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I nearly had a heart attack when I saw this thread! Then I remembered we had ours back in March. Don't do that to me
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Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 42
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In all honesty, NO ONE is going to pay me to do either of those things, LOL
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This has almost certainly been raised before, but changing your online status from all to friends only to invisible is annoying because you have to go into the setting page and then the right part of the settings page and then to the drop down box.
I flick between visible and invisible more than I use the "away" status. Is there any what we could make that link on the menu bar cycle between all four status types, rather than just online and away. Or maybe between online, invisible and away but keep the differentiation between all and friends only in the settings?
I flick between visible and invisible more than I use the "away" status. Is there any what we could make that link on the menu bar cycle between all four status types, rather than just online and away. Or maybe between online, invisible and away but keep the differentiation between all and friends only in the settings?
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I hate to be the one to say it but that's been photo-shopped. There is no way on earth those men wouldn't turn round!!
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There's a thread in Ask the Guys called "Is intelligence Intimidating." I think this thread could be a spin off :P
There are plenty of girls who like geek guys, and plenty of geek girls for that matter, like me!
It's all about compatibility. So an out going girl who likes to go clubbing and get pissed doesn't want a quiet geek for a boyfriend? Well flip it around, is an outgoing guy who likes to party going to want a quiet, stay at home girl? They are just incompatible personalities.
Before you assume girls don't want geeks, check which girls it is you're talking about when you say that.
And "geek" is just a label people attach, we're all individuals and we make connections with other individuals.
My personal opinion?
There are plenty of girls who like geek guys, and plenty of geek girls for that matter, like me!
It's all about compatibility. So an out going girl who likes to go clubbing and get pissed doesn't want a quiet geek for a boyfriend? Well flip it around, is an outgoing guy who likes to party going to want a quiet, stay at home girl? They are just incompatible personalities.
Before you assume girls don't want geeks, check which girls it is you're talking about when you say that.
And "geek" is just a label people attach, we're all individuals and we make connections with other individuals.
My personal opinion?
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I'm looking to submit some of my stories for publication and I need to pick a pen name to keep my erotica separate from my other fiction.
I've developed quite an identity for "Mo" here so I want to include that.
Does anyone have any suggestions or advice?
I've developed quite an identity for "Mo" here so I want to include that.
Does anyone have any suggestions or advice?
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Eyebrows... *looks around* what? I'm serious. Any guy who can do that one single eyebrow lift thing can turn me into a puddle.
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Hate to start off with an obvious one but "flick your bean"
But it does give me the excuse to post this one:
But it does give me the excuse to post this one:
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If I might weigh in on the original question briefly, I think most people who have a negative opinion of people who accept money for sex tend to be those who wish they could, but can't. Or perhaps those whose husbands are paying 
Sex can just be an action, we sell other "actions" every day, like talking, writing, lifting, carrying etc depending on your job. So I could never hold it against someone.
That said, I can think of nothing more degrading and hurtful than being offered money for sex that I thought meant more. For it to work (i.e. for no one to get hurt), both parties have to enter the arrangement with an understanding of the terms.
On the subject of dates and drinks, after 9years with my guy I've forgotten what it was like to care about something so trivial. How much is a drink? If all you notice about a guy is how quick he whips his wallet out then I can't see it lasting. Just my
Sex can just be an action, we sell other "actions" every day, like talking, writing, lifting, carrying etc depending on your job. So I could never hold it against someone.
That said, I can think of nothing more degrading and hurtful than being offered money for sex that I thought meant more. For it to work (i.e. for no one to get hurt), both parties have to enter the arrangement with an understanding of the terms.
On the subject of dates and drinks, after 9years with my guy I've forgotten what it was like to care about something so trivial. How much is a drink? If all you notice about a guy is how quick he whips his wallet out then I can't see it lasting. Just my
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Gonna add some thoughts the other's haven't covered.
You might want to check with them whether it's you touching their clit that's uncomfortable or just the general position. I know sometimes when my bf does that his hand presses on the tendon by my leg and, while it's not super painful, it is distracting.
That and fingernails. It's easy enough to be gentle and, lets say "accurate" when you're just fingering her, but when you have your body on top of her, and you're trying to support your weight on one arm and keep it going it's a bit more difficult. Might be you're scratching or pinching her and not realising it.
Cowgirl, legs over the shoulders and doggie make access a little easier that missionary.
You might want to check with them whether it's you touching their clit that's uncomfortable or just the general position. I know sometimes when my bf does that his hand presses on the tendon by my leg and, while it's not super painful, it is distracting.
That and fingernails. It's easy enough to be gentle and, lets say "accurate" when you're just fingering her, but when you have your body on top of her, and you're trying to support your weight on one arm and keep it going it's a bit more difficult. Might be you're scratching or pinching her and not realising it.
Cowgirl, legs over the shoulders and doggie make access a little easier that missionary.
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Assuming that the previous one should have been 395...
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Quote by swollenQuote by Mistress_of_wordsQuote by LittleBambiQuote by overmykneenow
Personally - I am gorgeous and charming and intelligent - so I can't really offer you any insight on your original request. Sorry.
You missed out arrogant....
Hehe, well I won't argue with gorgeous and intelligent, but charming? pfft. Bambi's right, substitute arrogant for charming and it'll be bang on the money!
Hey you guys - I think there was humour intended in his post ! Don't be so mean ..............
What? And miss an opportunity to wind him up? Aww, but it's so fun! Besides, I spend enough time stroking his ego to earn a few digs.
Now we MUST stop derailing this thread.
I'm sure there is a case for considering the other side of the argument too. Regarding whether girls would be able to overlook looks and chemistry for the sake of money. Personally I couldn't, I'd rather be poor and happy. Money doesn't do it for me.
For men who attract someone out of their league for the sake of money, what kind of woman will they be attracting? Sometimes I'm sure shallow and superficial are a turn off, even if they are attached to a great body.
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Huh, two posts for me?
Does that mean I get to wake up with both of you?
Hehe, now that sounds like a good morning ;)
Does that mean I get to wake up with both of you?
Hehe, now that sounds like a good morning ;)
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Quote by LittleBambiQuote by overmykneenow
Personally - I am gorgeous and charming and intelligent - so I can't really offer you any insight on your original request. Sorry.
You missed out arrogant....
Hehe, well I won't argue with gorgeous and intelligent, but charming? pfft. Bambi's right, substitute arrogant for charming and it'll be bang on the money!
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I covered this question in intimate detail already ;)
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/masturbation/shower-time.aspx
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/masturbation/shower-time.aspx
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@dirtymartini I see your 201 and raise you a...
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Thanks for all the votes and replies everyone 
It was a tough decision how to group the categories and I know however I did it people would have opinions. I could have done with running a poll on the format of the poll, lol.
It was a tough decision how to group the categories and I know however I did it people would have opinions. I could have done with running a poll on the format of the poll, lol.
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Hmmm...not sure I would completely agree with your reasoning, though of course it's not my poll...
For instance, in group 1...first time stories tend to be a bit more on the romantic side than anal and quickie...
Likewise, in the last group...Love stories tend to be somewhat commitment oriented, Wife lover stories are the opposite...
Just saying...
Hey Alan,
First time was the last one I placed, couldn't decide where to put it, so I lumped it in with straight.
I wouldn't say all Wife Lovers stories are anti-commitment, some are very romantic, and some are about flexibility in relationships that denote trust. But I get your point.
I could have done with running a poll to decide on the format of the poll, lol. If I could have listed each category separately I would have
Thanks for all the votes guys