Little bit about me

Attracted to women since I was 16. I consider myself bisexual and sWiTcH.

Yes, I have Trill, and similar, but provided I seek for deep connections and based on a long experience, I wont share it with anyone else... tired feeling a sidefuck, and thats why most use that.

Communication is an art I appreciate, and reciprocate in kind... Lack of communication is understood as lack of manneers, or lack of interest, and fairly paid with the same on my side. Simple as that... Unlike many, I am not an hypocrit, nor a predator. If I don't like something or someone, I don't bite my tongue, and I don't care stepping over "the wrong toes"... I have very little tolerance for virtual divas, and am not sorry for that. Others say they don't judge (absolutely false). I do. I judge. And I act accordingly to how they treat me, or they behave. I respect everyone, as long as they respect me...

I am a lawyer, and that's a vocational choice. Among many other things, that means I have a deep sense of justice. I take that to an extreme... I am probably the most empathic and reactive person you've ever met... The first means I will do my best to walk on your shoes, and get to understand you. The second, means that I always react accordingly to the actions I see. If you come close, I come closer. If you step back... I am gone.

By the day I joined this site, I had experience enough to act the pillow-pet, or the scarecrow-domme, with an instant map of who is who in the chat-rooms I visited after a surprisingly quick look... but I decided not to. Provided I rennounced to a lot of ephimere fun, because I seek for something more refined, don't expect me to act like none of the above...

Interest comes and goes (and in virtual time runs faster), and I will put as much effort as any potential partner does. No less. But no more. I don't compete for attention. I give mine freely until I see it's only me rowing the boat. Past that point, I jump off the boat. Again, simple as that...

I am here and now. For my experience, until today unbeaten, when someone wants you, they want you now. When they want you later, they have a better plan for the now. If you allow that happen often, you will live in a permanent later.

I DONT play with persons with significative persons aknowledged in their BIOS. I have my principles, and there's good reasons for that.

I WONT aknowledge anyone who doesn't aknowledge me in kind.

I love art, music and also the outdoors.

I came here looking to fill voids in my life, as I continue a journey that started over a decade ago. Would like to find meaningful connections, instead of the occasional touch... that place to call my refuge, if that makes any sense...

After all this time wandering around different social webs and chats, I learnt quite soon to read others, specially their silences... And I learnt to look after myself and my feelings. Let's be honest, when someone likes you, you can feel it. When someone likes someone else, but is using you, you can feel it, too...

I don't pretend to be a singularity, a rarity to be watched from affar... There's some loneliness about that...

I don't want to be anyone's toy... I am sure there are many out there willing to be, but that's not me.

I don't open up easily, sorry. Learnt the hard way you can only trust a few in sites like this. There's 40 neighbours on my apartment block. "Hi" doesnt make friends, its only politeness. I am seeking for friends. I am not gathering profiles. If your life is too full already, if your grip is weak, if our timezones dont allow a fluent conversation, it will sooner than later get stuck somewhere in the surface. Sorry, but that's the reason why I left the site I am coming from... and probably the exact reason why I will leave here someday, too...

Music

I have a taste for dark pop / electro-goth / cold wave... I have an online radio station, its all that remains of my old times as a local DJ.

Besides that, my likes are eclectic when it comes to music, mood-dependant, from classic to hard rock, and all colours inbetween.

Books

Same as with music, I love all genres. I love the books of Lena Valenti, Anne Rice... and the humor of Pratchett.

Sports & hobbies

Not a fan of watching sports, but I practice some, including ski and snowboard, some climbing...