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I would have no problem at all with my female partner having a lesbian lover.
Actually, we discussed this some time ago. I was truthful when I said the thought of it sounded really hot, and I would be OK with not interfering, or having to watch, if it made her happy. She sounded like she really was interested, definitely bi-curious, and getting off on the thought of it happening some day.
But to this day, if she ever had a female partner at any point, she has not let me know.
Actually, we discussed this some time ago. I was truthful when I said the thought of it sounded really hot, and I would be OK with not interfering, or having to watch, if it made her happy. She sounded like she really was interested, definitely bi-curious, and getting off on the thought of it happening some day.
But to this day, if she ever had a female partner at any point, she has not let me know.
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Dancing.. Two left feet on two legs of different length, I sometimes think.
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Love can come in many forms, but I am not sure that there is just one true love.
One hears occasionally about someone in a great relationship, which then ends with an untimely death of their partner, but the survivor eventually finds another great love of their life. The two relationships are different, but equally good and satisfying, lasting to the end. When one is content, then perhaps they have found their "true love" for the time being. But, things change, people change, and true love is possible more than one time.
One hears occasionally about someone in a great relationship, which then ends with an untimely death of their partner, but the survivor eventually finds another great love of their life. The two relationships are different, but equally good and satisfying, lasting to the end. When one is content, then perhaps they have found their "true love" for the time being. But, things change, people change, and true love is possible more than one time.
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I see some good advice here, like know your audience. Sometimes, you can see the tension in others, and they give glances your way, because they know you think like them, and then you maybe feel emboldened. Most of the time, I keep it to myself, unless it is a safety issue. If something really bothers me and it can wait, I try to meet face-to-face with the person later on, and get it resolved. No point embarrassing myself or others unless necessary. And one must weigh the probability that someone else's opinion can be changed. If you can't change things, then live with it or walk away, and stop worrying.
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I have no problem with it. Would not mind watching the missus try it too.
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Yes, just once, under odd circumstances. My GFs small dorm room had just one bed. Her younger sister was visiting for the night from out of town. When it got late, we put the lights out and lay down, because sis was tired. She was lying on the floor while we were in the single bed. Told sis I would just be staying for a short while, just to do some cuddling, then I'd slip out quietly. Of course, after about a half hour, I am still spooning with my GF. We started feeling each other up, and clothes started coming off, cuz we think sis is asleep. After about an hour, we are making very slow tantric sex, trying not to make any noise. Awesomely memorable!
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It enhances overall appearance. Tremendously hot on a well-proportioned woman.
I can remember from high school this one girl that always showed incredible cameltoe when she wore a certain pair of jeans. What a memory, after all these years.
I can remember from high school this one girl that always showed incredible cameltoe when she wore a certain pair of jeans. What a memory, after all these years.
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I'd be thinking more in terms of removing the hard drive and putting it into another laptop. Hearing that something was making smoke probably means there is more damage than just some broken bit near the impact point. I would not put much faith in the remaining hardware, myself.
I hope your hard disk was OK afterward. After a fall, with the computer on, the disk contents can be damaged by jarring impacts. Sometimes the drive can handle minor shocks, but sometimes it can't, and your whole disk may be unusable, or possibly very difficult to recover data off of.
In that case, you will want to have a backup somewhere. You have a backup somewhere, right? If you don't, then a new laptop will be the least of your problems. Good Luck
I hope your hard disk was OK afterward. After a fall, with the computer on, the disk contents can be damaged by jarring impacts. Sometimes the drive can handle minor shocks, but sometimes it can't, and your whole disk may be unusable, or possibly very difficult to recover data off of.
In that case, you will want to have a backup somewhere. You have a backup somewhere, right? If you don't, then a new laptop will be the least of your problems. Good Luck
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There is a techie discussion in Wikipedia if you look up "Year 2038 problem".
The problem, in general, centers on how times are encoded and used by various bits of software in various apps and file systems. Around January 16th, 2038, one fairly common way of representing times used in historical UNIX-like systems will roll over, and the numbers representing time will go negative, and then be interpreted as some date way off in the past. This is something like driving a vehicle so far that the odometer rolls over at 999999 to read zero clicks.
The effect of this could be anywhere from negligible (your car would not stop running, for example, if your odometer rolled over) to devastating depending on a lot of techie details, but probably this will only affect older stuff. Probably by then, you will have new stuff that uses a newer time-keeping format, and everything will be OK. Basically, it is a known problem, and people are already working on solutions.
It is a good idea to be aware that the problem will exist someday. Some things we have today that we want to keep beyond the critical date (like maybe old videos) will likely have to migrate somehow to a new environment that won't fail when the time rolls over.
The problem, in general, centers on how times are encoded and used by various bits of software in various apps and file systems. Around January 16th, 2038, one fairly common way of representing times used in historical UNIX-like systems will roll over, and the numbers representing time will go negative, and then be interpreted as some date way off in the past. This is something like driving a vehicle so far that the odometer rolls over at 999999 to read zero clicks.
The effect of this could be anywhere from negligible (your car would not stop running, for example, if your odometer rolled over) to devastating depending on a lot of techie details, but probably this will only affect older stuff. Probably by then, you will have new stuff that uses a newer time-keeping format, and everything will be OK. Basically, it is a known problem, and people are already working on solutions.
It is a good idea to be aware that the problem will exist someday. Some things we have today that we want to keep beyond the critical date (like maybe old videos) will likely have to migrate somehow to a new environment that won't fail when the time rolls over.
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I really admire a woman that enjoys giving as much as I enjoy giving orally to a woman. But I guess I have not had a whole lot of luck on the receiving side with most of the few women I have known. Fortunately, there is a lot of other stuff to do.
I tend to believe that fewer women enjoy it than is suggested just by reading the postings in this forum, but probably a higher percentage than I have experienced. I think what we are hearing here in this forum is biased in favour of those that love to fellate, because, after all, few would want to admit they do not like doing it. No one wants to be negative.
I can understand why a woman may not develop a taste for it, or may lose interest. Probably, in some past attempt, the man forced the encounter in some way, when I believe it is really the woman that should be in full control. Cleanliness is obviously very important. Or, perhaps he was critical - anything but a good coach. No one wants to do something they are told they can't do competently, and so many are just too demanding.
The best time I ever had was from someone that knew how to edge me for an hour or more. She eagerly wanted to please, learn and try subtle changes, and keep it very exciting and edgy. Hats off to all you women that make any effort, keep trying even when the results are somewhat drawn out, and that have realized that it is as exciting to give as to get.
I tend to believe that fewer women enjoy it than is suggested just by reading the postings in this forum, but probably a higher percentage than I have experienced. I think what we are hearing here in this forum is biased in favour of those that love to fellate, because, after all, few would want to admit they do not like doing it. No one wants to be negative.
I can understand why a woman may not develop a taste for it, or may lose interest. Probably, in some past attempt, the man forced the encounter in some way, when I believe it is really the woman that should be in full control. Cleanliness is obviously very important. Or, perhaps he was critical - anything but a good coach. No one wants to do something they are told they can't do competently, and so many are just too demanding.
The best time I ever had was from someone that knew how to edge me for an hour or more. She eagerly wanted to please, learn and try subtle changes, and keep it very exciting and edgy. Hats off to all you women that make any effort, keep trying even when the results are somewhat drawn out, and that have realized that it is as exciting to give as to get.
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Any and all I can get my mouth, fingers, and tongue on/in/around. Hirsuite, landing strip, bald... Where do I pick "all of the above"? One should not be choosy when permitted to approach the core of a woman so intimately.
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Tried it, and it was different, but that was it. Not interested in it anymore. A different partner could maybe talk me into trying again, but in the meantime, there is a lot of other stuff that is tons of fun.
So, not every man wants to, nor should they need to, IMO.
So, not every man wants to, nor should they need to, IMO.
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Being an engineer means I think in practical terms. Not the greatest for giving love advice, but let me try. The solution to just about any problem fits into one of the following three categories: 1. Fix it; 2. Live with it; or 3. Walk away. It sure sounds like you have tried the first two categories, and exhausted all reasonable alternatives, leaving only #3
No matter how much he says he loves you, he either does not really love you, or does not love himself (Could be depression, as others have suggested). Something radical will likely be necessary to put things right, and I dread that he might be trying to control you. Therefore any attempt for you to leave may not be well-received. That does NOT mean you should accept alternative #2 to avoid his anger. I believe you will need to find close friends or family that will assist you in walking away, and support your decision and your adaptation to a new life on your own, or until you find a suitable partner. At least taking that action will up the ante, and possibly force him to realize he needs help, because you have reached your very reasonable limit of what you can tolerate, and then some.
If all remains as it is, he will have no motivation to change, and you will continue to be miserable. Don't be.
No matter how much he says he loves you, he either does not really love you, or does not love himself (Could be depression, as others have suggested). Something radical will likely be necessary to put things right, and I dread that he might be trying to control you. Therefore any attempt for you to leave may not be well-received. That does NOT mean you should accept alternative #2 to avoid his anger. I believe you will need to find close friends or family that will assist you in walking away, and support your decision and your adaptation to a new life on your own, or until you find a suitable partner. At least taking that action will up the ante, and possibly force him to realize he needs help, because you have reached your very reasonable limit of what you can tolerate, and then some.
If all remains as it is, he will have no motivation to change, and you will continue to be miserable. Don't be.
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I very much need to lick and tease and please orally, before I get down to my own pleasure. Much of my pleasure comes from giving orally, and enjoying the heights of my partner's pleasure. Sometimes I am actually a little disappointed when she does not need/want any more. I am addicted to it. A sore tongue, a tired jaw, and that intoxicating scent of a woman with every intake of breath, are signs of a really good time.
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Hard to know what makes one a true pussy eater, since there is so much to learn, and so many different ways to satisfy. If she asks for more, that is a good sign. If she has more and better orgasms than ever before, that is a good sign. If you have no care for whether she is shaved, landing stripped, or hairy, and you enjoy it no matter what, that is a good sign. If you know what and where to get some fingers or toys in on the action too, you probably are a true pussy connoisseur. If you know just how and when to suck versus lick, that too is good. If you orally deliver her first true orgasm, and her second, and third, all in the same night, then you probably are a true pussy eater,blessed with introducing her to her true potential to enjoy sex. Every man, in my opinion, should learn how to be a great pussy eater before he gets a chance to lose his own virginity.
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Always naked, except when away from home. Then...maybe 
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It is all good. It's natural. Or an effort was made to remove most or all of the hair. Either way, something to be appreciated, revered, respected, and treated right, with a lot of TLC - tender licking care.
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It is all good. It's natural. Or an effort was made to remove most or all of the hair. Either way, something to be appreciated, revered, respected, and treated right, with a lot of TLC - tender licking care.
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Lots, but one comes to mind:
Jimmy Stewart, Mr Smith Goes to Washington, his last words before collapsing. Not something you would ever see any Congress representative have the guts or integrity to even come close to.
Jimmy Stewart, Mr Smith Goes to Washington, his last words before collapsing. Not something you would ever see any Congress representative have the guts or integrity to even come close to.
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Since I would not object to putting my face into something hairy, I'd have to say...
YES PLEASE!
YES PLEASE!
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I had no trouble personally engaging in masturbation at a young age, so young I probably cannot mention. And maybe most people are like that, provided their up-bringing did not include some sort of indoctrination admonishing against such normal human behaviours.
I did get to know a woman who, at 27, had not had any orgasm, although she had been married and had one child. So, her "awakening" could not have come soon enough, and happily I was able to help a bit with that, or so I was told. But I got the impression that masturbation for her was still . At least, that is what she persisted in saying to anyone that asked (including some of her very close female friends). That, to me, seemed sad - a remnant of a Pentecostal upbringing. At least she was willing to have sex with a partner, but why not with herself?
Of course, masturbation is normal, and good for you overall. Like anything, maybe not when done in excess. In the case of masturbation, maybe doing it more than once an hour might be considered excessive. I can remember averaging once a day, if I was not otherwise with a partner.
So, by all means go for it! The key seems to be being relaxed, and confident that no harm can come of it, in a private setting with no possibility of interruption. It will quickly become very refreshing, invigorating, and empowering. Once you know what excites you to orgasm, you should have little trouble achieving it at will, with a partner of your choosing, especially if you can guide that person to what excites you.
Best of luck. If I can provide any suggestions, it would have to be to read many of the fine stories here on lushstories,com. After all, your brain is your biggest sex organ. Practice makes perfect. Enjoy!
I did get to know a woman who, at 27, had not had any orgasm, although she had been married and had one child. So, her "awakening" could not have come soon enough, and happily I was able to help a bit with that, or so I was told. But I got the impression that masturbation for her was still . At least, that is what she persisted in saying to anyone that asked (including some of her very close female friends). That, to me, seemed sad - a remnant of a Pentecostal upbringing. At least she was willing to have sex with a partner, but why not with herself?
Of course, masturbation is normal, and good for you overall. Like anything, maybe not when done in excess. In the case of masturbation, maybe doing it more than once an hour might be considered excessive. I can remember averaging once a day, if I was not otherwise with a partner.
So, by all means go for it! The key seems to be being relaxed, and confident that no harm can come of it, in a private setting with no possibility of interruption. It will quickly become very refreshing, invigorating, and empowering. Once you know what excites you to orgasm, you should have little trouble achieving it at will, with a partner of your choosing, especially if you can guide that person to what excites you.
Best of luck. If I can provide any suggestions, it would have to be to read many of the fine stories here on lushstories,com. After all, your brain is your biggest sex organ. Practice makes perfect. Enjoy!
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Not that I am any kind of expert, but I think you might have answered your own question. If the relationship is too hard to do because of distance then it might not be satisfying. It is also true that anything worth doing often requires effort and sacrifice, and in the end it might be worthwhile, so I would never say it has no chance to succeed. I fear that, if things do not or cannot work, you may be disappointed with a heavy investment you have put in to a relationship that does not work in the end. Best wishes to you, regardless of what you chose to do.
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Sure, I would meet somewhere in public, ideally for a beer or a glass of wine, a light meal, or if there were a Lush local get-together. I am sure it might feel a bit awkward at first, but I am sure we would maybe have some interesting things to say to each other, and some of us might become friends off-line. I doubt we would be engaging in anything physical, but things can be sexual and satisfying even if just conversation and thoughts, not actions. I think I have some oral skills, after all.
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Oh my gawd, YES!!!! Sometimes I lose count! Tons for foreplay is my desire but so many men are not into such sensual and erotic play!
Then they are not the men you need to be with. Some (I can think of at least one) would like to spend an afternoon in foreplay.