-bonding intimacy or commitment in their relationship is necessary.[11] Among fetishists, the pose of reluctance—the victimization of the cuckold—is a major element of the paraphilia. (Which may be the reason for the use of the term "cuckold," with its connotations of victimization and inadequacy.)

In the fetish cuckolding subculture, it is most common for the female to take on the sexually dominant role and the male the submissive role, however, female subs, sometimes referred to as cuckqueans,[2] also exist. The wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is frequently called a "hotwife," or a cuckoldress if the man is more submissive.[12]

Fetish cuckolding can have a wide range of expression, from pillow-talk fantasy between monogamous partners to extreme "alternative lifestyles," depending on the couple. It is also often mixed with other fetishes in practice, such as voyeurism, denial, etc. Since a couple may not share the cuckold fetish, some may turn to a form of virtual cuckolding through phone or internet sites often at an advertised price. Sometimes even through phone sex. [13] has become a popular way of cuckolding and cuckold training.

Cuckolding can also be mixed with other non-monogamous relationship arrangements with which it has substantial overlap such as swinging, wife-swapping, open relationships, and polyamory, etc. It is distinguished from these concepts in that the cuckold's thrill in their partner's acts is specifically masochistic; as such it is considered a category of BDSM fetish.


Urban Dictionary also gives some interesting insights:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cuckold

I hope that this helps?
Honestly, I'd like to see him go into politics... It would spice things up no end and maybe have the younger generation making more of an effort to learn and get involved...




He speaks so well and it makes for such good entertainment to see him go up against the mighty Jeremy Paxman...
Hey there, there are lots and lots of helpful resources in this section of the site:

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_topics3_Writers-Resources.aspx

In here, you'll find links and threads to help you with your grammar, punctuation and a whole myriad of other things...

I would recommend finding a good friend who will read over your work objectively and give you honest feedback, so that you can improve and work upon your writing skills.

Good luck with it!!

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LMFAO Maz, have to agree altho if the bloke knows what he is doing I can and do cum quickly. My thoughts durin orgasm are pretty much the same tho pmsl except I think god not gog??



Oh GOG I hate you Kiera!!! No one was going to actually read that!!

OhmyfuckinggoDthat'ssofuckinggooddon'tfuckingstopfuckmefuckmefuckmeohmygodI'mcummingI'mcummingHOLYFUCKaaaargh!!

(just for you K) xxxx


She is hotly tipped to be one of the next Bond Girls - a good choice I would say!

As is Penelope Cruz



I liked her best - she was awesome



Thought I'd add this as a wee treat too ;)

My thoughts are pretty much trying not to have any thoughts - I don't cum easily, so if I get distracted then I might not climax (that's not to say that I don't still enjoy the sex)

When I'm actually having an orgasm, my thoughts probably go something like this:

Ohmyfuckinggogthat'ssofuckinggooddon'tfuckingstopfuckmefuckmefuckmeohmygodI'mcummingI'mcummingHOLYFUCKaaaargh!!



Something along those lines... Hope that helps ;)
I think it's a nice idea, but I guess both parties would have to be cool with it...
I wouldn't normally shower after sex, unless I was going out afterwards, or we headed there together...

There's something I quite like about being able to catch the scent of him on my skin or his cum leaking onto my panties for a while... Sort of makes it last longer?
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I go in shower
Raise leg over my head and thrust
Call paramedics!


Nikki, you're bendy
Me and CG are jealous!
We love you really!

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Mmm... hot kissable lips... oh I am sorry, we are talking about beards, huh? I kind of got distracted there for a while. Yes, facial hair may be hot on the right man ;)


gorgeous, huh?

Sometimes we "see" things that aren't there, imagine that a person could be a possibility, when in fact, they're not interested, well, not in that way, or just don't see you in the way that you would like. You can't force it, you can't force someone to like you or love you or even be your friend.

It's easy to get into a scenario where you think you might be good for a person, able to enhance their life and they yours. A mutually beneficent relationship where one supports and nurtures the other. That would be ideal, wouldn't it? Solve "problems" on both sides, make life mutually easier?

But sadly, although it's a nice fantasy and you can see it playing out in your mind, it doesn't mean it's going to happen.

You sound as though you have made it relatively clear (at least in your way) to her, that you are offering friendship. However, she has not taken you up on that thus far and I am inclined to think that it is with good reason.

You say that women find it easier to include a man in their lives. In my experience, that is not the case. Some men are incredibly difficult to read, blow hot and cold and can generally be just impossible to fathom.. as though they cannot communicate effectively, make their needs and wants (or NOT wants) understood - in just the same way that women can.

It doesn't sound like she is ignoring you, a plausible partner/connection in favour of something else, it just doesn't sound like she is interested in anything with you.

In my experience, if the feelings of one party outweigh those of the other, balance is unlikely to be found, try as you might.

My advice would be to move on, forget the idea of a relationship with her. Perhaps a friendship may spring up, perhaps not. Nothing good can come of being lovesick - it will merely detract from real life goings on, maybe make you miss something else while you're "not looking"...

Let it go and see what happens...

Namaste
Honestly, I maintain, if you write, you're a writer. There are of course different distinctions; technical writers, writers of minutes, writers of schedules and rotas, writers of textbooks, reference books, school curriculums, writers of graffiti, screen writers, script writers, letter writers, underwriters, writers of sermons, obituaries, journalists, novelists, authors, writers of philosophy, magazine writers, forum posters, unknown writers, famous writers... Blah blah blah

People like us. We're all writers in our own way, aren't we?

I guess it depends on what you're asking?