I consider myself to be a bit of a sexual intellectual. For me, reading about sexual encounters is far more exciting than looking at images of sex. I prefer brains to brawn, a sense of humor to emotional sensitivity, and confidence is a must! I love a man who knows how to flirt without being corny or too suggestive, and one who has just the right amount of finesse and "know how" to get me to in the mood...because once he's got me there I will not disappoint.